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How To Spank Your Wife
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Due to various request, this is the link to my post on how to spank your wife or girlfriend.
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First of all, for spanking there needs to be consent. If your wife doesn’t like it- don’t do it. However, if your wife demands it… than you need to do it:) Let’s start with some reasons to spank your wife.
So it took me quite some time to figure out, but I really need a man to lead me. Most men in my life before meeting mark would not do this, however. At best, it was a 50-50 split. While everybody around as says that this works… it didn’t for me. With Mark I finally found someone to lead me. It took some time and I know that at times he still felt this was all quite deviant and depraved. However, it gives me the leadership I crave.
Domestic submission and spanking have so many facades to me. Not only is it erotic and turns me on; it makes me happy and stops my mood changes. For me, submitting to my man is therapeutic and it resets me from a long day with our daughter.
Recently, I was really bratty and snarky over something. Without a word, Mark took me and spanked me to remind me who was controlling this household.
I really needed that, and I adored him for it. Although it really hurt ( he took a paddle ), in the end I thanked him for doing it. Fianally ! I felt relieved, refocused, grounded and centered again. While he rarely does it like that, it is really helpful to reinstantiate peace at home.
My husband usually decides how severe my misdeeds are and chooses the right method to punish me.
oooooh, I’m getting hot right now….Just perfect !
Usually, and if I haven’t been too naughty, he spanks me with his hands. The main advantage is, that he can do anywhere (and he does!) at any time. And with his great hands, I dare to call them pranks, he can do some damage. However he does not give me more than 20 hits… he told me, his hands wore out. Poor hubby I gave him a blowjob as consolidation, when he told me this.
Good selection of tools (img = tumblr)
Mark really likes his belts to discipline me. He whips it at me when I have repeatedly not fulfilled his wishes, maybe once every three months. And he really nows how to make me alert: when I’m testing him, he likes to tap on his belt- I know something is up.. You can read more about the belt he currently uses here .
My husband bought a paddle on Amazon solely to spank me. He uses it very seldomly, maybe once a year. The last time he used it was on Christmas. It really hurts! It covers my butt entirely and makes me feel the punishment at least a day. Naturally, I was extra attentive to his wishes afterwards! You can read more about our paddle here or check the paddle on Amazon .
The cane is reserved only for times when I’ve been a really bad girl. From time to time I like to test Mark and snap at him, or challenge him otherwise. Mark’s reaction about two years ago was fairly new: he went upstairs and came back with a black cane! You wouldn’t believe how I felt in this moment. Needless to say, the caning was intense, and so far we’ve had maybe a half a dozen canings. I remember every single one of them! You can check out the article on canes here or check out our cane on Amazon (it’s a fairly basic one, costs around $20 .)
First of all, I get only spanked on my ass. It depends if its on my bare buttocks or if it’s exposed. My butt is a part where spanking won’t damage my body and if it’s exposed, I will feel it and understand my lesson.
In terms of positions, we have basically three positions:
Kneeling on the ground or on the bed, over his lap, and at a table. My personal favorite is over his lap – I m his girl <3.
I just love being his naughty girl over his lap! (img = tumblr)
As you see, Spanking is for me not only a therapy, a lifestyle, but so much more. Of course, it’s also part of my sex life. I mean, all of us have a long intense intimate conversation that felt deeply sexual to us – and on the other hand, we have had intercourse that didn’t feel terribly sexual.
So my opinion here is that Spanking is whatever you think it is – or, for some, Spanking is sex, for some it’s not, and for others it’s sex and so much more. And that’s what I believe, too.
During pregnancy, we drastically cut back on the spanking, since we really didn’t want to take any risks. But there were always occaisions for some light spankings- I had been a bad girl…
Mark sometimes lets me choose how I want to get spanked, so there’s that.
As a conclusion: a therapeutic spanking never hurts!
This post has received a lot of attention. I believe it’s great – yes, there are women out there who like getting spanked, and who feel much better after a sound spanking. However I want to stress again that I advocate for consensual spanking only – I do not condone any violent or non-consensual activities. Neither do I condone spanking children and I don’t advise you to spank in front of your children. You might search on the internet for “quiet spanking”, it’s what we do.
With over 100 comments, so many people have stopped by and shared their experiences in spanking and their relationships in general, so I wanted to select and highlight some of them.
