How To Hump A Guy

How To Hump A Guy

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Guys, and girls, can hump a pillow in many ways.
The easiest way would be to use the pillow as if it is the body
part you imagine focussing on during sex, which can be anything
(whatever gets you going), put it wherever you want on the bed and
start 'humping' it, keeping your penis between the pillow and your
tummy. The pressure coming from that is a bonus to the friction of
the pillow (and foreskin).
Another way is, if you are well endowed or, alternatively, have
a small pillow, by putting your penis between the pillow and the
rest of the bed. This might make a more realistic 'hole' to enjoy,
but you'll need to keep your hands on the pillow to keep the
pressure on it and keep it in position.
There are products which simulate a human orifice which can be
use similarly (ass, mouth and vagina), which will definitely give
you a better experience than the above examples, but with a cost.
And don't forget to clean those after use...
cut a hole in the pillow and put soap inside the hole and go ham (fogive me lord)

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Dr. Jenn Mann is a licensed marriage and family therapist and the relationship expert behind InStyle's long-running weekly column, Hump Day. She is best known for her hit VH1 show, "Couples Therapy with Dr. Jenn," and her popular call-in advice Sirius XM radio show, "The Dr. Jenn Show." She is a bestselling author, most recently of The Relationship Fix .

Last time I gave my boyfriend oral sex, he asked me to put a finger into his butt. This totally freaked me out. Why does he want me to do that? Even if I were going to try, I'm not even sure how. Help? — Butt Why

Let me be the first to tell you that anal stimulation for heterosexual men is the hottest new trend since herringbone. Your boyfriend is no dummy. Stimulating, massaging, or milking the prostate can result in orgasms that are 33 percent stronger than average. And as men of many sexual orientations know: The best way to get to that prostate is up the butt. That's just where it is.

What is the prostate? The prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland located just beneath a man's bladder. It surrounds the urethra like a doughnut. When a man becomes aroused, it swells up with the fluid that makes up semen, sending pleasurable sensations throughout his loins as he nears orgasm. The "P-Spot," as some call it, can be located and stimulated by putting a well-lubricated finger two to three inches into a man's anus. This can result in what some men described as full body orgasms. Women can enjoy this, too, by the way. While women don't have a prostate, there is a high concentration of nerve endings in the area.

Protection Is Key Most people know that anal intercourse is a high-risk activity when it comes to HIV. Manual play is a little more of a gray area. The mucus in the lining of the rectum of an HIV positive person contains the virus which can be transmitted. In addition, because the area is so fragile, it can tear easily which means that there could be blood which is a high risk fluid to play with. In order to play safely, latex gloves or a finger cot is recommded.

How to start anal stimulation? Slowly. Let me share a few tips to make that finger situation more pleasant for both of you. Any kind of anal play is always best done after a shower. Some super considerate lovers even opt to give themselves an enema beforehand, but that is not necessary. If you are concerned about things getting messy, put a towel down where are you are planning to play. And speaking of being considerate: Make sure your fingernails are trimmed or filed. This is not a self-lubricating area, so you will need to use lubricant. I recommend a silicone based lube for this , since it lasts longer and cuts down on reapplication.

Once you are gloved and lubed up, you want to ease into the situation. A little touching before penetration is nice no matter who's giving or receiving (and where), and anal play is no different. It's a hyper-sensitive area and can bring men off-the-charts pleasure, but a slow start makes all the difference.

The nerves around the anus are the same branches that reach his penis and testicles. Having physically relaxed muscles is important for this to be a pleasurable experience. Learning to receive stimulation to a new part of the body can take some getting used to. This tends to be most successful when he is already turned on, at which point you may want to start by gently touching at and around the opening. When you do eventually put your lubricated finger in, go slowly! Make sure to be sensitive to any feedback that he is giving you. Getting familiar with an anatomy chart can help you to find the prostate even more easily. ( The Pleasure Mechanics have a great instructional video.)

VIDEO: 5 Real Women Reveal the Sex Positions That Always Make Them Orgasm

Know the Moves Once you have eased your finger into the area, moving it back-and-forth, like in a come hither motion, is a great way to stimulate the prostate. When a man gets stimulated it becomes easier to find because it swells up. Stimulating him with a generous reach-around, or while performing oral as your boyfriend requested, can put him over the edge. Once you get past the basics, you may want to try anal toys . Keep in mind, as an ER doctor friend of mine once said, "The butt is like a vacuum. Things that you put up there get sucked up." Therefore it is important when using toys for anal play that they are specifically designed for this area so they don't get "sucked up."

And this brings me to a common misconception about who, exactly, would enjoy this kind of thing. Recently I was on a radio show talking about this erogenous zone, and the male host was stunned that heterosexual men enjoy this activity. This thinking is very retrograde. As soon as he said that the call lines were flooded with straight guys raving about the orgasms that go along with this kind of play. Our bodies are meant to be explored and enjoyed through all kinds of stimulation. Whatever you and your partner are game to try and feel good about should be on the table. When it comes to sexual exploration, don't limit yourself to old ideas of what is acceptable and what is not. I encourage you to experiment, if your partner is interested; you just may give him the most intense orgasms of his life.

