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So many women have encountered a guy that says he’s the best pussy eater but when it comes down to it, it’s a nightmare. Jackhammering our pussies with your tongue isn’t going to do the job. I know she’s probably moaning away, but trust me, it’s not hard to fake. You want to be able to actually know how to lick pussy well, not just claim that you can do it.
As a woman, I’m here to help you get back on the pussy licking road to enlightenment. You need to know how to do it and how to do it well.
It’s going to take practice and some hard work, but trust me, once you really know how to lick pussy and find the groove, you’ll become the pussy eating master. Isn’t that what you wanted? Why else would you be reading this? So, let’s get started.
#1 Do you enjoy doing it? There’s a huge difference between a guy who likes doing it and one who feels like he has to do it. Don’t be the latter. Guys who eat pussy well are guys who actually love pleasuring their partners. If you’re not ecstatic about eating pussy, well, you don’t have to do it. No one wants someone who’s going to do a half-ass job. [Read: 16 moves to drive her wild ]
#2 Listen to your partner. It’s the best way to see if you’re doing it right. You can tell when someone is inauthentic when it comes to them enjoying getting their pussy eaten out. If they’re wildly screaming, there’s a good chance they’re faking it.
If they’re silent, you’re probably not hitting the spot. But this is when you switch it up and try something new or ask them where to go. They’ll let you know what spot to hit. [Read: 10 sexy ways to please the clitoris ]
#3 Don’t put so much pressure on yourself. The problem with sex today is people put so much pressure on themselves to pleasure their partners. If you’re enjoying the sexual experience with your partner, the odds are, they are as well. If you’re stressed out about going down on your partner, take a deep breath. Eating pussy isn’t going to win you an Olympic medal. It’s sex, it’s supposed to be fun and light.
#4 You don’t only have to use your tongue. Yes, the tongue is a major player in licking pussy, obviously, but you can use your fingers as well. Don’t think that you’re limited to just your tongue.
Some women take longer to climax than others, so if you just use your tongue, you’re going to be exhausted. You can finger her at the same time you eat her out or if you want to take a break, finger her while making out with her. Switch it up, she may even prefer being fingered and licked at the same time, you just need to find the combination that works for her. [Read: 10 fingering techniques to make her orgasm ]
#5 Don’t forget about the anus. Anal play isn’t taboo anymore. In fact, more and more people are openly talking about anal play and how enjoyable it is. If you’re new to the world of anal play, relax. No, it’s not dirty, just make sure you and your partner are clean before sex—suggest a sensual shower together.
If you’re fingering or going down on her, lubricate your finger with either lube or spit and gently rub it around her anus. You’ll feel it relax when this happens, you can slowly insert a finger into her anus and hold it there. Then, slowly move it in and out—it feels amazing. [Read: She likes anal? 15 ways to impress a girl who likes backdoor fun ]
#6 Not every woman is the same. You may think that the way you eat pussy is the best way and it may be for one woman, but for another, it doesn’t do anything for her. You can’t have tunnel vision when it comes to licking pussy. You need to understand that every vagina is unique, so don’t be surprised if you switch up your method.
#7 Don’t jump right away to the clit. This is what guys always do, and it’s wrong. Don’t just start digging away at the clit. You need to warm it up and since the clit doesn’t lubricate itself, you should be focusing on making that pussy wet. Start with slow, broad licks and then build up the tension, making your way closer and closer to the clit.
#8 Build the tension. Women need time to get turned on. The vagina is like an oven. Yes, we may be turned on, but we need some time to warm up. So, when it comes to knowing how to lick pussy the right way, really take your time and don’t rush eating it. Enjoy the moment, enjoy making her squirm and moan while you’re down there, and build the tension up so that all she wants is for you to fuck her.
#9 Don’t forget the good ole labia. Don’t forget the labia, aka. the vaginal lips. Many guys just bypass them all together, but we love it when you pay attention to them as well. Do firm, slow, fat licks up and down the labia to help stimulate the vagina. Start from the bottom of her vagina and lick all the way up to the clit. But don’t do any pointy tongue licking yet. [Read: Massaging your partner to orgasm ]
#10 Make sure to suck. Now, you can lick, and licking is great, so do that. But, don’t forget to suck. Suck on her clit and lips—now don’t be a vacuum and try to rip them off of her, but suck on them. Switch it up from licking to sucking, find your own groove.
