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Home Male Q Sex How to Use a Butt Plug – 12 Easy Tips for Exciting Anal Play
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/ April 25, 2022 June 20, 2022
Choose a Beginner Friendly Butt Plug
Use the Bathroom Before Using Your Butt Plug
Choose an Anal Lubricant for Your Anal Plug
Inject Anal Lube Inside with a Lube Shooter
Position the Tip of Your Butt Plug at the Entrance of Your Bum
Push Out Gently with your Anal Sphincter Muscles
Keep the Butt Plug Inserted for a Few Minutes
Clean Your Anal Plug After with a Toy Cleaner
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If you are looking to try anal but aren’t sure where to start, then butt plugs are a great option. But how to use a butt plug?
Butt plugs are ideal for first timers or people looking to move into bigger, more adventurous sizes. They allow you to practice on your own, and move at a comfortable pace.
This makes butt plugs a great tool for people who want to try anal fun but are a bit “tight” down there, and need a little practice to stretch out. Well, let’s get started.
Butt plugs are typically used as a beginner-friendly anal toy to help ease your way into anal play.
Most often, butt plugs are used for training and stretching out your anal sphincter muscle. This allows you to get used to the new feeling or new sizes.
Butt plugs can be used for short sessions, or even be left in for longer periods (of an hour or two). This is to help train your anal muscles to “loosen up”.
Butt plugs also come in a variety of materials, including metal, PVC, Glass and Silicone each providing a different feel and flexibility .
For most people starting out learning how to use a butt plug, I recommend using flexible materials like PVC or Silicone. This is because of their bendability, making them more comfortable to use.
These anal plugs are also commonly sold in sets, or “anal trainer kits”. These allow you to choose a manageable starting size and work your way up.
For anyone who is experimenting with anal for the first time, but plugs are a fantastic place to start.
Learning how to butt plug is pretty straightforward. But, before we get down and dirty, you want to be sure to get prepped and ready!
You want to make sure your butt plug is sized and shaped to be easy to use. For this guide, we will be using the 3-size beginner set that lets you practice at your own pace. As you get more comfortable, you can move up to larger butt plug sizes.
To start, simply use the bathroom naturally (Yes, poop). Afterward, take a shower and clean the anal entrance and about an inch inside with a finger. Use a mild soap to avoid skin irritation.
If you are still worried about hygiene you can also use an enema to really flush things out thoroughly. Repeat douching 2-3 times for a deeper clean.
Your body does not have a natural anal lubricant. So, you must, must, must use a lube with that butt plug! I recommend using a water based lube as it won’t degrade the toy’s material and is easiest to clean up.
You want your toy to go in and come out as smoothly as possible. So be sure to use lots and lots of lube! More lube equals more comfort.
For better application, you can also inject the lube inside before using the plug. This means that you will be slippery inside before you insert the butt plug.
You want to slowly insert one finger into your bum, and then position the tip of your plug at the entrance. You can do this by laying on your back, or sitting down on top of it directly.
The best way to describe this would be like you are going to poop. Try to expand and relax your sphincter muscles and allow the anal plug to move in easily.
Remember to take your time and don’t be afraid to use more lube if you need it. Your goal for each plug and to insert it all the way past the thickest point. You might need a few tries, but with patience and practice it should slide into place!
The longer you leave your butt plug in place, the better you anal muscles will adjust and relax. Learning how to use a butt plug comes down to let your body get used this new feeling.
Once your body has relaxed and adjusted to the butt plug, you can practice with a bigger size. With time and patience you should be able to use the biggest plug no problem!
After every session, you want to make sure to wash your toy thoroughly with soap and hot water to fight off any nasty smells, and bacteria which can be harmful to your health. A good toy cleaner can extend the life of your toy and take care of most of these issues.
And for those of you who don’t have the supplies already, you can get everything I just mentioned in the Anal Starter Kit .
It has everything you need to get started for the first time, including a 3 Piece Butt Plug Anal Trainer Set, Pjur Analyse Me Comfort Anal Lube, Two Lube Injectors, An Anal Enema, Toy Cleaner, and a Cock Ring Set of Two.
3 Piece Anal Plug Starter Kit 2 Cock Rings 2 Lube Injectors Pjur Analyse Me Lube 100ml Anal Enema Toy Cleaner 100ml
For most people, this is exactly what you need for anal play for the first time.
I know that I just threw you with a ton of new information. The most important thing when learning how to use a butt plug is to take things slowly and gradually work your way up.