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Whenever we think of the art of grinding, we usually associate it with adolescents. But in reality, it’s something that all of us use all the time. As a girl, there’s a thin line between being classy and being crass. Of course, you can outrightly grind with any guy you like, but do you really want to be so obvious about it?! Instead, learn how to grind with a guy discreetly and in the sexiest manner and see where it goes!
If you want to grind with a guy and look good while doing it, you need to know a few things to do it the right way. And most importantly, never be too obvious when you’re trying to grind with a guy, otherwise It’ll just make you seem too easy to get.
Now all of us know this, but for the uninitiated girls, grinding is the art of moving your butt around a guy’s crotch, especially while dancing with him. Sounds quite bold, yes, but it’s something that comes naturally between opposite sexes when they’re aroused by each other.
Many girls wonder about the right way to grind and look good while doing it. But understanding how to grind with a guy needs no lessons. You can do it any way you like and the guy will still love it.
But what matters is how easy you’re going to play and give in to a guy’s crotch. [Read: 33 sexy ways to seduce a man who’s not yet yours and hook him hard ]
Grinding doesn’t need to be full-on pornographic. There are ways to learn how to grind with a guy and not make everyone else see what you’re doing.
Of course, you can grind away in public if you’re subtle enough but if you’re in private? You grind away, girl, and don’t care whether you’re being subtle or not!
But, if you are in a club or bar and you’re grinding up a storm, you can be subtle by making your moves slow, small, and perhaps sitting or standing behind a booth or some kind of divider. That way, it’ll just look like you’re dancing and he’ll be able to enjoy what you’re doing. [Read: 25 secrets to seduce before a kiss and turn a guy on while kissing him ]
Learning how to grind with a guy is all fine and no, it’s not bad! But, if you’re in public and you’re all out grinding on a guy’s lap, especially a guy you don’t know so well, it may be perceived as being “too much” by the guy or those around you.
Does it matter to you? That’s up to you.
But, if you want this dalliance to turn into more than just a one night stand, be very careful with the grinding action you indulge in. [Read: How to be more sexual and fall in love with the sexy side of you ]
Of course, if you’re with the guy and you’re both out for a night in the club, you can dance with your man and grind on his lap all you want. You’re together and you know where you stand. But, if you’ve just met this guy and you don’t want to give him the impression that you’re easy, tread carefully.
Should we have to have this conversation? Hell no! But, we all know that’s the way of the world. But, if it doesn’t matter to you or you’re not interested in more with this guy, make your own choices and do whatever you want to do. It’s your life at the end of the day and you know who you are! [Read: How to hook up with a guy for the night and do it the right way ]
If you want to know how to grind with a guy, arouse him, and feel great doing it, here are a few tips that can make all the difference between a hard-to-get girl and an easy-to-get girl.
Dancing alone makes the whole grinding game rather obvious. To start off, dance with your girlfriend and make it seem like you’re not really noticing any guy.
Soon enough, you’ll have a few cute guys dancing around waiting for your attention. [Read: How to get any guy’s attention no matter where you are ]
But don’t even bother looking at him just yet. Watch him from the corner of your eye and see if he’s been noticing you. Or if you want to grind with some guy who hasn’t noticed you yet, just move along on the dance floor until you’re close to him.
Dance normally as you always do, but move really close to a guy you like and brush him with your butt *fake-accidentally, of course*.
Don’t try to get his attention just yet, don’t look at him, don’t smile at him, and don’t make it seem like you’re desperate to dance with him by staring and giggling at him.
Wait for him to do something or reciprocate. Right now, just make it seem like you’re dancing with your friend. But don’t stop the occasional butt brushing against him, let him feel your touch and want more of it. [Read: How to flirt by touch and all the subtle ways to seduce someone ]
Grinding with a guy is the easy part. The tough part is to make it all seem discreet. As you’re dancing with your friend, move your shoulders around so your breast touches his arm now and then.
Does he notice your accidental touch? Does he smile or does he move closer to you? If he notices it and tries to get your attention, flash a small cute smile back at him and let him know that you’ve noticed him.
But don’t do it too obviously, and avoid letting him know that your touches were intentional. [Read: 25 tips to look really cute in front of a guy ]
Keep your hands by your sides as you’re dancing and let them hover near his butt and legs. He’d obviously start moving about a lot more just to get more of your touches.
Always keep your body or hands really close to a guy, but avoid making the first touch if you want to make him work for your attention. [Read: Sexual flirting – How to step up from regular flirting and naughty it ]
Move along the dance floor so you’re dancing by his side. You don’t need to stand in front of him to grind a guy just yet.
Just build the sexual tension up by letting your hands and hips touch each other often. But as before, don’t give him too much attention just yet. Just have fun with your own friend who’s dancing with you. [Read: Why guys like a good chase and how to use this secret in your favor ]
Let your fingers touch his fingers as both of you dance beside each other. And when your fingers do touch his, don’t move them away but don’t do anything about it either.
It’ll drive him crazy and all he’d want to do is clasp it. He may even try that!
Once you’ve had a lot of body touches going on and he’s constantly trying to look for ways to touch you, it’s time to get to the part where you grind with the guy discreetly and subtly.
By teasing him long enough, you would be able to arouse him and make him work for your attention instead of being too easy to get which is always a good thing. It’ll make him want you more too!
Step in front of him and move your pelvis around so your butt is constantly touching his thigh. This will be his cue to come close behind you. If he’s shy, a few *accidental* touches on his crotch with your butt while dancing will definitely do the trick. [Read: When a guy touches you on a body part – How to decode his intentions ]
Once he’s right behind you, get really close to him and press your butt gently against his crotch.
Sway around and dance like you always do, but pay more attention to swaying your hips around so you can feel his pants tighten behind you.
If you want to be subtle when grinding with a guy, you need to move slowly. Moving your butt in small circles is the best way, or swaying fr
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