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Interested in learning how to turn your husband into a cuckold?
The process is super fun and exciting because it will be uncharted waters for your relationship.
The process may seem daunting…I mean how do you even begin to cuckold someone?
Well, my strategy is baby steps. It’s not something that usually happens over night.
It takes time to build up – kind of like letting a pot of chili simmer around all day.
So here are 9 fun and easy ideas to begin cuckolding your husband!
A good way to bring up cuckolding with your partner is to talk about your ex boyfriends.
Gauge his reaction. Does he get excited about it?
Does he ask you a lot of questions? Or does he really try to ignore the topic?
In general, if he’s really into cuckolding, he will be super interested in the topic and pecker you with a bunch of questions.
In fact, he may even be embarrassed if you confront him directly about it.
And this is a good topic to bring up because like in any relationship, you should bring up your past history at some point – if you want to create a long-term relationship.
If you saw that your husband was very “receptive” when you talked about your exes, there is one thing you can do to really “take it up a notch.”
What I mean here is by reconnecting with your ex (or exes). And this doesn’t have to lead to anything like sex.
It could be something as innocent as messaging them on Facebook or texting them to get coffee or something.
Gauge your boyfriend/husband’s reaction when you casually mention this to him.
Pretty soon he’ll be begging you to go out with MORE of your exes!
I find that watching porn together is a great way to talk about your inner desires and fantasies .
For example, you can watch some BBC cuckold porn and see if he gets hard.
Or you can take a more aggressive approach and start stroking his dick while you’re watching cuckold porn together.
Another thing to do is to read erotica together. For example, read a sexy passage (out loud) to him about a wife cuckolding her husband for the first time.
Your sultry voice guiding his budding fantasy will surely create a lot of excitement!
I have always said that roleplaying is always a great idea to practice cuckolding.
For example, you could play a situation where you (the woman) is “cheating” on her husband.
1. Your boss asked you to give him a blowjob or you’ll be fired at work
2. You seduce the hot new guy at work
3. You are on vacation and a hot guy starts flirting with you.
Roleplaying together like this not only allows you to “be other people”, but it allows you to explore the cuckold fantasy on a more intimate level.
At the end of your first cuckolding role play session, say something like: “you know what would be hot? If we did something like that one day” and then gauge his reaction.
Flirting with other men is a great way to begin your journey as a hotwife.
Now there are two ways to do this. You can flirt with other men while your partner is not around or you can flirt with them when he is around.
Now you’re probably wondering why would you flirt if he’s not around? Well, there are a few reasons.
Number one, it’s just good for your self esteem . Being desired by a hot guy just makes you feel good.
Second, it will ease your mindset about being with other men who aren’t your partner.
And finally, you can casually mention it to him later – something like “you know my trainer, Jim? He’s always flirting with me. He gave me another free training session today.”
You could also flirt with men IN FRONT of your partner. I find this to be an interesting tease and quite humiliating as well !
Part of the journey of becoming a hotwife is “meeting someone new”
And the best way to do this is create a Tinder profile – or some other app that’s similar.
One thing you can do is eventually swipe profiles together with your partner.
Or better yet, have him eat out your pussy while you’re trying to find someone new to fuck!
When you match with someone, show your husband your naughty text messages with other guys. That will get him super excited and ready to submit as your cuckold!
Take things up a level in your hotwife journey by kissing someone else.
You can take things simple first by just kissing on the checks.
But eventually you’ll want to get where you kiss them on the lips. Maybe it’s a peck on the lips at first, but eventually, it’ll turn into a deep French kiss.
A great way to do this is going to the bars and flirting (which I discuss next!)
There’s nothing sexy like going to the bars to flirt with other men
There are two ways to go about this.
First of all, you can go out with your girlfriends while your boyfriend/husband remains at home.
This is particularly fun because he won’t know what is going on over there so his imagination will take over! It’s really a big mind fuck
Of course, you can also tease him by sending him text messages like: I just grinded up against a guy or someone just kissed me.
Second of all, you can go with your husband so he can see you in action flirting with other guys.
Another thing that you can do to really cuckold your husband is to flirt with his friends.
It can be something innocent like just commenting on how hot they are to really getting hands on with them (like massaging their necks or playing footsie with them).
Another thing you can do is make very crude sexual innuendos. It’s all fun and games, so see where it takes you!
P.S. check out this post for more ways to flirt with your husband/boyfriend’s friends!
Overall, turning your husband into a cuckold isn’t something that happens overnight.
It’s something that takes time because cuckolding requires a great amount of trust between partners.
So take things slow and try out these ideas and you’ll get there before you know it.
What do you think about this list? Is there something you’d add to it? Let me know in the comments!
