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Warning: You're going to need a pricey sex doll equipped with a masturbation device and a VR headset
Sex is great. Guys love it; women love it; all people, with some exceptions, love having sex. The thing is, not everyone has a partner when they need one, which is why various technology companies are trying to figure out the most realistic way to get it on without anyone else in your vicinity.
This week, a group of sex industry companies debuted an intriguing new method for realistic solo sex. Granted, it's unbelievably complicated and involves multiple thousands of dollars of equipment, but it's certainly unique.
The process is called Virtual Intercourse with a Real Person , and it makes sexting look about as antiquated as James Joyce's smutty letters to his wife . VIRP, as it's called, lets customers connect a sex doll, sex toy, and virtual reality headset, link up with an online performer, and go to town. The combined experience of humping a doll with vibrating genitals while wearing smartphone snowboard goggles sounds overwhelming and exhausting, but it's certainly more immersive than scrolling through Pornhub one-handed and yanking it out like normal.
So how did this extraordinarily complicated and potentially sexy invention come to be? VIRP is a collaboration between CamSoda , an online webcam site, and RealDoll, one of the best-known makers of sex dolls and sex robotics . Lovense, a popular brand of internet-connected sex toys — also known as "teledildonics" — is also collaborating.
Need help making sense of how all these things stack up to create a high-tech sex experience? This is how CamSoda put it in a press release:
"RealDoll is equipping its dolls' vaginas with the Lovense Max, a high tech male masturbator that mimics a vagina and plays tactile movement from the Lovense Nora, the original Bluetooth rabbit vibrator. Through the partnership, select CamSoda models will have Lovense Noras that pair with the Lovense Max within the RealDolls. Users with a Lovense Max-equipped RealDoll and VR headset, like Google Cardboard, take a CamSoda model private for a VR broadcast. They then have sex with their doll, while the model inserts the Lovense Nora into her vagina, so sex with the doll feels like real-life sex with the model."
Put together, the whole thing looks like this:
"People have long speculated as to how the adult industry would seamlessly harness its cutting edge technology to deliver the ultimate sensory experience, one that mimics real-life interaction and, of course, intercourse," Daryn Parker, a VP at CamSoda said in a statement. "Our partnership with RealDoll to allow our fans to VIRP is an absolute game changer. Essentially, users will be able to live out their ultimate sex fantasies, and quench their immediate desires, in an immersive sensory environment that allows them to have real sex with virtual partners."
Here at Men's Health , we thought we knew a lot about masturbation , but teledildonic integration with virtual reality and sex dolls is on another level. It's also not cheap. The release noted that the base price for a RealDoll torso (no head or limbs, just a torso you can have sex with) is $1,500. Full dolls can run upwards of $10,000. Then you've got a VR headset, which surprisingly isn't too pricey (you can get a discounted Samsung Gear for like $26). You also need a whole teledildonics setup: the Lovesense Max is $100 , and the female "Nora" is another $100.
CamSoda notes that it's not completely cost-prohibitive — you could do it without the RealDoll model and just connect your Lovense Max to a model's Nora unit.
CamSoda says about 30 percent of its models have their own connected dildos, and that they have about 300 models online at any given time. VIRP sessions will be arranged like any other service on the site, but they'll probably entail paying the model for a private show. Camsoda says its customers are definitely interested in tech-sex, so for some people already invested in the hobby of simulated sex, this is just another increase in realism.
For everyone else, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and Grindr are still free.
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Sex might not be all about the climax, but we’re pretty sure it’s the reason some people deem intercourse superior to so many other indulgences in life--yes, even good chocolate and wine!
Considering the journey it sometimes takes us ladies to “get there” (which is totally normal, by the way), orgasms of any strength are greatly appreciated. However, we’re here to shake things up by sharing expert tips and techniques for achieving more intense orgasms, whether you’re partnered up, or not.
