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I M A Slut
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You are a Slut – is that something that you've heard before? Being called a slut isn't one of the best things in the world. In fact, it's hurtful and in most cases, it isn't accurate. What does it really mean to be called a slut? I know this topic is a tricky, even controversial one. I've done tons of research around the internet, to see how people can just go off and say 'You are a slut'. I've compiled the best list I could that might point to why other people believe you are a slut, so please read through it because I'd love to hear your opinions on whether these reasons are accurate and what you think about the «ground rules» when you are being called a slut!
Your magic number should be something that is personal to you, but a lot of people think that if you don't share it right away, you are a slut . Just because your number might be high, doesn't mean you are a slut at all! Your number is your number and nobody should ever make you feel bad about it!
A lot of people actually prefer to have one night stands. It doesn't mean that you are slutty, in fact, it just means that you like convenience. Sex is sex and everyone needs it, that doesn't mean that you have to be in a relationship to have it. Sometimes, a one night stand can even turn into a relationship!
From the research that I've done, a lot of people associate real dates and the lack of them with a slut. Well ladies, just because you don't go on actual dates doesn't mean you are a slut . Sometimes, you don't want to date a lot, but rather you want to hang out and see if you find a connection with someone. There is nothing wrong with that.
If you have sex on the first date or as soon as you meet someone, you are a slut . If you invent reasons and justifications about why that's okay, you're also acting slutty. It shouldn't be that way ladies! Just because you're having sex soon, doesn't mean you are a slut, it just means you like what you like. Just make sure that you're practicing safe sex.
Just because you don't remember every single hook up that you've had, a lot of people believe that makes you a slut! Well ladies, I don't agree with this label. I don't agree that just because you might have made some mistakes or don't remember a few of the people you've slept with that it makes you a slut.
In the past, it was very taboo to hook up even before marriage. Well ladies, times have changed and I think that if you hook up whenever you go out, that is your business. Nobody should tell you when you can or can't hook up!
Does this mean that if you show some cleavage or even just some leg you're a slut? No! At least, that isn't my opinion. Society has made it so that if you dress the wrong way, you could be construed as a slut. Ladies, I say that you should be able to dress however you want. What do you think?
Coming home the morning after a one night stand, wearing the same outfit from the night before doesn't mean you're a slut. Almost every girl has done it at least once in their life (even Carrie Bradshaw has done it!) and I gotta say, just because you do the walk of shame, doesn't automatically make you a slut.
I'm sure that a ton of you have had this misconception about a girl that has an STD right? Well, what happens if the woman is in a committed relationship and the guy ends up cheating on her and she ends up with an STD because of that? Does that still make her a slut? Just because a girl ends up with an STD doesn't make her a slut!
Finally, the last misconception that a lot of people have when it comes to the '**you are a slut**' label is condoms. If you seem to have an endless supply of condoms, society will usually label you a slut. Well, to me, it's all about practicing safe sex!
Just because some of these are justifications for the '**you are a slut**' label, doesn't mean that the justification is true. Remember ladies, there is typically an explanation for everything and you should never slap that 'you are a slut' label on someone unless you know them. Has anyone ever said that you are a slut because of any of these reasons? Share how that made you feel, why you think other girls are slutty, or why you think the term itself is just totally unnecessary.
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January 9th 2013
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I am a slut. I carry condoms with me when I go out because I may end up having sex, unexpectedly, after an eventful night out. If I end up finding someone I’m interested in enough to take them home, I want to be prepared, and know that the conversation about safe sex isn’t going to fall entirely on them. I want there to be no excuse as to why we don’t use protection — though, if a man were to protest the use of condoms, we wouldn’t need them anyway, as I wouldn’t touch him with a 10-foot-pole. In any case, all of my sexual activity has to be consensual, healthy, and safe. If this means that someone will see the edge of a condom wrapper in my purse and judge me because I have not been in a committed relationship long enough to justify it to their liking, so be it. I’m going to be protected, and they can go fuck themselves.
I am also on birth control. Aside from the risk of the condom failing being an ever-present one in every sexual encounter, I also want to regulate my period and have better skin. If I am with someone long enough that I decide we no longer need condoms, it’s also good to have a ready-to-go method of contraception which will take its place. If everything were to fail, though, and I were to accidentally become pregnant — given that it happened at a time where I wasn’t ready for a child — I would get an abortion. I would be honest with my partner about this, and hope that they will be supportive, even if I do not need their support to go through with it. I do not think of any woman as “bad” or “unworthy” because she has made a choice to end a pregnancy, and my efforts to prevent it happening do not mean that I don’t know exactly what I would do if it happened to me. Your desire to regulate and make moral judgments over my reproductive system are as disingenuous as they are exhausting — you don’t care for the welfare of a child I wasn’t ready for, you only care that you make my choices for me. I am not interested in what you have to say about my uterus.
