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I caught my husband masturbating for the first time this weekend in our 11 years together. I’ve always know he did it but never saw/ caught him in the act. It was middle of the night 3am, I had forgotten my water bottle in the kitchen so I went to get it. I noticed my husband wasn’t in our bed and I walked in on him, pants down and jerking off on the couch. Part of me was shocked and asked him what he was doing, he was just as surprised to see me, stopped and his quickly pulled up his pants and didn’t say anything. I quickly grabbed my bottle and walked back to bed. I stayed awake for hours because of it. I think I was just too shocked and also felt unsexy myself and sad. I’m 30 weeks pregnant and with a big belly. I’m pretty sure he was watching porn as he had headphones on and phone in hand. Next day I wanted to talk to him about it but just couldn’t bring it up. Part of me was ashamed. I want to try sex during pregnancy but my husband is weirded out by it. Should I bring it up again as I’m still thinking about it. Has this happened to anyone else?
it’s normal to masturbate for anyone.
The porn thing is a no go in our relationship. It has been a big issue and I finally had to tell him that if it continued, I was done. My husband has made no effort during this pregnancy for anything sexual. Although I have had a lot of bleeding issues and was put on pelvic rest a while back. I don’t think he would of made the effort even without the bleeding issues. We have other issues or I have other issues with him, he unfortunately doesn’t see any issue 🙄 So ai have become very resentful and haven’t made the effort for anything sexual either. I think you need to talk to him if it’s something you are uncomfortable with.
Nah, just the first line was for you but the rest of it was for most of the replies to your post. I just didn’t go about tagging everyone. But for you, I think everything you said is valid.
I think you replied to the wrong person
It's totally fine if you're not cool with it. For everyone who doesn't care, good for you but don't bother giving advice to someone who isn't comfortable with it. She isn't, you don't have to understand.
Right? I’m very confused of what the issue is here. When I’m not in the mood, I give my husband a kiss, tell him I love him and ask him to watch porn instead lol 
I think everyone telling you that masterbating is normal and not to worry about it, isn't really a fair answer. Everyone is different and every relationship is different. I also don't think that EVERY guy watches porn and masterbates. If you feel uncomfortable, I would definitely bring it up. You're extremely emotional and you're carrying his child. To me, that means something and in my opinion, he should take that into consideration before getting his rocks off.. ESPECIALLY if you're saying he doesn't even try with you
Why does your husband watching porn make you uncomfortable? I honestly don’t understand the problem. 
I think it’s normal. And porn is so readily available that even though I don’t like the idea of it- I also think it’s normal. 🤷‍♀️
I have the same thoughts as you on this one.
Personally I’d just move on and not worry about it... but that’s just me. My husband masturbates and watches porn and so do i.. we’re pretty open and comfortable with all of it though.
Same. It’s better then him cheating with another woman and lying amd making excuses
same here. Its just a fantasy and I have zero suspicions of him cheating.
same in our relationship we both watch porn. sometimes together
If your husband is watching porn though and not being intimate with you then it’s an issue.
agreed. You need to talk to him about it.
I do not think is a issue if he is doing it sometimes.. I am not sure what my husband is doing to "relieve" himself, he doesn't talk about it, and I am more open than he is. We haven't had any intimacy since week 20 (now I am in week 32) and in our last conversation he told me he doesn't feel comfortable having sex while I am pregnant, that he doesn't want to hurt me or the baby.. we tried once and he gets really nervous and it just doesn't work. 
I am always about honest and direct conversation to see what the real issue is.
I would just let it go. Masturbation is natural and normal. He was probably embarrassed to get caught, so I wouldn't say anything. Many men are uncomfortable having sex during pregnancy. It is ok to talk about that if you want.
My husband isn't big on sex during pregnancy, especially the first baby. I've never caught him in the act but I'm sure he does. I do, especially when he's not into pregnancy sex. I'd probably make a funny comment about it but I don't think it needs to be a talk
Ah definitely an awkward situation, but totally normal and you will move past it! I def wouldn’t want my husband to see me doing the same thing- but meh! It’s ok.
I'm the same! I'd feel uncomfortable if my husband walked in on me getting myself off. I have a dildo and he doesnt even know about it! lol I recently bought it
Lol i bought a dildo recently too & my boyfriend has no clue about it
My husband had a serious porn problem before we got married. I highly recommend very honest, candid conversations about it. the more secrecy, the more shame and hurt both of you will feel. I've told my husband I totally understand if he needs to masturbate during the stretches when my sex drive is non existent or during the 6 week wait post partum, we just make sure to communicate (and more often than not, I'm happy to give him what he needs in some form or other). for me, the biggest thing is just being open with each other so neither of us feel ashamed of our sexual needs or struggles.
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Why am I so obsessed with my husband's masturbation ? It is starting to take over my life.
My husband and I are both 39. We've been together for nine years and I've caught him masturbating on four or five occasions.
I've never really made a big issue about it in front of him – just laughed it off – but inside I feel really insulted, cheated and inadequate.
He works nights and although we have a healthy and regular sex life I know that sometimes he masturbates when he gets into bed in the mornings.
I even sneak upstairs and listen to him to prove myself right. I often jump into bed with him in the mornings when our daughter has gone to school, just so that I can go out knowing that he is satisfied by me and has gone to sleep.
