How To Talk Dirty On The Phone

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How To Talk Dirty On The Phone
Welcome to my guide on how to talk dirty .
There are 4 easy ways to dirty talk. First, you can start by expressing your sexual desires. Then, you can give sexual praise and have a naughty roleplay with your partner. Last but not least, you can ask flirty questions to arouse his/her sexual desires.
If you are new, worry not. You will learn more about dirty conversation in the following sections.
Dirty talk may feel strange if you have never done it before.
However, it plays a vital role in creating sexual tension and expressing what you like and want in a relationship. Just view it as creative self-expression, and you will be able to do it naturally.
Here are the three advantages of dirty talk:
1) It stimulates the brain It triggers the hearing sensation and imagination before you are physically intimate. Lacing sex with fantasy and anticipation during foreplay can significantly enhance the erotic experience in bed.
2) Increase the sexual pleasure While you are having physical intimacy, the creative expression of what you love from your partner makes the overall experience unique and more exciting. This can significantly increase her/his desire to wanting more from you and magnify the orgasm effect towards the end of sex.
3) For deep connection The verbal expression of you needing your love partner will make her/him feel good and appreciated. Taking the initiative to share desires and feelings will help you open up more, be more transparent with each other, and create a special bond. You will be able to make your partner keep thinking of you all the time, and can’t wait to see you.
If you are a total beginner, here are a few easy tricks you can use to start dirty talk with confidence. I have also given in some practical examples which you can apply in real life easily.
When you are not in bed, you can still dirty talk by expressing what you want from your partner.
Let your partner feel appreciated and aroused by giving him/her genuine praise.
Roleplay can spark excitement because it allows both of you to start fantasizing about something forbidden.
This helps to set the mood right and invite your partner to enjoy the moment with you.
If you are away and you cannot meet your partner, you can still talk dirty with her/him on the phone. It can still spark imagination and make him/her think about you all the time.
You can personalize the messages below to match your current relationship.
Please only do this if you have flirted with her and she is obviously into you. If you do it in the early relationship phase, it may backfire.
If you want to talk dirty with a girl without sounding embarrassing yourself, you should start flirting with her first. If she does not reject you or she flirts back, you know she is okay for you to cross the line of just being a friend. In other words, she wants more from you. Then, you can start to escalate to dirty talks or physical touches.
When you dirty talk with a girl, you should say it casually like it is not a big deal. Imply that we are all adults, and it is totally okay to talk dirty.
If you are being too cautious and nervous when you say it, it will make you look too intentional and trying hard. So, just say it as if you didn’t plan for it, and you are just saying whatever pops up in your mind.
If this is your first time trying to dirty talk to a girl, you should start with the most straightforward way first, which is by praising her.
You can praise how sexy she looks, her boobs, her ass, and the way how she gazes is driving you crazy. Again, I warn you that you only want to start giving sexual compliments if she is obviously into you and enjoying flirting with you.
It is not that different from talking dirty with a girl. Just let him know that you need him and be submissive, and he will be totally turned on.
You can say something like, I want you to touch me and squeeze my boobs gently, or I want you to hug me and tell me I’m all yours.
Make him feel he is needed, and you are ready to have him, and he will be aroused.
There are many things you can say during sex. To make it easier for you, I categorize them into foreplay, during physical intimacy, and after orgasm.
Erotic things to say during foreplay:
I highly suggest you talk dirty in person, but you can still talk dirty over the phone if you are in a long-term relationship.
It is not that hard to talk dirty on the phone. First, you let your imagination goes wild, and then you just need to describe it in words.
Here’s an dirty talk over phone example:
I’m always thinking of you. I would like to play with your hands and your hair. Then, I want to move you closer to me, and I want to bite your ear and kiss you on the lips. I want to kiss you so intensely and taste your tongue. Then, I want to smell your neck, and slowly moving down to your boobs, your abs, and softly kissing your pussy/cock. I decided I want to start licking it. So, I take off your pants now, and I put my head in your thighs. I start licking it gently. It is so yummy. This makes me so hard/horny. I can’t hold it anymore. I need more of you now. I want to fuck you now…
Below are some phrases you can tell or text your partner. You can adjust it to match your needs.
You are not alone if you have anxiety over dirty talk.
I assure you, once you shifted your mindset about it, you will be able to overcome the shyness and be able express your true feelings creatively.
Below are the 2 most essential mindsets to help you to become smoother at dirty talk.
Mindset 1: It is a natural thing to praise your partner’s sexual performance
Telling your partner that you love them and how amazing they are is vital in a relationship. When they bring you immense pleasure, let them know that they are amazing. It will arouse their desire and make them want to give you more.
If you enjoy the hugs, touch, kiss, and sex with them, you should express it, and her know that you want more of her.
Direct and honest communication like this will help her open up to you in return, and she will let you know what she wants too. This provides a positive feedback loop, and both of you will understand and fulfill each others’ needs better in the long term.
Mindset 2: Sex and love are inseparable
I understand that in some cultures or religions, talking about sex is considered taboo. They shame people who talk about it, and they view people who have sex before marriage as slut or playboys.
But, let’s be real and be truly honest with ourselves. Sexual desire is one of the most natural desires that everyone has. In fact, I would consider it not just merely a desire but an actual need.
So, I just want you to adopt a new mindset that you have full rights to express your sexual needs, and talking about sex is not something shameful. Dirty talk and sex can spice up your relationship and creates a strong bond. So, you should do more of it.
However, you want to learn what turns your partner on and off, so you won’t cross the limit. This way, both of you will be able to enjoy sexual activity and communication to the max.
If you are a total beginner, you can always start by praising your partner. Just let them know how sexy and unique they are. However, if you are uncomfortable about it, then, by all means, you can drop it anytime you want. You don’t have to force it.
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Dirty talk can feel like walking through a minefield.
Most people feel completely embarrassed and ridiculous at the thought of trying it, because they’ve never been taught the basic guidelines.
In the bedroom, when someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” the hopefully-soon-to-be dirty talker suddenly freezes up like a soaking wet roll of toilet paper thrown out of an igloo in Antartica.
“What should I say? What do they want me to say? Could I go too far? What if I can’t go far enough, or just sound lame, or stupid?”
Dirty talk is an often overlooked but very powerful aspect of eroticism. It activates the imagination, supercharges sexual polarity , and adds a steamy air of liberation to your naked shenanigans.
Just like sex itself, dirty talk is something that needs to be calibrated to whoever is receiving it. Maybe something that you qualify as ‘dirty talk’ is something the other person might find offensive, silly, or straight up insane, and vice versa.
Let’s clear the air and lay some ground rules.
This is the ultimate guide to dirty talk. I’ll walk you through the things to generally avoid, include, and steer clear of altogether, in order for you to dominate the world of dirty talk.
(For the record, I don’t believe in the phrase “dirty talk” since there is nothing dirty about sex, or talking about sex. Alas, this is what people call it, so I have to meet society where it’s currently at. I prefer to call it “erotic talk”, but that’s a subject for another day.)

