How To Make Yourself Squirt If Your A Girl

How To Make Yourself Squirt If Your A Girl
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By Sean Jameson — Written on Oct 01, 2021
Learning how to make yourself squirt can be incredibly pleasurable, especially if you do it with someone you care about. But many women struggle when learning the art of squirting and never quite figure out how to do it properly.
This guide will show you how to make yourself squirt and have intense squirting orgasms, whether during sex or masturbation.
Before you learn how to make yourself squirt, it's important to understand what's actually happening with your body.
Many women believe that when they ejaculate, they are actually releasing urine. This is possible, but it's rare.
Instead, when you're squirting, you actually ejaculating fluid from the Skene's gland , which is located above the G-spot and is really close to the bladder.
As the Skene's gland is stimulated, it fills and then expels fluid through the urethra, which is the same tube that urine passes through.
As a result, many women report that they feel like they are going to pee as they ejaculate. It's a totally normal feeling. But, importantly, it's not pee, even if it feels like you are peeing.
Unlike learning a new sexual position where you simply need to imitate a picture or diagram you found online or in a book, learning how to make a woman (or yourself) squirt takes more work than this. It is a half-mental, half-physical phenomenon.
You probably won't magically be able to make yourself squirt by only focusing on this masturbation technique . You also need to learn how to properly relax and let go to make squirting happen for you.
So the first thing to learn is that having that "I need to pee" feeling as you are about to ejaculate is totally normal.
What is important is mentally releasing and relaxing so that it happens more easily. This is the most important step — many women can't squirt because they are simply holding themselves back, instead of just releasing and going with the flow.
Before you actually start, make sure to have a few glasses of water so you're properly hydrated. No need for gallons of water, but half a liter to a full liter of water is perfect.
Then right before you lie down or jump in the shower to start trying to make yourself squirt, make sure to empty your bladder. This will help you stop worrying so much about peeing when you're squirting and also prevent too much urine from coming out.
Because things can get a little messy, prepare your bed with some towels or something you don't mind throwing in the wash afterward so you don't get any of the fluids on your mattress.
Next, it's time to get comfortable. If you are in bed, make sure you aren't going to be disturbed and that you are able to get in the mood .
You might want to try reading some erotica or just fantasizing about your favorite hot and scenario.
Get yourself aroused is a vital part that many women ignore. In order to squirt, you need to slowly build up your arousal for 15 to 30 minutes first.
Don't try to reach orgasm just yet, but make sure to get yourself close. Try to spend the majority of your time focusing on your clitoris and don't worry too much about penetrating yourself just yet.
Once you are incredibly aroused, it's time to focus on actually making yourself squirt.
To start off, you need to find your G-spot , which is inside your vagina. You'll know when you've found it because it feels very similar to a wet raspberry — soft, wet and slightly dimpled.
Start to slowly apply pressure. Pay attention to how it feels. Experiment with applying less pressure. Then more pressure.
The purpose of this experimentation is to figure out for yourself exactly what feels best and is most pleasurable.
Most women find that using quite a lot of pressure feels best. So don't be afraid to use a lot.
If you find that you can't apply enough pressure, then just use a sex toy instead of your hands. This is also a good idea if you find that your wrist is starting to get sore.
As you apply more and more pressure, you will be indirectly stimulating your Skene's gland. As you do, you will bring yourself closer to ejaculating.
This moment when you feel like you are about to ejaculate is crucial. Embrace the feeling and just let go, you will experience that wonderful feeling of gushing.
If you are afraid and believe that you are going to pee, then you will inevitably clam up and not be able to do it, so it's important to relax and let your body do what it's going to do when you're learning how to make yourself squirt.
One important thing to note is that while most women climax and gush at the same time, some women can do it without actually having an orgasm.
So don't worry too much if you have trouble reaching climax when trying these techniques — they don't always happen together.
Sometimes ejaculation doesn't happen as easily as you'd like. What then?
If you can't make yourself squirt at all:
If you are learning how to squirt for the first time and struggle to make it happen, don't worry!
Instead, try to focus on what's enjoyable and pleasurable. It can take many attempts before you finally discover the specific nuances and techniques that make squirting happen for you.
If you're not sure if you squirted:
Different women squirt in different ways.
While some women may shoot a stream that travels 5 feet, other women simply gush or gently release fluid that trickles out without much force at all. Both types of squirting are completely normal, so don't worry if you only experience one and not the other.
If you can't squirt during sex with someone else:
Often, women report that they can squirt while they are masturbating, but have a lot of difficulties squirting while having sex with a man.
Again, this is totally normal and nothing to worry about. Just give yourself time and learning how to make yourself squirt will eventually happen.
