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Your breasts called, and they gave us this itinerary
Let’s take a second to appreciate the wonder that is your chest. Seriously. Big or small or in between, your boobs are sexy, functional, and make you look pretty damn great in a bikini. So instead of just coexisting with your girls, why not get to know them a little better? We rounded up 31 fun, silly, and smart ways to have a blast with your boobs. We promise, you’ll be besties before you know it.
Dress them up.
The best lingerie can take your pair from cute to Christina Hendricks (OK, not really, but you get the point). Find the sexiest style for your shape and don it under everything from an LBD to your work clothes. Just think of it as a sexy secret between you and your girls.
Get them wet.
We’re not talking wet T-shirt contest—though that’s an option, too. Hot water brings your blood to the surface and raises your body temp, both of which make your skin super sensitive to the touch.
Lather them up.
Speaking of showers, here’s another reason to hop in right now : dry skin irritates your breasts (and makes them less fun to play with), so find a moisturizing body wash that will treat them right. Pick your favorite and slather it on.
Give ‘em new nicknames.
Kate Upton reportedly calls hers “The Ladies,” but you can do better than that.
Take them shopping.
When was the last time you hit the dressing room with just your breasts in mind? Yeah, that’s what we thought. Go try on a few a style that makes your décolletage look amazing .
Opt for air drying.
Instead of toweling off post-shower, let your girls drip dry for a change. You’ll save them from towel-related irritation, and feel a whole lot sexier getting ready. (Bonus points if you’ve got a partner hanging around who’ll enjoy the freebie peep show!)
Bring the heat.
Another bonus to giving them free range in the morning? You can blast them with a little warm air while blow drying your hair. Seriously, you have to feel it to appreciate it.
Give them a boost.
OK, so you can’t actually make them bigger with exercise, but you can make them appear perkier. Try this bust-enhancing workout to tone the muscles that lie underneath.
Neglect the nipple—just for a minute.
Turns out, your nipples aren’t even the most sensitive part of your breasts; the area above your areola (between 10 and 2 o’clock) is actually much more mmm -inducing. Tease this spot for instant pleasure, especially when you’re getting ready to get busy.
...Or don’t.
Love your nipples? Then forget neglecting them and spoil them! Caress them, have your partner stimulate them, or dress them up in pasties just for fun.
Let them free.
Every once in a while (like that Sunday when your to-do list is just brunch and binge-watching Netflix) give yourself a free pass to skip the boulder holder. Just make sure your clothes keep everything under wraps.
Have a nipplegasm.
Yes—they exist ( read all about ‘em here ), and you could have one tonight. What are you waiting for?
Show them off.
Pull off a plunging neckline without having a wardrobe malfunction—we dare you. Here’s how .
Boost their confidence.
Worried about how your ta-tas compare? . Gorgeous, yes—but also totally human. There, now don’t we all feel a little better? Your body is beautiful! Don’t hold yourself to truly impossible standards!
Take them out for sushi.
Lunch date, party of 3? Chowing down on that spicy salmon roll can help lower your breast cancer risk , since it’s loaded with healthy omega-3s.
Touch yourself.
Giving yourself a breast exam isn’t quite as exciting as regular fondling, but it’s just as important to pencil in. Check out our tips for a no-stress self-exam .
Look out for admirers.
Turns out both men and women spend more time looking at breasts than faces, according to recent research . See, everyone is always staring at your chest!
Spritz them.
Dabbing your signature scent onto your chest will make it pretty much impossible for anyone not to catch a whiff when they come in close. And what’s sexier than that? Find the perfect perfume for you and share some with the girls.
Watch whether men prefer real to fake breasts:
Play favorites.
If your set isn’t exactly the same size, that’s fine—in fact, it’s normal. Grab a handful of each one, spot the differences, and announce the winner. (Bonus points for quirkiness!)
Love every little line.
As much as you want to curse your girls at any sign of stretch marks, here’s the thing: they’re largely caused by genetics. So try to stop fretting about them so much. If they’re really screwing up the bond with your boobs, try these tactics to prevent and erase stretch marks .
Make a date with moisturizer.
Experts say the best way to save the skin on your chest is by moisturizing—a lot! And hey, now you have an excuse to give yourself a sexy boob massage every morning.
