How To Roleplay Sexually

How To Roleplay Sexually
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Whether you fantasize about getting a good spanking from your college professor, being taken advantage of by your doctor, or participating in a gang bang , there is a way to fulfill all of your sexual desires without cheating on your partner: trying your hand at role-playing .
Through sexual role-playing, you can step outside of yourself, get into character, and act out your deepest, darkest fantasies. It can be a safe way to explore taboo and potentially dangerous scenarios you'd never actually want to happen in "real" life. And if that sounds a little intimidating, don't worry: There's a decent chance you're already incorporating role-playing into your sex life without even realizing it. Role-playing doesn't have to involve elaborate props and costumes (although it can!); it can be as simple as using dirty talk to change your usual dynamic with your partner.
Not to mention, role-playing in and of itself can lower inhibitions. Simply dressing up and getting started can make you feel more turned on and relaxed. And trust me: As someone who loves role-playing but can't act to save my life, I want everyone to know that you don't have to put on an Oscar-worthy performance to get into character and have a super hot role-playing session. (On that note, you also don't have to stick with traditional role-playing scenes, like school girl or handy man. Try to think about your own desires, and don't be afraid to ask for what you want — Harry Potter role-play, anyone?)
Intrigued but not sure where to start? Read on for a beginner's guide to sexual role-playing.
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Sometimes you just need to use your imagination
Sex role play is a such a fun way to dive into your sexual fantasies and even try your hand at a spot of power play, if that's what you're into. As society becomes increasingly open about sex and kinks, it's no surprise that more of us are exploring sexual scenarios and fantasy via acting and imagination – aka sex roleplay. Remember that when it comes to dipping your toes into new and exciting sexual waters, it’s a good idea to have a chat with your partner(s) beforehand. This warm-up discussion is a place to cover expectations, boundaries, and safe words . Making space for trust and open communication will help make sure you have a safe (and sexy!) time. So if sexy doctor, hot plumber or naughty builder roles turn you on, or a saucy ghost or witch fantasy is more up your street, here are some sex role play ideas to spark the imagination.
Role play often relies on breaking taboos and creating power dynamics . Therefore, unsurprisingly, work-based role plays are a bedroom staple. But, if you want to truly channel the office vibes, maybe leave the bed altogether and try having sex on a table or desk. While this can result in a slightly bruised bum or desperate fumbling as you try to move your laptop out of harm’s way, overall, it’ll be worth it. Just make sure you’ve moved any sharp pencils from the area...
This role play can have as much historical flair as you like. If you’re a keen historian and/or have watched Bridgerton's sex scenes (aren’t they roughly the same thing?), you might want to play at being a member of home help staff, obeying a master or mistress.
Given that massages essentially make someone as horny as possible without ever getting them off, a massage that takes you ‘all the way’ is a real treat.
But, if you’re playing the masseuse, make sure you pay attention to all the different parts of your partner’s body before you start to getting it on. That way the pay off will be even more satisfying. You can also try out lingam massage or yoni massage , if tantric massage is your thing.
Get your partner to approach you as though you’ve never met and are complete strangers, to treat your body like they've never seen it before, and to take you with all the frenzied lust that drives two people who don’t know each other’s names to jump into bed together. It’s the best of both worlds: all the fun of stranger sex without any of the anxiety that the person you’re sleeping with might be an absolute fckboy/girl/person who will ghost you tomorrow.
This role play's an easy one to accessorise with wigs , too.
The doctor/patient scenario is hot because it involves an authority figure. But this becomes still hotter when the authority figure has a reason to touch you – AND if you have a sexy doctor's or nurse's outfit .
Try giving your partner a ‘physical’ and explain to them that a normal side effect of such procedures is that they might start to really, really want to have sex with you.
By this I mean rural romps... I'm talking farm hand or milk maid based role play. Practice perfecting your southern American twang and pretend you’re rolling around in a haystack. Try your best to recreate the naughtiness of doing it alfresco as well as the romance of the wilderness – even if in reality, you’re only shagging with the window open and rolling about laughing at those dodgy accents.
Because, for most people, their real first time was either painful, embarrassing or unfulfilling, it’s fun to be able to recreate the event. Maybe put on a soundtrack that reminds you of your teens and try and remember that time of sexual frustration. Bring that extreme desire back to the surface and allow it to erupt all over again – but this time, hopefully, with a little more control and skill.
It doesn’t matter how flexible you are – anyone can make a yoga role play work. You can go pro, contorting your body into impressive yet erotic positions, or you can embrace being a total novice and simply waggle your bum in the air claiming it’s ‘downward dog’. Whatever your aptitude, pretending to be a yoga instructor can be a particularly fun, experimental role play, encouraging you to adopt ambitions positions and to serenely instruct your partner where to place their limbs.
Whatever your personal, political stance on the monarchy, regal role plays can be very hot. You may not fancy any of the royals, but that doesn’t mean you don’t fancy playing at being a princess or prince yourself. I mean, I reckon the only reason we haven’t abolished the monarchy is that we find the whole thing, well, sexy. But don’t let the royals have all the fun – bring the eroticism of dynasty to your one bedroom flat and command that your lover reveal their *ahem* sceptre.
If you've ever had a crush on one of your best mates, you'll know the sexual tension can be very very real. Play on that, with the stolen glances and uncertainty as to whether they feel the same about you. The push and pull and trying to figure out whether and when to make a move can be super hot.
If you've ever seen an old school porno, you'll know when the plumber, carpenter, electrician, handy man/woman/person shows up, things can get pretty heated. Maybe you're home alone and your kitchen sink has sprung a leak, you're all wet and you don't know what to do, when the plumber turns up to save the day...
Look, anyone who can drive (is that the correct verb?) a boat or plane is hot in my book. Imagine you're a passenger on a private jet, or luxury yacht, and over the intercom comes your pilot/captain's voice: Please report to the cabin immediately. What happens when you get there is up to you...

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Share your erotic fantasies with your partner. Try lying in bed one night and ask your partner to share one of their sexual fantasies with you. Then, you can share yours. This is an excellent way to broach the subject of role playing and can be a sexy experience for both of you. [1]
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If the thought of mentioning role playing to your partner in a face-to-face conversation is completely terrifying, then send your lover an email or text that details your erotic fantasy.

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