I Cheated On My Boyfriend With A Bigger Guy

I Cheated On My Boyfriend With A Bigger Guy

I Cheated On My Boyfriend & It Was The Worst Decision I’ve Ever Made

By Shelby Seekell

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I had a high school crush who turned into a high school boyfriend and stayed with me into my college years. We were together for six years, but sadly, I wasn’t a good girlfriend for all of them. One summer, after he’d gone away to his military college for a few weeks, I had a one-night stand with a guy I worked with, and I’ve regretted it ever since. Here’s what I went through after that night:
At first, I was in denial. The morning after I slept with someone else, I didn’t feel any guilt. I had been drinking the night the affair happened and was more concerned with curing the hangover than understanding the situation and the gravity of what I’d done.
Then came the unbearable guilt. That day at work, I was fine, I was flirting with the guy I slept with and wasn’t regretting anything… until I had a moment alone. All of sudden, the guilt rushed over me and everything went white. I cheated on my boyfriend — the only person I had ever slept with, the person who loved me. How could I do that?
I was over-the-top nice to him. That night, I called my aunt and confessed everything. I was a complete wreck. She told me that it was OK and a one-time mistake and that I just needed to better myself and appreciate him and love him better, so I began doing all of these over-the-top gestures for him to try to secretly reconcile for my infidelity.
I tried to avoid confronting what I did. I moved back to college and threw myself into school work He was busy with school, and I MADE myself busy to try to not remind myself of what I did.
I avoided my boyfriend constantly. He would call and I would put it to voicemail; he would want to come up for the weekend and I made up excuses. I couldn’t look at him. I felt as if the truth would be all over my face. The Catholic guilt was wearing on me more than I could take.
I almost got caught, so I lied more. When he finally did come up for a weekend, I got a text from the guy I cheated with saying his college was playing mine this upcoming weekend and he was hoping I would go to the game. My boyfriend saw it, fipped out, and started asking a million questions. I lied, saying it was a group message to all of us who worked together. He said he believed me but I was on high alert to make sure nothing like that would happen again.
I told my parents what I did. I know. It may seem insane, but I needed to tell them. They gave me the advice to try to move past it, and comforted me by saying that I was in college and mistakes happen. It got so bad that I would text my mother daily for a pep talk, which eventually started to wear her down.
I went to counseling. After feeling terrible about exhausting my parents with my burden, I decided to seek help from my college’s counseling center. What a mistake that was. I was hoping for a person to talk to without judgement, but she was a hardcore Christian and only made my anxiety worse. After two sessions, I stopped going.
I pushed my boyfriend away more. He could sense something was up and kept trying to bring us closer. I kept pushing him further and further away. I was hoping that if I pushed him away, he would end it and that I would hopefully not feel like such a bad person.
I tried to break up with him. The night I tried to break up with him was awful. He got so upset and told me he was planning on proposing after graduation. He begged and pleaded and I gave in. I couldn’t bear to tell him what had happened.
I tried to convince myself that I’m young and mistakes happen. It was the only comfort I could find. I was in college, it happened once, and I felt awful. The personal pep talk would work for a bit but eventually faded
I had a mental breakdown at Christmas. During my family Christmas party, I looked over and saw him drinking beers with my family, laughing, having a great time, and totally oblivious to how terrible I was. I pulled my mom into the bathroom and cried for two hours.
We eventually broke up. After a few more weeks, the breakup was inevitable. It wasn’t just about me. He deserved someone who would respect him and remain loyal. He took it hard and I did, too. He was my first love and letting him go was an ending of an era in my life.
I never told him that I cheated. I felt that it would only relieve my guilt and hurt him more. He is now with a beautiful girl and they seem very happy (according to Facebook). Even though ending it with him was hard and he was a great guy , I knew it was the right thing to do, I didn’t love him anymore and it was time for both of us to move on.

Shelby Seekell
Shelby is a New England girl who loves mimosas, edamame, new bras, and her Yorkie, Jack.

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I cheated on my boyfriend a long time ago with a guy who had a bigger penis. I told him the truth and he still hurts over it thinking he doesn't make me feel good. He does make me feel good! How do I show him I didn't like the big penis that I love his?

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n est time u have sex i think you should start saying his name then get louder and start talking drity and talking about his penis. eg; f**k its so good, its going to make me *** oh yes **yes lalala and so on if that might help. some one told me the same thing and it sure did help me ;)
M en are sensitive in that area. He may or may not get over it. My current girlfriend dated a guy for almost 5 years with a larger penis than mine. Im average having about 8" in length. While in bed i asked her if i had a small penis she reluctantly said no. I then asked if her last boyfriend was larger she said yes. During sex she would usually get on top and bounce around like i wasnt even inside her. After many questions i finally asked if she could take all of him. She said sometimes. How heartbreaking.
I think you need to tell him! Let him know how you feel- thats the best way to get across your feelings. If it takes a little faking...then fake it girl!...only for a short time.

