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A blowjob might be one of the most versatile sex acts in anybody’s playbook. It’s discrete enough that it can be done anywhere with a little bit of privacy, yet effective enough to make your partner cum in seconds with the proper techniques. But how to suck dick the best way?
To help you get past those first few hurdles of hesitation, here is a beginner’s guide on how to do a fantastic blowjob!
Nothing sucks more than a lousy blowjob (No pun intended!). But did you know that for your woman to give you an unforgettable “service,” it takes both of you to do it, right?
I love sucking dick! But nobody wants to blow a smelly penis .
If he just took off his pants and hasn’t showered yet, expect a smelly penis is coming your way.
Pants and underwear make for a warm squeeze, which always means a sweaty penis.
Many women are hesitant at giving their men head because they’ve probably haven’t tried it before, or if they did, they didn’t have a lot of practice.
Fake it till you make it works well when blowing a guy as it does in your everyday life.
Nobody’s incredible at it on their first try, and many people learn how to do it well as they go.
There’s probably a never-ending list of things that can make your partner hard, so let’s add another one.
If you want to perform a blowjob, just ask for it.
It’s exciting for any man to hear their partner ask for sexual satisfaction.
Your enthusiasm is infectious, and the evidence will immediately present itself before he can even say yes.
You should use as many tools available for maximum effect.
The mouth and lips are apparent enough, but there’s more we can do with the tongue, hands, and even throat.
Move your tongue around the head of his penis works wonders. Your tongue will be able to feel every twitch and tingle that his penis makes. Use your hands for some ball play, or give him a hand job. And if he’s into it, your hands can even reach his anus for a bit of prostate stimulation.
Pro Tip: You can even use a bit of air to do some work too. Sucking all the air from your mouth works well, but don’t underestimate the effect of blowing air onto his penis.
Do you know how your vagina makes its lubrication to make sex easier?
Your mouth can do the same thing, so put it to good use.
Making your blowjob a little sloppier with some saliva helps your mouth glide through his dick at even the roughest speeds.
That sloppy blow job sound can be a turn-on for him too!
Another personal preference is eye contact.
When I’m getting my dick sucked, I like to have Sandra look me in the eye. It gives me a primal sort of pleasure .
Do be careful, though. Some men find eye contact creepy while their partner has their lips around their cock.
Try doing it quickly to see if he responds well to it. Pay attention to his penis behavior and moaning.
One common mistake women make when giving head is they get so carried away with licking, sucking, and nipping the penis that they forget about the balls.
So that you know, the balls can be just as sensitive as the penis while you’re doing a blowjob.
They’re also nice and close, so it’s easy to pleasure the penis and the balls simultaneously.
You can try touching them and sucking on them, depending on what your partner is comfortable with.
Important: While the balls are super sensitive, they don’t stand up to pressure as well as the penis does. Working it too hard can be painful. Be gentle, then work your way up.
Just as good sex requires a decent repertoire of positions, good blowjobs do too. Unpredictability goes a long way in pleasuring a man.
Take it slow, then fast, then slow down again. Alter your routes and angles now and then. When your mouth gets tired, you can use your hands to keep the flow going.
Swallowing cum is hugely pleasurable for reasons we can’t explain. Tim says he loves it if he can deposit his sperm inside my mouth. He enjoys the tingling sensation caused by the sucking movement of my lips when he is coming.
I enjoy the feeling of having his warm milk in my mouth. Besides, semen has a salty-sweet flavor, and it’s clean and safe to swallow .
However, we know that swallowing cum isn’t for everybody . If you’re not comfortable with it, tell your partner he can give you a facial instead or let his semen hit your boobs. No proper man will ever force you to swallow his cum.
Only do this if you’re willing to do it.
There are some obvious things to avoid while giving head.
First and foremost, the penis is extremely sensitive, so you should avoid anything sharp and hard.
If you already gave dozens of blowjobs to your partner, it’s about time to put the whole thing to the next level.
Learn some more advanced blowjob techniques and see the difference they can make.
Here are some of the strategies we’ve learned so far.
Dirty talking is an effective way to build the right mood for the job.
Telling your lover that “I love your big cock in my mouth” or “I want to swallow your cum” gets both of you in the right state of mind for intense sex.
Just don’t shout those kinds of things immediately, though, especially if you’re not the kind of person who would typically talk dirty.
There’s an art to dirty talk that requires a deep understanding of your relationship.
Pro Tip: The dirty talk should always follow the current mood. Whispering small things like “I want you” in his ear is one of those things that can get us instantly hard in the right circumstance. As the mood improves, make your talk dirtier and dirtier. Reserve the nastiest stuff when he’s about to cum, and you’ll make the experience a lot better.
