Huge Clit Stories

Huge Clit Stories

Is sexual arousal what’s making my lady parts swell so big?

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February 25th, 2011 May 14th, 2021
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I am 50 and a lesbian. I have had a pretty active sex life for the last 30 years, including a couple of long-term relationships. For the last three years, I’ve been with a woman I love very much. We have amazing sexual chemistry—by far the best I have experienced.
For the last two years, I have noticed that my clitoris is getting bigger. Not trans-man-takes-testosterone big, but substantially bigger than it has ever been. I thought it was due to a big increase in sexual excitement, but it soon became clear that the enlargement was a permanent thing. It gets much more erect than it used to and often throbs or twitches after I come.
No one’s complaining. I am enjoying the heightened sexual arousal, and my girlfriend (who is very GGG) is thrilled. But why/how is this happening? Could it get even bigger? And why now? I hit menopause seven years ago, so it’s not some weird hormone surge. Could our sexual connection have caused this all by itself? I don’t really want to ask my gynecologist, though I did notice her checking out my equipment with wide eyes at my last checkup . —Stiffie Needs A Zipcode
“I always like to hear from people who are satisfied with their sex lives and relationships,” says author, sex researcher, vulva-puppeteer, and archrival sex-advice columnist Debby Herbenick, and I have to agree. Most of our mail comes from people who are unhappy with their sex lives and/or dissatisfied with their relationships. It’s always nice to hear from folks who are having fun.
What’s not so nice is that we sometimes have to tell happy-and-satisfied folks that something may be seriously wrong.
“I would strongly encourage her to ask her gynecologist about her enlarged clitoris,” says Herbenick. “She should be very clear about the fact that it has increased in size. She should let her know when she first noticed this and roughly how much she thinks it’s increased in size.”
If your gynecologist isn’t comfortable talking with you about your clit—if she just stands there gaping at it—get a new gynecologist. Because your megaclit could be a symptom of something very, very serious.
“You need your doctor to examine your clit and rule out various medical conditions that could cause hormonal problems,” says Herbenick. “Sometimes these are benign health conditions. Unfortunately, sometimes they include vulvar cancers, ovarian cancers, and adrenal cancers that, for example, may present with symptoms including an enlarged clitoris.”
Some women believe their clitorises “grew” after menopause, but that’s not usually the case. When estrogen levels drop during menopause, other parts of the vulva—such as the labia—can become flatter or less prominent, which can in turn make the clitoris appear bigger. “However, she’s been in menopause for a long time,” says Herbenick, “and it sounds like the clitoral change happened well into menopause.” And amazing sex does not supersize clits: “High levels of arousal usually result in only a temporary swelling of the clitoris,” Herbenick says.
Make another appointment to see your doctor, SNAZ, “and keep asking questions until she’s sure that medical conditions, such as cancers, have been ruled out,” Herbenick urges.
And, again, if your gynecologist doesn’t want to discuss it or was too stupid to spot what could be a symptom of common lady-parts cancers (!), time to get a new gynecologist. —Dan
My husband is beautiful, awesome, etc. Unfortunately, his dick is small. It wasn’t so bad our first few years together; he knows how to work what he’s got. But then I had a baby, and I tore. A few days later, my stitches tore. My six-week checkup turned out to be a poke in the stomach to confirm that my uterus was back in place, and when I asked why I couldn’t get restitched, the doctor told me, “Vaginas are very forgiving.” But a year later, Kegels aren’t helping and both of us are having trouble getting off.
He enjoys anal sex, but it’s not really fulfilling for me. I want to get a vaginoplasty to fit him, but I’ll have to wait till we’ve saved up enough money to pay for it. Please, Dan, tell me how to have hotter sex with a small dick and a shredded kitty. —Unforgiving
“Many women who have had multiple or traumatic births—and it sounds like she had a good deal of tearing—have some degree of prolapse,” says Herbenick. (A uterine prolapse, says the Wiki, “occurs when the female pelvic organs fall from their normal position, into or through the vagina.”)