Sean Jameson is a sex expert and founder of the Bad Girl's Bible website , where you can learn advanced techniques to improve your sex life.
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Sure, learning how to make yourself squirt or actually experience a squirting orgasm can seem confusing.
Yes, it can be a little messy too. But the feeling of an extremely wet pussy is every man’s wet dream!
If your man can see you squirting, you can bet his jaws will hit the floor with awe. And chances are, so would yours!
Is it a rarity in the sex world? Yes. Is it hard to do? No, not with a bit of practice.
You’ve obviously heard of squirting, but you probably don’t know many women that can actually squirt.
Well, it’s no myth. In fact, the art of squirting is very real. And if you’re one of those people who want to know how to make yourself squirt, then you can definitely teach yourself to read the sensations and experience it time and again!
In the feature, we’ll discuss every single thing you need to know to make yourself squirt and the step-by-step guide to take you there. Sit back, get your fingers busy and prepare to blow your own mind with a huge squirting load of pleasure the next time you orgasm!
Squirting is the release, or discharge, of a noticeable amount of fluid from a woman’s urethra when she is sexually stimulated or having an orgasm.
But there’s more to it than that. Is it the same as female ejaculate? Because this story of female squirting actually begins from the female ejaculate.
Just like men have their own ejaculate, so do women. It’s just that most women aren’t aware of this. When a woman ejaculates during a state of arousal or when she has an orgasm, we call it a female ejaculation *duh?* and sometimes, in specific circumstances, it’s also called squirting or a squirting orgasm.
What are those circumstances that make a girl squirt? We’ll get there, and you WILL be a know-it-all about squirting in a few minutes. [Read: Debunking the myths on female ejaculation and everything else you need to know ]
The female ejaculate is a spurt of liquid that is expelled from a woman’s urethra *yup, that’s your pee pipe* when someone *or you do it yourself* stimulates you and tries to bring you to orgasm. But just to be clear, this female ejaculate is not pee.
Usually, when a woman ejaculates, it’s less than 5ml of fluid. To get a fair idea of how much fluid that is, that’s almost exactly the same as a man’s cum when he ejaculates.
So the women on TV who seem to be squirting an entire pint of beer? Ah, well, maybe it is the beer they drank before the camera started rolling! [Read: 25 common porn myths that people still believe ]
You know what pee smells like *and ahem, tastes like… right?*
When a girl squirts, the female ejaculate looks like watered-down milk, tastes sweet, and smells nothing like urine. It doesn’t always squirt out though, sometimes it just trickles down, so it’s easy to confuse it with pee.
And hence, the taste test, which is usually a great way to know for sure if it’s pee or ejaculate. If your man’s going down on you as you ejaculate or squirt on his face, chances are, he’ll immediately be able to tell the difference. [Read: 16 most important secrets to eat a girl out and make her scream ]
Squirting, on the other hand, is a bit of a controversy in itself, because only some women seem to have mastered it, while most others have no idea if it’s even real. You’ve watched porn. Is that girl really squirting a jet of fluid all the way to the foot of the bed? Or is she really peeing? Can you even tell the difference?
You’ve probably heard about this already, that the female ejaculate comes from a place called the Skene’s glands. Everyone’s heard of that. But what is the Skene’s gland really?
Let’s talk about your pee pipe, the urethra, for a second here. Along the left and right inner sides of your pee pipe are two little openings on either side, and these openings are called the Skene’s glands. You can use a mirror, part your labia with your fingers, and if you really take a good look, you’d be able to see two tiny holes in the front wall or the entrance to the “hole”.
The Skene’s glands are also called the female prostate glands, but it’s not very similar to the prostate glands found in men. So what do they do?
There are two primary jobs of the Skene’s glands – to produce antimicrobial fluids to prevent UTIs down there. And secondly, to lubricate you when you get wet.
So if you’re wondering how you actually get “wet” when you’re horny, you have the Skene’s glands to thank for that. Oh, along with the Bartholin’s glands too, in case you want to be right in your next argument with someone about how you get wet! The Bartholin’s glands produce a slick, transparent fluid, while the Skene’s glands produce a milky fluid, and together, they let you or anyone else know you’re wet or cumming. [Read: The physical signs of female arousal and 20 ways to recognize a girl who’s horny ]
Before you get to the steps to make yourself squirt, we need to clear this confusion up. Here’s the part where you need to know the difference between squirting, and the female ejaculate.
As we now know, the female ejaculate is just about a teaspoon of fluid. But every time we talk about squirting, we talk about a force that’s strong enough to batter the walls. So what’s that about?
Honestly, your Skene’s glands CANNOT produce a glassful *or even a cupful* of ejaculate in one go. It’s just not possible, just like a man can’t produce a bucketful of cum from his tiny balls in one go, no matter how hard he tries. [Read: A man’s guide to increasing semen volume the natural way ]
The funny part about the sexy squirt is that no one really knows for sure where it comes from or how it even happens. Nope, not even science can give this fluid the right name.