I have taken to arranging his bedside drawer so I know if he has used any hankies or anything to clean himself up. If I go out I arrange all the tissues in the house so I will know if any have been used.
Today however I feel lower than ever as we made love this morning and when I popped out this afternoon for about half an hour I knew he had relieved himself again as I found a tissue in the bin.
Was I not good enough for him this morning? I know that sometimes if I go to bed early he masturbates downstairs instead of joining me.
He has even turned me down in the past as he said he was too tired – and then I caught him at it.
I understand that men do masturbate, but I feel so hurt and cheated upon.
Am I the only person who has a problem with their man doing this? I know he loves me and he has never strayed, so why am I like this?
Well, you begin by wondering why you are so obsessed. And it's clear that you are.
Sorry to be so blunt, but the fact is that you have only 'caught' (your word) your husband masturbating four or five times in eight years. That isn't much for a (presumably) highly sexed male who is on shift work and is therefore not going to bed at the same time as his wife.
I would like to assure you that there are many happily married men who masturbate far, far more often than this. Obviously your husband needs to communicate with you more about his sexual desires, and we'll see what Christine advises about that in a moment.
But please take a careful look at yourself. By your own account you are:
Is this reasonable or healthy behaviour? Not really.
I am sorry but the real problem here isn't so much that your husband masturbates: it's your attitude to his masturbation.
Many men who adore their partners – and who make love to them regularly – also like a bit of uncomplicated, private sexual relief from time to time.
Nowadays we women expect a lot more from men than our great grandmothers did. We expect to be given orgasms and satisfaction in bed – and our satisfaction is often not nearly as automatic as that of most men.
So often men have to work quite hard at pleasing us. All that is fine. But sometimes they want sex without all that bother.
Also, most men have a higher sex drive than most women and have a more down to earth feeling about sex. When they feel a build-up of sexual tension, they just want to alleviate it. And they want to enjoy it and they want to – sometimes – enjoy this experience in private.
Now, I feel that unless you can come to terms with that, you are going to distress yourself so much that your feelings will damage the marriage.
I wonder if you're already communicating feelings of desperation when you nip back into bed in the mornings so he can have sex with you, rather than on his own?
Maybe he feels that pressure from you? Maybe he feels he must keep reassuring you that he loves you? Maybe sometimes, all this is just too much on top of a night's work?
Of course, it would be a good idea to discuss all this with him at some point, but my belief is that you should first of all get yourself some help.
Can I suggest you ring Relate and go along for an appointment on your own?
I think this may set your mind at rest about your husband's behaviour, but it should also start addressing your own insecurities that are disturbing you so much.
Can I also suggest you do the self-esteem test . I feel it's likely that poor self-esteem is at the root of your problem and that if you work on improving that then other things, like whether or not your husband masturbates, will seem much less important.
Dr David Delvin, GP, and Christine Webber, sex and relationships expert
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Husband Masturbating Beside Me In Bed?
Is it normal for a man to masturbate while his wife is in bed with him asleep? This has happened two or three times, and is particularly disconcerting because we have no been having sex. Should I be worried?
It sounds like it is time for you and your husband to have a talk about what is important and what you both want from the relationship. Are you interested in having sex more often? Does he want sex more often? Are you "out of sync" with sexual desires? As difficult as sexual problems are, they are often the result of being "out of sync" emotionally. Are you and your husband doing things together? Do you connect emotionally on a regular basis?
Maybe rather than address the sexual issue, you could start by planning a weekly date or time when you can connect with one another - turn off the television, make talk about work and kids off limit - and spend time together. Take time to do things that you did together during the early days of your relationship to remind you of why you are together.
Once you start rebuilding the emotional connection and the times you talk to one another, you can address the sexual issues - the lack of sex - and see where it leads.
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Last night a noise woke me up...I rolled over and my husband quickly removed his hands from under the covers. And rolled over on his side( facing away from me). I reached under the covers and his underwear was down and his dick was hard. I tried to rub it becuase i was thinking about giving him a bj but the position he was in wasn't good and wasn't letting me do much. So I just fell asleep cause I was just too tired!! Im not mad at him for master bating, actually I rather enjoy to watch him...but I think he is too embarrassed to do it in front of me:/ cause I've told him that I want to watch and he says no! But I have caught him master bating several times before and he just stops what he is doing and goes back to sleep. And i usually pretend like i didn't see anything and go back to sleep...What would you do?

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I probably would just hop on it cause obviously he was horny 😂😂😂
Is it weird that my husband never masterbates ? Like I've never caught him doing it , nor trying to do it , I've told him I'd love to watch him do it but he says no 😔 lol hmm .

My husband thinks it's stupid. Hasn't done it in years, but I'm always up for sex so I'm not sure if that affects it.


no we are pretty much always together the only time we arent is when hes at work but sometimes i go to work with him and we shower together and everything never seen him with an intention of doing it 😂😂 my previous ex (father of my children) we lived tigether for four years and he didnt either 😂


lol he probably does it when your not around. like in the restroom at work or something. lol

Maybe he's a bit insecure masturbating in
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