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Husband First Wife
By Mel Robbins | December 1, 2016 | 15
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The E! reporter, Giuliana Rancic, said putting her husband first, and the baby second is the secret to her happy marriage. I couldn’t agree more. As you might suspect, a nuclear meltdown happened online as women who put their kids first came out on attack. I was invited to appear on Good Morning America to defend Giuliana.
If you watch the segment , you’ll meet these two female bloggers who basically say the kids always come first and then laugh about where their spouses fall on the list…. “If you asked me what the breakdown was I would say my children, my girlfriends, then my husband. But…don’t tell him that because he doesn’t know it.” And then they laugh hysterically like it’s all a big joke.
I bet her husband‘s breakdown is the same: my children, my girlfriends and then my wife….but don’t tell her because she doesn’t know it because she’s too busy focusing on her kids, her friends and her self. Marriage isn’t a joke. If you put your spouse last; it’s a tragic, sad affair. My husband Chris and I have been together for 19 years. Like you, our lives are consumed by the logistics of running a household, managing careers and caring for our three kids and a dog . Like you, our lives are impossibly busy. Like you, we love our kids. Our marriage provides the foundation for everything that we’ve built together. It isn’t a joke. It’s something we work hard at and are tremendously proud of. I want it to last a lifetime, which is why I treat it accordingly. If you stop and think about it, it’s the way it should be. You should put your marriage first:
Putting your marriage first is actually really easy. All you have to do is to find small ways make your spouse feel cherished . You already do this to your dog, just follow that philosophy: Treat your spouse like the dog, only better: greet them at the door, always be happy to see them (wag your tail), go for walks every day, reward good behavior several times a day with a treat, give lots of physical affection every day (pet the dog) and don’t hold grudges (you don’t punish a dog for weeks on end for pooping once in the house…so don’t be mad at your spouse for something they said last week).
It’s simple stuff if you think about it. Honestly it’s just about your focus. Life is busy. Technology overwhelms us . When you throw in kids, pets, work, girlfriends, etc—you have to prioritize—you cannot do it all. Declaring your spouse as your number one priority is the first step, from there it’s pretty simple. My mom and dad will be married 45 years in June. To this day, I remember when dad would come home, he’d hug mom first and the dog would start barking at their embrace because he was so jealous.
I remember that we’d have to wait to have dinner until he got home from work, no matter how late it was. Even at a young age, I knew that we weren’t waiting because they wanted us to all be together, it was because they wanted to be together. I also remember how he told her he loved her every day and kissed her before he left for work. They modeled a marriage that I wanted. I wanted to be the most important thing in my husband’s life, and vice versa. I never felt a lack of love, just the opposite—I was surrounded by it. I knew my dad loved me, but I knew he loved my mom most. And, that’s how it should be.
Editor’s note: This post was originally published in March 2013 and has been updated for freshness, accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Mel Robbins is a contributing editor to SUCCESS magazine, best-selling author, CNN commentator, creator of the “5 Second Rule” and the busiest female motivational speaker in the world. To find out more, visit her website: MelRobbins.com . To follow her on Twitter: Twitter.com/melrobbins
Actually it’s Yahweh (God)first ,spouse second and then children.
Praise Yahshua (Jesus)for family!
John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
King James Version (KJV)
Praise Yahshua for truth!
Do people want to have a relationship with your children and future grandchildren? I\\’ll tell you something NO one should come before the kids both husband a wife should be putting the needs of the baby child first. children need more love and attention than anyone, they were born into this world helpless by your choice. Please do not bring life into this world to let it suffer. The saying in order to be in your childrens lives tomorrow you must be there today. Make memories with your babies. I know many people that have grown up and refuse to even see their mother\\’s face because mom put a new boyfriend or a new husband above their existing kids.
Awesome blog! I like it a lot! Thanks and keep up the great work!
What a great blog ! It\\’s an eye opener for those who put their husband last in the list. Kudos to Mel Robbins !
May I ask just one simple question?
If putting your marriage first does not mean neglecting your children, then how does putting your children first mean neglecting your spouse ??
This is a question which most of you fail to answer.
Because you have no answer.
Because you haven’t thought things out properly. Because you never do.
And then make glorious fools out of yourselves.
In a family, EVERYONE GETS LOVED EQUALLY
There should be NO FAVORITISM IN FAMILY.
Sometimes your husband gets put first, sometimes your children.
One day, your husband gets attention, and on another, your kids.
Its as simple as it gets. Putting your husband first/loving him more is just as stupid as constantly putting your kids first.
And also, I would like to point out, that I have seen MANY marriages in which the kids are put first and they are long-term and extremely happy (my own parents marriage for example, and many more)
And I would like to add that the children who grew up in these marriages aren’t exactly obnoxious, and definitely not self-entitled (for example me)
What was most interesting in this article was the last part, where your mom starved you just so that your dad could eat with her, all in the name of ”romance”
This is not only stupid, but also immature. Eating late has bad effects on your health. FACT. And this is true ESPECIALLY for a child.