Here’s how the scientific conversation would go:
Is it female ejaculate? *can’t be, women can’t ejaculate more than a spoonful*
A group of doctors, including Dr. Samuel Salama MD and several other doctors, set out to find out what exactly is the squirting fluid. They used pelvic ultrasound scans on many women who knew how to make themselves squirt, and were able to squirt regularly and frequently at will.
To spare you the technical details, the women were asked to pee before sexual stimulation and completely empty their bladder, and tested using an ultrasound scan to prove their bladders were completely empty and held no pee. The scans were repeated again while the women were being stimulated, and just after they squirted during orgasm.
So what did they find out? Surprisingly, even though all the women had peed already, their bladders started getting filled again immediately as they started getting aroused! And as soon as they climaxed and had an orgasm after making themselves squirt, their bladders were empty again!
On testing the substances in the squirted fluid, they found that it was an involuntary expulsion of pee, along with the female ejaculate in it.
So what makes up the fluid you squirt out when you orgasm? Lots of “pee” and a tiny bit of female ejaculate! Yup, that’s what it is. Lots of fresh, watered-down pee, which thankfully doesn’t smell musty like stale pee, and a wee bit of ejaculate from your Skene’s glands. [Read: Peeing after sex and other confusing myths about the vagina ]
Honestly, the squirted liquid is clear, and unlike murky pee, it doesn’t smell like pee, and it looks like water. But tests on the substances in the squirted fluid had all the ingredients of pee in it. Along with the female ejaculate from the Skene’s glands, of course.
So if it doesn’t look like pee, doesn’t smell like pee, is it pee if it comes out of your pee hole all the way from your bladder? That’s the tricky part of squirting. The bladder did fill up pretty fast during sexual stimulation, even though it was emptied just before stimulation. So it IS some kind of “pee” because it did come from your bladder, even if it isn’t really pee.
Instead of worrying that it’s all just pee, try to have a good time trying to learn how to make yourself squirt instead!
Now that you’re completely aware of what squirting is, and what causes it, let’s talk about the fun part – how to make yourself squirt!
Learning how to make yourself squirt during sex or by yourself sometimes feels like the proverbial unicorn.
Those women who are fortunate to have achieved this kind of pleasure would sing you praises about the experience.
But for the other women who tried and failed to reach such orgasmic pleasure, they are often curious about how to make themselves squirt, and make the metaphorical floodgates open or even suspicious whether you can make it happen at all.
Due to its complicated nature, squirting has been a subject of so much discussion, making it some sort of a mythical creature in the realm of female orgasms. However, the fact that some women have been there and back to tell us their experience proves that it is achievable. The only question that remains is how does one achieve it? Let’s take a look.
Women are the only creatures gifted with the ability to experience orgasms at different levels. The most familiar of these is the clitoral orgasm. This type of orgasm is easily achievable since the clitoris is located outside the woman’s body and is easily accessible.
Now, the other type of orgasm is more difficult to achieve and is the one tied to squirting. This is the vaginal orgasm. This can be achieved by stimulating the G-spot located along the upper wall of the vagina. It can be stimulated through intercourse by contact with the penis or manually by using the fingers.
Vaginal orgasms are described as more powerful and longer-lasting compared to a clitoral orgasm. However, achieving this kind of orgasm requires more patience and careful application of technique. [Read: Why do orgasms feel so good? 21 ways and the best ways to make it better ]
Okay, now that you’re ready to give squirting a try and experience your first time squirt, here are a few steps that can help you along the way. Give them a try the next time you’ve got some time on your hands.
If you worry that you’re going to pee instead of squirt on your first try, then pee before squirting.
Empty your bladder completely, so that way, when you feel that “I need to pee” feeling, you know that it’s not because you actually have to pee. Usually, this is the feeling we have when close to an orgasm.
Sex is completely mental for women. Men don’t necessarily have to be in the mood to have an erection, but women have to be relaxed to get wet. You need to mentally relax before trying to squirt.
Don’t pressure yourself. Rather, see it as an experiment. If you find yourself becoming frustrated, stop. You won’t be able to do it if you become upset. [Read: How to relax during sex: Free your mind and enjoy your orgasms ]
If your partner stands next to you while you try, but you can’t relax when they’re there, get them to leave. You need to be completely comfortable because you need an environment that allows you to relax and give you time to explore yourself. So, whatever you need to make yourself comfortable, do it.
Well, this one is an obvious point, but you need to remember this. You need to be highly sexually aroused in order to squirt. There is no way you’ll be able to do it if
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