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All slaves must be taught to take the first step into their new life and that is learning acceptance. Whoever you choose to complete this training must take a firm hand so that the slave realizes they have no option but to willingly kneel and yet not so firm that they break the slave entirely.
Critical Success: Submissive (Sub) - Low Will (<30)
Success: Bimbo (Bim) - Slutty (Slt) - Weak (Wea) - Low Condition (<30) - Basic Obedience Training (Partial)
Failure: Cunning (Cun) - Seductive (Sed) - Strong (Str) - Resilient (Res) - Reserved (Rvd)
Disaster: Innocent (Inn) - Defiant (Def) - Dominant (Dom) - Faith: The Frozen Queen (F:Fr) - Stubborn (Stb) - High Will (>90)
Highly Recommended: Any Slaver with Trainer (Trn)
Critical Success: Crafter: Devices (C:De) - Malevolence (Mal) - Magic: Corruption (M:Co) - Hypnotic (Hyp)
Success: Brutal (Bru) - Dominant (Dom) - Mind Reader (Min) - Seductive (Sed) - Slutty (Slt) - Strong (Str) - Tentacles (Tcl)
Failure: Bimbo (Bim) - Sadist (Sdt) - Thug (Thu) - Terrifying (Ter)
Disaster: Reserved (Rvd) - Sex Addict (Sex) - Submissive (Sub)
(Note: This training is mutually exclusive with Basic Dominance Training and with Orc Cum Addiction)
Once a slave has begun to realise that there truly can be no possibility of escape more advanced lessons maybe taught until the desire to obey without thought is as reflexive as breathing.
(Special: Depending on the slave's traits this may take make multiple successes to complete. Once completed this will unlock additional training options for the slave.)
Critical Success: Submissive (Sub) - Low Will (<30) - Sex Addict (Sex)
Success: Bimbo (Bim) - Slutty (Slt) - Weak (Wea) - Low Condition (<30)
Failure: Cunning (Cun) - Clumsy (Clu) - Strong (Str) - Resilient (Res) - Reserved (Rvd)
Disaster: Dominant (Dom) - Faith: The Frozen Queen (F:Fr) - High Will (>90)
Highly Recommended: Any Slaver with Trainer (Trn)
Critical Success: Crafter: Devices (C:De) - Malevolence (Mal) - Exceptional Beauty/Feminity (Exc) - Hypnotic (Hyp)
Success: Dominant (Dom) - Mind Reader (Min) - Seductive (Sed) - Slutty (Slt) - Strong (Str) - Tentacles (Tcl) - Beautiful (Btf) - Sadist (Sdt)
Failure: Bimbo (Bim) - Thug (Thu) - Terrifying (Ter) - Weak (Wea)
Disaster: Reserved (Rvd) - Sex Addict (Sex) - Submissive (Sub) - Debutant (Deb)
(Note: This training is mutually exclusive with Advanced Obedience Training)
Sometimes referred to as the Elvish Art, the act of learning how to properly please a cock with their mouth is one that is worthwhile for any slave to learn. While there are all sorts of techniques that can be taught and gag reflexes to learn how to suppress for now training the slave to accept that their mouth is just another hole to be fucked is an important first step before moving on to more advanced lessons. Some masters and mistresses prefer to start things slowly with dildos or strapons before moving onto the real thing, others prefer to trust in the overpowering presence of a lengthy futa cock, while others choose to introduce their slaves to the addictive effects for orcish cum knowing that soon they will be begging to suck, swallow and then ask for more.
Critical Success: Submissive (Sub) - Sex Addict (Sex) - Low Will (<30)
Success: Bimbo (Bim) - Seductive (Sed) - Slutty (Slt) - Weak (Wea) - Low Condition (<30) - Basic Blowjob Training (Partial)
Failure: Cunning (Cun) - Educated (Edu) - Strong (Str) - Resilient (Res) - Male (M)
Disaster: Dominant (Dom) - Faith: The Light (F:Li) - Reserved (Rvd) - High Will (>90)
Highly Recommended: Any Slaver with Trainer (Trn)
Critical Success: Malevolence (Mal) - Magic: Corruption (M:Co) - Tentacles (Tcl) - Hypnotic (Hyp) - Orc Male or Orc Futanari (OMa/Fu)
Success: Dominant (Dom) - Seductive (Sed) - Strong (Str) - Small Cock (<5) - Futanari (Fu) - Crafter: Devices (C:De) - Fel Tainted (Fel)
Failure: Bimbo (Bim) - Thug (Thu) - Large Cock (>8) - Weak (Wea) - Male (M)
Disaster: Sadist (Sdt) - Reserved (Rvd) - Submissive (Sub)
Once a slave has got used to the idea that the Elvish Art is something that they will need to get used to performing regularly it is time to start looking at technique and enthusiasm. If a slave was started off easy with a mistress's strap-on then now they're going to have to start learning to suck and swallow for real.