I have had several sexual partners in my life, but I won’t tell you how many, because it doesn’t matter. It could be in the thousands, and it wouldn’t make me any less cool to go to lunch with. It wouldn’t make me any less terrible at ironing a shirt. It wouldn’t make me any less likely to love shitty reality television I know is bad for me. Who I am and what I offer to the world has nothing to do with how many sexual partners I’ve had, and I’m not interested in justifying myself to someone who will have already judged me anyway. As much as I’d like to comfort you with some notion that I’ve been impossibly chaste up until the moment I find the “right” man to “complete” me in some way, I must tell you that I haven’t been waiting for anyone. I’ve been living my life exactly as I want to since I’ve become sexually active, and my choices weren’t made to impress an arbitrary committee of judgmental assholes.
In fact, I’m not sure if I’m ever going to find the “right” person for me. I’m not even sure he exists. But I’m also not interested in spending any time waiting for a hypothetical person, or preserving my vagina in formaldehyde until he gets here. I am interested in my career, my friends, my apartment, getting a dog someday, and learning how to ice skate better. I have an entire life to attend to which does not revolve around how close I am to getting married, and I believe I am happier for it. If that means I go out on several dates that lead to nothing, just for the hell of it — I’m okay with that. If that means that I sometimes just have sex with a booty call because I want to have a good orgasm and take my mind off things for a while — I’m okay with that. My time is not spent waiting for anyone to validate me, because I am here to validate myself and my own choices. If I happen to find the love of my life along the way, great.
I am going to have sex again soon. It may not be with the kind of person you think I should be “giving my body to,” but I’m going to do it. I might be wearing a short skirt and too-dark lipstick and cleavage that screams “I’m looking to get laid.” And it might not be the best sex of my life, but if it isn’t, I’ll go home and take care of myself with one of the several vibrators I am not ashamed of owning. Because my sexuality has absolutely nothing to do with you, and where my latest orgasm comes from has nothing to do with the great things I will do with my life. So call me a slut all you like, because I already know I am one, and it’s fucking awesome.
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How many nights have you lain awake in some stranger’s bed while he (or she) dreams next to you? How many times have you stared up at an unfamiliar ceiling and thought, Wow, am I a slut? Do people think I’m a slut? How do I know if I’m a slut? Well, I’ll help you out right now: Answer the 10 questions below, add up the points that you get based on your answers, and check at the very bottom to see whether you’re a slut. This quiz is designed to be taken by any and all genders and sexual orientations, so don’t worry about your result being skewed by your having or not having a penis or vagina. It’s also 100 percent nonjudgmental—I’m not saying it’s bad to be a slut or to have sex with every person-shaped thing you see. I’m merely trying to find out if you are/do.
Don’t worry , Cosmo won’t mind if you cheat on them with our quiz. I promise.
A. “Yes, but I’m not proud of it.”
B. “I’m not a relationship kind of person.”
C. “Never! I’m a one penis/vagina type person.”
D. “It’s not cheating if you don’t get caught.”
2.) What is the last thing you used a bar restroom for?
A. Oral sex.
B. Peeing.
C. Full-blown intercourse.
D. Snorting lines.
3.) What is your typical first-date behavior?
A. Ditching the date to go have sex with someone else.
B. Trying valiantly to get laid and inevitably failing.
C. Refusing to put out because some stupid magazine article/your mother told you that you have to wait at least five dates or 30 days, whichever takes longer.
D. Drinking until you end up fucking on a park bench.
A. Given or received “the shocker.”
B. Attended a sex party.
C. Made out with a member of the gender you usually don’t like that way. (Bi- and pan-sexuals can skip this one.)
D. Attended a bottle-service club where waitresses bring out the bottles while holding sparklers.
5.) What happens while waiting at the clinic for the results of your HIV test?
A. You rub your face over and over and try not to cry in public.
B. You mentally go through every person you’ve ever had sex with and try to figure out who gave you AIDS.
C. You consider what life is going to be like once you are HIV-positive.
D. You think you’re going to puke so you wonder where the nearest restroom is and think about how many people have thrown up in it.