Before you know it, you will be a butt plug pro (but you probably shouldn’t write that on your resume). As always, thanks for reading this week’s guide on how to use a butt plug.
If you have any questions about how to use a butt plug and would rather ask us directly, feel free to email us.
What do you think of our guide to how to use a butt plug for the first time? Did we leave any thing out? Do you have any suggestions of your own? Let us know in the comments below.
Well done. Thank you for your help, i can’t wait to get started
Well written. I’m hard thinking about starting a butt plug for the first time
Hey, Loren,
You have given good advice and tips for beginners about using butt plugs, but there are a percentage of men (me included) who know the first time they try a butt plug that they just want to keep it in forever. While that’s unrealistic, I do want to share my experience (quickly) that it’s possible to go for many hours each day and all night long for years and never do harm to the anal opening, the rectum, or the prostate. But you have to have a sensible sized butt plug, one that will give you pleasure just wearing it while playing, shopping, sitting, and sleeping. And it might be counter-intuitive to think that glass or steel plugs are out if staying plugged is your goal. That’s not true. I wore a glass plug for four years, almost 24/7/365. The base and shaft are the secrets to comfortable butt plugs. The Devi glass plug (which I wear and recommend) is almost 5 inches in length, with 3.5 insertable length. The “egg” is the business end of the plug and it is 1.96 inches in diameter at its widest point; the shaft is .75 inches in diameter and a little over an inch long. This is seamlessly connected to a ring (a donut-shape) that will sit between the butt cheeks like a coin in a slot. The trouble with most plugs for really long-term wear is the bases. They will eventually irritate. The donut will not, because it does not fight with the butt cheek skin outside the anal opening. I quit plugging in early 2017 when I moved to the American South and indulged way too much on fried and fatty foods. Now that I’ve been here awhile, I decided to return to a diet that is helpful for long-term plugging, something to slow down digestion and firm the stool. I’ve started plugging again and I wear the plug all the time with time outs for BMs and cleanup.
This a great guide. Thank you. It saved me more pain! LOL
Its really interesting, keep sharing.
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This butt plug 101 guide will explain exactly what a butt plug is, why they can provide you (and your partner) with more sexual pleasure and most importantly…how to use a butt plug safely and enjoyably. I’ve also added some extra butt plug tips near the end for those that want freakier/kinkier sex 😉
A butt plug is a sex toy meant to be inserted anally. Plugs consist of an insertable portion known as the shaft or bulb, a base that remains outside your booty, and a thinner neck (or stem) that connects the parts. From straight on, many plugs look like a spade.
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There’s plenty of variation when it comes to butt plugs, however. They can be made from a variety of materials, including glass, wood, silicone, and metal, to name a few. The shaft may be tapered or more rounded and can have multiple bulges. Furthermore, many plugs are straight, but some may have curved shafts or necks.
The base may be flat, squared, round, or even shaped like a hook or anchor. The base can also serve as a handle and may be a loop or circle. Some plugs have decorative gems at the base or animal “tails,” which add an element of fantasy to your play.
It’s understandable if you’re asking, “What does a butt plug do ?” At its most basic, it just fills you up. There’s no thrusting or motion. But some plugs also vibrate (some even come with remotes to control them), while others may be connected to cock rings or other toys, which allows them to serve two functions at the same time.
The easiest answer is to provide pleasurable anal stimulation . However, there are specific reasons or aspects of using a butt plug that appeal to some people.
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Before you actually try using a butt plug, you absolutely need to know how to do so safely. Improper use of sex toys, including butt plugs, or inserting anything to your anus that isn’t designed for you to do so safely can result in toys becoming difficult to remove or traveling deeper into your body.
Sometimes this requires a trip to the emergency room and surgery to fix – People really do end up in ER to have lost butt plugs removed, along with sex toys or some other item they inserted anally. There is even scientific research on this…
One study found that 41% of items that had to be surgically removed from the rectum were sex toys [ 1 ]!
Make sure it has a flared base – The most important way to avoid this uncomfortable, awkward, and expensive trip to the doctor is to always choose anal toys with a flared base or handle. The base should be noticeably wider than the stem/neck. Otherwise, your anus could swallow it right up! This is actually why it’s a bad idea to insert anything just because it fits.
Narrow neck – A narrow neck also ensures that the butt plug sits in place. If the neck isn’t narrow enough for the size of the shaft, the plug might slide out because your anus can’t close enough. Similarly, make sure the neck is long enough to let your anal sphincter close around it as much as possible. This isn’t a safety issue necessarily, but it can be annoying.