Surprise blowjobs make a lot of the mundane things that men do a lot better. Things like getting home after a tiring day, or driving home after a terrible party, can be excellent opportunities for a good blowjob.
Your partner will appreciate the gesture.
You may have seen deep throating in porn videos, but it’s a complicated sex act.
There’s a reason why the gag reflex exists, and most men would be satisfied with whatever you’re comfortable with. If you want to deep throat your partner’s penis, I recommend checking our comprehensive guide on how to deep throat .
The frenulum is the little patch of skin at the bottom of the head that connects the penis head to the foreskin. And this area is a sweet spot for blowjobs.
Stimulating this area is sometimes enough to give him a frenulum orgasm . As you run your tongue up and around his penis, make sure you give this area enough attention. His response should be enough to tell you how good this feels.
If you want to overload his senses, try using some toys while you give him head.
Putting a vibrating toy on his balls or shaft while you pleasure his helmet makes for a great blowjob.
If he’s comfortable with it, try sucking dick with prostate toys.
If you are comfortable performing a rim job and your partner is ok with receiving one, you can give him one right after oral sex. It’s mostly a matter of changing the position. Speaking of positions,
There’s a lot of experimental space when it comes to suck cock positions.
You don’t have to stick to the boring old “man sitting down, woman kneeling” position all the time.
Variety is the spice of sex, and there’s a whole lot of variety to be had.
This one’s a lot less obvious, but you’re a cock sucking pro if you can pull it off!
Have your partner go on all fours with his legs slightly split apart. You will be behind him on your knees or in whatever position feels comfortable for you. Then reach between his legs to get his penis (There’s more than enough bend in his penis to get it through to the other side for you).
This position gives you a lot of new angles to work with. It makes frenulum stimulation a bit of a challenge with the tongue, but it’s not impossible.
There are some food items you can use to spice things up.
We also have a great guide on how to eat pussy !
Finally, if you don’t have a partner, we have a guide on how to practice blowjobs with a dildo .

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There is a massive difference between giving your man oral sex and sucking his dick. Oral sex is certainly a sensual and enjoyable experience for your man while sucking his cock is a more intense, erotic, inhibition-free, animalistic act…And that’s what this guide is all about, showing you how to suck his cock with this wild, intense enthusiasm.
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This page is Chapter 5 of the Blow Job Guide , and it’s going to teach you everything you need to know about how to suck cock in a way that will leave your man wondering if you were a pornstar in a former life.
If you’d prefer to learn some easier techniques for giving him oral sex, then I suggest you start in Chapter 1 , which will give you an overview on giving him a good blow job, and then work through Chapter 2 which will teach you how to start sucking cock properly. When you’ve finished that, head over to Chapter 3 to learn 55 cock sucking techniques that will blow his mind, while Chapter 4 continues the dick sucking tutorial with tips about finishing him off.
Now let’s jump into this part of the cock sucking tutorial and learn how to suck dick in a way that will leave your man breathless.
The first rule for sucking cock like a pornstar is being able to take the initiative and start blowing him without any prompting from him. Taking the initiative works incredibly well for many reasons.
You know that feeling when your man just can’t take his hands off you and just “has to have you?” It’s irresistibly hot to be desired by someone who can’t control themselves around you. He experiences those same feelings of being desired when you take the initiative and start sucking him off when he’s not expecting it. So use this to your advantage.
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Another reason is due to the power and pleasure many women feel when giving their man oral sex. A recent study has shown that over 30% of women enjoy the feeling of power they get when they are sucking cock [ 1 ], and in another study, 28% of women reported that they find the act of giving their man oral sex to be very pleasurable [ 2 ]. So if you already enjoy these feelings of power and pleasure when sucking his cock, this is another reason to take the initiative.
Here are a few examples of how you can take the initiative and start sucking your man’s cock:
BJ Surprise – Let’s say you’re both sitting at home, watching some TV. When he’s least expecting it, cuddle up beside him and start massaging his crotch with your hand to get him hard, before pulling down his pants and giving him a blow job.
Road Head – The next time he is driving you home at night, do the same. Start massaging his testicles through his trousers, before unzipping them and giving him some road head. Just make sure you aren’t breaking any laws! This idea works equally well if you are both sitting in the back of a friend’s car 😉
Morning Wood – Let’s say you wake up before your man on a lazy Sunday morning, why not wake him up with a surprise BJ? Discover more ways to have fun morning sex .
A little bit of planning ahead of time goes a long way if you want to wake him up by sucking his cock. Most importantly, think about sleeping naked together ( learn the benefits of sleeping naked ), as this makes everything super easy. Otherwise, you may wake him as you take off his pajamas/briefs and “blow” the surprise.