Work out together.
You wouldn’t neglect your workout buddy right? So why are you treating your girls like crap during a run? Find the best sports bra for your boobs so you’ll both enjoy your workout a little bit more.
Explore different sensations.
If some squeezing and caressing from your partner is all your girls have experienced, they are seriously deprived. Play around with new sensations—like hot and cold temperatures, feather-light strokes or even vibrations from a sex toy . You may find a new favorite way to touch your boobs.
Embrace their size.
Katy Perry revealed to Elle that she wasn’t always happy with her chest as a teen, but now she’s learned to appreciate them: “Little did I know that these things would come in handy,” she said. So whether you’re busty or barely-there, just own it.
Check them out during sex.
Turns out, your girls can actually increase in size when aroused (A-cups, rejoice!). Plus, your nipples can get a little darker in color due to increased blood flow. So don’t forget to sneak a peak next time you’re getting busy.
Let them roam overnight.
Throw on some silky sheets and ditch your top for the night if it’s warm enough. The amazing feel of the fabric on your skin will feel like luxury (and might even inspire some sexy dreams).
Make sure they’re comfy.
If your boobs aren’t happy, you’re not happy, so make sure they’re not being pinched, poked, or prodded by the wrong lingerie. Learn how to find your perfect bra fit here .
If you’re not the type to play with your girls during masturbation, you might want to start. Exploring what pressure and sensations you like means you’ll know exactly what to ask for with a partner.
Or fondle with a partner.
An unofficial poll tells us that pretty much every guy loves seeing you give yourself a hand in bed. And really, who knows how to handle them better than you?
Fake better cleavage.
Wishing you had a little more oomph up top? Dust a little bronzer on your cleavage, dipping between your breasts in a V shape. Oh hey, Sofia Vergara, is that you?
Go ahead…stare at them.
Do it when you’re getting out of the shower or when you catch a glimpse of yourself in a mirror. Just check yourself out! Because all boobs—big, small, altered, or aging—are beautiful.
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"If you and your partner are going at it with excitement for a new experience, it will be fine."
Elizabeth Bacharach is the Assistant Editor at Women’s Health where she writes and edits content about mental and physical health, food and nutrition, sexual health, and lifestyle trends across WomensHealthMag.com and the print magazine. She has a master’s degree in journalism from Northwestern University, lives in New York City, and dreams of becoming best friends with Ina Garten, who is, undeniably, an absolute queen.
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I say, "boob." You say..."sex," right? Ehhh, probably not.
While the phrase boob sex might not be the first thing you think of when contemplating or talking about your girls, it might be worth bringing to the front of your mind.
That's because, quite simply, breast sex—a.k.a. titty f*cking (cringe)—can spice things up in the bedroom, especially when you're not in the mood for any down-under action (like, on your heaviest period days , when you're feeling bleh AF).
"We tend to get bored with the same-old, same-old routine with sex, so having sex with your partner's boobs [or your own] is a way to change up the routine," explains Gigi Engle , a certified sex coach and author of forthcoming All the F*cking Mistakes . "It's also a fun way to enjoy sexual play if your partner isn't feeling penetrative or oral sex."
Cool, cool, cool...but, umm, does this even feel good? Great Q, girlfriend. But before jumping into the dirty deets, let's make sure everyone's on the same page...
Of course, everyone and anyone is welcome to try out some titty time, but the term boob sex in particular generally refers to a male (penis-bearing person) thrusting his member in between a pair of breasts, which, btw, you're squeezing together.
While this can be arousing for some women—more on that in a minute—it's considered a nearly universal hit for men. Why? A few reasons: First, most men have a thing for breasts—plain and simple. Second, titty effing is a common act in mainstream porn, Engle says. Third, dudes tend to be visual creatures, and the sight of seeing his penis squeezed between your boobs is **quite** a scene.
It also feels really good for him—more like a Fleshlight than a hand or vagina, according to Engle. This unique sexual sensation can add even more excitement into the mix.
Ever wonder WHY guys like boobs so much? Stop wondering now:
For women, boob sex can be just as sexy and hot...that is, however, if being in a more submissive position excites you. "It puts you in that 'fantasy partner' porno position [where] you're kind of in this hot submissive, 'sex toy' role and that can be a turn-on," Engle explains.