Critical Success: Submissive (Sub) - Low Will (<30)
Success: Bimbo (Bim) - Seductive (Sed) - Slutty (Slt) - Weak (Wea)
Low Condition (<30) - Sex Addict (Sex) - Natural Cocksucker
Failure: Cunning (Cun) - Educated (Edu) - Strong (Str) - Resilient (Res) - Sissy (Sis)
Disaster: Dominant (Dom) - Faith: The Light (F:Li) - Reserved (Rvd) - High Will (>90)
Highly Recommended: Any Slaver with Trainer (Trn)
Critical Success: Malevolence (Mal) - Magic: Corruption (M:Co) - Tentacles (Tcl)
Hypnotic (Hyp) - Orc Male or Orc Futanari (OMa/Fu)
Success: Dominant (Dom) - Seductive (Sed) - Strong (Str) - Futanari (Fu) - Brutal (Bru) - Stubborn (Stb) - Large Cock (>8)
Failure: Bimbo (Bim) - Thug (Thu) - Sympathetic (Sym)
Disaster: Sadist (Sdt) - Reserved (Rvd) - Submissive (Sub) - Weak (Wea)
There's plenty enough potential mistresses out there with just as much gold and lack of scruples as their male counterparts making training a pretty female slave in how to satisfy them to the utmost is only sensible. If the slave is a lesbian already, or indeed bi that is certainly a start, but certainly not required as their natural preferences became irrelevant when the collar was placed around their neck and if this is not their thing they will just need to learn to fake it till they make it...
While normally this is training most suited for females some slaver trainers like to inflict it on their sissy bitches to remind them of just how useless their clitty is, while others like put their futanari slaves through it as extra humiliation that they're no longer permitted to use their cock due to having a perfectly good tongue.
Critical Success: Submissive (Sub) - Low Will (<30) - Depraved (Usc+)
Success: Bimbo (Bim) - Seductive (Sed) - Slutty (Slt) - Weak (Wea) - Educated (Edu) - Basic Lesbian Training (Partial) - Sex Addict (Sex) - Faith: The Goddess Shallya (F:Sh)
Failure: Cunning (Cun) - Strong (Str) - Resilient (Res) - Sissy (Sis)
Disaster: Dominant (Dom) - Faith: The Light (F:Li) - Reserved (Rvd) - High Will (>90)
Highly Recommended: Any Slaver with Trainer (Trn)
Critical Success: Exceptional Beauty (Exc) - Magic: Illusion (M:Il) - Elementalist: Water (E:Wa) - Hypnotic (Hyp) - Magic: Summoner (M:Su) - Seductive (Sed)
Success: Dominant (Dom) - Beautiful (Btf) - Friendly (Fnd) - Sympathetic (Sym) - Cunning (Cun)
Failure: Bimbo (Bim) - Thug (Thu) - Weak (Wea) - Loner (Lon)
Disaster: Sadist (Sdt) - Reserved (Rvd) - Submissive (Sub) - Magic: Blight (M:Bt)
Requires - Trait: Healer (Hea) and Advanced Obedience Training
(Note: This training is mutually exclusive with Basic Obedience Training)
(Note: This training is repeatable)
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Teaching is both a set of skills and a profession. Teachers learn how to teach. Professional teachers can get graduate degrees in how to teach and no one seems to have a problem with this. Training is another word for teaching but it has the connotation of learning a skill or behavior rather than abstract knowledge. For example, you teach history but you train to be an electrician. You train to be a teacher as well. In many BDSM areas if you use the verb to train, it better be in a specific skill such as using a whip or how to do styles of bondage. If you speak of training a sub or slave the rhetoric can get nasty and trainers of such have bad reputations. You will also get the statements that only a sub/slave’s Dom/Master can train them and everyone else claiming to do so is just a predator looking for easy sex/play or something else equally bad. The odd thing is, not everyone agrees. Leather is very much into education of all sorts and that includes training in how to train a sub or slave. It seems to me to be rather odd that the source of most BDSM activities and idea embraces teaching and training but most of the people who do BDSM reject it. There will be more about that elsewhere.
Despite what many people think, training a slave is a skill or set of skills that anyone can learn. It is not something that all dominant people just instinctively know how to do. How well anyone can do it depends on many factors and being dominant or acting dominant is only one of them. To be very blunt, anyone can with the proper instruction and effort learn the skills including a slave. How well any individual can put them into practice is the real question.
How do you learn them? If you think of learning to train slaves as a series of undergraduate college level degree courses, you want to start in the 200's and go as high as you can/want to go. If you make it to the 400's level of knowledge you will be well beyond the levels most people attain or even know exist because they do not look like what most people think of as slave training. The intro to BDSM books and courses as well as the books about how someone does it in their relationship are your 100 level classes. Unless you start with knowing nothing, skip those books and sources.
