How To Organize A Gangbang

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What she wanted pushed the limits of our boundaries—and my ego.
Millennials, so we’re told, value experiences over things. One year, the experience my millennial girlfriend wanted was a gangbang: Being at the center of a hand-selected crew of hot, fit guys was how she wanted to ring in her 33rd year. And while it would mean challenging my ego to its very limits, I don't mind telling you that I was as turned on by the idea as she was.
I should mention that this request didn’t come out of the clear blue sky. In the eight months since we met, Alex and I had been getting up to all kinds of no good. A threesome here, a sex party there. But a gangbang—in which one person is the focus of sexual behavior with several people—was for sure a leveling up for us. We were also about to discover that staging one required an amount of forethought and planning that’s rarely alluded to in porn.
The first thing we had to figure out was the number and identity of the participants. Having a six-pack counted for a lot in Alex’s book, though not nearly as much as being respectful, safe, and onboard with her pre-defined boundaries. Luckily, a month or two prior, she and I had attended a sex party where Alex had identified several guys who seemed like they would fit the bill. It was my job as the gangbang organizer to do some Facebook sleuthing and create a list of potential invitees for Alex to choose from.
Though she decided that five guys would be an ideal number, I’d read that even experienced gangbang goers are prone to dropping out at the last minute and that it was wise to overbook. With that in mind, I sent out invites to Alex’s six top draft picks, assuming that two or three might bail. Once I got the enthusiastic responses from the prospective participants, Alex told me all of her boundaries, which I then relayed to the gang in an email.
The next step was to secure a venue. While we could have done it at either of our apartments, we agreed that the event warranted something bigger and more luxurious. We opted for a boutique Brooklyn hotel with floor-to-ceiling windows that offered a sweeping view of the Manhattan skyline. With the date, venue and participants set, all we had to do was wait for the big day to roll around. We talked about it quite a bit over the next few weeks, discussing logistics when we were clothed, and vocalizing what it might be like during some particularly dirty sessions.
Three days ahead of the party, I sent out an email divulging the location, time, and what people should bring—a towel to shower before and after the event, their choice of condom, lube, or beverage. It also included a reminder of how Alex wanted the event to unfold, and the general vibe she wanted to foster.
Not long after I sent the message, I got a reply from an invitee telling me that he wouldn’t be able to make it, followed by another cancellation the following day. Though Alex took it in stride and reminded me that we’d planned for this very scenario, I started to worry about more people might drop out and Alex’s birthday celebration not living up to her expectations.
On the big day, we checked into the hotel, then headed out to acquire some essential gangbang birthday party supplies—including plastic cups, cupcakes, cut fruit, tequila, beer, and Vitaminwater because, y’know, electrolytes. While Alex got ready, I made some last minute additions to the party playlist, futzed with the lighting, and strategically placed condoms, lube, wipes, and black latex gloves around the room so that they are in easy reach for everyone.
With an hour to kill, Alex fessed up to feeling a little nervous at the idea of having sex with a carload of guys, two of whom she'd never met. Over tumblers of tequila on the rocks, I told her that I’d be with her every step of the way, though I couldn’t deny I had butterflies about the whole thing myself. This was performance anxiety on a whole new level, particularly as I’d seen some of these dudes in action and—on various levels—they were all impressive.
Now, this probably goes without saying, but if you're the jealous type, being asked by your girlfriend to corral some hot guys to simultaneously fill her every body cavity is something of a tall order, birthday or not. I know this because, until I got to my 30s and acquired some experience with polyamory, sex parties, and the like, a request like this would have made my head explode. It took a while, but I eventually chose to relinquish feelings of insecurity and have since gained an ability to celebrate and even help realize my partners' fantasies. And then I made it my specialty—my superpower.
At the appointed time, I got a text confirming that all four guys were in the lobby. I gave Alex a hug and went down to collect the respectfully punctual quartet. The five of us entered the room and found Alex looking small on the white expanse of the king-sized bed, wearing nothing but a rose-pink hooded sweatshirt. Everyone gave Alex a hug and wished her a happy birthday. We broadly chatted about what was about to happen over drinks. Then, one of the guys suggested we get things underway with an eight-hand massage.
