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You probably have that one friend who just happens to have an incredibly hot mom and now you’re wondering how to get a MILF. Sure, you like spending time with your friend, but you love seeing their mom more. When you go home, you’re touching yourself thinking about their mom in the shower, cooking dinner naked – we know how these things work.
Well, if you still don’t know what a MILF is, it’s an attractive older woman who usually has children. She can still be a MILF if she’s a hot older woman…but that can also be a cougar, which we’ll discuss in a second.
So, if you see an older woman who’s a bombshell, then she’s a MILF. The term MILF actually stands for “mother I’d like to fuck.” Pretty straightforward, don’t you think? Okay, okay, okay, now that you know this, it’s time you hooked up with the MILF of your dreams.
You might wonder if a MILF and a cougar are the same things. Both are slang terms that are used pretty often in movies, TV shows, and social media. But we also use the terms in daily conversations. But not everyone is sure whether they are the same or not.
A cougar is an older woman who enjoys relationships with younger men. Even if she’s not in a relationship with them, she enjoys their company, and they are usually at least 8 years younger than her. The general age range of a cougar is between 35 and 55 years old. [Read: Cougar dating – 10 rules about dating an older woman ]
A cougar can be a MILF too, but only if she has children and is looking hotter than most women her age. But a cougar is always a woman who is seeking a sexual relationship with a younger man.
The term cougar is older than the term MILF, which was only established and popularized at the beginning of the 2000s. It was actually constructed by college male students who wanted to show that one woman is still attractive even if she is older than him and has given birth to children.
It’s not easy to find and hook up with a MILF because most of these women are already taken, married, or are happy being single. [Read: Cougar women rock! 13 reasons why they make a really good partner ]
So, as you can see, the cougar is an older woman is seeking sexual activity with a younger guy. And a MILF is a hot older woman with a kid who may or may not is seeking a younger guy. Hence the part of the “Mother I’d Like to Fuck” – whether she does or not.
While all guys have their personal reasons for liking MILFs, one of the reasons is the fact that men find themselves attracted to an older and more experienced women. It could be the idea of being with someone who knows what she is doing in bed that makes guys fantasize about a MILF.
A lot of times, people think of sex as a biological process in order to have children. So, this makes the idea of a younger man having sex with an older woman – and maybe not even able to have children anymore – strange to some people. However, most people have sex for pleasure and not for having babies. [Read: What is a MILF? The surprising truths and thoughts behind its meaning ]
Another reason guys could be so attracted to MILFs is that it is sort of taboo, and guys enjoy doing things that are forbidden. In addition, it could mean a subtle role-reversal of who is in charge and dominant. This breaks the conventional standards of sex, and that is fascinating to some men.
Regardless of all of this, what it really comes down to is just how natural it is to get exciting at the thought of having sex with an older woman. It may just be a common fantasy that men have, whether or not they actually act on it or not.
Yes, a MILF can be intimidating. They’re experienced, so you need to learn the ropes before you set your sights on picking up a hot older woman. So, here are the 14 dos and don’ts for picking up a MILF. [Read: 7 Honest reasons dating a M-I-L-F is the best thing ever ]
Don’t ask her if it hurt falling out of heaven or if she needs a boyfriend, these are possibly the worst lines you can use. And honestly, they don’t work regardless of age. Just approach her like a normal human being.
Start off with saying hi, commenting on something she’s wearing, or asking her what she’s drinking. There, we just gave you three different ways to start a conversation. Now, you do the rest.
Yeah, this is the worst thing you can do. Why would you bring up the fact that #1 you want to fuck her, and #2… she’s old? It’s like a double whammy. If you’re going to compliment her, leave out her age because it’s not going to get you laid if that’s what you’re hoping.
Sure, it can be intimidating approaching an older woman, but you have to be yourself. Older women and women, in general, have this amazing gift of being able to tell when you’re full of bullshit. It’s in our blood. So, don’t be something you’re not because she’s going to find out – she always does. [Read: Cougar dating – 10 rules for dating an older woman ]
You actually don’t have to make them chase you because they won’t. So, your games, yeah, you can leave those at the door. If anything, you’ll be the one chasing her. She’s older than you, so she doesn’t have the time or energy to spend chasing your ass around. If you want her, you go get her. That is what a MILF wants anyway – it makes her feel wanted, sexy, and desired.
If you actually get a date with her, but then all of a sudden get asked out by the boys to drink some beers, don’t bail on her. Why? Because she’s not going to give you a second chance.
