How To Make Woman Squirt

How To Make Woman Squirt
If you’d like to give a woman the most intense sexual pleasure possible, then you might want to achieve a squirting orgasm (this is also known as “gushing”).
If so, watch our FREE video which reveals how to make a woman squirt. Click below to see it!
Here are the instructions that you’re going to need to follow if you want to help your woman to ejaculate, or achieve a squirting orgasm
1. Ask her to go to the toilet to empty her bladder.
2. Give her extensive foreplay, and make sure that you are both very turned on.
It’s also necessary to feel intimate, loving and connected with each other.
G spot stimulation, which is what I’m going to call prostatic tissue stimulation, works much better when the woman is feeling an emotional connection to her lover, so that she’s emotionally as well as physically aroused.
Indeed, for some reason, the G spot seems to be the central focus of emotional attachment during intercourse. Stimulating the G spot can produce a whole load of emotional experiences for a woman — and it becomes swollen with fluid much more easily when she’s engaged in sex that has a strongly emotional component.
4. Find her G spot by putting a finger inside her vagina.
You’ll find it with the pad of your fingertip uppermost, about 2 inches inside on the upper surface of the vagina.
When she is aroused, you should be able to feel smooth that swollen area which represents the G spot. If you feel ridges, she’s not aroused enough, and you need to go back to gentle external clitoral stimulation until she is sufficiently aroused.
You might also need to say a few sweet nothings like “I love you” to make sure she’s in the right frame of mind. Having plenty of time and no distractions helps too!
5. Stimulate her G spot with a well lubricated finger — lots of lube is essential.
She may complain that you she wants to urinate when you press on the G spot, but the sensation will pass with continued stimulation. Obviously she’s got an empty bladder, so she’s not likely to need to urinate.
6. Continue to use your fingers or use a smooth toy to stimulate her G spot.
This is about stimulating the G spot until she feels like she’s ready to ejaculate. You can use your penis if you have great staying power, but the problem is that if you hit her G spot in the right place and with the right rhythm, she’s likely to get so aroused so quickly that it makes you come, after which you have very little chance of discovering how to make a woman squirt, i.e., achieving female ejaculation.
And with a finger you’re going to have greater control and you’re going to be able to contain your own excitement.
The sensation a woman may feel that she needs to urinate will pass, and it will be replaced by an intense sensation of excitement. At this point she may be ready to ejaculate, but this is going to require her to keep herself emotionally open and relaxed, and to consciously allow the fluid to flow out of her. If she’s going to reach orgasm, it may help if she pushes downwards and outwards with the pelvic floor muscles.
7. Ensure there is good communication between you and reassure her that whatever happens it is natural and fun.
You may have already noticed when your woman achieves orgasm that she ejaculates a little bit of clear fluid anyway.
Female ejaculation, squirting or gushing is actually the forceful ejection of lots of this fluid from the urethral canal by means of strong muscular contractions, which occur after a longer build-up. This allows more fluid to accumulate.
Some tips for those who want to experience this amazing type of orgasm!
1 Watch the video below about how a woman can ejaculate during orgasm. When an orgasm involves squirting, or female ejaculation, it can be very intense, even mind-blowing. In fact, a woman may experience more pleasure than she thought possible.
And it’s not hard to make a woman squirt.
2 After watching this video, check out the information below!
Because of the Internet, most men have probably heard of female ejaculation, and the possibility of bringing a woman to an intense orgasm with fluid ejaculated from her vagina.
You may even have seen squirting or female ejaculation on video. If not, you can see one at the top of the right hand column of this page.
We call these “squirting orgasms”. The videos show how dramatic they can be. If you want to see how it’s done, there are plenty more videos online which show female ejaculation.
However, what’s probably more interesting if you’re a man trying to experience this with your partner, you need to find a way to do it with your own partner in a way that she’ll enjoy.
You see, most of the videos on the Internet show women being stimulated extremely hard with a man’s fingers, thrusting in and out of the vagina with a ferocity that few women are likely to find pleasant.
So the question is, is there a way of making it more acceptable for the average woman, so that she can squirt, and that you can both enjoy the experience?
Well, yes there is, and it’s not so difficult to do — but there are some things you have to overcome first.
The first is the woman’s fear that hen she ejaculates or squirts during her orgasm she’s going to urinate.
Understandably. Many women, particularly those who’ve had children, do experience slight leakage of urine when they laugh, lift things, or even when they reach orgasm. This is about the strength of the pelvic floor muscles, and Kegel exercises are the traditional remedy.
