Husband Anal Sex
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Husband Anal Sex
Medically Reviewed by Isabel Lowell, MD on October 20, 2021
Anal sex is the term used for any sexual activity that involves the anus. It doesn’t always include anal intercourse.
The anus is full of nerve endings, making it very sensitive, and many people find anal sex pleasurable. An estimated 90% of men who have sex with men and as many as 5% to 10% of sexually active women have anal intercourse.
As with many forms of sex, it has risks, but by planning and communicating with your partner you can reduce a lot of these risks and enjoy the intimacy.
There are other things to be aware of as well:
Use a condom to protect against the spread of infections and diseases.
Some problems need a doctor’s treatment. Talk to your health care provider if you have:
Talk to your doctor about your symptoms. They may suggest:
Treatment for problems from anal sex will depend on your symptoms and diagnosis. For pain, fissures, and hemorrhoids, your doctor may suggest:
To treat an STD, you may need antibiotics or antiviral medication, depending on your infection.
News release, International Microbicides Conference.
University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign McKinley Health Center: "Anal Sex: Questions and Answers."
News release, New York City Department of Health and Mental Hygiene.
University of California, Santa Barbara, SexInfo Online: "What Are the Dangers of Anal Sex?"
Columbia University's Health Q & A Internet Service, Go Ask Alice: "Pain from anal sex, and how to prevent it."
Cedars-Sinai: “Anal Fissure,” “Anal Fistula.”
Mayo Clinic: “Is colon cleansing a good way to eliminate toxins from your body?” “Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).”
CDC: “Nail Hygiene,” “Dental Dam Use,” “Anal Sex and HIV Risk,” “Genital HPV Infection -- Fact Sheet.”
Center for Community Health: “Tips for Anal Health -- Ways to Take Care of Your Bottom.”
American Journal of Gastroenterology : “Anal Intercourse and Fecal Incontinence: Evidence from the 2009-2010 National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey.”
Harvard Medical School: “Digital Rectal Exam.”
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After 13 years of marriage, this woman is tired of letting her husband get his way in the bedroom. What should she do?
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Dear Abiola, Is booty sex a reason to leave a marriage? My husband has had an addiction to anal sex my entire 13-year marriage, along with regular sex as well. I only have a problem with the anal part. It hurts and makes me feel bad afterwards. He knows I don’t like it or desire it. After counseling and a separation of 3 months, he decided that now he wants to sit his penis in my crack of my anal area without going inside. To me that’s still too much. He doesn’t understand that I DO NOT want to be touched BACK THERE at ALL! I’m at the point of just wanting to end my marriage because I have endured so much pain from this addiction of his. Please help me! I’m desperate. Signed, Tired of the hurt to my body Dear Sacred Bombshell, You sign your letter “tired of the hurt to my body” but glaring between your every word is the hurt to your heart. Let me start off by saying that anything that consenting adults agree to do within the sanctity of their own relationship is up to them. Healthy sex is safe, sane, and consensual. I define safe sex as sexual interaction that is mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually safe. Your sexual relationship with your husband is not safe by any of those parameters. The issue seems to be “booty sex” on the surface but that’s only the symptom. The base issue is the blatant disregard for your feelings in your relationship. You deserve a basic level of compassion, empathy and understanding from your life partner. Again, you and only you have the final say in what works best for your body. Your husband, in your words, has a sexual addiction. Although sexual addiction is often brushed off or laughed at in our society as possibly “not a real thing,” sex addiction is addiction. An addiction is a mental health challenge. Given that, you cannot have sex that is safe and sane with an addict who is in the throes of his addiction. Of course you want to please your man, but you have a right to choose what you are into and what you’re not into. There is no sexual act that is mandatory to your relationship. It is deeply troubling that your husband would persist down this pathway despite your insistence and after therapy and separation. Again, when you are dealing with an addict in the active throes of his or her addiction, you are not dealing with a rational mind. Please find support at the Partners of Sex Addicts Resource Center at www.posarc.com . Other support groups include the 12-step Co-Dependents of Sex Addicts and S-Anon is a “program of recovery for those who have been affected by someone else’s sexual behavior.” You deserve to feel emotionally safe in your marriage. You have a right to feel loved, honored, and cherished. If your husband is unwilling or unable to be who you need him to be, then you have to ask yourself the difficult question of whether the relationship you are trying to save even still exists.
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So talking about fantasies my husband also said he would love to do the "ann thing" so what are your thoughts? I have always told him hells no!! How is it even possible? it just sounds like a lot of pain to me LOL! Have any of you tried this? and how in the world you did it? Do you take laxatives a few days in advance? Please don't laugh but I have no idea how in the world this feels or how to? LOL!!
Ok, embarrassment shroud going on... Yes, I have done it. A few times. and I actually enjoy it. It hurts a little, at first, but if done properly it does not hurt badly. No, you do not need laxatives. I always use a condom for it, and lots and lots of lube. And ease up to full penetration. You have to communicate to your partner though, on when to stop, etc. Okay, blushing profusely now.
Butt sex is a hell no for me. I tried when I was 17. Hurt so much I screamed. NEVER AGAIN! NEVER EVER! lol
I have no idea why it's such a turn on for guys! My SO is the same, he's always trying his luck, 'oops, wrong hole'! Lol it is just not appealing to me in the slightest. Years and years ago when we first started dating we were on holiday and I was very drunk and thought ok let's try it, oh man it was just not nice and put it this way, he didn't get very far!! ;0)
Tried it and HATED it...he knows not to try again. =)
I've never tried & have no desire to. I've heard horror stories....so I'm scared! DH wants to, but no way!!!!
No way, exit only. My boyfriend would like to, but he knows it is off limits.
I've tried it. I hated it. Every few years I let him try it again in case my feelings on it change, but nope. It sucks every time.
I think if a guy want to pump in the butt then I would throw a red flag up I wish my dude would ask me that thats a hell to tha no I dnr see how the gay men do it thats nasty
That's so gross you're gross gross gross Ewwwww
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