You have to remember that your age is a huge factor in this relationship, so if you can’t keep a commitment, she’s going to see you as immature and drop you.
Sigh. Listen, we know you guys have an ego and that’s fine, we all have one. But, don’t act like you’re the master of the bedroom. This woman has ten or twenty years more experience than you, so you don’t think she knows what she’s doing? Think again, buddy.
Your BMW or gold chain isn’t going to work on them. Sure, maybe it works for you on Tinder, but these women aren’t looking for dollar bills, they’re looking for amazing sex.
And if we know anything, it’s that the gold chains and fancy cars don’t actually mean shit when it comes to the bedroom. [Read: How to make an older woman fall in love with you ]
These women aren’t fresh twenty-year-olds where you only need to show them your abs and they’re already in bed. They want to be intellectually stimulated. You don’t need to talk politics with them, but you need to be a good conversationalist. Sure, the young generation is into technology, so maybe put your phone down and practice speaking.
These women didn’t get all dressed up to go out and deal with your drama. So, leave your ego at home. Most of these women have been in long-term relationships, so they’re not looking to solve your problems over a Martini. If you need a therapist, we can find you one.
Don’t hit on a MILF without knowing what you actually want. Are you looking for something serious or just a hookup? These women are experienced, and they’re not into being played with. So, you need to know what you want or else you’ll lose focus of what your goal is. [Read: How to flirt by touch without making it obvious at all ]
If she has kids, she may bring them up in the conversation. You’re probably not at that phase to have children, nor do you really care about her kids, but if you want to go on a date with her, you’re going to have to listen.
Sure, people without kids pass out hearing stories about what their baby did today or how Mark is a bully at school. But you’re going to have to be attentive and patient because this is an important topic for her.
There’s going to be a moment where she’s going to say, “Oh, but I could be your mother!” or “You’re young enough to be my child!” Your job is to ignore those comments and power through them.
The age difference is obviously bothering her a bit, but the way to reassure her that it’s okay is to not pay attention to that. Because really, does it even matter? [Read: Dating a woman who’s way older than you – A few things you must know ]
No matter the age, women love to be complimented. It makes us feel sexy and wanted. Of course, don’t be a douche and start throwing out compliments left, right, and center. You need to keep them genuine or else she’ll be able to read right through you. So, if you think she’s beautiful, tell her. [Read: How to get a girl horny and wet by sitting next to her ]
MILFs are a little different than women your age. Many of them have serious past relationships, divorces, and children, which, compared to you, is a lot of baggage.
She may be looking for something more serious, or you may be lucky and she’s just wanting to have fun. While you’re talking to her, you’ll be able to figure out what she’s looking for. If you’re not sure, just ask her straight up.
Older and younger women aren’t always looking for the same thing when it comes to men. Since older women have been around longer, they are less likely to put up with people’s BS. So, here are some things to keep in mind if you want to be more attractive to a MILF. [Read: How to seduce an older woman and make your fantasy come true ]
Regardless of the fact that she is older than you, women still like you to fulfill her demands and take the lead in bed. So, start with taking any situation into your control from the very beginning. Buy her a bottle of wine, initiate the kiss, and generally lead the way.
You probably think that she wants to be showered with compliments. Sure, she does. But don’t overdo it because you will appear fake and she’ll see right through you. You can tell her how great she looks or that her body is perfect, but you don’t need to go on and on about it. Excessive flattery will only make you seem young and immature.
A lot of older women don’t want to do a lot of small talk. They want to talk about deeper issues. And she also wants you to want to get to know her as a person. So, whether or not it’s talking about whether aliens exist or asking her about her childhood, you should be prepared to have a good conversation with a MILF.
So, now you know how to get a MILF, and it’s time you went out and tested your new skills. It’s your turn to pull an Ashton Kutcher…we believe in you.
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Kristin Wang is a regular contributing author to BeyondAges.com. After spending many years dating both younger and older men Kristin loves helping couples find dating success. Kristin has found a lot of success meeting younger men online and sharing her insights with others is something she loves.
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Meeting older women may be easy. You just have to be at the right place at the right time. But actually approaching them and striking up a conversation? That’s not as easy as it looks. So if you want to learn how to pick up an older woman, here’s the guide for you.
Take it from me. I’m an older woman who knows what works and what doesn’t. While not all mature women want the same thing, it’s safe to say that we all generally prefer certain approaches over others. No pickup “artistry” here because these tips are what really work on women.