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These are fantastic ideas. My wife and I have done all of these. None of them were planned, at least not by me, but each and every one of them worked on me. My wife started cheating on me just two years into our marriage and has never stopped. I loved her then and I love her today
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Making your husband a cuckold can be one of the most rewarding and exciting things you have ever done. A successfully cuckolded husband will do whatever you want and be completely submissive to you! He will gladly satisfy all your sexual cravings, take care of all the chores at home, allow you to have sex with whomever and whenever you wish, take any amount of humiliation you desire, and of course, love you unconditionally.
But be warned, cuckolding may not be so easy as you think. The process can be long, complicated, energy-consuming, and by no means sure of success. It’s not just you fucking another man and telling your husband about it or making him watch it. It’s about both of you and your husband and both satisfying your sexual needs. It may take weeks or months before you succeed. In the end though, it will be worth it!
Now, one of the most important things is to have a completely open and honest communication path between the two of you. Communication that includes no judgment but respect towards the other in all their opinions and beliefs. If you don’t have that you can ruin your marriage.
Next important thing is to be completely honest with yourself and evaluate what you really want. Is it just no strings sex with others and your husband approving? Is it sex with others and your husband in a state where he is completely removed from whatever you do? Is it having your husband humiliated or sissified for your entertainment?
Remember that cuckolding is not just the physical experience but the mental game as well (the so-called “mind fuck”) that the cuckolded husband needs most and that all this is done for you and your husband as well.
Here are some important things to consider and use as a guide:
Yes, you can and will learn how to treat your husband in this cuckold lifestyle. You will probably lack confidence in the beginning but this is normal. Make small steps and find your way. Your confidence will grow with time and positive results.
Do not confuse your initial lack of confidence with a lack of commitment. Be committed and consistent. Your age is not so important. Weight is not so important. Beauty is not important either. These things are simply not relevant. Sexual attraction and especially cuckolding is 90% mental, and only 10% physical.
You will be surprised how unimportant conventional standards of beauty are when you get into this lifestyle. Being a sex goddess doesn’t mean you must be a beauty from a magazine. It’s all about how you act and feel, not how you look.
Attitude is the key! Erotic power is your weapon to ignite passion in your husband and in your marriage in general. Your erotic power is the strength and force that you can exert to arouse sexual desire. Erotic power is your tool to exercise control over your husband through his sexual desire and needs and to achieve your personal goals.
Your erotic power will become the focal point of your renewed marital relationship. But this is not a substitute for love. It is and must be another form of your love. This must become for both of you a new and powerful expression of your love for one another.
Erotic power will shape and transform your marriage. Erotic power is an expression of love. You express your love for your husband through your erotic power. And you rediscover your love for him as he honours you and submits to your loving authority. You can indulge and broaden your love of him by setting a higher standard and encourage his efforts to meet it.
If you want to properly train and control your husband you must not need his penis. You must be sexually independent. Masturbate often. Buy vibrators, dildos, lotions, clothing, and pornography. Have fun and explore! You may visit some online or local sex shop and seek for ideas. You may also want to think about buying toys that, after using on yourself, you can also use on your husband once he’s properly trained. The key is whenever you feel you need sex, train yourself to find satisfaction from a source other than your husband.
Many men fantasized about being sexually dominated by a woman. Erotic power – the combination of sex and authority – directly taps into this natural submissive sexual response.
Once you learn to tap into that response in the bedroom, you can tap into it any time of the day. He will become putty in your hands. But you must work on both his brain and penis. The “teasing” and the “not knowing” what is next plays into how men’s brains are wired.
His focus needs to be directed to you, and ONLY you. Be very verbal and reinforce his behaviour. Think of it like this, the dog needs to be walked, the cat needs to be feed, and your husband needs to be taught EACH day.
You must tell him what you want him to do, each day. He must understand that the best gratification comes from you and the more he pleases and obeys you, the better or more frequent that gratification will be. But you have to start delicately.
Many of the sites on the Internet recommend chastity and NOT allowing your husband to masturbate. All men masturbate! Now you have a choice – you can pretend that it is not true, or you can use it to take control of him.
They say that boys under 20 could masturbate up to 4 times each day, 20-30 up to 3 times each day, even men over 50 can average once a day! So what’s important is that you become the centre of his masturbation.
Now, this has most likely been his dirty little secret since he was 12 so you need to “change” the habits.
So first get him naked then talk to him. Let him know that you want to take control of all his orgasms and get an agreement that he will let you be in charge of his penis.
Then force him to masturbate, a lot, more often than he has been doing. You can try the following – tell him to masturbate 2-4 times a day the first few weeks. The idea is to drain his balls so much that he gets to the point where he just can’t cum anymore.
