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Yes it's real, and it can be wonderful, but it's not a gold ring to collect like you're playing some sexual video game
I used to think squirting – also known as female ejaculation – only burst into public consciousness around the end of 2016, when the UK government tried (unsuccessfully) to ban it from porn. But according to insights from PornHub, our fascination with squirting – and with men obsessing over how to make a woman squirt – started long before that, with searches for ‘squirting’ more than doubling in 2013-14 .
Popular as it is, squirting remains controversial (and not just among prudish government ministers). Some researchers claim that there’s no such thing as female ejaculation, and the substance that squirts out is just urine. But although some studies have demonstrated that female ejaculation has a similar composition to pee, if you try to tell the world that there’s nothing more to see here than a golden shower, those who have squirted (myself included) will indignantly point out that the experience neither looks, tastes, smells nor feels the same as urination. Let’s not spend too long on the theory of (and science behind) squirting though – it’ll never be as fun as the practical.
It seems odd to talk about ‘fashions’ in sex, because as a general rule we believe our sex lives to be led by our own desires, rather than what everyone else is up to. But desires are inevitably influenced by the world around us – things our friends talk about, porn we watch , stuff we read on the internet. And when it comes to trends in sex, squirting, right now, is in .
"Approach squirting not not with a ‘can do’ attitude, but rather an ‘it doesn’t matter if I can’t do’ mindset"
As a woman who gets plenty of joy from making guys cum with volcanic force and volume, I understand why so many of my exes have been eager to repay the favour in kind. Delivering so much pleasure that someone’s body reacts in a visible and uncontrollable way is a delight comparable to making them shriek involuntarily during exceptional sex. From my perspective, the sensation of squirting is like nothing else – intense g-spot pleasure combined with enough liquid to soak my partner’s hands (and bedsheets – put a couple of towels down to save your Egyptian cotton). Then, as a bonus, there's the look of glee on his face when he realises he’s played a key role in bringing about this borderline Biblical flooding. Lovely.
But if you want to know how to get someone to squirt, then contrary to all those clickbaity ads, I’m afraid there isn’t ‘one weird trick’. Learning to squirt takes time, patience and experimentation, as well as a genuine eagerness for it happen from both parties. And the best advice I can give you is to approach squirting not not with a ‘can do’ attitude, but rather an ‘it doesn’t matter if I can’t do’ mindset. We’ll revisit this in a second, but first: a brief squirting ‘how-to’.
My few successful squirts have all been down to angle, pressure and mood. Lying on my back, legs spread wide for ease of access, with someone using either their fingers or a curved g-spot dildo to press hard against the front wall of my vagina. The ‘g-spot’ is not a magic button – it's just a neat place to stimulate the internal parts of the clitoris. Once you’ve found roughly this spot, stimulate it gently at first and then begin building pressure. Use plenty of lube, too, because you may be here for a while.
"Women aren’t video games, and you can’t just smash the right button combo to receive a gallon of squirt and 10,000XP"
Your partner will need to be really relaxed and in my personal experience that’s easier to do if I have something else to concentrate on, rather than having my vagina take centre stage. So a 69 position has worked well for me – providing welcome distraction when the pressure of trying to squirt is preventing it from actually happening. When I feel like I may be ready to squirt, a gentle push can make the magic happen, and a little extra clitoral stimulation sometimes adds to the pleasure and can bring on squirting more quickly.
There are a lot of ‘mays’ and ‘cans’ in here, for good reason: squirting is not something that everyone can do, and like any sexual thing, it’s also not one that everyone wants to do. Thanks to the aforementioned porn trends, I am definitely not the only woman who has had a partner ask if he can try to make me squirt, nor the only one who’s eventually got bored during numerous drawn-out attempts. Because squirting is such a visible thing, and one which can be rare, it has the all the hallmarks of a challenge that you might feel compelled to try and ‘win’. Treating it like an achievement to unlock can be exhausting and stressful for the person on the receiving end. Women aren’t video games, and you can’t just smash the right button combo to receive a gallon of squirt and 10,000XP. For many women, female ejaculation just isn't going to happen it all. If you care about her pleasure, you should accept that and move on.