To learn the skills, talk to people who do this, read books, web sites, forums on FetLife and elsewhere about how to train and manage consensual slaves. This is what the Consensual Enslavement forum there is about and there are others as well, but few are as specific and direct as this one. You can consider most of this forum to be your 200 or sophomore class level. It is introductory material dealing with learning the field, how things are done and some of the basic language and tools you will use later. It also starts you thinking about how to think about how to do consensual enslavement. Some of the material is more advanced but nothing beyond the 300 or junior level classes. The 400’s or senior level are mostly multi-disciplinary work and study in other fields such as anatomy, biology, psychology, anthropology, neurology, semiotics, history, education theory, cognitive neurology and the list is nearly endless. Some of the material is part of lower level work but the serious study of how things work is beyond the basic level. I am still working on learning what in those areas may be useful and I do not know enough yet to know what that list will contain. I only know the parts of it that have proven to be useful to me. I also read current information about people who do enslavement non-consensually and those who do consensual enslavement badly. Yes, this means I study people who do illegal activities. Why should you read this? First to learn what not to do and second to learn how some things have been done which have worked. People have killed other people with a hammer. This does not make learning how to use a hammer a bad thing. Just do not do bad things with your hammer. Use it to build, not harm others.
On FetLife, search for topics like training, enslavement, consensual enslavement, consensual slavery, slaves and so on and look through the places you find for forums that are more than looking for slave/owner sites or masturbation material. There are places which talk seriously about this but not a lot. Most only talk about relationships. Always read more than you write and read before asking questions. Also, when you find people who seem to know what you want to learn, read their profiles and see what forums they have joined and look at them to see if they interest you or will be helpful to you. Sometimes they will and sometimes they won't. Ask these people questions whether privately or publicly. Ask several people the same question and compare their answers. Get suggestions on books to read and where many people suggest the same ones, read them. Take lots of notes and save source locations and why you want to remember them. Unless you need the knowledge, stay away from the books about BDSM kinky play and how to do it and the intro to BDSM books. If you are here, you are not working in that area or at that level. You are working at a more advanced level where introductory information will not be very useful. Read my essay Finding Sources on Being a Slave. It gives some suggestions on places and things to read about being a slave which also work very well for learning to train slaves.
Think of slave training as defining your goals for the slave first and only later deciding how to get there. Start at the final goal and work back to the intermediate goals which are on the way to the final goal. Keep working back to where you are now. Now you have your roadmap of where you want to go. Defining specific goals rather than general things like she always obeys is harder than most people think...those that even think about it.
Once you have your roadmap you can look at each step and break most of them down into smaller goals to meet on the way there. After one or two levels of this, stop. You can over think it to the point of immobility. Make a chart of these goals and what you will do to get the slave there. Now you need to learn how to get those goals met. What are the skills you need to know? What does the slave need to know? Learn those skills and what to do to get to each of those points until they become internalized as something the slave does and someone they are? This is where the learnable skills come into play.
Subs and slaves have the easiest time because they only need to know what they need to obey and serve. The Doms/Masters must know all of that plus how to get and keep them there That is more than twice the amount of knowledge and yes, a much harder job to do well.
Learning to train a consensual slave means the trainer must first learn how to learn, learn how to teach and then learn what knowledge to teach. Sometimes the best thing you can learn is what does not work or what does not work for how you wish to do your training. You can follow what others have done but always try to understand why they did something and how it works. Do not follow anyone or anything blindly and that includes everything I say or write.
There are books and courses which claim to teach this. I have read some but not all by any means. I will recommend a few sources at the end. Following someone’s cookbook approach to slave training will work to some degree. Learning how to modify the recipe and why some things work together and others do not is even more important. Learn how to think about and understand the subject. Learn how to train the subject. Learn how to train the trainers. That is the path I have been following. Go as far down this rabbit hole of education as you can and wish to go. Most of all, be as safe as you can be while you do this because you are holding someone else’s life in your hands. They have given you their trust to keep them safe. Do not fail them or yourself.
A short, incomplete list of sources at a suggested education level:
All of the Consensual Enslavement forum on FetLife. This is where much of what you are reading now was first posted and it still has useful information on the subject. It is mostly at the introductory level of practical learning with a few more advanced postings.
The consensualenslavement.com website or where you are now. This is what was on FetLife updated, added to and rewritten to some extent. Most of it is still the 200 to 300 level.
Raven Kaldera's book Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/Slave Relationships . This is the best overview of types of consensual slavery that I know. Each chapter was written by people doing that style. Many of them are posting on FetLife and are usually willing to talk about how they live. (Disclaimer, I wrote one of the chapters.)
Laura Antoniou's The Marketplace series. What is depicted in that series is both good reading and I have never found anything written in there not possible if you allow the existence of the Marketplace organization itself. Pay attention to the tools of training and the things taught to t
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