“Oh my god, this is amazing!” said Alex with a wicked laugh, and from that point on, I was confident that the night would go smoothly. Indeed it did. Many of the highlights are a little too choice to detail here, but the big-picture view is that we went down the list of physically possible combinations—and the birthday girl’s expectations were exceeded.
After ninety minutes of sex and an hour of hanging out to chat—and yes, rinse off—the boys said their goodbyes and I got to spend some time snuggling with my girl. We left deconstructing the evening for a future time, and sat with the fact that we’d actually pulled off the X-rated get together she’d been dreaming of.

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I 've had a couple of gangbangs and i'd say the best place for every bit of the cum to be is...ALL OVER! in my mouth, on my pussy, on my ass, IN my ass, on my tits...everywhere is good for me.
w ife says : myself would try to have one with not not more than three guys.Should have nice cocks and to be gentle with me.All the cum I want is in my pussy.
I have never had one but I want to soooo badly. It has always been a fantasy of mine. For me it is about fulfilling a basic feminine purpose to highest degree. It makes me feel absolutely feminine to dream about being filled by a big group of men, helpless to their erotic and physical desires. I would want the cum pumped inside my pussy, my ass, and wherever else it ended up.
v eryy sexxy christifox. i can round up some men and use you until we all soak u inside and out with warm cum.
B efore I was married I did a couple of gangbangs. I wanted to do it and they mostly cum in my pussy , ass, and all over my body.
A t 15 I let guys do it cause I thought thats what girls were supposed to. Never wanted and never liked it and now think it was rape though I did it. I will never do it now. It put me off guys for 10 years I coulnt stand thm even touching me. Now finally I like someone and want to get more involved with him.
W ell we don't call it that but rather "multiple men" or having an "evening" Yes informal going with the flow as well as formal planned evenings. Why? Because I like men and enjoy extended or protracted sex. Is thrilling to be wanted by all and give myself and I can just enjoy and come lots more than I do with just my husband or any one man. Well I prefer inside me but with larger groups where they get less time to be with me they can and do sometimes bring themselves off wherever they have access.to me.
B ack in the day - a long time ago - my gf and I did it one time. My gf, me and four other guys. She said she enjoyed it, and at one level I thought it was hot seeing my gf having orgasms like crazy and covered in cum. However, I have to admit, that I was at once a little jealous - I didn't want to "share" her when it came down to it - and weirdly I kept wondering as we penetrated both her pussy and anally, if we were hurting her. To this day she says she had a great time - ironically it was my idea - but she says while she does not mind a threesome, she really does not want to do a "gangbang" again. (Which is okay with me.)

E njoyable just at the attention level alone as well as the erotic (sexual) level. And even a little pain is OK as long as that core of pleasure keeps happening. But she (as well as most of us) would not want to threaten a stable relationship.
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"It's a big myth that sex parties are a free-for-all."
Woman A: I started about five years ago, when I first started to explore open relationships. The first parties I went to were with my best friend at the time (also a sex worker [like I am]) and a casual partner who was also dating that same friend! Going to parties seemed like a natural extension of testing out the boundaries a bit more in my personal life.
Person B: I attended my first sex party at 18. At the time, I was beginning to explore both non-monogamy and kink. Luckily had some new friends who were enthusiastic about welcoming me into spaces that would further facilitate that exploration. I didn't have a partner at the time and largely went to sex parties with friends.
Woman A: It's a big myth that sex parties are a free-for-all. Most people end up playing with the friends and lovers they arrived with, and that was certainly my experience. It was a bit more fun because of the sexually charged atmosphere, i.e. the attractive people having sex all around us!