Don’t believe me ? Go google it yourself.
Please, don’t try to pull off stunts like this, you’ll have to cancel all those date nights to take care of a sick child (if you care about him/her that is).
Ps: The last statement in the parenthesis was a
joke…
While I am sitting here crying as my daughter spitefully chooses to not let me bath her or doesn’t listen when she needs to tidy up etc. and it becomes a fight and my husband comes in and fights with me and does not discipline her and she gets her way and I am left feeling worthless for being a mother. He always chooses her side when she in in the wrong, how is that not destroying not just our marriage but also our child’s view of how things should be. He puts her first and I don’t know how to live like this. How can you think that this is healthy??? Everyone who thinks putting their child above their spouse will probably end up divorced and that is not what I want, but a child that is allowed to do whatever they want, without discipline is also not something I would want for my daughter. Wish me and my husband could be a loving team and help me to raise a responsible loving daughter who respects her elders and not treat me like she is being allowed to do now…
If this method works for you, then great. I never hope to meet you or your kids. As a journalist, your duty is to understand your audience is the world. Not just your own. Our kids are the future. My kid will be one to inherit the earth, not the person who helped in creating her. She will be the next scientist, doctor, politician, whatever she decides. I have the duty to support and enrich that, and to support the attributes that will see improvements in the future. Self-center yourself, and you have kids that resent their parents and life, and end up in trouble. I have a really hard time understanding this “submissive” behavior in your article. No person should have to submit or over-reach for love. It’s either there or not. Stop making up nonsense to make yourself feel better, or earn a paycheck.
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This is a great blog post. It’s so true – there are so many things that go into making a marriage work. Your article is great – and really hits on the foundation and building blocks of a relationship. I really enjoyed reading this post!
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It’s quite simple really when you think about it as th article explains children will grow up and leave the home nowhere does the article state you should neglect your children. A marriage comes first because that’s what helped bring the child in the first place

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For the many modern couples who decide to have sex before marriage , the wedding night no longer marks their special "first time" together. Still, there is a certain expectation that sex on your wedding night will be something incredible. Between the rose petals strewn across the bed of the bridal suite and the day-long anticipation of your romantic night between the sheets, how could it not be?
While it's true that some people say wedding night sex is every bit as blissful as they imagined, others find the experience a bit, well, disappointing. We asked our readers to tell us about their first time as a married couple and what it was really like for them. Scroll down for six real-life stories that run the gamut from absolutely amazing to downright disastrous.
"Well, the joke is on us. I belong to this curious breed called Bengalis (residents of eastern part of India) and we are forbidden from having sex on our wedding night. In fact, we can't even have sex the next night, which is called "Kaal Ratri", which roughly translate to Doomed Night. It's only on the third night that we're allowed to finally share a bed but it's awful sex because the bed is decked out in foul-smelling tuberoses, which don't preserve well in our humid weather." - Samhita
"My husband and I got married last December right before Christmas. We rented a hotel room in a nearby lovely town. We arrived later than we wanted to and both of us were tired. He had a horrible sinus infection and I was pregnant. But somehow it was the best sex we'd ever had." - Cindy
"My husband and I decided to get married on Glacier Point in Yosemite, Calif. in September of 2009. It was a beautiful ceremony with a beautiful view. However, as a native Floridian, I was not ready for the altitude, and neither were our guests. The corset in my dress made breathing a issue to begin with, but when I added the altitude of 8,800 feet, I was gasping for air. After the ceremony we all went down the mountain for the reception dinner. We all found ourselves very parched and couldn't get enough to drink. Since we were all in a festive mood, the wine and champagne tasted even better and went down like water. After we adjourned to the marital bed, my new husband, try as he might, could not 'rise to the occasion.' We tried everything...and I do mean everything. Finally, we were so exhausted that we collapsed and just slept in each other's arms. With all of the 'wedding night issues' we were having, we did forget to turn off the fireplace before we went to bed. The last thing I remember of my wedding night were flames shooting out of the fireplace and the hotel manager pounding on the door. Talk about romantic. (Luck was on our side and we did not burn down the hotel!)" - Andra
"After the rush of the wedding day and hardly seeing each other the whole day it was such a sweet and wonderful way to reconnect and it was great to know that I'm actually allowed -- no, expected -- to do it ;-)" - Jacqueline
"Sex on my wedding night felt like something that had to get done, almost like a chore. I had been with my husband for almost five years at that point and I had had sex with him countless times, in various positions in a myriad of places, cities and countries; sex was nothing new for us. I love my husband and love having sex with him, but the whole day of the wedding was so long that by the time we finally got to bed, all I wanted to do was sleep. We had our ceremony at noon which was proceeded by three hours of picture taking, lots of talking, lots of food and a little too much wine. To be honest, I was so tired I didn't think I could do it, but I managed to do the deed and fell asleep within minutes of being finished." - Meaghan
"We did not have sex on our wedding night. He fell asleep. I cried. We've been married 10 years." - Kina
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