How To Send Nudes

How To Send Nudes

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A guide to sexting best practices for you and your favorite taker-of-nudes.
If you've ever sent or received a sext, you're not alone. In a 2013 study, about 27% of all smartphone users said they receive sexts on a regular basis, and 12% admitted to sending nudes (though the people polled may have been being coy). That number may even be higher now, as the study came out just as Snapchat, then an ephemeral multimedia messaging platform built around disappearing photos and video, was taking off.
This is a judgment-free zone. If you want to send a nude (and have a willing participant), then send a nude. There’s nothing wrong with nudity! Human bodies are beautiful! But it's also totally normal to want to maintain control of the way your nudes are seen and distributed.
The only way to truly control your nude distribution is to do it yourself. Just follow these simple steps: Take a pic of your goods, download the pic to an encrypted hard drive, drop in a password-protected folder, confiscate your partner’s phone, show them the image, close the file, return their phone, and proceed.
But that’s deeply unsexy! And also not how sexting works.
If you decide to send nudes, you assume the risk of those nudes ending up in a public forum, and should prepare yourself for the worst case scenario — but you can significantly lower that risk by following this guide to best practices for ~sensual~ electronic communication. These tips don’t offer a complete guarantee that your nudes won’t be leaked, but they are a good First Line of Defense Against the Dark Interwebs.
One note: If you’re under 18, never, ever, under any circumstances, share a photo of yourself naked. You can be prosecuted as a sex offender , even for sending a picture of yourself consensually.
Here is the most important sexting advice of all: Only send NSFW content to people you trust. Does the recipient seem like someone who would publish your nudes as revenge or use them as blackmail? Do they seem like they take basic security precautions with their devices (see: tip #2)? Are they generally ...trustworthy?
You can use apps that employ the most secure end-to-end encryption available, but it won’t matter if the person on the other end takes a screenshot, and “accidentally” posts it to Twitter. So make sure that the person you’re sending your Anthony Weiner to is someone who understands the value of the safekeeping of your selfie.
Because, duh! If their (or your) phone is ever stolen and left unlocked, your nudes might end up in the wrong hands.
Snapchat will display a particular icon (an arrow with spikes) when a screenshot of your Snap has been taken. Instagram will also notify you if the recipient of a “disappearing” Instagram direct message takes a screenshot.
However, neither of these notification features prevent someone from taking the screenshot in the first place, and they could easily take advantage of the app’s biggest loophole: taking a photo of the screen with another device.
Messaging apps that employ end-to-end encryption, like Signal and WhatsApp, are great for protecting your various states of undress from hackers and government surveillance. But don’t be fooled: These apps don’t offer tools that prevent screenshotting or taking photos of the screen. Signal disables screenshotting by default on Android, but turning off screenshots is not an option on iOS.
I’d recommend using an app with audited, full encryption (like Signal or WhatsApp) and deleting the photos and videos right after they’re sent, but these apps are also good options for adding another layer of security.
Privates (free, iOS) is a good app for preventing screenshotting. It has some anti-screenshot measures that make it hard to capture the screen without the assistance of another person. You can set your photo to expire, and add different levels of security to it, like requiring the recipient to tap two circles repeatedly to view the photo for short bursts of time, line the phone up to their face, and keep the phone very still. You can choose to protect the photo with one security measure, or all of them at once.
DiscKreet ($3, iOS) will ensure that unauthorized friends, family members, or thieves aren’t looking at your nudes by using a two-password system. To view intimate recordings, each participant has to enter in their unique passcode at the same time. Every time you want to view a sent photo, you’ll need to request the sender’s permission first.
Bleep (free, iOS and Android) is an app that’s ideal for people who want their images to self-destruct after they’re received. It’s made by the filesharing company BitTorrent, uses peer-to-peer communication, and doesn’t store messages on the cloud. It has a “Whisper Mode” that makes photos disappear as soon as they’re seen. When a screenshot is detected, it blurs the name of the sender (which isn’t *super* helpful, but provides at least one line of defense).
In WhatsApp, open a conversation and tap the recipient’s icon to set Save Incoming Media to Never and Clear Chat . These settings only delete the images from your phone (and not your sextee’s), so teach them how to do the same.
In Signal, you can turn on Disappearing Messages by opening a chat and tapping the recipient’s name.
In Hangouts, open the chat and click on the three dots icon, then Options , to turn off conversation history.
In Google Allo’s settings, you can enable Incognito Mode , which turns on end-to-end encryption.
In Facebook Messenger, you can enable encryption by using a feature called “ Secret Conversation .” You can get to it by tapping the (+) to start a new chat > Secret > select the recipient.
Don’t be tempted by the full-frontal mirror selfie. They already know your face is cute, anyway. Show the people what they really want: YOUR BOD. Think creatively and point your camera down. Be aware of other identifiable details like tattoos and distinctive piercings, too.
And if you do capture those identifiable details, try using Microsoft Paint or the built-in Markup tool in the iPhone Photos app (open the photo > settings (the middle right button) > three dots icon > Markup), to cover them up with some scribbles.
Your nude could easily be traced back to your house using something called EXIF data, which is embedded in every image file and can include location.
This information can’t be removed on the iPhone itself without a third-party app like Photo Investigator (free) or Metadata Cut (free), but it can be removed on your Mac. Open the image in the Preview app > type command + i (or go to Tools > Show Inspector ). Select the GPS tab, scroll to the bottom, and click Remove location info . You can also do this on a Samsung device by going to Gallery > More > Details > in the location section, tapping the minus (-) button > Done .
Turn off location tracking for future photos in the iPhone’s Settings app. Go to Privacy > Location Services > Camera and set it to Never . On a Samsung phone, open the Camera app > tap the gear icon for Settings > turn the Location tags settings to off. On other Android phones, open the Camera app > settings menu (three bars) > turn Save location to off.
If you use Flickr, Google Photos, or iCloud Photo Library, prevent those services from auto-syncing your photo library before taking your nudes. Send the selfie, delete it, then re-enable backup.
Additionally, if you use WhatsApp and have opted to backup chats to iCloud or Google Drive, sent images will remain in the cloud, even after you’ve deleted the individual message from your phone. You’ll have to delete the chats manually from your cloud service account.
If you must, the best way to save your most sensitive photos is through the aforementioned method: on an encrypted hard drive in a password-protected folder.
On a Mac, it’s fairly simple. Open the Disk Utility app. Go to File > New Image > New Image From Folder and select the folder you want to protect. Under Encryption options, select 128-bit AES encryption and add a password. Don’t forget it! You won’t be able to recover it if you do. Under Image Format options, select read/write so you can still add and delete photos at your leisure.
You can do it for individual files too, through the Preview app. Go to File > Export as PDF > Show Details > Enable encryption and add a password underneath.
In Windows 10, right click the folder > Properties > Advanced > Encrypt content to secure data . To access the encrypted file, you’ll need the username and password of the login you used to create it with.
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Because no one wants an unsolicited dick pic.
I'm just going to say it: Nudes are fucking awesome. Swapping naked pics is not only a great way to build sexual anticipation , but it can make your tedious workday a lot more exciting (as long as your screen isn't visible to any coworkers). There's nothing like a hot pic from someone you're crushing on to help you fill out those TPS reports .
But initiating the swapping of nudes can seem daunting. For starters, how do you go about asking for nudes without coming off as a creep? "HI, YOU ARE HOT, PLEASE SEND A NAKED PICTURE" is probably one of the least attractive things a partner will ever hear. You have to be thoughtful about sending nudes, too. As with any sexual activity, consent is a must—and depending on how your partner receives it, an unsolicited dick pic could even be illegal .
We spoke to four sex experts to help explain how to ask for and send nudes. Here's who you'll hear from:
Daniel : You should always ask for permission before sending nudes. You can ask by saying something like, "Can I send you something naughty?" Make sure the conversation is already going this way. If they’re texting getting-to-know-you questions, it’s probably not the best time to ask.
Cory : Generally, the best time to send a nude is when you’re already having a steamy conversation via text . But the only time you can send a nude is when you’ve received explicit consent to do so.
Courtney : Consent is key to sending nudes. Nobody wants a dick pic out of left field, and unfortunately, that’s where most of them come from. Start with words. Sexting can be so hot. Tell your partner ... what you want to do to them later. Be explicit and nasty if that’s what’s in your heart—and if they’re reciprocating and things are ramping up, that’s a good time to send a nude.
Cory : The best time to send or ask for a nude is when there’s already a sexting sesh going down. While some people like sending spontaneous nudes to their partner(s) during work hours, that’s usually reserved for folks who have ongoing relationships where they’ve pre-negotiated boundaries about sexting and sending nudes.
Sofiya : I think in the middle of sexting is a good time, but only if both people have been sexting, not just one very horny party having a monologue.
Courtney : Yeah, read the room. I know that can be hard in our electronic world, but use all the context clues available. Are they replying to your sexts with equally sexual content? Great! Now you can tell them you’d like to see a little somethin’.
Daniel : You can ask: "May I see more of you?" [Add] a little devil emoji at the end to imply you're hoping to see a little more than what Tinder allows on profiles. This is a coy way of asking without being too direct.
You should also consider offering a swap for swap. You can say, "Want to trade sexy photos?" From there, you can share sexy, although not fully nude photos. After a few of those pics are swapped back and forth, go ahead and ask, "Want to share some X-rated pics?" You can throw in a mischievous grin emoji after to make it more playful!
Sofiya : I think a fun way to get to exchanging nudes from sexting is sort of slowly raising the stakes. Like, start with an ab shot, or a bicep shot, and wait for her to send something back. You can keep going until you get really explicit. Plus, if she pulls back and doesn’t match you pic for pic, you get a good idea about when to stop.
Courtney : An ex-boyfriend sent me some super sexy Tumblr gifs one time and it was the hottest thing ever. That really lubed me up for a more personal photo exchange.