I’ll get into specific phrases you can use momentarily, but first, some guidelines to help you get your black belt from the dirty talk dojo.


A good rule of thumb with dirty talk is to tell your partner what you want to do to them/with them before you’re actually doing it, and then, while you’re doing it, specifically describe what it is you like about it.
This is especially crucial if your partner is a woman. Women, in particular, are often aroused through the imagination. This is why erotic books like 50 Shades of Gray are infamous smash hits among female readers. Meanwhile, guys are dominating porn usage because their arousal has more directly visual triggers.
It can take a little more time to get a woman’s water boiling, so to speak, whereas a guy’s can go from Lake Placid to full-on tsunami in a matter of seconds.
This is partially because men and women are wired differently. Guys are more singular in their focus, whereas women can hold many things in their mind at once when it comes to sexual arousal.
You need to captivate her attention and replace whatever else is happening in her head with a stronger, sexier signal. If you do, those juices will start to flow and she’ll be way more receptive to getting intimate.
For example, you might have a female partner with a relatively high sex drive, but she only seems to get revved up when she’s “in the mood”, and you’re always left guessing as to when that is. She wants to have sex more frequently, but it just doesn’t cross her mind all that often. The solution? Dirty talk.
This skill is what separates the black belt lover from the fumbling grasshopper. Instead of trying to wishfully cold-start the engine with escalating physical touch, the master primes the motor by walking her to the climax with his words before he’s even laid a hand on her shoulder.
What you say will be based on what you authentically desire in the moment , or what’s turning you on, but it could be something along the lines of “I’m trying to get work done right now, but I can’t stop thinking about last week when we were 69’ing and your delicious juices were flowing into my mouth” . A comment like that will probably push them over the edge and have them pouncing on you.
Any statement about what you have enjoyed doing with them in the past, or that you are envisioning doing with them in the future, is a great way to ease into a more vocal sex session.
And while you’re fooling around, give your partner real time feedback about what you’re enjoying. It’s a great way to encourage them to give you more of that thing, and also gives your sexual play the added edge of becoming more of a multi-sensory experience.