Something which may feel like a fun challenge to you can be a wildly un fun challenge for the person whose body you’re experimenting on. If you attack squirting like it’s a mission to complete, there’s a strong possibility that some of that keenness could translate into pressure for your partner, sapping the joy from sex by turning it into a chore. Reassurance that "it’s OK" and "we’ll try again later is often not nearly enough to drown out the voice in my head that tells me I’ve failed and my body is broken. I don't want to carry a weight of sadness because I’ll never be able to help you tick ‘make a lady squirt’ off your bucket list.
So while I’m fully down with explaining how to get someone to squirt, and introducing you to the fun you can have along the way, I’d urge you to take whatever level of enthusiasm you have and dial it down a few notches before you even ask. Squirting can be very hot, if you do it organically. But don’t get so locked on to it as an achievement that you forget it’s also supposed to be fun.
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Contrary to popular belief, it’s not just pee.
Look, don't waste your time puzzling over whether or not squirting, also known as female ejaculation , is pee because, spoiler, it’s not. Now that's out of the way, how about you let your mind grapple with a much sexier question: how to make someone squirt? For starters, you might want to crack on with sex educator and Soft Paris co-founder Anne-Charlotte Desruelle's simple guide on making women and other people with vulvas squirt.
Like all good things, the answer to the age-old question "how to squirt?" or even "how to make someone squirt?" is deliciously simple:
It’s time to get comfortable! First up, get rid of all the tension in your body, ensure that you’re not going to be disturbed and leave yourself plenty of time. For extra peace of mind, you may also want to “waterproof” the area by putting down several towels beneath you.
Softly and slowly stimulate the G-spot. Keep in mind that this isn’t a race or performance and be sure to go at your own pace.
As your G-spot gets stimulated and you start feeling more aroused, the erectile tissue will fill with blood and the G-spot and the labia will get larger. Keep in mind that parts of the G-spot may feel sore, so take care to stimulate the sore parts gently.
Be conscious of the different sensations in your body and alter the pressure accordingly. Keep in mind that it should feel pleasant.
For many people with vulvas, ejaculation will only take place after the vulva and G-spot have filled with blood become larger.
Because the ejaculate originates from the urethra, feeling like you need to pee is a move in the right direction…
Some people only squirt when the G-spot is being stimulated (for example, via penetration), for others, it's the opposite and takes place when the vagina is not being penetrated.
Squirting isn’t just for solo play – here’s how to male someone squirt during partnered sex.
If you're with a man, penis-having partner, or using a strap-on , try cowgirl or doggy style sex positions.
If you're having sex with a man, penis-having partner, or using a strap-on , try out the cowgirl or doggy style sex positions.
Cowgirl is a sex position which allows you to be in complete control over both body and feeling, making it easier for you to feel your way to your G-spot.
Doggy style sex positions give your partner the chance to apply pressure on the frontal vagina lining, increasing the opportunities for G-spot stimulation.
And, lastly, remember that squirting may happen on your first attempt or it may take a few years… The most import thing is to be at ease with your body and ditch any expectations!
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If you’d like to give a woman the most intense sexual pleasure possible, then you might want to achieve a squirting orgasm (this is also known as “gushing”).
If so, watch our FREE video which reveals how to make a woman squirt. Click below to see it!
Here are the instructions that you’re going to need to follow if you want to help your woman to ejaculate, or achieve a squirting orgasm
1. Ask her to go to the toilet to empty her bladder.
2. Give her extensive foreplay, and make sure that you are both very turned on.
It’s also necessary to feel intimate, loving and connected with each other.