#11 Really get your face in there. Listen, if you really don’t like doing it, then don’t do it. Women want a guy who’s really going to get in there and eat their pussy like it’s lunch. When we see a man passionate about licking us, that’s what turns us on.
It’s the same thing when a woman is giving you a blowjob. The ones that really love sucking your dick, those are your best experiences.
#12 Let her sit on your face. Oh God, do we love this position. You can eat pussy while she’s on her back or when she’s on all fours, but the best way to get right in there is if she sits on your face. She’s in a squatting position, so her vagina is more open and ready to take on a licking. [Read: Why a girl says no to face sitting though she loves it ]
#13 Mix up the positions. If she’s into anal play, eat her out while she’s on all fours or when she’s laying on her stomach. You’ll be able to eat out her ass while fingering her or vice versa.
You can bend her over the sofa, eat her out while she’s standing, or lick her while she’s sitting in a chair. There’s really no bad position when it comes to licking pussy. [Read: The yummy checklist to eating booty like a boss ]
#14 Mix up the licking. This may sound confusing, but you’ll get what I mean in a second. You can do fat licks when your tongue is completely flat or you can do short licks with just the tip of your tongue.
Both are amazing, especially when you mix it up. Don’t just stick to one type of licking. You can do broad licks and then suddenly lick her clit quickly with the tip of your tongue.
Now that you know how to lick pussy, it’s time to practice. Make sure that your partner gives you their opinion on what you’re doing right and wrong. That way, you improve your pussy licking skills.
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A no-nonsense guide to eating pussy
Eating pussy, licking out, going down on someone, eating someone out...there are a million different ways to talk about oral sex . But as Shakespeare once said, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet...and being licked out can be serious fun for women and other people with vulvas, regardless of what words you use. Cunnilingus focusses on clitoris stimulation, which can be seriously enjoyable when done right: even more so than penetration for many people.
If you're wondering how to lick someone out really well, give this step-by-step pussy-eating guide a read, courtesy of the sex blog How To Make Me Come . And want to really level up your oral sex game? Keep scrolling for sexpert tips on the Kivin method - an oral sex hack which claims to make someone orgasm within three minutes - and how to use your mouth and hands at the same time , too.
Make your way south of the river. To spice amp up the tension, mark this path with small kisses beginning from their neck and proceeding down to their pelvic region. You're at the vulva/vagina! You made it! Wow, what a trip.
Eye contact is fine. It's an intense move, but depending on who you're going down on, it could be very creepy or it could be very hot. You feel it out and consider the context of the hookup – is it someone you’ve just met (maybe pass!) or is it a longer-term relationship (see how it goes!)?
Before you take the plunge, experiment with some sensual kissing up and down their inner thighs. Not totally necessary, but I'm just saying they probably wouldn't not be into that – a little teasing like this can increase the anticipation.
Now get in there. Don't tiptoe around it— find that clitoris and dive in. In case you're unsure of what that is, it feels a lot like a bean and can be found on top of the labia (the fleshy “lips” of the vagina).
Before you really get started, you need to keep in mind that the clitoris is super sensitive and has more nerve endings than the penis. It’s incredible - and it's the source of orgasms for most women and people with vulvas.
So basically, familiarise yourself with the clitoris. If you know what you're doing (which you should have a better idea of by the end of reading this), you can make someone convulse with pleasure just by stimulating that tiny bundle of nerves. Start thing off right by DJing ( using your fingers to rub the clitoris) and then stuffing your face in between their thighs.
Start off by licking all around the clitoris, don't just go in there right for the bullseye. You've got to build up the sensations! Once you've teased them enough and they make it clear that they're into it, use your tongue to lick their clitoris.
Lick it up, down, and all around, but remain focused on and aware of the pressure of your tongue on the clitoris. Start off lightly and gradually increase the pressure and speed if their body responses and noises point to yes. You can also play with the shape of your tongue on the clitoris in order to mix it up. Some people like a broad flat tongue, others like a more pointy tip. It really is a matter of personal preference and exploring what your partner prefers by listening to how their body reacts.