Let him know that if you really wanted to be with a guy who had a bigger penis...you would have left your boyfriend for this other guy. I think guys focus too much on things such as penis size because it is proven that they think about sex more than girls. Let him know that you don't ask guys their penis size before wanting to start a relationship...and that there is more important things within your relationship to worry about or to stress over than penis size.

its no biggie ;)
I t has happened to me,She told me he was bigger, and did it harder, and it felt better.

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He never made her orgasm, and I can. That makes sense right? How can it feel better with someone else, and they cant make you orgasm, and it feel not as good with someone else and they CAN make you? What the hell?

I just think she is feeding me more bull****. Because it is something in the nature of all guys, men fight to be the alpha male, to show their dominance, to be the best for the female of the species. To destroy a guys ego like that.... he has every right to think you are chatting bull
I would never have told him that, guys think bigger means better...My girlfriend has had bigger dicks in the past but I know after we do it she's in pain. I know she would probably prefer a smaller dick that she has been with in the past, its just an aspect of a relationship that hits us harder than EVEN our looks or personality. A girlfriend of mine was worried about being stretched out from her last huge bf, since her new bf is tiny, for some reason we are SUPER SENSITIVE to it. I believe it goes past shallowness or superficiality (even sense), I believe GOD intended you for one man or one woman so you would never have to think about this, never need to blog out your concerns or feel threatened by a past memory that who knows, could be their daily sexual fantasy but you will go on unknowingly based on your loving them.....till love runs out and these differences will make the next separation an easier loss because you weren't sexually meant for each other. My own two cents anyways (by the way, I have been celibate for 4 months and I love it)
H ere's a good rule. Never never never never Never never never never Never never never never Never never never never tell a guy you cheated on him with a guy that has a big penis!

A guy I was dating asked me about a guy I had dated and I made that mistake of telling him the truth that he wanted to hear of a former b/f's penis size and he never got over it. (And I wasnt cheating either) Alhough I did not have an issue with his size, he slowly started having problems with it and our sex life suffered until we finally broke up.

So again, Never never never never Never never never never Never never never never Never never never never tell a guy you cheated on him with a guy that has a big penis!
W HY would you ever tell him that?! He'll never believe you. You messed up bad.
g ive him some time and just keep telling him how great it feels now you have to re-asure him you'll never do it again.but being honest was the smart thing to do cause if he had found out another way you would be done
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I've cheated on my boyfriend multiple times with other men. Why don't I have any remorse?
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I am deeply in love with my boyfriend, but I have cheated on him twice with this other guy and haven't told him. We are all friends. What should I do?
My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. Two years ago I cheated on him, and I just told him about it a month ago. What should I do since he broke up with me and told me he doesn't love me anymore?
Why do I like cheating and have no remorse?
I cheated on my boyfriend with 4 guys. I couldnt lie to him anymore so I told him. He is devastated. I really love him. Did I make a mistake telling him? How do I fix this?
I cheated on my boyfriend, despite this he still wants to be with me. I feel this is very delusional of him, he shouldn't have to stay with someone incredibly stupid who hurt him. Do I owe it to him to give him what he wants, or have him realize he doesn't have to be with someone like me?
I am deeply in love with my boyfriend, but I have cheated on him twice with this other guy and haven't told him. We are all friends. What should I do?
My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. Two years ago I cheated on him, and I just told him about it a month ago. What should I do since he broke up with me and told me he doesn't love me anymore?
Why do I like cheating and have no remorse?
I cheated on my boyfriend with 4 guys. I couldnt lie to him anymore so I told him. He is devastated. I really love him. Did I make a mistake telling him? How do I fix this?
I cheated on my boyfriend, despite this he still wants to be with me. I feel this is very delusional of him, he shouldn't have to stay with someone incredibly stupid who hurt him. Do I owe it to him to give him what he wants, or have him realize he doesn't have to be with someone like me?
Why does my boyfriend show no remorse for cheating?
I don't love my boyfriend anymore. I am cheating on him with a wonderful guy who loves me. What do I do?
I’ve cheated on my boyfriend more than once. Should I keep my relationship with my boyfriend?
Am I a bad person if I have a desire to cheat?
I love my boyfriend of 6 years and I can’t leave him but I keep cheating on him. Why can’t I stop?
My boyfriend cheated and I stayed. I slept with someone else yesterday and I feel no remorse. Should I confess or leave it be?
I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years but he still loves me, and we were amazing together. I love him but don't want to trap him since I don't know if my curiosity was fully sated. We live together, should I move out to think? What should I do?
I cheated on my boyfriend. But I’m so in love with him, we are in a LDR what should I do?
I cheated on my boyfriend and left him. Am I bad person?
I am cheating on my boyfriend but I love him so much, what should I do?
I am deeply in love with my boyfriend, but I have cheated on him twice with this other guy and haven't told him. We are all friends. What should I do?
My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. Two years ago I cheated on him, and I just told him about it a month ago. What should I do since he broke up with me and told me he doesn't love me anymore?
Why do I like cheating and have no remorse?
I cheated on my boyfriend with 4 guys. I couldnt lie to him anymore so I told him. He is devastated. I really love him. Did I make a mistake telling him? How do I fix this?
I cheated on my boyfriend, despite this he still wants to be with me. I feel this is very delusional of him, he shouldn't have to stay with someone incredibly stupid who hurt him. Do I owe it to him to give him what he wants, or have him realize he doesn't have to be with someone like me?
Why does my boyfriend show no remorse for cheating?
I don't love my boyfriend anymore. I am cheating on him with a wonderful guy who loves me. What do I do?
I’ve cheated on my boyfriend more than once. Should I keep my relationship with my boyfriend?
Am I a bad person if I have a desire to cheat?
I love my boyfriend of 6 years and I can’t leave him but I keep cheating on him. Why can’t I stop?
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I guess because you feel that he was doing the same thing, and you just subconsciously think that you are even now.
Because you don't have empathy, you don't care about his feelings, you don't care about hurting him. You don't care about him trusting you, and trying his best. You just care about you, yet you aren't that confident on yourself, so you gotta be with him, because you can't be alone. You're broken, and you ain't trying to fix you, because you don't even care about yourself, why would you even care about others? You feel nothing for him, you just like the idea of being with him, but you don't have true feelings for him, so betraying is easy to you. You don't care hurting him, I would even say you