Of course, no woman wants to think she may have urinated during orgasm. So the question is whether or not the fluid expelled from her vulva, often quite forcibly, during a squirting orgasm is, or is not, urine.
One way to help her get over this fear is to have her to empty her bladder before sex starts, but also to do a little bit of research on the Internet to demonstrate the nature of this fluid: it’s fluid from the Skene’s glands.
And this has something in common with the male prostate gland. Around the urethra, a woman has a collection of tissue which is directly related to male prostatic tissue. Embryologically, they probably come from the same place in both men and women, but under the influence of the Y chromosome and testosterone in a male embryo, this tissue develops into the prostate gland.
In women it becomes tissue in women referred to variously as the female prostate, the G spot, Skene’s glands, or the paraurethral glands.
It doesn’t make any difference what you call this tissue; its function is to produce fluid which in a man would make up the volume of semen.
In the woman this has no purpose (a bit like male nipples), but even so the fluid builds up during sexual excitement in the area known as the G spot, and can be expelled when the woman reaches orgasm if she is uninhibited about the possibility of making a wet patch (sometimes a very big wet patch), and the very intimate nature of sharing this act with her partner.
Therefore, you have to talk to her about all of this before you even try to make her squirt, otherwise it isn’t going to work.
Having said all of that, the other important factor to take into account is that some women simply don’t seem to be able to enjoy female ejaculation. If so, it may help to watch a video on the subject of women ejaculating or squirting.
If she wants to do this, check out the gushing, squirting and ejaculating women who recorded themselves on video for Deborah Sundahl .
Helping your woman to understand the process by watching a female ejaculation video together can be very helpful. And the Jason Julius video advertised in the left-hand column of this page can certainly be a talking point for the two of you.
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You know how people blame Disney movies for giving people unrealistic expectations about love? Well, I blame porn for giving me unrealistic expectations about sex. If porn were any indication of people's everyday sex lives, we'd all be firing off liquid streams of erotic bliss at every climax. Sorry, but no.
That said, the elusive sex sensation that is squirting isn't entirely impossible. Apparently, for some women, it does come naturally. But for others, it may be possible to learn. Meaning, yes, you could make yourself squirt during sex.
First, a little refresher on what squirting actually is: While there's still a lot of debate , Madeleine Castellanos , MD, notes that "squirting appears to be fluid that’s retained in the bladder that’s released either when a woman has an orgasm or other times." This is thought to involve the Skene’s glands—two structures located near the end of the urethra that can produce fluid with G-spot stimulation.
As for what this actually looks like…it’s probably not what you think. "'Squirting' is a bit of a misnomer, as the fluid isn’t always expelled as a squirt ," says Jess O’Reilly, PhD, host of the Sex With Dr. Jess Podcast . "It might be a drip, dribble, or gush." Some people "can feel the liquid being pushed out, but in many cases, you don’t even notice it until you get up and see the wet spot beneath you," O’Reilly adds. The actual fluid that comes out can be "milky or clear" and it can feel and look like you peed yourself, says sex therapist Debra Laino , DHS. The actual volume can vary, too. "Some women will have more fluid; others less depending on their body, as well as depending on the experience," Laino says.
But why the hype? Dr. Castellanos notes that it can feel pretty effing fantastic. In fact, one study showed nearly 80 percent of women who've experienced squirting said it improved their sex lives. "The urethra has all these nerve endings in it, as anybody who’s ever had a UTI can attest," she explains. "It’s very sensitive. So when you get this rush of fluid going through, at the same time you’re having an orgasm or you’re getting sexual stimulation…that can be a very pleasurable experience."
That said, "a lot of people think this is the pinnacle of orgasm...and if you haven’t done it, your orgasms are less-than—I don’t agree with that," Dr. Castellanos says. "For some people, squirting adds to the orgasm, and for other people, it does nothing or it detracts from it. It’s not the same for everybody." No shame either way.
Of course, you'll never know until you try. So, if you’re still curious about making yourself squirt, here's an expert-informed step-by-step guide to attempting your first time.
If you do succeed in squirting, things may get a tad messy. So, Dr. Castellanos recommends taking precautions if you're worried about oversaturating your sheets.
Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of OrganicLoven.com , suggests the Liberator Fascinator Throw, which is made to soak up liquids and is softer than most towels.
To be fair, this hasn’t been researched or anything, but experts say it could help in theory. "Some people say that hydration facilitates sexual response including orgasm and squirting, but this is anecdotal," O’Reilly says. "Overall, staying hydrated is good for your health, which can support sexual functioning." There’s also this to consider, per Laino: "Dehydration can lead to more difficulty having an orgasm in general and can even make sex painful as well as having low energy for sex."