Then for the next few weeks 1-3 times a day, then down to 5-6 times per week. This is important – it’s fine for him to masturbate with your knowledge each day if that is what it takes to have him focus on you.
Later make sure to tell him on occasion NOT to masturbate. You want to make his mind race with when your next instruction will come. Trust me – your husband will be much more willing to please you knowing that his reward is getting to masturbate. Taking this away will make him work hard to get it right back, but, take it away too long and he will build resentment and just do it anyway! So be smart, watch his reactions and push him to your desired direction.
This sexual energy can then be used to remodel his personality. A man’s sexual energy, or libido, can also be stimulated through sexual teasing. You can give him a peek up your skirt. You can have him help you change clothes. Or you can go about the house from time to time dressed in fancy underwear or a skimpy nightie. The more you keep him aroused the easier it will be for you to control him.
Your submissive husband can take on more of the domestic housework if you wish. This is a Win/Win for sure, the trick is you must play with his mind, tap into his submissive side when you want him to be domestic.
If you don’t take the time to tease and direct him he will just feel that you are taking advantage of him and not respond.
Start by getting him naked or in a domestic “outfit” and then give him simple directions like ”Honey I will be very happy if you can get a bath ready for me and then do the laundry!” or “Babe could you please pour me a glass of wine and vacuum the bedroom?”. USE YOUR Praise words, “you did a great job”, “I’m so happy”, “Thank you for getting my car washed”. The more praise he gets, the more he will do.
When, for example, your husband does the dishes, you should give him some attention. I recommend whispering “thank you” or “good job” in his ear as you rub your hand roughly across his crotch. Such an arousing gesture, consistently given, reinforces the association between the promise kept and sex and therefore reinforces the keeping of promises.
Don’t take him for granted. Tell him when he is done with the filth in the kitchen you have some filth between your legs that will need cleaning and watch how fast he gets to work.
This is the first “upside” you will discover. It is well known that men love to do domestic chores for a dominant Female. Your submissive husband will enjoy the attention and direction that you will be giving him.
You will make it clear on how you expect him to serve you by doing domestic chores around the house. You may discover that what helps your husband with his domestic chores is how you dress him for his tasks.
Find out what is going on in his head. He may be naked, with an apron or dressed up as a sissy maid when he is doing the house cleaning. If your husband likes to dress up this is a good place to do it. Get him an apron, maids outfit or a full girls outfit (many options online), then all you have to do is lay it out for him and when he is dressed treat him like your personal maid.
Make it part of your routine to have your husband attend to your hygiene and relaxation.
The submissive man craves serving his woman. When he bathes you, shaves your legs, shaves your sex (if you want it shaved), or gives you a massage or a shower it plays into how he is wired. Don’t make this about sex (unless of course, you want sex). During this time it’s about him taking care of you and making you feel nice.
Oral sex, by which I mean cunnilingus, is an important element of a wife-led marriage for a couple of reasons.
First, you want him to focus on your sexual satisfaction, even to the point of giving you orgasms more frequently than you allow him. Oral sex obviously satisfies that, or at least it will once he gets good at it.
But as importantly, oral sex has connotations of social hierarchy. Generally speaking, when one person is giving oral sex to another, the one receiving it is perceived to be in a position of power over the one giving it.
By demanding and receiving oral sex from your husband you are asserting your dominance over him. In giving oral sex, he is submitting himself to you. Needless to say, you should never give your husband oral sex, only your lovers if you decided to have them.
However, while many men today are comfortable performing oral sex on their wives most are not and some are absolutely horrified at the thought. If your husband is inexperienced with giving oral sex it is likely that he will initially resist the idea both because of the social connotations and because he will imagine it to be dirty. But by removing his objection to the scent and taste you can focus on overcoming his objection to the power dynamic.
This can be an important opportunity for you to gain confidence in your ability to direct sex to your own satisfaction as well as to advance his trust in you to initiate beneficial changes in your marriage.
The very things that may initially repel him will eventually become a powerful addiction for him. In time he will crave your scent and taste and will seek your permission to satisfy you orally.
The greater his initial objection about giving oral sex, the greater will be the emotional impact when he learns to enjoy it. If you teach your husband to give you oral sex then you can enjoy quickies at any time. You can do this not just in bed before you go to sleep, but also in the morning before you dress for work or in the evening when you come home to him. Use your imagination.
A sexual fetish is an object or an act that a man finds to be sexually stimulating. Because the man is stimulated by the object or act, the object/act has power over him. So the woman who controls the fetish has all the power over her man.
The sense of your scent will work to control your submissive husband. I hope you have been enjoying oral sex from your husband as he has become trained to the scent of your vagina. This smell has become a “trigger” for him. Your scent becomes his world.
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