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For a lot of people, it’s the details of dirty talk that make it so much of a turn on.
For the record, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with statements like “Yeah, I like that,” “You look so hot right now,” and “I love having sex with you.”
But they can be supercharged in a massive way if you shift them each with a bit of descriptive detail.
“Yeah, I like that” becomes “Oh my god, keep doing that. I love your big/little hands all over my ass/balls/chest/etc.. You are the sexiest person on the planet.”
“You look so hot right now” turns into “You are better than any fantasy I could ever come up with. I fucking love you and your perfect/delicious/sexy big/little (body part).”
“My love, I love having sex with you” transforms into “I love it when you grab the sheets when you’re about to come. I love how your breath pauses when I put my mouth on your (insert partner’s preferred name for their genitals here). There’s no where else I’d rather be than inside of you/on top of you right now.”

One of the fastest ways to boost the power and erotic, engaging quality of your dirty talk is to start using multi-sensory descriptive words.
Most people dirty talk with two of their primary senses: sight and touch (i.e. “You look so hot/You feel so good”).
While there’s nothing wrong with sticking to your comfort zone by staying within the parameters of these two dominant sexual senses, there’s so much fun to be had by letting your descriptive imagination run wild.
A few examples of dirty talk phrases that use multi-sensory descriptions:
– I love how you taste/smell. I could get drunk off of your juices/scent so easily.
– You sound so sexy when I’m going down on you
– Mmm, baby, I love the sounds you make
– I want to fuck you until I can feel that sweet little pussy clenching around my cock
– I want you to cum so hard that I feel your cock pulsing inside of me


Every person has their particular trigger words that feel too jarring for them.
Some people adore their dirty talk to be filled with swear words, others hate it.
Some people want their dirty talk to include very clinical descriptions of their genitals (penis, vagina) while others want the dirtier street slang (cock, pussy, dick, cunt, etc.).
Other people like being called “you whore” while others prefer “my whore” while others still would never want you to call them anything close to the word whore during any of your lovemaking, ever.
Make sure you check in with your partner (outside of the bedroom, when you aren’t being sexual with each other) to see if there’s any words that they want you to avoid during your dirty talk.
And no, it doesn’t take away from the sexiness of your dirty talk if you check in with them. It’s a sign of respect. It’s the same well-spring of respect that makes you think to ask your partner if their penis/clitoris prefers softer or firmer stimulation. It doesn’t ruin the mood to check in… it enhances the feelings of safety, comfort, and connection .


You might already notice some internal tension building so far as you’re reading this, just by thinking about saying some of these things out loud.
At first, the simple act of opening your mouth and letting these words fall out can feel like standing on the edge of a cliff.
That paralyzing feeling of risk most often generated by a fear of negative judgement from the other person, which can be amplified by having been raised in a religious or sexually repressed family, or culture.
Your mind locks up because it thinks it’s unsafe to go where you’re going, and wants to protect you from messing up and ruining your partner’s positive image of you.
If you’re feeling this resistance, you need to intentionally set up a safe container for dirty talk with your partner before you begin actually exploring it.
Tell them you’d love to spice things up with a little dirty talk, but you’re feeling a little apprehension and shyness around doing so. Talk about your intentions and why you want to do it. Make a mutual agreement to take risks and accept each other, no matter what you say. Give each other full permission to experiment without shame , for the betterment of your relationship.
This initial chat is also a great opportunity to talk about your turn-ons, turn-offs and boundaries around dirty talk. Sussing out the other person’s parameters going in will ease your mind by knowing in advance what’s okay and what’s not.
Having this simple exchange out loud will evaporate a huge amount of anxiety around your future dirty talking sex-capades.
But that said, even though you’ve had this discussion, and even though you KNOW it’s safe to take the leap, your mind will still try to keep you back from stepping out into the unknown.
If you find yourself in that moment of stuckness: breathe. Look into your lover’s eyes. Remember the permission they gave you. Remember their love for you and that you can trust them with anything. Smash through that block in your throat as a big ‘fuck you’ to the irrational part of your brain that wants to hold you back and keep you from being fully expressed, totally seen and truly loved.
If you can muster the courage to break through these moments, I promise you’ll reach a whole new level of trust and intimacy with your partner, boost your self-confidence, and your entire relationship will be upgraded in unexpected ways.


If you’re extra terror-stricken when beginning your foray into verbalized dirty talk, one good way to test the waters (and to get more comfortable) with your partner is to send them some naughty text messages and see how they respond.
Once your mind has proof that they like it, and encourage you in expressing your dirty thoughts, you’ll feel much safer and comfortable to voice them in-person.
Saucy texts are also the perfect way to build the tension befo
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