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Husband Butt Plug
Ok, so I was putting his clothes away and I just found a bag in my husbands sock draw. It wa the same as one of my sex you bags they we keep in our toy draw that we use on me so I was kinda thinking what's that doing in there. But when I looked in it, that's not my toy. There was also a bottle of lube in there. Now I'm not against sex toys, we use them often together but this is just a bit of a surprise. Has anyone else found something like this for your husband? He likes ansl on me, but hasn't mentioned anything about him. Do I ask him about it or just put it back?
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Thanks for the replies, well I guess we will be having fun this sat with it being the 14th. I think I'm just going to put my nurse outfit on get some rubber gloves and go for it. He has obviously using it himself, the bottle of lube was half full. Do I just come out and say I found your toy baby? Or ask if I can play with his butt? Or just reach over during the night and pull it out and say, what can we do with this? I'm a bit less shocked than I was a day or 2 ago. Will be memorable
Ok, so we got the little one away. A night alone every few months is just devine. Well sometimes we get away to a hotel but when hubby asked I just said let's stay home he didn't complain. Well he asked what I wanted to do for dinner and I just said I'm not interested in dinner lets just go to bed. Again no complaints. Well I come out in my nurse outfit, he knows this is a good sign. I just tell him to get on the bed & relax, he was until I reached in to his sock draw and garbed his toy, suprize
Well I am glad I got the toy out in the open. Turns out he loves me using a toy on him. It was fun, to my surprise to play with him like that. It turns him on a lot and I like turning him on so what's not to like rite.
Ok, so he loves me blowing him with a vibrating plug in, he cums so much more too most times. Well now he wants me to do him with a strapon. I never knew a girl could do that to a guy. Anyone ever done that? Did you both like it?
I just found my husbands butt plug?
i spent 5 years in relationships blocking all advances on my ass and nipples cause i thought it made me feel gay... then i found something while looking up p*rn ... prostate massage... look it up and ull learn a lot... guys might not want to bring it up but the girly im with caught my ass once and after 5 year someone FINALLY managed to make me cum with a handjob... looking forward to a bj next lmao... the truth is most men and women even if very comfortable with their sexuality have something really kinky they dont want to share b ut they really want... and they will turn it down... if he tells you no then keep going unless he pushes u away... playfully try it and see if he REALLY tries to stop you or just says no LOL... think up a safe word you would never say during sex and tell it to him... if he says it then you know to stop no matter what... still people are stupid and refuse when they want to say go for it baby... make him a happy man!
I didn't vote but if you have a good relationship and the sex is good, just move it and see how long it takes for him to ask about it. Another option is to pull it out and slip it in when you rim him.
Be very careful though if you are going to surprise him! With butt plugs you have to kind of ease yourself into them and get yourself used to them. It's possible he has been trying to get used to using it before telling you about it or something. So maybe he isn't ready to put it in the whole way yet!
He's your husband... you should be able to ask him anything. If you feel awkward, just have the conversation steer towards sex toys and things he is open to trying. It's a fairly common curiosity. If you don't come across as freaked out about it, he probably won't be either.
I think you should ask him. He may see how much fun you have with toys and wants to experiment himself, but is afraid of what you might think or say. Also, being a butt plug, he may be afraid that you'll consider him gay or bi...
Husband is STARRING in "straight" gay porn... is he gay? Bi? .. what do I do?
Am I a jerk for this? Did I use her or was I just being cautious?
personally I wouldn't say anything, but maybe sometime soon in bed ask him if there is anything new he would like to try in the bedroom. If your open to it you could even suggest the idea of some light anal play with him and see how he responds to it. I think he will feel a lot less embarrassed if you approach the situation this way.
depends if you are open minded to experiment with your husband having anal sex then ask him about it if you are just wierded/grossed out by it then don't ask put it back and let him do his own thing.
Bring it up, but don't say you found his. Next time you are going down on him, slip a finger in his ass. After that, ask him if he would like to try more in that direction, like a butt plug, or maybe pegging him. He might be too embarrassed to bring it up himself (thus the hidden toys).
Hell yeah go for the strapon, lots of people enjoy it. There are even doubles that will give you pleasure at the same time. Get a good harness/dildo and make his fantasies come true. Check out pegging paradise for info as well, good stuff.
Dont bring it up... even though you weren't snooping its still something he kept private for a reason, if he wants to try it with you, he will let u know
I feel like you're a troll.. But if not.. Ask him... Not asking him would over time manifest feelings of mistrust. Just calmly ask him. It's most likely nothing.
Next time you're having sex, slip a finger in there when he's not expecting it. His reaction could be interesting
Bahahahaha, lol that is hilarious!!! Definitely ask him!
