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Sandra studied nursing and sexual health and is named one of the world’s top 50 sexologists . She founded My Sex Toy Guide in 2016, where she and a team of experts write about relationships, LGBTQ topics, and other sexuality issues. She has been featured in Men's Health, Wedding Wire, InsideHook, ThriveGlobal, and more. Linkedin Profile
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A blowjob might be one of the most versatile sex acts in anybody’s playbook. It’s discrete enough that it can be done anywhere with a little bit of privacy, yet effective enough to make your partner cum in seconds with the proper techniques. But how to suck dick the best way?
To help you get past those first few hurdles of hesitation, here is a beginner’s guide on how to do a fantastic blowjob!
Nothing sucks more than a lousy blowjob (No pun intended!). But did you know that for your woman to give you an unforgettable “service,” it takes both of you to do it, right?
I love sucking dick! But nobody wants to blow a smelly penis .
If he just took off his pants and hasn’t showered yet, expect a smelly penis is coming your way.
Pants and underwear make for a warm squeeze, which always means a sweaty penis.
Many women are hesitant at giving their men head because they’ve probably haven’t tried it before, or if they did, they didn’t have a lot of practice.
Fake it till you make it works well when blowing a guy as it does in your everyday life.
Nobody’s incredible at it on their first try, and many people learn how to do it well as they go.
There’s probably a never-ending list of things that can make your partner hard, so let’s add another one.
If you want to perform a blowjob, just ask for it.
It’s exciting for any man to hear their partner ask for sexual satisfaction.
Your enthusiasm is infectious, and the evidence will immediately present itself before he can even say yes.
You should use as many tools available for maximum effect.
The mouth and lips are apparent enough, but there’s more we can do with the tongue, hands, and even throat.
Move your tongue around the head of his penis works wonders. Your tongue will be able to feel every twitch and tingle that his penis makes. Use your hands for some ball play, or give him a hand job. And if he’s into it, your hands can even reach his anus for a bit of prostate stimulation.
Pro Tip: You can even use a bit of air to do some work too. Sucking all the air from your mouth works well, but don’t underestimate the effect of blowing air onto his penis.
Do you know how your vagina makes its lubrication to make sex easier?
Your mouth can do the same thing, so put it to good use.
Making your blowjob a little sloppier with some saliva helps your mouth glide through his dick at even the roughest speeds.
That sloppy blow job sound can be a turn-on for him too!
Another personal preference is eye contact.
When I’m getting my dick sucked, I like to have Sandra look me in the eye. It gives me a primal sort of pleasure .
Do be careful, though. Some men find eye contact creepy while their partner has their lips around their cock.
Try doing it quickly to see if he responds well to it. Pay attention to his penis behavior and moaning.
One common mistake women make when giving head is they get so carried away with licking, sucking, and nipping the penis that they forget about the balls.
So that you know, the balls can be just as sensitive as the penis while you’re doing a blowjob.
They’re also nice and close, so it’s easy to pleasure the penis and the balls simultaneously.
You can try touching them and sucking on them, depending on what your partner is comfortable with.
Important: While the balls are super sensitive, they don’t stand up to pressure as well as the penis does. Working it too hard can be painful. Be gentle, then work your way up.
Just as good sex requires a decent repertoire of positions, good blowjobs do too. Unpredictability goes a long way in pleasuring a man.
Take it slow, then fast, then slow down again. Alter your routes and angles now and then. When your mouth gets tired, you can use your hands to keep the flow going.
Swallowing cum is hugely pleasurable for reasons we can’t explain. Tim says he loves it if he can deposit his sperm inside my mouth. He enjoys the tingling sensation caused by the sucking movement of my lips when he is coming.
I enjoy the feeling of having his warm milk in my mouth. Besides, semen has a salty-sweet flavor, and it’s clean and safe to swallow .
However, we know that swallowing cum isn’t for everybody . If you’re not comfortable with it, tell your partner he can give you a facial instead or let his semen hit your boobs. No proper man will ever force you to swallow his cum.