Person B: Frankly, complicated. At that point in time I largely had not done enough exploration to feel comfortable as a sexual being, especially as a queer person who could finally be out safely. The parties I was invited to were very much straight-leaning and also had a problematic culture around consent. There were abusive men in positions of power, no infrastructure for dealing with consent violations, as well as an unhealthy drug culture. I never actually played at them, just went to watch and hang out. I still found the experience useful as it normalized alternative relationships and lifestyles for me. More importantly, I collected information over the years on what I think makes a great play party as well as the various issues that arise — as a result I think the play parties I throw are wonderful, safe, and sexy spaces.
Woman A: The atmosphere. I tend to go with a big group of friends now, and it's an opportunity to do big scenes that realistically would never do at home. Big scenes refers to ambitious BDSM fantasies that might require special equipment that one doesn't have at home (like cages) or anything that might involve a bigger group of participants. For example, gang bang fantasies, or a fantasy with a large group of masked voyeurs a la Eyes Wide Shut. Anything like inviting fifteen people into my living room to do something like that is sadly less practical and less likely to happen at home. The exhibitionist/voyeuristic aspect is quite fun as well.
Person B: There are so many elements — group sex, exhibitionism, voyeurism, building community with fellow sexual deviants (I say that fondly). In general being in a space filled with people who are sexually liberated is a wonderful feeling.
Woman A: About once or twice a month, depending on schedule. A lot of kink parties in London [where I live] are essentially club nights where there is also a play room, so my friends and I treat it as a night out.
Person B: Multiple times a month, typically, but that's partially because I throw my own play parties.
Woman A: I think it would have to be part of a larger conversation about non-monogamy, i.e. are you and your partner into having sex with other people? That's a difficult topic to raise, but I think every couple should talk about it, even if the answer is a resounding "no". That said, there are plenty of monogamous people who go to sex parties — they just enjoy having sex with each other with other people around.
Person B: I can see this going a number of different ways, honestly. I've been non-monogamous since I was a teenager and have always pursued similarly minded people. Many non-monogamous folks will be a lot more open to going to a sex party than monogamous folks.
Woman A: If you've decided you do want to go to sex parties and have sex with other people, you should talk about your boundaries. Are you happy for your partner to play with new people, or only with existing partners? What sort of conversation would you like to have with your partner if they think they might get lucky with a new person? Do you have any boundaries about seeing your partner have sex, and what arrangements would you need to make about that? Some couples I know prefer not to go to parties together, because they find it difficult to connect with new people if the other's around, so that's something to talk about as well.
Person B: I think broaching the topic as a shared experience you want to have as well as making sure to thoroughly create boundaries and expectations is a safe bet.
Woman A: Usually I just have sex with my existing friends and partners, though very occasionally I'll meet a new person there. I'm bisexual, but I don't have sex with couples very often. I'm very into exhibitionism though, so I do like to play while others are watching and then talk to the people I'm having sex with about the people watching.
Person B: I think it's a false binary to think of sex parties as couples vs singles. For me, a relationship anarchist, I may have multiple partners at one party and not necessarily play with any or all of them. My night at a play party may include meeting new people, chatting, dancing, sex with multiple people throughout the night (sometimes one on one and sometimes group), and kink scenes. I think exhibitionism and voyeurism are natural but I don't tend to center those experiences.
Woman A: In Britain it's just like at a normal party — small talk, commenting on their outfits. It takes a bit of flirting and sensing the vibe before you directly ask someone about sex. British people are scrupulously polite though, and I've found people can be more direct though!
Person B: As you or I might anywhere else — there's no need to make it weird! I've made wonderful new non-sex friends at many sex parties. When it comes to approaching people for potential play, it's fair game to approach someone and ask if they're interested in get spanked or tying you up or making out — don't expect a yes, though. I ultimately prefer striking up a casual conversation and seeing where that may organically lead though.
Woman A: I'm much less likely to come at sex parties, and often do more kinky play that's less genital focused anyway. Orgasm is kind of less the point; it's more about the overall experience.
Person B: I'm not sure I've noticed any difference, but I generally don't center my sexual experience around orgasm anyways.
Woman A: I usually like to go with a big group of friends, including partners. If I'm feeling particularly o
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