How and when to tell your parents about your sexual orientation

In fact this is a problem that worries many young people, the question is always the same, will I be accepted as I am? Everyone knows that there are different sexual orientations, even so we live in a prejudiced world, we still can't get rid of racism, let alone understand the sexual option of each one and know how to respect it.

Each day that passes, people are more easily assuming their sexual option, or as the popular language would say “coming out of the closet”, but the question is not whether to come out in public or to friends, the question is to come out with sexuality for the family, you come to a certain moment that you need the support and understanding of parents and family members, this is really a very difficult task, but at first what you should do is ask yourself, is this what I really want? Do I feel comfortable with this? 

Do all my friends support me? , these questions are of paramount importance, as the reaction of your parents can be devastating, so you can be sure who will help you.

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Usually, parents feel that initial shock and acceptance difficulty, in most cases the information that their parents have is from a homophobic society, it's your task to give them the correct information.

In most cases the parents are already suspicious, this cannot be a reason for you to hide, look for a good day, sit down and talk, tell them that you have something to reveal to them, at this time you may be able to get the roles reversed, that is, teaching your parents to live and accept this change, be very calm before starting to talk and think carefully about what and how to talk.

You need to be patient and listen to what they have to say, you will not only have to be understood, you will have to understand them too, especially your father, after all he must dream that his son is the stallion of school and picks up all the girls, the mother dreams that her son will form a happy family, dreams of having her grandson in her arms, in this way the dreams of those who love you will die, with time they will accept and all the stress will pass. 

I can only wish good luck and courage!

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