Keep in mind that the advice below is generally for making a romantic connection. If you're only looking for something casual, you can check out our guide to finding older women who just want to hookup .
A key part of knowing how to meet older women is being aware of where to meet them. Below, we have listed 10 hotspots for picking up older women. If you want more detail about how to pick up older women in these places, see our full guide on where to meet older women .
In most parts of the world, upscale coffee shops are hotspots for meeting older women. Whether they’re relaxing during the lunch break at work or after an afternoon’s shopping, you’ll usually find them here.
It’s not too difficult to strike up a conversation at this type of venue either. There are no distractions and they’re not going to be in a rush to go somewhere else. Approach respectfully, ask if you take a seat next to her, and you’ll essentially be on an instant date.
Online dating is taking over the world, and it’s not just Millenials and Gen-Z women who are using them. You can find a sexy older woman via online dating websites too!
There are certain online dating sites that are particularly fruitful for finding older single women too. Try eHarmony if you’re looking for a serious relationship, or Cougar Life and Adult Friend Finder if you’re only after a quick fling.
Either way, these apps help you to choose a suitable older woman from the comfort of your own home.
A woman’s gotta eat! And you’ll find the sexiest single older women shopping for groceries at high-end grocery stores. You might not think of a high-end supermarket as a traditional place to meet your date, but that’s part of what can make it so magical.
Perhaps you start by making small talk about whatever you’re buying, then transition into flirting and asking her out on a date.
On a warm summer’s day, the parks are full of people and you better believe that includes beautiful single older women. Again, this is one of the easier spots on this list because most people in the park aren’t likely to be rushing off somewhere else in too much of a hurry.
If neither of you are in a hurry, perhaps you can even whisk this woman off to a date at a nearby cafe or bar straight away.
You might not find as many older women at the local superclub, but there should be plenty at quieter wine bars or brasseries. Some of the women you’ll find here are actively looking, so try to keep your eyes open for signs that she’s looking for company .
Older women tend to enjoy a drink at the weekend just as much as their younger counterparts, even if they’re not raving on the dancefloor until 3 a.m. and beyond. And if they’re single, they’re usually going to be ready to mingle.
Yoga classes are a good bet if you’re looking for older women who like to take care of their bodies. These tend to be more social than other fitness classes, so it won’t be too untoward to strike up a conversation before or after a class.
Older women tend to appreciate fine dining and can be partial to necking back a few drinks at the bar afterward. These types of bars are more appealing to older people than noisy bars with a DJ.
A lot of older women enjoy cooking classes. In fact, there are lots of classes and events that tend to attract older women. How about salsa classes or wine tasting events?
These types of events can be found on listings websites such as MeetUp! Or Eventbrite. Women enjoy meeting men when there’s something fun going on.
The great thing is: people going to events like this are usually doing so to meet new people. So, don’t hesitate to introduce yourself to a sexy older woman if you see one here. You already know that you have similar interests, so you can begin by striking up a conversation about this.
Sure, there might not be too many older women waiting for the bench press, but perhaps you’ll find some making use of the yoga classes, pool or sauna.
These are the types of holidays that older women enjoy. So, if you want to meet an older woman letting her hair down on a vacation, you should be booking this sort of trip too.
Now you know where to meet women, so it’s time to put that knowledge to good use. When you head to one of the spots we’ve mentioned above, use the tips below to perfect the art of how to pick up older women.
Timing your approach when it comes to older women is extremely important. Many mature women don't appreciate being interrupted when they're out with friends or unwinding at a cafe. This is where being tactful and observant comes in handy.
When you spot an older woman that you like, try to get her attention subtly. Pass by her a few times or be in her line of sight when possible. Then try to check if she's also looking around for someone to talk to.
When you see some of the signs that she wants to be approached , that's when you can make your move. It beats having to approach her out of the blue and surprising her (and not in a good way!).
One of the main reasons an older woman chooses to date a younger man is because she’s attracted to the youthful, playful side of you that she can’t find in men her age. Older men may have been through the mills and usually have a more jaded outlook on life. You probably don’t.
So the first step to attracting them is knowing where to meet older women . to keep the mindset of a kid and just focus on the both of you having a good time.
Being younger, your energy levels and vibrancy should naturally be higher than most guys who flirt with her. Use this to your advantage and emphasize it. Always keep the focus on fun and positivity.
You can make it a lot easier on yourself by checking out the spots where finding single cougars near you is easiest . This is where older women are much more open to meeting single guys.
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