I cheated on my boyfriend and like the other guy.
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My boyfriend (30m) and I (30f) have been together for a year. We live together too. We went on vacation for a week and came back 1 day before he was scheduled to fly back to his home country for a month. A little before the vacation and during, I contemplated ending our relationship. I just dont have strong feelings for him anymore and am starting to lose attraction towards him. We have become better friends than lovers. I thought maybe while he flew home I'd miss him and my feelings would change. They didn't. In fact, we barely spoke and it made the decision to end things with him more clear. I decided I would wait until he comes back so I could do it face to face and to save the embarrassment of having to tell his family, etc. One night out, I met a guy I am extremely attracted to. We hit it off and ended up going on a few dates. He likes me and I see this going somewhere. I never anticipated that to happen nor expected anything out of it. I cheated on my boyfriend. I know this is extremely wrong and being checked out is not an excuse. My boyfriend comes home today and I plan on ending things with him. I feel horrible I cheated and now I feel horrible going into this new relationship that started off with me lying. Is there any way to make this new relationship successful? Any advice?
Nope. You really screwed the pooch on this one. You've royally fucked over your "current" boyfriend, and tainted anything with the new guy.
Did the new guy know you aren't single and just not care? Or did you lie to him? Both are bad.
Yeah that was fucked up. You monkeybranched off your boyfriend. So fucked up. Break up with him. Tell him you’re a cheater and a liar so he will find it easier to never contact you again. And hopefully the guy you’re into will pump and dump you like someone else suggested.
Look at you being all narcissistic. Instead of coming here and talking about how to handle telling your BF that your are a cheater and that the relationship is over, all you are concerned about is the new relationship.
Yup. She monkeybranched off her boyfriend.
Should have broke up before. Or not go dating the other guy and break up first.
Cheaters will be cheaters I guess and hopefully the new guy will not want to date someone that cheated with him on someone else.
Does your new boyfriend know that your were dating someone else at the start of your new relationship?
What you did was disgusting, and we all hope that our children never run into a low quality person like you.
Sure, it's quite simple really; DON'T CHEAT! Enjoy the consequences of your actions :)
Of the 14,000,605 scenerios I have seen, you were a good person in... none
I hope your new guy cheats on you lol.
Total honesty, that's the only way itll ever work. That being said, this new guy might live by the idea that if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you, & he might bail. Gotta live with the consequences of your actions though, so honesty is for the best.
Why do you need to be in another relationship right away? Just see this guy and maybe a few others but don’t be exclusive. Your best move would be not to date anybody right now but thats probably not going to happen.
I feel like people are being a little harsh. You fucked up and you know it. I don't need to lecture you. The downvotes I feel are rude. We are here to give advice, not pass judgement.
Honestly your new relationship will be tarnished. Honesty is what you need now. Yes, he will be upset, but waiting to tell him later will be a bigger betrayal. Tell him your situation and let him decide how he feels about it. If he's not cool with it, you have to respect that your actions lead to this and you can only move forward from here. (in all honesty though, he'll probably try to accept it since he too is likely excited about the idea of a new relat
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