It can also be really freaking hot to watch your partner get off on something new—and your body being an integral part of it.
But, sad to say, it's more about the experience itself than about getting actual sexual pleasure. While your nerve-packed nipples are nearby (and, yes, you can technically orgasm from nipple play ), breast sex doesn't really typically stimulate that area enough to get you to the big O. That doesn't mean you won't get yours—you may just have to treat the boob part as foreplay , then ask your partner to take their skills downtown.
Ready to give your girls a go? Here's how to make boob sex even better:
As with every sexual act, consent it absolutely essential. So it's key that you and your partner discuss the details, even the dirtiest (think: where they'll come), before things get hot and heavy. The good news? This can be as easy as asking, "How do you feel about putting your cock between my boobs?" or vice versa, says sex therapist Cyndi Darnell .
Odds are, your bae will be into it. But what if you're not? Rather than immediately shutting your partner down with a blatant N-O, try to keep an open mind and say something along the lines of, "Thanks for asking. Can you tell me more about what you mean?" or "I haven't tried it, but I might be willing to give it a go. What are some of the most comfortable positions for me that you have in mind?"
Darnell suggests using those phrases because they show that "you are a competent listener and communicator, and you are also looking for guidance." By gathering more information about what you're dealing with, you'll be better off to set boundaries and make agreements going forward, she adds.
Boob sex is all fun and games until your partner is about to finish and, oh crap, your face is very much in the splash zone. Not feeling a facial? Totally get it, girl. Just be sure to voice that and work with your beau to decide on another, more appropriate area for him to unload.
Don't mind it? Then say that, too. "Good sex is about talking as much as doing," Darnell says.
Friendly reminder from Engle: "Nothing with new sexual experiences goes off without a hitch."
Instead of coming to the bedroom with expectations for perfect boob sex, come into it with some room to giggle or feel weird. Also important to have by your side? Enthusiasm. "If you and your partner are here for it and going at it with excitement for a new experience, it will be fine," Engle says.
If this is your first boob-sex scenario, then your best bet is to lie down on your back so that your S.O. and his package are above you. (Oooh, quite the visual, no?) Have your man lean on his hands, so that he's in missionary position with your breasts, while you squish your boobs together, Engle explains.
The penis should then slip inside, in Darnell's words, "like a hotdog" and start moving in and out at a comfortable speed. Consider asking your bae if he'd like to do the honors of holding your boobs together, as this could bring him even more pleasure, Darnell says.
ICYMI, your boobs do not self-lubricate like your lady parts. So you'll likely need something to help with all the slipping and sliding. Enter: lube . More specifically? Silicone lube, which both Darnell and Engle recommend for its super-slippery properties (saliva will only do so much on your dry tata skin).
Silicone lube is also compatible with condoms, which is a major win if you're enjoying some titty time right before your man enters you down under and you need protection. Or, hey, he might even be wearing a condom for just the boob sex, which isn't actually that bad of an idea, according to Engle. "Even though the possibility of passing an STI is unlikely with boob sex, it's best to be safe, always!"
If you're not feeling the whole starfish situation, consider switching things up by sitting in a chair or squatting in front of your partner. The key, again, is to be comfy—you could be at this for quite some time (read: until your partner finishes or you decide to move to the next act).
Female-dominant positions more your thing? Then have your partner lie on his back and squeeze your breasts together to give him a new kind of a BJ: boob job, duh. Just like a tried-and-true hand job, move your breasts up and down to really give him all the feels.
"We have to get creative with sex and lots of things can be turn-ons, even if you're not directly getting off from it," Engle says. An easy example? Adding in a little oral sex while mid-boob action—after all, the head of your partner's penis is bobbing up toward your face over and over and over again.
Heads up, however: "Not all cock-and-boob combos are built for this," Darnell cautions. So, if you're having difficulty touching tip to mouth, don't try to maneuver it. Instead, opt for other playful tricks, like alternating between an OG blow job and then boob sex, she explains.
While locking eyes can increase the intensity for some, it can ruin the moment by being too intimidating for others, Darnell says. So it really depends on the duo. The choice, dear reader, is yours.
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