I Had Sex With My Best Friend
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I Had Sex With My Best Friend
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Aidan McAlister ,
January 17th 2017
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Neither of us intended for it to happen.
Katie had been my best friend since childhood. It was a friendship first orchestrated by our parents. We ran around in our diapers and watched Barney, or whatever it is you do when you’re a very small human. We attended each other’s birthday parties and continued having playdates, even when we learned about cooties.
I don’t remember a time in my life when Katie wasn’t part of it.
I know that sounds gross. Sometimes we men are gross. It doesn’t mean you ever act on it. It also doesn’t mean you aren’t capable of a genuine friendship. But yes, it’s something that you think about at least once. It’ll cross your mind.
The first time I looked at Katie differently was during puberty. I could blame the hormones, but Katie’s also just an obscenely beautiful person. And not just physically. Katie is kind and sweet and everything that equates to perfect Girl Next Door.
But she was my best friend and any inappropriate thoughts I had I learned to control. That’s just what you do when you have a super hot friend. You train yourself to not focus on the hotness.
Yeah, I thought she was cute, but most importantly, she was my friend. We survived high school together. Instead of attending our prom, we held our own very 90s movie inspired Anti-Prom Prom. She wore all black and I wore my converse. We ate popcorn and watched shitty movies all night. It was perfect. I couldn’t have imagined a better night.
When it was time for college, we landed at schools in different time zones. I was accepted to NYU and she went to The University of Texas at Austin. It was the first time we’d been apart for that length of time. We promised to stay in touch and Facetime and text. But college happens and we got sucked into our new lives.
The contact became less frequent. We weren’t talking on the phone anymore. It was a ‘like’ here or there. Someone would send a text about something crazy that happened, but the conversation would quickly fizzle out.
During our sophomore year, we were both home for winter vacation. The previous year she’d gone away with her family and spent the summer break in a study abroad program. We’d barely seen each other since leaving for college. But we were both home for a month at the same time so she texted me about catching up. I picked her up from the airport and was pleasantly surprised at how quickly we fell back into a familiar pattern. It was like no time had passed. She was still the same Katie that had been my best friend my whole life.
One night, whatever was left of our group of high school friends congregated in our stoner friend Paul’s garage. His parents were always pretty lax about what we did and unless something was on fire didn’t even check in. Katie made everyone screwdrivers and we spent the night reminiscing and being obnoxious.
By 3 am, people were starting to fall asleep or call Ubers to go home. Despite being bartender for the night, Katie wasn’t drinking. Her mom was a recovering alcoholic so Katie preferred to stay sober. I was a shade under tipsy. Wouldn’t have driven but definitely wasn’t drunk. Katie offered to drive me home.
During the drive, she told me about a guy she met in one of her classes. They’d apparently hooked up a few times and she liked him, but wasn’t really sure what he felt. I gave her my standard advice (“Guys are terrible, don’t trust them”) and she laughed.
I don’t know if it was all the time away from each other or the fact that I’d been awake for nearly 24 hours, but I couldn’t stop imagining what it would be like to kiss her. She has these heart shaped lips that always form such a perfect pout. I wondered if they were soft. I could kiss her gently. I could slam her against the wall, if that’s what she wanted.
A mile or so from my house, Katie suddenly veered left. To get to my house, you go right. I asked if she forgot where she was going.
She pulled over on a street that dead ends. There weren’t any streetlights and I assumed everyone in the nearby houses were sleeping, so it was practically total darkness. We were both silent.
I wanted to kiss her and had she been anyone else, I would have made my move instantly. But this was Katie. The girl I had sleepovers with when I was nine and brought me soup and the homework I missed when I was out of school for a month with mono. This was Katie.
I awkwardly fumbled and started talking Netflix’s TV model and how eventually cable will be a thing of the past because apparently that was worthy of mentioning?? But Katie stepped in. She kissed me. And I kissed her back. It went from there.
I’ll spare you the details because hooking up in a car is never as sexy as it’s advertised to be. But there was something undeniable about it: Katie and I had something . Whatever our relationship had been, well, it was different now.
I could tell you about what happened after. I could tell you about the nervous giggling and the week of pretending nothing happened. I could tell you about going back to college and missing her. I could tell you about the phone call at midnight. I could tell you about deciding we were going to visit each other. I could tell you about flying to see her in Texas. I could tell you about the confessions and the kissing and the sex in places that weren’t cars. But that would take far too long. And you’re not interested in hearing years worth of stories.