You can also try the Kivin Method , if you're feeling really brave. It claims to get women and people with vulvas to orgasm in a matter of minutes... Whether you believe that or not, it's fun to try! It’s actually really simple: instead of coming at oral sex from in between your partner's legs, approach it from the side and lick up and down.
Seriously, ask if they like it. Not only does this add a good intro to dirty talk (very important!), but also, not all vulvas are the same – far from it. Vulvas come in all shapes, sizes, colours, sensitivities, so you're going to run into many different preferences depending on your partner at the time.
More pressure or a certain tonguing may be better for one person versus another. They may prefer it slow, or hard, or in circles, or up and down. If you're already passing this with flying colours, asking how they like it is a 100 per cent turn on anyway and opens the door to more honest sexual communication.
Using a sex toy while going down on someone could give them an orgasm fast track. If they're okay with it (you need to ask beforehand), you could use a bullet , wand vibrator or clit vibrator on their clitoris while fingering them or licking them out. Oh, and we can't say this enough: try out a touch of flavoured lube to make the experience all the more exciting for you...
The same way some guys and people with penises like to have their balls played with during a blow job , you might want to stimulate other parts of your partner’s vulva or body while you're busy licking them out.
Run your fingers down their thighs, grab their hips, or reach for their breasts/chest and massage those too if that’s what they’re into. There are plenty of options.
Use your fingers if they have given enthusiastic consent. Slowly insert a finger into their vagina and wait for their response to see if it feels OK (or ask!) Move it in and out slowly to start with, curling your finger up towards their stomach to hit the G-spot . Massage it gently, and if they like it and agree, you can go harder and faster.
All the while remember to *never* neglect the clitoris.
Keep switching it up (unless they're clearly really enjoying it and don't want you to stop). The clitoris is very sensitive and if you play with it too hard for too long, it might be too stimulating and cause discomfort or pain. Experiment with pressure and dot some light kisses on that clitoris.
The Kivin method , previously touched on above, is an oral sex technique often touted as a "cunnilingus trick" that apparently helps women and people with vulvas reach orgasm in just three minutes. We know, it sounds dubious as hell – and it’s not really a good idea to start timing your partner’s orgasms or implementing any “one size fits all” rules when it comes to sex. Everyone is really different, so there's no way the Kivin method can work for everyone. But, as long as you know that, you can just have fun trying it.
So how does the Kivin method work? Basically, you come at it from the side. Yep, instead of positioning yourself between your partner's legs, get beside them. Raise their clit and steady it by popping your index finger and thumb on either side of it. Then, instead of licking up and down, go from side to side across the clit or clitoral hood (depending on how sensitive they are and what they like – keep asking what works for them).
If they orgasm (because not everyone will, and that's OK!) be sure to keep doing what you're doing when they're getting close. You can tell they're about to come because they'll either tell you explicitly or you’ll be able to guess from their body signals: their breathing might quicken and they might grab your hair. But whatever you do, don't stop what you're doing until they've ridden that wave.
Don't be disheartened if they don't orgasm - it's not the end goal of sex and doesn't determine whether someone felt pleasure or enjoyed a sexual experience.
In case you needed any further guidance, humans of Reddit have explained how to lick someone out really well. Remember, all bodies are different and like to be stimulated in different ways so this is by no means a comprehensive guide.
By Gigi Engle and Ro White Published: Jul 18, 2022
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Gigi Engle is a writer, certified sexologist, sex coach, and sex educator. Her work regularly appears in many publications including Brides, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Teen Vogue, Glamour and Women's Health.
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Eating out, cunnilingus, clit-licking: whatever you prefer to call it, oral sex on a vulva can be the perfect path to your partner’s big O. In fact, oral sex is widely known as the most reliable way to make a person with a vulva orgasm. A 2017 study published in the journal Sex and Marital Therapy found that only 18% of vulva-owners can orgasm from penetration alone. The rest require clitoral stimulation in order to climax, and oral sex puts the clitoris front and center. Plus, a 2019 study found that couples who give and receive oral sex maintain ha
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