How To Have Mind Blowing Sex

How To Have Mind Blowing Sex
Guys - Do You Want to 10x Your Sexual Stamina, Get Erections On Command And Consistently Blow Her Mind In Bed?

Is your sub-par sex life seriously sucking as of late?
Do you wish you had sex more often with your significant other? Do you wish you both spent more time on foreplay? Do you wish that, just once, your partner would be the one to initiate sex?
Here’s a novel idea…
Ask them.
No matter how emotionally...

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Mind-blowing sex is 10% technical skill, and 90% connection, presence, and emotionality. It’s more about reading your partner, moment to moment, than it is about perfecting a specific hand technique (although hand techniques certainly don’t hurt ).
My clients frequently ask me how to optimize their sex lives for more mind-blowing hotness.
Here are seven things that need to be in place before your sex life can soar (make sure you read all the way to the end… the last three are my favourites!).
To have mind-blowing sex you need to create the time and space for it.
I don’t care how busy you are, if your relationship is a priority in your life then you’ll make sure you’re fucking each other’s brains out a few times per week.
Turn off the cell phones. Get the TV and laptops out of your bedroom. Your bed is a sacred space reserved for sleeping and orgasms. Anything else is blasphemous.
Concerned that there will be too much stuff on your mind by the time you get to bed? Get it out of the way. Spend half an hour taking care of all of the chores around the house and create the space in your minds to give each other 100% of your attention. There is no substitute to having your loving partner clear headed and really seeing you while you play ‘see who can make who climax last’.
When you’re transitioning from your daily selves to your sexy selves you’ll need to slow down and get out of your heads.
Drink in the deliciousness that is your partner with your eyes. Smell each other. Wake up thousands of nerve endings all over their body with your slow languishing hands.
Put your foreheads together and sync your breath with theirs for a while. Kiss gently, firmly, passionately, and sweetly.
Get out of your heads and into your bodies.
Want to climax quickly and have unfulfilling sex? Tense all of your major muscle groups and engage in shallow breathing.
Want to make sex into a mind-blowing spiritual experience where your souls align and you climax like the 4th of July fireworks are thundering around you? Connect with your breath.
Breathing deeply during foreplay, during sex, and throughout your orgasms will relax your body, prolong the experience, build anticipation, and make you both come harder than you ever thought possible.
Seriously. I know it sounds simple and that’s because it is. Breathe deep into your belly, relax your body, and put all of your attention on to the heart-racingly hot sexual pleasure that you are receiving.
When people make analogies to sex being the main course and foreplay being the appetizer, it shortchanges the perceived value of foreplay.
Foreplay is the main course. And intercourse is the main course. And dessert is the main course. Every moment of being in each other’s presence is the main course and sexual play is a natural extension of that.
You know your partner’s erogenous zones better than I do. Tease them. Nibble on their neck. Kiss the folds, flab, bones and angles of their beautiful torsos. Give them a massage (foot, back, or other). Make out like teenagers in love.
It will help you both get out of your heads, get present, and start to sync up your sexual arousal’s internal rhythms.
If so, stop what you’re doing right now and watch this video I just finished creating for you…
Women have been BEGGING me to teach these strategies to men for years. And I’ve finally put them into one video for you.
If you use them, I guarantee by tonight your woman will be left breathless, wondering, “Who ARE you and how did you do THAT?!!”
Just a few minutes of watching this training could change your whole sex life…
One of the biggest pet peeves that women listed in my article What Women Say Bothers Them In Bed is that a lot of guys are too quiet in bed.
So whether you level up your moaning, or bust out your best sailor mouth (“J**** f***ing C***** you look so sexy right now”), it’s good to be more vocal in bed.
By letting your voice go first your body gets more uninhibited. Seeing and hearing how turned on your partner makes you is an upward spiral of sexiness. You feel less inhibited, they feel sexier, everyone wins.
Besides, it’s a lot easier to give short feedback and say what you want (“Faster”, “Come here”, “Keep doing that”) if your lips are already moving.
(Note: I’ve recently put out a new post all about the how-to’s of dirty talk . You can check that out here ).
Timid lovers don’t use their hands. Porn stars don’t use their hands. People who don’t know each other very well don’t use their hands.
You and your partner use your hands.
Hold hands. Grab their hips. Pull their hair. Grip their beautiful bum. Play with his balls. Rub her clit during intercourse. Keep your hands on her torso, forearms, or legs.
Hands are important. Using them makes you feel more connected, and they make your sex more mind blowing.
Sex means exchanging bodily fluids… sweat, lubrication, sperm, and saliva… the more the merrier.
Get sweaty, pull their hair, bust out the massage oil or nuru gel…
Basically, make a massacre of your bed.
A good rule of thumb… if you aren’t throwing your sheets in the wash at least once a week then you might want to up your messy factor.
There are many areas in your home that you can aim to keep tidy… your bed isn’t one of them (at least while you’re in it with your lover).
Maybe you’re already rocking a few of these, and if so, amazing.
I’ve written about sex exercises for men in the past, but not like I’m about to today. A lot of men have nerves/anxiety around their sexual performance because they aren’t sure if they’ll be able to have the level of control over their bodies that they hope for. Which makes…
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One of my main passions in life is helping people get better at sex, because honestly, sex is one of the greatest things on the planet, and it would be a perfect world if all of us could have mind-blowing sex.
Nevertheless, sex is one of those things where if it’s bad, it’s still good. But that doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be better. We all deserve amazing sex.
And that, my dudes, is why I was ecstatic when I came across this charming Reddit thread titled “ What’s your best sex tip/trick? ” where people from near and far kindly share their best sex tips, so that we can try them out for ourselves.
For the sake of simplicity, I read through the length thread and found the best of the best sex tips, and compiled them into this handy list, just for you.
1. “While going down on her, put a finger or two in her and gently do the ‘come here’ thing with your fingers while licking her clitoris softly.” – P__Diddy
2. “When you are fingering a girl, rather than going in and out like a maniac, try either rotating your fingers or using the come hither method. Both are much more effective.” – Sly_Doug
3. “ Lube . Honestly, sometimes girls don’t secrete enough. Or you’ve been going for too long and the condom is starting to hurt her. Grab a bottle of lube. The slipperier the slide, the better the ride.” – monoxide_lullaby
Yes! The slipperier the slide, the better the ride, indeed.
4. “ Foreplay . Touch and tease, kiss and whisper, don’t just dive right into things, but ease in and raise the temperature inch by inch until you’re both worked up.” – toadking07
5. “ Be present in the moment. Pay attention to body language. When she says right there, don’t speed up, don’t slow down. Be right there .” – chicos240
6. “ If you’re gonna pull hair, do it gently at first and make sure you grab as much as you can. If she likes it, pull harder.” -Deleted user
7. “ I abide by the philosophy of “The wetter the better”. Before you penetrate, make sure she’s wetter than a rain storm. Some girls don’t get as wet, so you might need lube. Just keep this in mind: chafing isn’t fun. Make sure she’s ready.” -Deleted User
8. “You don’t always have to fuck her hard. In fact, sometimes that’s not right to do. Sometimes you’ve got to make some love. And fuckin’ give her some smoochies too.” – krostenvharles
9. “Say their name when you’re fucking them. Tell them how much you like fucking them, how hot they are, how you need them.” – Rossingol
10. “ Don’t be afraid to laugh together. Sex is a ridiculous and hilarious series of acts. The best sex I ever had was when my partner and I were not afraid to be goofy and silly and just enjoy each other.” – sigmaration
11. “ If she likes something, and she’s into it: DON’T GO FASTER. Maintain the same pace and she will enjoy it more and more.” – QuickSkope
12. “In any position, try to rub her clit while you’re thrusting. If you get the rhythm right, she WILL appreciate it.” – QuickSkope
13. “ I don’t care about dirty talk. But hearing out loud that my partner likes my body will take me from wet enough to soaking in no time.” – selectiveirreverence
14. “ Here’s one that requires little to no effort or skill. Compliment, compliment, compliment. Your partner will feel better, more confident, comfortable and receptive.” – Butzz
15. “ Be vocal. Say what you want, say what feels good, say what doesn’t. Either communicate with your partner, or don’t be upset when it’s mediocre.” – Jux_
16. “ Seriously, nothing like some neck kisses to make the ladies drop them panties.” – kateesaurus