Ask him. Totally. It wasn't hidden too well, maybe he meant for you to find it? Maybe he'll even like to explore that area with you?
You shouldn't ask him I think he's hiding it for a reason. I believe he is embrassed
Put some hot sauce on it and wait for the fun to start
I have one , pretty small, but I love it in my ass, feels good
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Is it that you would never do that or don't know what it is?
rimjob is to like the area around the asshole... sometimes though i HIGHLY recommend against it unless he's douched first is pushing the tongue inside... though outer rimming isn't so bad and if its kept very clean isn't a bad thing... but like all sex involving the ass... it can be dangerous if proper hygiene isn't kept... b4 doing anything like that make him use the pot and use wipes on him afterwards
If he's clean back there, lick away. It's amazing. You might want to look up prostate massage as well. I think Saturday I'd just tell him he has to follow nurse's orders: roll over, spread 'em, Surprise!!!
I'm going to ask him this weekend when we get some alone time. I just don't want him to feel bad about it. I guess if I'm calm he will be ok. It's not like we haven't had toys in the bed before. Just be new fit them to be used on him.
Yeh, I guess guys are afrade of being called gay. It's ok I know he isn't. Going to be an interesting convocation I think. I might need a drink.
Hmm , yeah. I don't envy you that discussion. Good luck and let me know how it goes...
I guess I'm open to the idea of doing stuff to him, just never thought he would be in to it.
Its just a bit of a surprise after 10 years together. Not something I ever expected. I will ask him, but just not sure when or how.
Yeah, it's unexpected, but don't shy away from asking. Don't be accusatory. Ask him when you're both relaxed and have time to talk it out. Just be like "hey I ran across these while doing laundry?"
Well it was hidden kinda well, I think I'm going to ask him, just how or when to bring it up.
Just ask him in bed one night? OR.. During foreplay... just try sliding a finger over his uhh... you know. Anus. See what he does or says?
"in his uhh... you know. Anus." ahahahaha
katie morgan is a p*rn star... in a show she does called katie morgan does manhattan she mentioned laying out rules for 3somes like... can i stick my dick in your butt hole LMAO
Prostate massage, yes, rimming, no deal. I can't see me doing that
I don't think I'm going to go with your idea, but thanks for the input
Well I like anal too sometimes, just never occurred to me he hight like it.
How would u bring it up? In bed? Over breakfast?
Just generally lol how was work? Found your butt-plug







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How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous!
Before my (F) husband (M) and I were married several years ago, I got him a little butt plug as a gift, not knowing how’d he react, as we had never explored his butt together. When we went to use it, he said he’d rather use one of his toys and pulled a big ol’ bag-o-dongs from the closet. As it turns out, he really loves receiving anal!
I’ll try anything once, or in this case 50 times. We’ve tried butt plugs, dildos, and pegging with a harness and all. We don’t do it very frequently and only when he asks. Since he loves it, I’ve been trying to keep an open mind and learn to like it, but it finally dawned on me that I’m just not into it. I can’t seem to get over the ick factor of butts (poop comes out of there!), even with gloves or in the shower. We could be in the middle of a great sex romp, but the second he wants me to go in the back door … ugh. Butt plugs are ok, but once there’s in and out action, I just can’t. Instead of being turned on, I’m turned completely off. Whatever sexiness I was experiencing is now gone, and all I’m left with is the desire to get him off and get it over with. I’m sure he notices my hesitation, and I feel like a jerk for saying no. I should have broached this with him years ago, but now my fake smile (and fake dick) have been on so long it’s weird to bring up. Is there an expectation that sex should be mutually pleasurable, or at least not a complete turn-off? Should I draw the line at the perineum? Or should I view it as a gift to him and keep on strappin’ it on?
It’s very polite of you to have misgivings about reneging on something you had agreed was in your mutual sexual toolbox, but it’s really not at all weird to do so. You’re allowed to take your time figuring out how you feel (even if it’s over the course of years), and you’re allowed to change your mind. That’s just personal evolution. How much we should give of ourselves to our loved ones can be an ongoing negotiation, and it’s true that a lot of people come out on the side of grinning and bearing their way through certain acts for the sake of their partner’s pleasure. Sometimes this generosity is taken as mutual interest, but as you point out, sometimes the contrivance is palpable. Personally, reluctance or apathy on the part of my partner can sap even my favorite activities of their allure—the fun is not merely in the act, but the interplay of it.
So while not a unilateral ethos, it’s completely reasonable to expect mutually pleasurable sex and have that determine your boundaries. He might not like how that changes things, but you already don’t like the current situation, so it’s fair to at least let your comfort level dictate for a while. He was obviously already exploring anal play without you when you suggested it, so it’s not like you’re depriving him entirely by tapping out. He’s a big boy and can handle his own prostate.