Have patience with yourself and your body. "It can take some time to get a feel for it," says Antonia Hall, psychologist and author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life.
You'll also want to reduce as many other stressful thoughts as possible. "Remember that, for most women, sex starts in the brain," says Sparks. "Start the mental seduction earlier in the day." That means everything from dirty talk to cleaning the bedroom so there's nothing there that stresses you out.
"Focus first on stimulating your clitoris, as it'll help bring blood into the area and get your G-spot area ready for play," says Hall.
O’Reilly suggests using a rabbit vibe like the We-Vibe Nova , which "provides dual vibrating stimulation for the G-zone internally and the clitoral head and hood externally." She adds that it’s "adjustable, powerful, rumbly, and you can use it to rock in a pulsing motion."
The Womanizer Duo can also be a handy toy, "as the outer arm stimulates the head of the clitoris with pleasure-air technology that uses tiny bursts of air to create a suction-like sensation over the clitoral head," O’Reilly says.
When you're turned on, insert your middle and ring finger a couple of inches inside the vagina and rub your G-spot, which feels like a small ridged area along the front of your vaginal wall, Hall says.
FYI: You'll need to do it for an extended period of time (it's a marathon, not a sprint!). "What [you’re] pushing on is actually erectile tissue that surrounds the urethra," Dr. Castellanos explains. "As you’re stroking that...you’re changing the angle of the urethra to the bladder, and it’s much easier for that fluid to be expelled." To improve your odds of squirting, relax the pelvic floor muscles as you stimulate the G-spot.
G-spot stimulation is key here. "The G-spot is about two inches in and one inch up, inside of the vagina," Sparks says. "So, you are seeking a toy with some length and a slight upwards curve." She likes the Le Wand Bow : "This stainless steel wand is perfectly curved with ridges and a round bulb on one end and smooth and a more pointed bulb on the other end." You can even add in temperature play by letting it sit in warm or cold water for a few minutes prior to use.
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A lot of women feel like they’re going to pee when they’re close to reaching an O. But that gotta-go feeling is often sparked by that fluid coming from the Skene's glands behind the G-spot (a.k.a. squirting), explains Hall.
And even if pee does come out, don't stress, says Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and the creator of Finishing School . "Sex is messy and there’s a lot of fluids involved already, so even if it was urine, who cares?" (But if it'll make you feel better, you can use the restroom before you get started.)
Sparks says it helps to have control of your pelvic muscles. "As the sensation [or] pressure starts to build, it will feel like you have to pee—that’s the time to use your pelvic floor muscles," she says. "Don't tighten them, but push out...as if you are pushing out the pee. It takes practice, but it’s doable."
Doing your best to be easy-breezy lemon-squeezy when you feel an orgasm building will go a long way toward helping you reach your goal. "Some people report that when they tense up, it hinders both orgasmic sensation and squirting," O’Reilly says.
"Many say that bearing down allows their muscles to relax so that they can enjoy the full squirter experience," Dr. Laino agrees. "This goes with orgasm in general—letting your body relax, but at the same time having some tension and flexing the [pelvic floor] muscles will aid well in having all types of orgasms."
Above all, Dr. Castellanos says, "Be compassionate with yourself if you don’t make yourself squirt."
If you don't succeed the first time—or even after multiple attempts—it just means your body’s natural impulse is to keep anything from coming out of the urethra while you get busy. Just relax, enjoy the feelings, and if it happens, it happens.

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Yes it's real, and it can be wonderful, but it's not a gold ring to collect like you're playing some sexual video game
I used to think squirting – also known as female ejaculation – only burst into public consciousness around the end of 2016, when the UK government tried (unsuccessfully) to ban it from porn. But according to insights from PornHub, our fascination with squirting – and with men obsessing over how to make a woman squirt – started long before that, with searches for ‘squirting’ more than doubling in 2013-14 .
Popular as it is, squirting remains controversial (and not just among prudish government ministers). Some researchers claim that there’s no such thing as female ejaculation, and the substance that squirts out is just urine. But although some studies have demonstrated that female ejaculation has a similar composition to pee, if you try to tell the world that there’s nothing more to see here than a golden shower, those who have squirted (myself included) will indignantly point out that the experience neither looks, tastes, smells nor feels the same as urination. Let’s not spend too long on the theory of (and science behind) squirting though – it’ll never be as fun as the practical.
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