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Here’s your guide to never boring her in bed again
Some sex is so-so. Some is spectacular. But it actually doesn’t take much effort to turn a routine romp into a mind-blowing experience.
Many people assume it’s a lost cause when sex starts to get boring and just go through the motions, says Sadie Allison, author of Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets for Better Bucking .
“But it’s definitely possible to initiate change in the middle of sex,” she says.
Here are seven ways you can transform OK sex into a night you’ll both never forget. (And for more in-depth techniques—including a step-by-step guide on how to give her an orgasm—check out How to Pleasure a Woman , the ultimate sex manual from the editors of Men’s Health .)
Locking eyes is one of the most effective ways to instantly boost lust.
“Looking at each other deepens your emotional connection, which in turn, amplifies your arousal,” says Allison.
Aim to stare into each other’s eyes for a minimum of 60 seconds or throughout the entire tryst. This can feel intense, but stick with it.
“The longer you go, the more bonded you’ll feel,” she says.
Play with each other’s erogenous zones (like these 9 Secret Erogenous Zones She’s Dying For You to Touch ) until you can barely stand it.
“Getting close to orgasm without a release builds sexual tension,” says Allison.
So when you finally explode—you can expect fireworks.
For intimate sex , prop your pillows against the headboard, sit up with your back against it and have her straddle you.
Hold each other and make out, says Allison. All that skin-to-skin contact will make you feel closer and heat things up fast.
Stop what you’re doing, and lead her to the kitchen counter, living room couch, bathroom sink, staircase, wherever—just outside the bedroom .
“The change of scenery is exciting, and it feels a little freaky to be getting it on somewhere besides a bed,” says Allison.
Grab one of her scarves or your tie, and take turns blindfolding each other.
“When you remove one sense, the rest are enhanced,” says Allison.
Translation: Every touch will feel even more potent. You can also play some sexy music on your phone and pop your headphones in her ears.
She’ll be in her own world while making love to you, says Allison. Then have her pick tunes for you.
Never underestimate the transformative power of lube . (Check out the Almost Naked Organic Personal Lubricant from the Men’s Health store.)
It’s not just for women with dryness—it can lead to hotter, longer sex for anyone, says Allison.
By reducing friction and heightening sensation, you can slide along her nerve endings more quickly, leading to extra stimulation, she says.
When you apply it, treat her to a sultry below-the-belt massage.
Roll onto your back, and have her assume the 69 position , suggests Allison.
This move can be an exciting surprise—especially if you haven’t done it in a while, she says.
However, some women can feel intimidated by this position, so here’s how you can make her feel more comfortable with it if you want to try it.
The article 8 Quick Tricks That Turn ‘Meh’ Sex Into Mind-Blowing Sex originally ran on WomensHealthMag.com.

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