G spot stimulation, which is what I’m going to call prostatic tissue stimulation, works much better when the woman is feeling an emotional connection to her lover, so that she’s emotionally as well as physically aroused.
Indeed, for some reason, the G spot seems to be the central focus of emotional attachment during intercourse. Stimulating the G spot can produce a whole load of emotional experiences for a woman — and it becomes swollen with fluid much more easily when she’s engaged in sex that has a strongly emotional component.
4. Find her G spot by putting a finger inside her vagina.
You’ll find it with the pad of your fingertip uppermost, about 2 inches inside on the upper surface of the vagina.
When she is aroused, you should be able to feel smooth that swollen area which represents the G spot. If you feel ridges, she’s not aroused enough, and you need to go back to gentle external clitoral stimulation until she is sufficiently aroused.
You might also need to say a few sweet nothings like “I love you” to make sure she’s in the right frame of mind. Having plenty of time and no distractions helps too!
5. Stimulate her G spot with a well lubricated finger — lots of lube is essential.
She may complain that you she wants to urinate when you press on the G spot, but the sensation will pass with continued stimulation. Obviously she’s got an empty bladder, so she’s not likely to need to urinate.
6. Continue to use your fingers or use a smooth toy to stimulate her G spot.
This is about stimulating the G spot until she feels like she’s ready to ejaculate. You can use your penis if you have great staying power, but the problem is that if you hit her G spot in the right place and with the right rhythm, she’s likely to get so aroused so quickly that it makes you come, after which you have very little chance of discovering how to make a woman squirt, i.e., achieving female ejaculation.
And with a finger you’re going to have greater control and you’re going to be able to contain your own excitement.
The sensation a woman may feel that she needs to urinate will pass, and it will be replaced by an intense sensation of excitement. At this point she may be ready to ejaculate, but this is going to require her to keep herself emotionally open and relaxed, and to consciously allow the fluid to flow out of her. If she’s going to reach orgasm, it may help if she pushes downwards and outwards with the pelvic floor muscles.
7. Ensure there is good communication between you and reassure her that whatever happens it is natural and fun.
You may have already noticed when your woman achieves orgasm that she ejaculates a little bit of clear fluid anyway.
Female ejaculation, squirting or gushing is actually the forceful ejection of lots of this fluid from the urethral canal by means of strong muscular contractions, which occur after a longer build-up. This allows more fluid to accumulate.
Some tips for those who want to experience this amazing type of orgasm!
1 Watch the video below about how a woman can ejaculate during orgasm. When an orgasm involves squirting, or female ejaculation, it can be very intense, even mind-blowing. In fact, a woman may experience more pleasure than she thought possible.
And it’s not hard to make a woman squirt.
2 After watching this video, check out the information below!
Because of the Internet, most men have probably heard of female ejaculation, and the possibility of bringing a woman to an intense orgasm with fluid ejaculated from her vagina.
You may even have seen squirting or female ejaculation on video. If not, you can see one at the top of the right hand column of this page.
We call these “squirting orgasms”. The videos show how dramatic they can be. If you want to see how it’s done, there are plenty more videos online which show female ejaculation.
However, what’s probably more interesting if you’re a man trying to experience this with your partner, you need to find a way to do it with your own partner in a way that she’ll enjoy.
You see, most of the videos on the Internet show women being stimulated extremely hard with a man’s fingers, thrusting in and out of the vagina with a ferocity that few women are likely to find pleasant.
So the question is, is there a way of making it more acceptable for the average woman, so that she can squirt, and that you can both enjoy the experience?
Well, yes there is, and it’s not so difficult to do — but there are some things you have to overcome first.
The first is the woman’s fear that hen she ejaculates or squirts during her orgasm she’s going to urinate.
Understandably. Many women, particularly those who’ve had children, do experience slight leakage of urine when they laugh, lift things, or even when they reach orgasm. This is about the strength of the pelvic floor muscles, and Kegel exercises are the traditional remedy.
Of course, no woman wants to think
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