I’m youngish (35) and still single. One of my challenges in finding the right man to spend my life with is that I CAN’T be in a longterm, stable relationship with a man who won’t spank me and/or whom I can’t trust and respect enough to let him. Most men really don’t get it. I’ve had so many bad experiences with requesting this and winding up with either being hit just a couple of times but ridiculously hard or in a dangerous spot, or just a wimpy, quick little series of love pats. It seems they also think that one hard swat that “leaves a handprint” is a big deal. They don’t get the psychological or emotional aspect at all.
Bratness commented as well. She and her husband parted ways recently, and she feels as if the lack of spanking in their relationship might be related to this (sadly). Her story shows, that women might no even know how great a sound spanking can be.
Yes have read the guide. Many guides. We discussed for a week…then one day my husband said “the past needed to be in the past…a clean slate”. I agreed…and we picked a date to begin. One of the things we did was we made a short list…i think it ended up being 10… of things that really stuck out over our 20 year marriage that needed to be forgiven and forgotten.
Here is a comment from Sarah . She used to get spanked from her father (note that I do not advocate spanking children here! It is, however, a perspective.) Click on the link to read the entire comment – unfortunately, Sarah’s husband is only reluctantly spanking her.
Shortly thereafter, my door opened, the sheet was ripped away, and dad’s belt fell sharply on my bare bottom several times. I cried and he said “you missed your curfew.” I never missed curfew again. As a child, I remember getting in trouble and being called to stand in front of him to accept my spankings. Yet, I never felt abused, but rather I felt loved, protected, and well taken care of.
As you read the comments, you see that long discussions have evolved. I believe it is this added perspective of others which makes reading my article even better – you don’t have to agree with me, but I believe that spanking is a great thing (for some) and that’s why I published this article. I have received even more emails, but as I respect privacy, I wont’t publish them here. However, reading a “Thank you” in a mail or comment is what keeps me motivated – I have helped various people here and that’s great.
And now, if you have any thoughts, write me a comment and I’ll get back at you – or, for private qusetions- check out the contact section for my mail address.
In any cases, you can check out my Guide on How To Spank Your Wife: Click here to read a detailed description , or go to Amazon and click here for more!
Spanked in public 11/19/2015 In "Domestic wifely submission"
Implements room by room 11/16/2015 In "The facets of my love life"
The girl in the video has, just a few secs before, been offered six more strokes, Surprisingly she wanted two get two dozens, “but really, really strong!”
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When it's time for a spanking, gently take her by the hand and lead her to your spanking place. Tell her it's time for a spanking to help her get ready. Be firm, but friendly. Strong, but kind. Patient, but absolutely unwilling to back down once you establish that this event, this spanking is on.
Begin by striking your wife's butt with your hand, using about 1/4 of your strength. Alternate cheeks, delivering a smack every couple seconds. Gradually increase the intensity until you reach a point where your wife is reacting to each swat. After a few minutes, stop and take stock of the situation.
Anticipation - Bending over and getting into position to get my bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation. Increased sensation - My properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more completely on the sensitive 'sit spot'. Exposure - A properly positioned bottom is fully exposed.
Here are some ideas: Wife on top. No matter which way she's facing you should be able to work in a few spanks just as she's reaching orgasm. Doggy-style gives you clear access to your target, and this is already a powerful position for the husband. Avoid the temptation to go overboard. Wife standing, bent over.
Repeat Spankings The idea of a husband spanking his wife several times in short succession seems on the surface a bit extreme. Often our first thought is that one punishment only deserves one spanking, or that having two in a row could be dangerous. With those limited ideas it seems superficially radical to be giving a spanking Continue reading
Anticipation - Bending over and getting into position to get my bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation. Increased sensation - My properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more completely on the sensitive 'sit spot'. Exposure - A properly positioned bottom is fully exposed.
The wife has her shoulders and head behind her husband so that she is facing rearwards. Although her outside arm is free, the wife's arms will most likely fold under her breasts like a crouching lioness. Providing a pillow will allow the wife to further support her torso, or to bury her head when desirable muffle her crying.
Video Time: 5:43. 48 ratings. Share. Embed. Description: By popular demand, a video of me spanking my wife's pretty bare bottom. This is the spanking she got right before my "lotion time" video. Enjoy. Tags: Bare red otk spankong wife . 2164 days ago , 107030 views.
Vicki lay-ed herself over and expected another complete spanking but instead got a some lite spanks and a little pleasure. I decided that in addition to any discipline that was warranted, my wife will be getting a spanking once a week for awhile to get her used to it, keep her in line and remind her of what she'll get when she does act up.