Only do this if you’re willing to do it.
There are some obvious things to avoid while giving head.
First and foremost, the penis is extremely sensitive, so you should avoid anything sharp and hard.
If you already gave dozens of blowjobs to your partner, it’s about time to put the whole thing to the next level.
Learn some more advanced blowjob techniques and see the difference they can make.
Here are some of the strategies we’ve learned so far.
Dirty talking is an effective way to build the right mood for the job.
Telling your lover that “I love your big cock in my mouth” or “I want to swallow your cum” gets both of you in the right state of mind for intense sex.
Just don’t shout those kinds of things immediately, though, especially if you’re not the kind of person who would typically talk dirty.
There’s an art to dirty talk that requires a deep understanding of your relationship.
Pro Tip: The dirty talk should always follow the current mood. Whispering small things like “I want you” in his ear is one of those things that can get us instantly hard in the right circumstance. As the mood improves, make your talk dirtier and dirtier. Reserve the nastiest stuff when he’s about to cum, and you’ll make the experience a lot better.
Surprise blowjobs make a lot of the mundane things that men do a lot better. Things like getting home after a tiring day, or driving home after a terrible party, can be excellent opportunities for a good blowjob.
Your partner will appreciate the gesture.
You may have seen deep throating in porn videos, but it’s a complicated sex act.
There’s a reason why the gag reflex exists, and most men would be satisfied with whatever you’re comfortable with. If you want to deep throat your partner’s penis, I recommend checking our comprehensive guide on how to deep throat .
The frenulum is the little patch of skin at the bottom of the head that connects the penis head to the foreskin. And this area is a sweet spot for blowjobs.
Stimulating this area is sometimes enough to give him a frenulum orgasm . As you run your tongue up and around his penis, make sure you give this area enough attention. His response should be enough to tell you how good this feels.
If you want to overload his senses, try using some toys while you give him head.
Putting a vibrating toy on his balls or shaft while you pleasure his helmet makes for a great blowjob.
If he’s comfortable with it, try sucking dick with prostate toys.
If you are comfortable performing a rim job and your partner is ok with receiving one, you can give him one right after oral sex. It’s mostly a matter of changing the position. Speaking of positions,
There’s a lot of experimental space when it comes to suck cock positions.
You don’t have to stick to the boring old “man sitting down, woman kneeling” position all the time.
Variety is the spice of sex, and there’s a whole lot of variety to be had.
This one’s a lot less obvious, but you’re a cock sucking pro if you can pull it off!
Have your partner go on all fours with his legs slightly split apart. You will be behind him on your knees or in whatever position feels comfortable for you. Then reach between his legs to get his penis (There’s more than enough bend in his penis to get it through to the other side for you).
This position gives you a lot of new angles to work with. It makes frenulum stimulation a bit of a challenge with the tongue, but it’s not impossible.
There are some food items you can use to spice things up.
We also have a great guide on how to eat pussy !
Finally, if you don’t have a partner, we have a guide on how to practice blowjobs with a dildo .
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A few friends have seen my stand-up comedy joke sets, and commented, “dang Bri! Now that we’ve seen your jokes, we KNOW you give head!”
OF COURSE I give head, I’m looking for a PARTNER.
Blame changing social norms, blame pornography—point is, the dating game has CHANGED. Blowjobs are part of the dating milieu. Who knows what will be on the table 100 years from now? Anal? Rim jobs? Maybe at the end of the first date a shy couple will stand on a front porch and instead of a cheek kiss, they’ll bang through a hole in a furry costume! I don’t know much about the future, but I do know a thing or two about sucking a dick.
So strap in, it’s going down! You can read more Let's Do It with Bri Pruett stories like " How to Suck a Dick—Part 2 ," " How to Get Your Dick Sucked ," " How to Pick a Sex Playlist ," and more here !
HOW TO SUCK A DICK 1. You gotta really want to suck that dick
A half-assed blowjob isn’t good for ANYONE. Sometimes “liking” a dude is NOT ENOUGH. Sometimes you gotta have your own romance with that dick. Is the dick approachable? Attractive? Do it smell good? Is it intimidating? Ask yourself: Do I want to get involved with that dick?