There are several reasons why regular orgasms can actually improve your health , but now it’s time to focus on how to take something we already love to do and make it even better. Dr. Jennifer Berman , our favorite female sexual medicine specialist, urologist, and co-host of the Emmy-Award winning daytime talk show, “The Doctors,” is back with some words of wisdom on how to take the “Big O” to great new heights. Though, being the responsible and caring practitioner she is, Dr. Berman cautions, “The intensity of orgasm can change over time due to hormone changes, medication, or some other factor,” thereby reminding us not to be too hard on ourselves and, instead, go with the orgasmic flow.
The latest trend-turned-lifestyle in sex and orgasm-enhancing treatments are pre-lubricants containing THC or CBD, short for Cannabidiol. It even has a name. Coined by Ashley Manta, CannaSexual® is a term “created to describe anyone who mindfully, deliberately combines sex and cannabis.” Recommended by Dr. Berman, CBD-infused oils have been shown to enhance sensation, ease discomfort in women who have pain during intercourse, even with vulvodynia or vaginismus, and promote intimacy. The topical psychoactive does not necessarily get you high, either, since it is not intended to be ingested orally, and can be used partnered or solo.
Though she’s well-aware of the orgasmic disorder preventing women from “turning off the chatter” in their brains, Dr. Berman still recommends practicing mindfulness during sex and masturbation, even if it’s only an attempt (personal tip: a blindfold works wonders for calming my mind during sex). As with all things, greater practice yields greater results, including the potential for more intense orgasms. In addition to focusing on the present, tantric exercises are another option. There are plenty of internet resources for getting started, or you can try a book designed to explore tantric sex through the female perspective.
Whether with a partner, or during masturbation, incorporating toys is a great way to enhance your orgasm. Specifically suggested by Dr. Berman, this special toy , called the Womanizer Pro, is designed with “Pleasure Air Technology” that focuses on the clitoris. The manufacturer describes the experience as soft pressure waves gently sucking your clitoris, resulting in a new kind of climax. There are 12 different levels for more intense orgasms and an XL head for different body types. The reviews for the Womanizer Pro are so outstanding, I’m already considering ordering one for myself! “Zero vibration fatigue. Zero desensitization. This is a top-shelf experience right here,” said one verified purchaser on Amazon. “This amazing device had me coming in about 10 seconds. It might've been less time than that. I honestly lost count. All I know is I had the most intense orgasm I think I've ever had,” said another.
Keeping your pelvic floor strengthened has a variety of benefits, including more intense orgasms. Dr. Berman pointed out that enhancing pelvic floor strength and tone engorges the blood vessels, aiding the vagina with constricting the penis or toy during intercourse or masturbation. Additionally, these same muscles being used are also contracted during climax and some are directly connected to the clitoral area, as well. Intentionally working the muscles during sex may aid in more intense orgasms, but doing some work outside of the bedroom can help, too. Try pelvic thrusts with the help of a resistance band, or utilize kegel exercisers, like these Luna Beads .
Sometimes a simple change of positions, or focusing on other erogenous zones may be all you need for more intense orgasms. Dr. Berman suggests keeping an open mind, especially if you’re having trouble climaxing altogether. She reminds us that not all women can orgasm from peno-vaginal intercourse alone, and recommends exploring other avenues. In addition to introducing toys, mix up your positioning. Sex from behind or masturbating on your stomach may help you stimulate areas you couldn’t otherwise reach. Dr. Berman also wants us to be aware that the need for anal stimulation is not something to be embarrassed about, stating “some women can only achieve orgasm through anal penetration due to a network of nerves.”
If you’re still struggling to achieve orgasm, or just want to enhance the ones you already have, Dr. Berman is a leading expert in cutting-edge medical treatments designed to enhance vaginal health and function. When asked about the procedures offered at Berman Sexual Health, she mentioned the benefits of ThermiVa, or radiofrequency heat and laser treatments, saying they “improve collagen, elasticity of vaginas, and facilitate new nerve growth,” with a “secondary benefit in terms of sensation, like clitoral sensation and orgasm.”
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Sometimes you’re in the mood to get some action but don’t actually feel like having anything inside you (Or, maybe, we’re living in a pandemic where the safest sex partner is your own well-washed hand ). Whether you’re on your period, have a UTI or just plain aren’t in the mood for is, there are plenty of other ways for you and your partner to get off together without having old-fashioned intercourse.