Chapter 3: Spanking Your Husband. Spanking is the most popular domestic discipline punishment. It is easy to learn and perform. It has a strong effect on your husband. No matter how big and strong he is, spanking will effectively send a message to him. It's safe. No serious injury will be inflicted.
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Your guide to the marital discipline of wives and other advice in heading your home.
I want to make things as easy as possible for visitors to this discipline guide to get the best help possible. We do have many visitors who are new to wife spanking, or who just are curious and want to learn, and I often wonder if it’s hard for them to find the articles which Continue reading “A Beginner’s Guide”
Besides faith, trust is perhaps most core to a traditional marriage. To practice headship, submission, and the discipline that comes along with it requires trust in God and in your spouse. Both man and wife have an easy ability to do wrong, to cause harm, to intentionally slight the other, and even to dynamite the Continue reading “Trust”
It is easy for the new married couple to take time to adapt to having discipline in their marriage. In fact, to apply it to your life, for a husband to lead and correct his wife, and for a wife to follow him fully and with her whole heart, takes understanding and is aided by Continue reading “Spanking is Not a Lifestyle”
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I’m need my husbands correction but he refuses, what should I do?
Hello J, Thank you for your question. I have several articles on introducing the idea of spanking to your husband that might be helpful to you. It’s not a rare situation that a wife wants to be corrected, but her husband either doesn’t know about it, or is not interested.
First try introducing the idea to him, and let him know your needs. Explain why you think it would be helpful, but turn it over to his consideration and decision. You might want to leave him with some good reading material on the subject. Most important is that he gets a clear view of what headship is, and what goes along with it. Once he can see his role and your role underneath him, correction fits more easily into the picture.
If he isn’t interested, there’s not too much you can do, other than being patient. Know that it takes time for a man to reconfigure how he sees things, and what you suggest may go against the bulk of his training and worldview. Certain things need to come into focus, and they take time. Just wait, and in the meantime, do your best to show him your submission to him in all things. Learn to be soft and gentle, and to follow his lead. Let him know you belong to him, and your body is his to enjoy as he pleases. Sometimes seeing you in submission will help him get a view of his own leadership, and how he can be your head. Your example itself can be a good tool to introduce it to him.
My husband doesn’t want to discipline me either.
In some ways that is more painful than a spanking. So it is something to train myself to submit to his desires to not spank. I do pray the Lord convinces him at some point to spank me. That’s a scary prayer to pray!
Hello NotSpanked, Thank you for your comment. I am sorry to hear you aren’t being corrected as you need, but submission often involves submitting to things you are unhappy with, including his choice not to use spanking. Work on becoming the soft, submissive, and feminine woman that you should be for him, even without the discipline. That will be valuable to him, and he will treasure it.
Give it time as well. I really can take men years to digest the purpose of discipline, as well as see its helpfulness. Plus they have mental obstacles to get over, such as the fear of hurting a woman, which this society has drummed into everyone. It is certainly worth praying for, though I understand your fear also. It can be hard to face a spanking once you have to face one.
If you haven’t read it already, here is one article dealing with common male obstacles to accepting spanking their wives:
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I’ve a question. I’m blind. My partner is also blind. How can he give me a spanking?
Hello Paula, Thank you for writing. I have not considered that question before, and I think it’s good you bring it up. To begin with, as far as afflictions such as blindness, I know that despite any hardship from the condition, the Lord purposes it for His glory. Your struggling with blindness, and living in it, can refine you, and can uplift the name of Jesus.
I do not believe that blindness would prevent anyone from spanking, or being spanked. It does present some challenges as far as safety is concerned. The first, is the ability to hit the mark, rather than striking somewhere that could cause damage. The second is witnessing how the spanking is affecting the woman, which allows a husband to see if he’s being thorough enough, or perhaps risking real damage.
I believe both of these obstacles can be overcome. It seems the safest way to spank, for those who cannot see, or see clearly, is over the knee. That way your man, who I hope is your husband, can know exactly where your bottom is, and even feel it resting on his legs. It is close to him and easily struck, even letting him know if he is spanking towards the top or bottom of it.
The second obstacle, for those who have never spanked before may be more difficult. How is he to know how the spanking is affecting your bottom? How can he tell if he is being harsh enough or too harsh? For me, having given many spankings before, with a variety of instruments, and having seen the results, I wouldn’t have a trouble gauging if a spanking were thorough without my eyes, although the eyes help. I know about the hardness to strike, and how long most of my spankings are. I also can tell by my wife’
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