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Now, don’t think I’m some paranoid old lady. Nudes can be spontaneous and fun, just as long as you keep yourself protected. This doesn’t mean you can’t send nudes, but it does mean you should think twice and do it safely. So before even taking a photo, take a look at these tips for how to send nudes the right way.
I feared sending someone a naked or half-naked photo of myself. Okay, I know some of you are rolling your eyes. This fear of mine kept me pretty safe. It wasn’t long before some of my friends from school had nudes circulating around without their consent.
How to send nudes without getting burned
If you’re like my friends, you thought you could trust the one you sent it to. You thought they were someone you could give yourself to without them sending it to other people. But this world isn’t full of butterflies. Sometimes, people can be horrible to one another.
I don’t want you to go through that. It’s very traumatizing. Those are photos you took of yourself only for the person you sent them too.
#1 Is this for you or for them? Are you sending nudes to someone because you want to? Or is this because you’re trying to get them interested in you. It’s important you know the difference. Before even considering sending a nude, think about why you want to send one. The last thing you want is to send the nude and feel bad about it. [Read: Non-awkward and kind ways to say no to something you’re not comfortable with ]
#2 Do you trust the person you’re sending it to? One more thing to think about before you start sending nudes is if you trust the person who’s receiving it. Did you just meet them a couple of days ago? Maybe sending a nude now isn’t the be
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