Once you have his pants off, you’ll need to very quietly make your way down to his groin. Then it’s a simple case of taking him into your mouth and sucking him off as you usually would.
If you are new here, then you may want to take the quiz below to learn how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. You may discover you that you suck (pun intended) or that you are already a blow job queen.
My one dick sucking tip when giving your man a morning blow job would be to go softer and more slowly than usual. This way, he should wake up more slowly…or he may even climax before he fully wakes up, making it a brand new experience for him.
Note: My advice is to talk about a morning blow job first with your man before attempting it. Otherwise, he may get a shock when you go down him…potentially causing injury…or worse, perhaps he’s in that small minority of men who don’t want to experience it.
The next technique for sucking his cock in a way that totally blows him away is making sure you do it with a high level of animalistic and almost insatiable enthusiasm.
Most guys see this (enthusiasm) as the single most important dick sucking tip that you can use in the bedroom [ 3 ].
One Redditor even explains how she’s been told that the “main factor” that contributes to the quality of her blow jobs is that she enjoys giving them [ 4 ]. Other users chimed in that this enthusiasm is “at least 50% of what makes a blowjob good.”
I talk more about how enthusiasm is a vital component to giving a satisfying blow job in Chapter 1 here , but to further explain how important it is, I want you to do something. Imagine this scenario…
Your man hasn’t seen you for almost an entire week, and you’re waiting in your place for him to arrive. When he opens the door and lays his eyes on you, he immediately rushes forward and grabs hold of you. As he embraces you, he leans in, and gives you the most intense kiss you’ve ever received.
But he doesn’t stop there, he picks you up and brings you into the bedroom, tears your clothes off and has his way with you. You don’t want him to stop for a second, and even if you tried to stop him, you probably couldn’t as he is acting on every animalistic impulse in his body. There isn’t a single logical thought going through his head right now. It’s just pure testosterone and lust running through his veins.
There is something ridiculously hot and passionate about this…his unbridled enthusiasm. When you reverse the situation above, and you become the aggressor, the one who acts out of pure lust, and you attack your man with animalistic enthusiasm while sucking his dick, you can make it an experience that surpasses anything he could ever imagine. Even if you aren’t using new techniques or positions in the bedroom…it can make a dull sex life into a highly charged one.
Note that if you’re not sure if you suck cock good and are skittish or constantly ask for feedback, it might not be as hot for him. However, you can use dirty talk to gauge how much he’s into what you’re doing, speaking of dirty talk…
Another way to make the experience feel magical for your man is to talk dirty to him while sucking his cock. While the Dirty Talking Guide goes into great detail teaching you exactly what to say and how to say it, here are a few guidelines that work great for talking dirty to your man while sucking him off…
Tell Him What You’re Going To Do – Before you even meet your man, you can start building anticipation with him by getting his mind thinking of you AND what you’ve got planned for him. If you’re on the phone to him, you can let him know that you have something planned for him later. But don’t let the cat out of the bag just yet! Try to be a little vague about what you’re planning so that he keeps thinking about you and trying to figure out what you meant.
If you’re messaging him ( get other ideas for sexy text messages ), try sending one of the following, “I’ve got a little surprise for you later!” or “I’ve had you on my lips all day, can’t wait to see you later!” or even “Don’t make any plans for later. I need to see you.”
Tell Him How Turned On Your Are – This works fantastically well both before you meet him and when you’re together. Again, you can either call him or message him…but in general messaging is easier. Try sending one of the following messages to him, “Ugh…I wish this day would just end! I’m too horny to be in the office today,” or “I’m sitting here at my desk, and all I can think of is wrapping my lips around your cock.”
Tell Him How Much You Enjoy It – Now that you’ve used dirty talk to amp up the anticipation and have your man salivating and eager to feel your lips on him, it’s time to use dirty talk to enhance your blow job. The best way to do this is to tell him how much you’re enjoying it and how much sucking his cock is turning you on. Here are a few examples:
“I love feeling your cock in my mouth!”
“I want to feel you explode and cum all over my face.”
“Just having your dick in my mouth makes me so f**king wet!”
“I want to feel you throb in my mouth when you’re cumming!”
“I want to be on my knees every day for you.”
If you’re not sure that you can suck dick well, the enthusiasm you show by talking dirty can push your blow job from one that’s just okay to one that’s super hot!
You can whisper these dirty talk phrases in your man’s ear before you go down on him, or you can say them midway through. You can learn more dirty talking phrases and examples in Chapter 2 and Chapter 3 of the Dirty Talking Guide .
Use Dirty Talk to See If He Likes It – If you’ve read Chapter 4 of the Blow
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