“If she did have prolapse,” says Herbenick, “she may be a candidate for anterior or posterior vaginal wall repair, which is quite similar to vaginal ‘rejuvenation’ surgeries, and then insurance may cover the surgery.
“Some people will wildly disagree with me and say that women shouldn’t have surgery ‘to please their man,’ but I don’t see that here,” Herbenick adds. “I see two people who are married and want better sex, and she may have experienced some physical changes that have affected that. And there are ways to fix it.”
Herbenick is the associate director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University and the author of Because It Feels Good: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Pleasure and Satisfaction , a book that I strongly recommend even though she once attacked me with a vulva puppet in a room full of people. —Dan
I live in Ann Arbor, Mich. Grange, a local restaurant, has a cocktail called “GGGinger.” Is it possible for a cocktail to be GGG? And how does it feel to have inspired one? —Curious Cocktail Connection
I’m saddened to report the GGGinger’s Gs refer to three of the gin-based cocktail’s ingredients—ginger beer, candied ginger, and ginger syrup—and not to the Savage Love meme “good, giving, and game.” Still, Grange co-owner Brandon Johns is confident that his GGGingers have inspired GGG behavior all over Ann Arbor.
“It’s been our most popular drink since we opened,” says Johns, “so it must be doing something right.”
And in other, more successful Savage Love memes…Former U.S. senator and current presidential candidolt Rick Santorum “opened up” to Roll Call last week about his “longtime Google problem,” aka “the frothy mixture of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes the by-product of anal sex” and always the No. 1 search result when you Google the former senator’s last name.
“It’s one guy,” Santorum told Roll Call . “You know who it is… It’s unfortunate that we have someone who obviously has some issues.”
I do have issues—I have lots of issues—but I take particular issue with politicians who compare loving, stable same-sex relationships to “man on dog” sex, as Santorum has done, or who would ban same-sex marriage and adoptions by same-sex couples, as Santorum has promised to do if he gets elected president. But the lowercase-“s” santorum campaign wasn’t “one guy.” A lot of people were involved—from the Savage Love reader who first suggested that we redefine your name to all the folks who’ve written about it over the years—just like a lot of people were involved in turning Rick Santorum out of office in 2006, an election he lost by an 18-point santorumslide. —Dan Savage
Send your Savage Love questions to mail@savagelove.net.
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My 11 year old daughter has a big clitoris that comes out from the labia majora even when she stands with her legs close together. She has started developing her secondary sexual characteristics like budding nipples and axillary hair. I'm just worried about what I've mentioned in the beginning and would like to know how to go about it. She.

Why I just let a total stranger stroke my clitoris for 15 minutes
and how i’m committed to sexual and spiritual self-sufficiency
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I’m no stranger myself to the highs and lows of dealing with managing my sexuality as a single woman.
When I say “dealing with” I mean spending normally 4–9 months being sexually frustrated and then a few weeks at a time plotting and drinking my way into bed with someone hot and vaguely entertaining in a desperate ploy to release my pent up sexual energy.
I then have sex with them often without using a condom to “bring us closer”, because somehow, in my drunken state, my coil and having been on a couple of dates feel like sufficient protection and I operate in the misbelief that skin on skin contact will be the catalyst for some sort of nuclear sexual explosion, and then promptly wake up blaming them for not being responsible for MY sexual health before reprioritizing my time to ensure that they don’t feature highly enough on the to do list to have an ongoing role in my life.
I’m basically an undateable, frustrated, sexual predator.
I can use all the tricks in the book to get my potential target into the position I want him in (reverse cowgirl?) but when I get there, despite my best efforts the emotional connection is usually as flaccid as an empty condom and I lay there like a wet fish, not really present to the experience around me but instead all up in my head trying to think my way to an orgasm by closing my eyes and imagining a more erotic scene or that he is someone i previously loved or desperately holding my breathe whilst trying not to look like a tomato.
I generally find myself getting anxious or irritated that I can’t come or he is lasting too long or not long enough or can’t keep it up or occasionally i suddenly stopped finding him attractive at all.
It’s not exactly the dream I’ve built it up to be in my head.
I mean it’s fine, really, it normally does the job, but who wants “fine” sex when you can have EXTRAORDINARY LIFE-CHANGING sex?