But what I will tell you? Katie and I effectively ruined our platonic friendship that night.
Because we’re getting married this summer.
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You might be surprised by this answer.
Best friends are hard to come by. These are people in your life who you've grown to trust, value, and love, likely for years. But what happens when that last L-word, love, turns into another: lust ? Is having sex with your best friend actually a good idea?
According to Mary Kay Cocharo, LMFT , starting something romantic with a friend could be your best idea yet. “I know that people are always afraid to do that, but from my perspective—I’ve been a marriage therapist for over 30 years—the couples who start with a solid basis of friendship are in a really good position to last."
Compared to people who meet as strangers, Cocharo says couples who start as friends—especially best friends—have a much better foundation. People who just get attracted to someone they see across the room have a lot of pheromones, Cocharo says. "Sometimes in that chemical cocktail, we’ll get attracted to someone and start a relationship and when those hormones start wearing off, we find that there’s absolutely no foundation to build a relationship on.” But if you already have the emotional relationship in place (hello, friendship!) and then start to get intimate, you've got a much better shot at creating a healthy and happy future.
Ideally, Cocharo says the conversation would come before you actually decide to have sex with the person. She recommends saying something like, “Listen, can we sit down and talk about something important?" Then, "Sometimes I feel like there’s potential in our friendship to be romantic, and I’m wondering if that ever crosses your mind..."
This approach puts you in a less vulnerable position (phew): You're not telling them you're in love with them or want to marry them. You're just gauging their interest.
Of course, sometimes the sex happens first (especially if there's alc involved). In that case, Cocharo says that you should still have a "what was this conversation?" afterward. It might be uncomfortable in the beginning, but it's the best time to make sure that you two are on the same page when it comes to whether or not the sex meant something more than sex.
That's okay. "Real friendships can endure," Cocharo says. If you have this conversation before or after the sex and find out that the feelings aren't mutual, don't be too hard on yourself. "This is not about me. I’m not being rejected. It’s just not a good fit for the other person," Cocharo recommends telling yourself.
Just know that you might have to set some new boundaries in your friendship. Maybe don't stay over their house after falling asleep during movie night. If you have actual romantic feelings for them, not just sexual ones, you might even have to take a break from the friendship.
Just be honest and say, "We're friends, we will always be friends, but I'm taking the next few months away from you to calm down my own feelings, attractions, and attachment to you. And then we can pick up where we left off as friends." As Cocharo says, "if it's really a good friendship, it can tolerate that."
Of course! Here are a few happy endings, sad endings, and somewhere in between...
Sometimes friendship precedes a relationship, and sometimes a relationship precedes friendship...
There are none! (None that people wanted to share, anyway.) Maybe Cocharo's theory is true, after all....
Ultimately, the decision to have sex with your best friend is completely up to the two of you and you both have to decide if it's worth the risk. If you're friendship is strong enough, as it was for many of these women, it'll survive. Good luck!
Alexis Jones is an assistant editor at Women's Health where she writes across several verticals on WomensHealthmag.com , including life, health, sex and love, relationships and fitness, while also contributing to the print magazine. She has a master’s degree in journalism from Syracuse University, lives in Brooklyn, and proudly detests avocados.
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We were a group of friends and I am a guy. Two boys of the group bailed from the friends trip leaving me the only guy with three girls.
So we decided to take a hostel room to save money. There were bunk beds and all the girls took the above three beds.
I was in bottom bed and after eating and drinking one girl started fucking me. I was also drunk so I continued fucking her in alcohol.
I had a big dick 8 inch and my gf just couldn't get over that. She started screaming I have such a big dick, fuck me with your big dick and I even lasted for a long time. I fucked her in missionary, she rode me, I f
We were a group of friends and I am a guy. Two boys of the group bailed from the friends trip leaving me the only guy with three girls.
So we decided to take a hostel room to save money. There were bunk beds and all the girls took the above three beds.
I was in bottom bed and after eating and drinking one girl started fucking me. I was also drunk so I continued fucking her in alcohol.
I had a big dick 8 inch and my gf just couldn't get over that. She started screaming I have such a big dick, fuck me with your big dick and I even lasted for a long time. I fucked her in missionary, she rode me, I fucked her in doggy style, in sides, in her mouth and we even did 69.