6. At what stage is a sexual partner allowed to play with your butthole?
A. As soon as the two of you meet and there is chemistry.
B. After some sort of gift, trip, or milestone (like getting engaged).
C. Once the two of you have been dating for several months and have talked about whether you want to explore the final frontier.
D. Never.
7. Which of these movies did you like the most?
A. ( 500) Days of Summer
B. Twilight
C. Swingers
D. Anything with Katherine Heigl in it. I love to laugh!
A. Somewhere you can’t see.
B. Above my butt crack.
C. Around my bellybutton.
D. Somewhere normal like my arm, shoulder, chest, or ankle.
9. If a train is leaving Philadelphia at 3:30 PM and a train is leaving New York at 2:45 PM and the first train is going 54 MPH and the other train is going 67 MPH, do you have sex on the train?
10. How many sexual partners have you had?
A. 1-10
B. 10-20
C. 20+
D. I lost count. Hey, you wanna fuck?
1.) A. That’s OK, everyone makes mistakes. (2 points)
B. You sleep around, but at least you’re up-front about it. (5 points)
C. Prude. (0 points)
D. The only thing worse than sleeping with everyone in town is sleeping with everyone in town on the DL. (10 points)
2.) A. That’s just what happens on a Saturday night. (2 points)
B. Prude. (0 points)
C. Sometimes “Your place or mine?” is just too difficult to answer. (5 points)
D. I assume that at some point that night after you snorted your lousy, nose bleed-inducing drugs, you had some really mediocre sex with someone who you shouldn’t be banging. Good life you’re living. (10 points)
3.) A. Were you setting up that booty call while your date was talking? Again, good life you’re living. (10 points)
B. You must be a straight guy, and straight guys can’t be sluts. (0 points)
C. Prude. (0 points)
D. Hey, if you’re already on a date with someone, why not bang them? (2 points)
4.) A-D. You’re a whore. (10 points for each)
5. ) A-D. It happens to all of us. Even virgins. (0 points)
6.) A. You’re probably a gay guy, which means this is just natural. It also means that you have a socially acceptable predilection to indulging in the constant availability of sex. High five! (2 points)
B. I don’t blame you for opening your butthole for business after getting some jewelry, but that does sound vaguely, uh, hookerish. (10 points)
C. This sounds like very healthy behavior, but if you’re even considering the back door, you’re probably a little bit of a freak. (5 points)
D. You’re probably a straight guy, which means, as I said, you can’t be a slut. However if this comes up, then you are probably sleeping with sluts, which makes you a slut by association. (5 points)
7.) A. Oh God, you don’t like sex, you like being in a relationship. You like having another person to torture you and keep your genitals on lockdown and even if you are totally miserable, you won’t get out of it. Have fun listening to ukulele music and breeding, weirdo. (0 points)
B. You want it. You want it bad. You might adore this movie about some girl not doing it with a two-eyed pale potato that she calls her boyfriend and stringing along a lumpy mollusk that turns into a dog. But the reason she doesn’t do it is because she wants it so bad. SO BAD! (10 points)
C. Haha. No one wants to have sex with you. (0 points)
D. Haha. No one wants to have sex with you. (0 points)
8.) A. Why did you get this? So that people you sleep with can admire it. Also the Russian military thinks it means you’re gay . (5 points)
B. The thing about tramp stamps is that tramps don’t really have them. Everyone expects a girl with this unfortunate ink to put out, which usually makes her dry up faster than a snow cone in the desert. (2 points)
C. You are possibly a porn star. If not, then you indiscriminately run around launching your genitals at everything with a pulse. Call your mother. (10 points)
D. Prude. (0 points)
9.) A. Who doesn’t want to have sex on a train? (0 points)
B. Prude. (-10 points)
10.) A. Slut. (10 points)
B. Slut. (10 points)
C. Slut. (10 points)
D. You’re not a slut, you’re just bad at math. (5 points. You get the other 5 after you fuck me.)
0-25 Points: You’re a slut. What did you expect? You clicked on a quiz about whether or not you’re a slut, probably because you knew you’re a slut and wanted someone to tell you different. Sorry, slut.
25-50 Points: You’re a slut. You already knew that, but you’re a little conflicted about it. You really love to have sex and think there’s nothing wrong with anything you do, but society tells you that being a slut is bad. Well, fuck those judgmental people. I mean, you probably already do, but metaphorically.
50+ Points: You know you’re a slut, right? Yeah, of course you do. And you’re proud of it. You’re the real winner here. Don’t ever forget that.
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