I was sat in the sexual health clinic the other day getting another “between partners” check up to ensure the last victim hadn’t unexpectedly given me the romantic gift of chlamydia when I decided that enough was enough! What was I doing? Who is this reckless and dissociated girl? I have so much love and moral strength in me why am I letting myself and these poor men down when it comes to sex?
I love sex, I really do….and when I can be present and experience that emotional/physical/spiritual connection, it takes me to a higher level of consciousness. In truth i know that’s what i’ve been missing and it saddens me that it’s not in my life. However, that’s not the sex I’m having and until it is I need to somehow find a way to be sexually and spiritually self-sufficient.
This whole area of understanding and managing our own sexuality can be a quagmire of personal and socially constructed beliefs. It’s riddled with shame and judgement from self and others.
Having been exploring my own sexuality I’ve realized that, as with the rest of my life, my sexual self is a reflection of my overabundance of the masculine energy….that side of me that is hot, that wants immediate gratification, that is dominant and fast. I don’t take well to the man who doesn’t fill the needs of my Yang self. Good luck to he who tries to be the one who decides when our first kiss will happen, who tries a display of strength without anticipating a fight back or who doesn’t perform for me again in the morning!
Two weeks into my vaginal training and I’m getting really excited about working with my sexual energy and my reproductive organs to reconnect with the feminine in me . I’ve learned so much already! … Like how the vagina has three sections, where the g-spot is, all about vaginal reflexology and how the inside of me maps to health in my other organs. I’ve learned how the release of pent up emotional trauma and energy trapped inside me can “give birth” to a whole new freer, more joyful version of myself capable of multiple vaginal orgasms (on the bucket list), female ejaculation and unlimited creative and magnetic potential. It’s really exciting stuff!
I’m also loving my homework! Aside from meditations and Tibetan Yoga moves and deep soul searching questions about how well I am in communication with my vagina (we have the equivalent of a very long distance relationship), I have now made a spiritual connection with my new jade egg and have to basically shag it for 15 minutes everyday and masturbate loads in order to regenerate new neural pathways from this weak and semi-dead part of my anatomy.
And I’ve always been one to do my homework:-)
If I ignore the fact that the estate agent arrived 20 mins early yesterday and I had to answer the door with a VERY flushed face, notably damp knickers, frustration from being few mins off climax and with a resounding terror that my sex toys were left out on the side in my bedroom, which he was about to inspect, it’s all been going very well.
So how has this led me to allowing a stranger to stroke my clitoris for 15 minutes?
Well…the world being what it is a strange chain of events initiated from the break up with a previous conquest led me unexpectedly to stumble across the practice of “Orgasmic Meditation”.
This is in fact a consciousness practice, not a sexuality practice, which awakens the feminine in both men and women, releasing our minds from the trappings of thought in order to unleash our desires, fears and powers out into the world where we can deal with them or channel them to transform our lives!
Sounds good right? And totally aligned to my new commitment to re-balancing my own energy and strengthening feminine energy on this planet in order to help it heal.
The only snag is that it requires the women to learn to surrender and receive in order to strengthen the feminine power within her which, in this scenario, means she takes off pants, lies in a “nest” of blankets and pillows and surrenders to her practice partner and to the experience fully for 15 minutes as he strokes her clitoris in a rhythmic, gentle fashion.
The man is fully clothed. The act is not reciprocated. It is clinical and safe.
Over hundreds of “OM’s” each partner eventually learns to let go, to come out of their heads and into the sensation in their body until eventually the connection becomes on such a level that the energetic transmissions can be felt and shared between the two people.
As are you develop the practice you learn to clear away and unlock and heal those parts of us that are that are desensitized and storing undealt-with past experiences until you reach a point of freedom, connectivity and creation….until you can “get off” in an energetic sense, from every stroke.
So there I was…..on my back with no pants on, with around 15 other semi-naked women from all different walks of life, in a small room near Angel, listening to the tears, moans and silence of my fellow practitioners, with a man I met just this morning sat at my hips, wearing a rubber glove and desperately trying to follow the guidan
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