I fucked her so well that others girl looked at us laughing about this.
I fucked my gf really hard and fast and she enjoyed every stroke of it. We did it before but by this time I had forgotten that the girls were watching.
In my final stroke I went in missionary style and fucked her deep. She scream that it's so deep and she can feel my dick hit her wall and that's turning her on like anything.
When I was about to cum I pulled my dick out and I ejaculated in my hands. It was a lot of cum.
Then I went to washroom and my gf had slept now.
When I came back after washing her the girls were standing and they were waiting for me to see them change their dress.
Then the girl closest to my bed removed her bra and I could see her breast, they were large than my gf. She called me up to her bed and I climbed up.
Then she hugged me and put her breast on me and removed her underwear. I saw her pussy and got boner again. She didn't let me say any excuse and just inserted my dick in her pussy.
She was already wet and she kissed me hard bite my lips and squeezed her pussy on my dick.
I resisted and she said it's ok to even cum inside her. I got horny after hearing that. She had small ass and it looked sexy on her.
She kept riding me and she came on my dick. I went on fucking her in doggy style and she moaned. She said my dick was the best dick she had. I fucked her for 15 minutes and she asked me to cum inside her. In the doggy style I came inside her pussy. She kissed me hungrily as I came inside her.
Then the third girl called me and she showed me her pointy nipples. She had the largest breast of them all and she invited me to fuck her. I went ahead, climbed her bed and she took my dick and inserted in her pussy.
She was really wet and my dick just slide inside her. She moaned and we kissed hesitantly. She also whispered to cum inside her. I opened her bra and played with her big boobs. I licked them and tasted them.
And then I sucked them hard and bite them. I inserted my finger in her ass. She moaned and she came on top.
She rode my dick and i saw her large breasts bouncing. I hold them and squeezed them hard and she moaned and I realised my cum inside her pussy. I kept fucking her as I was cumming and she moaned really hard.
She hugged and kissed me and then went to sleep.Next day they told everything to my gf and she was mad but she seemed ok.
The next day onwards I fucked all three of them together, one by one, and however it felt like doing. I kept cumming inside the girls as they were on pills and my gf was ok with that.
I had they best sex in that trip and the girls still send me nude sometimes, but now I just have sex with my gf and that's all
Yes, I have slept with my best friend and we still have sex sometimes. We don’t have any romantic feelings for each other and we don’t share that typical romantic couple bond. We know what we are doing and don’t regret that.
I am a 24 year old man and she is 23 we both stay in Mumbai.
Our first sex happened in 2019 when we both were studying in the same college and class. We were studying MBA and on the very first day she was sitting a bench ahead of me. She has long hair and has habit of playing with it. She flicked her hair and it went directly on my face. And I was like, “Excuse me?”. She sai
Yes, I have slept with my best friend and we still have sex sometimes. We don’t have any romantic feelings for each other and we don’t share that typical romantic couple bond. We know what we are doing and don’t regret that.
I am a 24 year old man and she is 23 we both stay in Mumbai.
Our first sex happened in 2019 when we both were studying in the same college and class. We were studying MBA and on the very first day she was sitting a bench ahead of me. She has long hair and has habit of playing with it. She flicked her hair and it went directly on my face. And I was like, “Excuse me?”. She said sorry and we started talking.
5 months later our friendship was soo good. We had bunked lectures together, we went on for treks, we went for movies but we never had that romantic connection. We liked each other’s company. We both are scared of commitments and we use to see boys and girls. Like she use to show me different girls and I use to show her boys and we use to rate and judge them.
A month later our exams were scheduled and we weren’t prepared so we started studying and attending lectures. After lectures we use to sit in the college campus and library and then studied together.
Our exams got over and we decided to go somewhere for a long ride on the weekend. We went to Igatpuri, it’s a hillstation which is 150km from Mumbai. We both lied to our parents and went. I picked her up in my car and I had booked an amazing resort amidst a Jungle in Igatpuri. We reached there around 10am and played all day in the pool. We went to the bar and started drinking and dancing. We both were done drinking and went to our room both drunk. She held my face and we kissed. We undressed each other and bang! We had sex and slept on each other’s bodies.
When I got up in the morning I saw her sleeping naked beside me. I saw her boobs, her perfectly round ass. She was looking soo beautiful. I wake her up and made her realize that what happened between us last night. She smiled and said don’t worry it was just sex
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