Make sure it can’t break – Although this guide focuses on butt plugs, avoid any toys with rough edges or items that could break off. This includes vegetables and candles!
Be careful with glass butt plugs that have looped handles, which could be more susceptible to breaking than other bases.
Is the material body safe? – Finally, the material can play a role in butt plug safety because some materials are porous. This means that they have tiny holes where bacteria can hide even after you wash the toy . Not only can those materials lead to reactions with your own body, but you should absolutely never share toys made of jelly or swap them between orifices.
That’s right, don’t use any toy vaginally after it was in your butt (the same goes for a partner’s body parts!).
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Fortunately, non-porous toys don’t harbor bacteria in the same way. Soap and water cleaning will do a better job of removing all those germs. You can also disinfect toys made from nonporous materials such as metal, glass, or silicone by boiling, spraying with a 10% bleach solution, or popping them in the dishwasher (top rack, no soap, not with dishes).
Proper cleaning is important no matter what your butt plug is made from. Slipping your plug into a condom can make cleanup even easier.
If you need a step-by-step guide to using a butt plug, you’ve come to the right place. Feel free to skip sections if they don’t apply to you. For instance, you may already have talked to your partner about using a butt plug or only plan to use it by yourself.
If you want to try butt plugs, you have to decide whether your first go will be by yourself or with a partner. Going solo might be less pressure and give you a chance to see how your body reacts and deal with any mess.
On the other hand, it might be easier for a partner to insert the butt plug because they can position themselves behind you. Or you may specifically want to use a butt plug during other sexual activities.
You don’t want to insert anything into someone else’s butt without asking first. Some people may not be interested in having anything in their back door at all. Others may want to prepare first. This preparation is key to minimizing messy accidents and pain.
So talk to your partner about it, whether you’re interested in trying a butt plug on you, having them wear one, or both. Remember, you don’t have to start anal play with a butt plug. Fingers are smaller and may be a better way to ease into it.
Like any backdoor play, butt plugs can require a little preparation. It goes without saying that if your GI system doesn’t feel great (gas, loose or compacted stools, etc.), inserting a butt plug is probably a bad idea!
Similarly, the friction from anal play can make hemorrhoids worse [ 2 ], so it’s best to wait until they’re healed if you are suffering from them.
Cleaning – Having a clean bowel movement is usually a sign that you’re good to go with a butt plug. Using wet wipes or showering after your bowel movement can give you additional peace of mind. You don’t generally need to use an anal douche or enema, although you could if you really wanted to be squeaky clean.
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Shaving – Similarly, you don’t need to shave, but you might prefer to. If your hair is especially long, it could potentially catch on a butt plug, not to mention catch debris that you’d rather not deal with during sexy times.
Even if you’re regular and clean-shaven, using a butt plug can be a bit painful, especially your first time. That’s why we recommend starting with a small plug – something similar to the size of a finger or two.
We cannot stress this enough:, you can always move on to a larger butt plug, but you can’t undo a painful experience with a plug that’s too big.
You can pretty much use a butt plug in any position where your backside is exposed. But some positions might be more comfortable or be easier to insert a plug, especially if you’re going solo. The following positions are all good options when playing with a butt plug.
Because the anus doesn’t self-lubricate like the vagina, you should use lube. Saliva isn’t enough. Although some people like the tightness or friction, not using lube can cause micro-tears that bacteria or viruses love to take advantage of, potentially leaving you with an infection that needs medical care.
Check out our guide to lube to find out which type will work best for you.
You can lubricate your booty, the butt plug, or both. It’s up to you, but we recommend both.
Slow is key when it comes to using a butt plug. Before you insert the plug, you might even want to experiment with fingers first. Of course, you can skip this step if your toy is about the same size as fingers, you’re already experienced with anal sex or other types of backdoor play, or you’re dead set on diving in.
When it is time, slowly insert the lubricated butt plug. The entrance to your anus is a ring of muscles known as the anal sphincter, and you need to push the shaft of the plug past that point for it to stay in place.
You can relax your body to make penetration easier. It might sound contradictory, but slightly pushing your sphincter against the toy can make insertion easier. Some people even say that relaxing your throat will do the same to your anus.
If you experience too much pain, pause with the toy in place and breathe. Let your body get used to how the butt plug feels. If it’s too much, you can remove it and try again later.
You should never use numbing products for anal play. Pain is your body’s way of telling you that something is wrong. And if you numb all pain, you may not notice injuries right away and could make them worse.
Instead, go slow. Breathe. Listen to your body and work with it.
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