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I have had an on again, off again fling with an older man (in his 50s, I’m a woman in my 20s) for about a year and a half. Right now, we are at the place of hooking up once every few months. He likes to be rough, and for the past few times, it’s especially been a problem. He likes to have anal sex, and he’s the only person I’ve done it with. He doesn’t want to use lube, and so every time, I’m left sore and sometimes bleeding for a few days afterward. One of the last times, it hurt a lot, and I said no, but he didn’t stop for a few seconds, until I started crying. The next time, he was very apologetic when I told him he hurt me.
But a couple of nights ago, he told me he still wants to have anal sex because that’s pretty much what he thinks about when he thinks about me. I kept saying no and resisting all night. But it got to the point where giving him a blow job really messed with my gag reflex, and he told me anal sex would make him come faster. I agreed, but it was again painful at first, so I said no, and he again didn’t pull out immediately, saying, “Just a second more.” He pulled out, and then I said OK to go ahead with anal again because I figured he won’t be done until he comes, and he finally came. The whole thing left me feeling frustrated and angry at myself that I didn’t enforce respect for my body. I kept telling him he needed to respect me, and I don’t think he took it that seriously because he said I had always enjoyed anal in the past (I didn’t). He also said he likes the feeling of me being helpless under him, which I told him feels creepy. He’s also told me on multiple occasions that I’m fat and I don’t try hard enough because I don’t shave my body hair.
I hate that I keep letting him come over. I guess I just need validation that this might be an abusive situation with sexual assault, and that I absolutely should not give him another chance. I wish I could handle anal. I wish I could be cool about the rest of it. But I can’t.
Here’s your requested validation: This is an abusive situation with sexual assault, and you absolutely should not give him another chance. The very suspicion that you are being abused would be enough to demand action, even when you are in a scenario that doesn’t necessarily constitute textbook abuse. When your gut is telling you something is damaging you, you need to get out. In your particular case, though, this guy isn’t just a textbook, he’s an encyclopedia. He’s not listening to you when you say no or when you tell him it hurts. He has disregarded your actual feelings about anal in favor of a narrative that serves to allow him to get what he wants. His contrition is conditional and insincere, for replication of an offense rescinds apology.
Also, he denigrates your appearance. What are you even getting out of this? Your letter reads like a functional exercise in power disparity, right down to the considerable age gap. I know it’s a hard time to be having casual sex, given the varying personal quarantine restrictions and many people’s general inaccessibility, but I promise you can do better than this. Even being alone is better than bleeding. Don’t give this guy another second of your precious time.
I am a 48-year-old man in a committed relationship with another man for almost 20 years. Like many long-term couples we had amazing sex at first, then opened up about 10 years ago. Our sex with each other now mostly consists of very occasional nonpenetrative play or threesomes with another bottom. Our country has weathered COVID pretty well, so we are still—cautiously—slightly active. We have navigated being open pretty well with just a few moments of jealousy (on his part) and unspoken, pretty fluid guidelines. For example, he used to not want me to bottom, but became more relaxed about that as long as he doesn’t have to watch. However, he absolutely insists on condoms for anal sex. I have broken that rule in the past with regular friends I felt I could trust, but recognized the risk. I have always been religious about testing through a government program and recently decided to go on PrEP with their assistance.
Since then, I have been doing bareback more often, always with other regularly tested, on-PrEP men. I have brought up the benefits of PrEP with him with regards to controlling the pandemic, but he says it is scary because of the side effects and still fears sex without condoms. That is his choice, but hiding my PrEP use and activity from him feels wrong. Because we don’t have penetrative sex, I feel I am not putting him at risk and I also don’t necessarily agree with his definition of safe sex, which includes oral with strangers. I’d like to be honest with him and also maybe share some of the freedom from fear I have felt from my decision. I know I just have to bite the bullet and have the conversation, but any ideas how couples can manage this new wrinkle that PrEP has created? Are different ideas of sexual safety a deal breaker in open relationships?
The wrinkle here has less to do with PrEP than with your deviance from the parameters of your open arrangement. The time to voice your disagreement with your partner’s too-narrow-for-you definition of safe sex is before you go against his wishes, not after. I understand that sometimes in the heat of the moment, people end up transgressing beyond their rules, but what you’ve described is an intentional pattern of violating your partner’s wishes, and I’m not down with that.
It’s not like I don’t see your rationale. If we take PrEP out of the equation, sure, it does make a certain sense to be more amenable to condomless oral sex than anal (HIV is transmitted far more frequently via the latter), but these distinctions become a bit more arbitrary-seeming when other STIs are the only ones of concern. Also, not taking PrEP because of its mil
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