Check it out before you commit to anything. If it’s your first time with this dude, feel him up a bit first, over the clothes while you’re making out. Examine it up close if you need to. Remember, just because you pulled it out doesn’t mean you HAVE to suck that thing.
I can already feel your protests filling my inbox like it's a warm mouth: DON’T TEACH FOLKS TO BE COCK TEASES, BRI! I know, I know, you’re worried about the much-discussed blue balls. But I’m thinking of the “greater blowjob good.” People didn’t start appreciating wine until they started putting some in their mouths and spitting it out again.
And why are you so worried about blue balls? There are plenty of sex acts that don’t end in a big jizzy orgasm, so cool your jets and enjoy all that life has to offer! Porn and NASA rocket launches have taught you to always be working toward one ENORMOUS THROBBING CUM FACIAL , and you just gotta let that go. When you do, it’ll lead to some deeply satisfying sex—and you won’t always be racing to the finish line.
No one should be giving blowjobs because they feel like they’re obligated to… Maybe it’s the 3rd date, or maybe you’re married and this is the only dick in your world right now. There are a lot of other good reasons to suck a dick! Because you want to, because it turns you on, because you like being in control, because you like the noises he makes, because you like being responsible for those noises, because you like the way it feels in your mouth, because you like the way he looks at you while you do it… When you are in the mood, it’ll be a better blowjob. 2. First Contact You’ve made up your mind. This dude is getting brain, YOUR brain, all over the tip of his dick (it isn’t such a cute expression on the other side of the verse is it KANYE ?). So now you’ve got to get your mouth all on it. Is he un-circumsized? Pull back the skin down and taut, very important. Most of the nerves in the penis are at the tip, and under side (aka the dark side).
PRO TIP: Maybe you’re nervous, or you been smoking pot—either way, that dry mouth is NOT gonna work. Keep a glass of water on your night stand or an emergency bottle of water in your sex kit. You don’t have a sex kit? Why not, what happened to it? Ugh, do you even WANT to get better at this?
There’s a rhythm to sucking dick, and it starts slowly. Pace yourself. Don’t slam it down your throat right away (if ever). I like to mark my territory first, gently make my presence known with a warm tongue on the underside of the dong in question. When everything is wet, it’s more sensitive.
With all sexy business, anticipation is a tenuous thread. Wait too long, and the anticipation fades to impatience. The boy you are working on will tell you with noises (and maybe words) when to move on to more rhythmic contact. 2a. Position
OH I FORGOT! How are you even put together? On your knees, while he’s sitting or standing? Are you both lying on your side? OR is he lying on his back, while you get into what the yogi’s would call “modified child’s pose.” (gross… awful… terrible)
In any case, being higher than him, and having the greatest range of motion is going to give you more torque. Meaning that you shouldn’t be reaching to suck his dick, like a baby giraffe stretching his tongue to eat from the cock tree on the dusty savannah.
Be comfortable. If your knees give you trouble, don’t do it that way. If your hips give you trouble, it’s gonna be tricky to have your ass up in the air. OH speaking of asses! If he’s in love with yours, make sure he has access to it, if you’re into that kind of thing. Or maybe he worships your tits. You know this dude (or maybe you don’t, no judgements!) there are lots of little things to make this a memorable blow job. Roll out the red carpet! Life is short!
Author’s Note: I’d be remiss if I did not mention the cheapest dinner-for-two in town, “69.” So named for the percentage of the time it fails to get its participants off. Still, the supporters of 69-ing are numerous and may they have simultaneous oral experiences for all their days! I personally cannot concentrate on giving a blow job while sitting on someone’s face. If you take pride in a blowjob, if you are wanting to give your requiem performance, skip the 69.
On that note, the rest of the messy details to follow—tune in next time and I’ll tell you how to DISMOUNT AND FINISH THE JOB!
Wishing you great love and epic blowjobs, @BriPruett
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