In fact, let’s be real: There’s a huge number of us out there who can’t even reach an orgasm from penetration alone, not to mention the fact that there are also a ton of us who have partners who weren’t born with the desire or equipment to have a heteronormative p enetrative sexual encounter . But, ultimately, that’s not the most important thing when it comes to having a healthy sexual relationship with your partner.
Particularly for people with vulvas, “the most valuable thing you can do is find ways to bring more clitoral stimulation into your sex life,” says sex therapist Vanessa Marin, who is actually launching an online training program to teach women how to orgasm (bless her heart). Work on finding adventurous positions and activities that stimulate the clit, and you’ll be opened up to a whole new world of possibilities.
Here are some of our favorites to get you started.
Instead of treating your partner like a machine whose job it is to give you an orgasm, heed the advice of Dr. Carlen Costa, a sexologist and relationship expert from Canada, and change your attitude first. “You’re supposed to own your orgasm,” Dr. Carlen says.
And the number one way she suggests increasing your sexual confidence and taking control over your orgasms is by partaking in a naughty bit of adult show-and-tell and masturbating in front of one another. Whether you choose to discuss in advance the fact that you’re about to give your partner the thrill of their life or surprise them by letting them come home and “catch” you rubbing yourself on the Jennifer Convertible sofa, is entirely up to you. And though you may be tempted to let them jump in and finish the job, Dr. Carlen suggests restraining your passions and enforcing a no touching rule for as long as possible — which will only make things hotter.
Sex toys have come a long way since your mother’s dildo (sorry, not a sexy image). Marin suggests trying a couples’ toy like the We-Vibe or, if you prefer going at it alone, the Eva by DAME products, which is an actual hands-free vibrator that stimulates the clitoris with zero effort — yay for that!
Kait Scalisi, a sexual and reproductive health educator , writer and consultant, is also a huge fan of toys like the We-Vibe Touch, as well as G-Spot toy Je Joue Uma and arousal oils like ON Arousal Oil, which she says brings blood flow to the vaginal area and makes it easier to become aroused and achieve orgasm.
“I highly recommend all women have a high-quality lubricant,” Scalisi said. “Water-based lubes like Sliquid Organics are great for toys while silicone-based lubes like the one by Pjur are better for intercourse, oral sex and fingering. The amount of natural lubricant a woman produces is not indicative of her level of arousal as everything from stress to dehydration to medications can affect the body’s ability to get wet.”
How many times have we been told the number one way for women to achieve orgasm is by getting oral sex? But that’s not necessarily so. Look, we’re not saying to stop your partner when they want to go down on you because cunnilingus can be one of the most pleasurable experiences on the planet. But so much attention has been put on oral sex that Dr. Carlen says it’s easy to forget that women don’t always come this way.
“More women are more self-conscious when they have someone in between their legs,” Dr. Carlen says. “They worry about what they taste or smell like. Instead, direct stimulation is the number one way women orgasm.”
Chances are, you’re well versed on all things clitoris-related and know both light touching and applying more pressure to this sensitive spot can result in orgasm. But Dr. Carlen reminds us to encourage our partners to explore the entire vagina — including the labia and vulva, which has the second-most nerve endings after the clitoris and the U-spot, the area on and around the urethra.
The brain is our largest sex organ and we’re doing ourselves a huge disservice if we ignore this fact. It’s completely possible to orgasm or get so worked up you could come in seconds without any physical contact at all by taking the time to engage in a little filthy talk before or even instead of sex.
If you’ve never tried this before with your partner, Dr. Carlen says to take your time and take it slow. “You don’t have to jump in with the dirtiest thing because it can come across as awkward or unauthentic,” she says. Instead of whispering in his ear that you want to have an orgy with him and 15 members of a football team, Dr. Carlen says tried-and-true dirty talk includes saying things like “I love it when you do (fill in the blank),” and the universally hot, “Oh, baby, I’m coming.”
And if you’re feeling shy about it, the expert says a great way to build your sexual confidence and test the waters is by sexting your partner . Setting up a scenario via text like, “When you get home tonight (fill in the blank)” is a surefire way to fan the flames.
Originally published December 2015. Updated January 2017.
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