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Real talk: Few things are better than hopping in the shower, lathering your body with overpriced body wash, and getting in an orgasm before going about your day. And although sometimes overlooked, the shower is pretty much the best place for sex—whether coupled or solo.
It’s private, it’s relaxing, and if you close your eyes, you can even pretend you’re under a waterfall in Maui. Plus, the sensations of water, cleansing, and masturbation are healing, says erotic educator Taylor Sparks, founder of Organic Loven. Combine all three and “it’s a way of serving oneself,” Sparks says.
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And you, my friend, deserve to be served. So to help, we talked with some highly educated experts on unexpected tips for masturbating in the shower. Read on for all the sexy inspo.
If you’re new to the world of shower orgasms (or you just want a refresher), there are a few things to keep in mind before getting down and dirty clean. First, make sure the tub, showerhead, and faucet are all clean for, uh, obvious reasons. The last thing you want is to get an infection or walk away feeling dirtier (and not in, like, a hot way).
Another thing: Stay away from harsh chemicals right before you get in (hiii, bleach!). Some soap and water should be enough to get things grime-free.
Once things are clean and you’re ready to get your orgasm in, experiment with what feels good depending on the structure of your tub. “Switch between using the showerhead, your fingers, and different toys,” advises certified sex educator and Dirty South Sex Ed founder Irma Garcia.
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In a shower without a handheld showerhead, prop up your leg and utilize your hands or toys, recommends Garcia. And in a shower/tub combo, lie on your back and use the water pressure from the faucet—or grab the showerhead—and play with the settings on your clitoris.
Experiment with different settings and positions until you find something you like, and if you have a tried-and-true method, don’t be afraid to mix it up in new ways. “Getting a super-soft clean towel to wrap around the faucet and then grinding on it can be pleasurable too,” suggests Garcia.
Yes, but don’t use the showerhead or faucet for penetrative masturbation. Instead, use it to stimulate your clitoris. Just make sure that beforehand, you test the temperature of the water with your hand (to be sure it’s not too hot) and then also make sure the force of the stream isn’t strong enough that it’ll cause pain against your pleasure spots, says Sparks. Then get on with the water-pressure pleasure awaiting.
The other major concern with shower masturbating and shower sex in general (other than never wanting to get out of the water) is the possibility of falling. “Slipping and falling is going to be the most dangerous thing to look out for. So a slip-resistant mat for the tub or shower is highly recommended,” suggests Sparks. Find a position that you can hold and potentially something to grab on to (other than yourself) if you start to feel unsteady. It’s also always a good idea to have your phone within reach in case you need to call for help…or take some steamy selfies.
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If you’re ready to make your shower masturbation even sexier, there are endless ways to turn up the heat. Some suggestions from Garcia:
Basically, think of this as your own erotic pampering sesh. And if you’re feeling generous, you can invite your partner to join too, says Sparks. As long as the space is big enough for everyone to fit comfortably, you should be able to make it work, and non-penetrative sex is a great way to add variety to your sex life.
“Try ‘assisted’ masturbation positions,” suggests Sparks. “Maybe one time your partner gets to guide the showerhead for you. Maybe the next time you switch.”
Now, if you’re looking for the best waterproof toys to bring into the shower, these have all passed the Shower Masturbation Orgasm Test (…meaning they’re water-resistant and perfect for cramped spaces, and they will become your new favorite shower product).
Try the VeDO Izzy Lay on Vibe, which has 10 vibrations, is fully submersible, curves to the body, and fits in the palm of your hand. Or give the Hot Octopuss Digit some attention since it can be worn on the fingers. “Worn on fingers” = amazing couples play. Worst-case scenario: Use your good old fingers, which work amazingly too.
However you go about it, the point of masturbating in the shower is to relax, unwind, and just feel good—whatever that looks like for you. “Ultimately, just enjoy yourself. Self-pleasure releases stress, gets rid of headaches, and brings out all kinds of creative juices,” says Garcia. And I, for one, think you deserve just that.
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I discovered the joys of a good shower head before I hit my teens and I have to say it’s the best relationship I’ve ever had probably will ever have. Haha.
And it’s all about the right shower head! When I move, first thing that happens…...
Great article! I find sitting on the edge of the tub works better than standing because my legs get all weak and wobbly when I’m in my groove. And before I discovered how amazing handheld showers were, I had only ever squirted once. But the orgasms…...
Absolutely! And I tell you… shower head masturbation is great for guys too. 😉
Yeah what Inaki said to the 3rd power. I only recently discovered the joys of shower head masterbation. I’ve known about it from women who’ve enjoyed the ol shower-gasim. But if I’d known how great it could be for us boys, I’d have tried decades…...
I discovered this by accident as well, a few years ago, best kept secret…I’m always on the hunt for a new and better experience, when I move, I always take my shower head and make my bf install it as well and I found myself getting a 2 head…...
How to Masturbate with a Showerhead
Every time I moved into a new place, I’d make my husband replace the showerhead on the first day.
While we were packing everything up, I insisted on him taking off the showerhead and replacing it with the one that originally came with the place.
He would stand awkwardly on the side of the tub, wrench in hand, looking down at me. “Do we really need to take it?”
“Yes.” I would say curtly, keeping a blank expression on my face, and watch him tighten the wrench around the socket of the showerhead.
Then we’d carry our belongings into our new house or apartment and I’d say “I want to take a shower tonight. I need you to install the showerhead before I do.”
He’d look around at the clutter of boxes and unarranged furniture, silently questioning my priorities, and ask “Do you really need it today?”
“Yes.” Same tone as before. Same blank expression.
That was my poker face. Because I didn’t want to admit that I wasn’t being fussy. I was just feeling a little tense and horny.
I fell in love with my showerhead by accident.
Our meet cute happened after I had freshly dyed my hair red. I took a shower and the sides of the tub were covered in water red dye. I was worried it would stain the tub and piss off my parents, so I took the handheld showerhead from its cradle and blasted water on all the red splotches.
I got cold standing there naked and wet, so I turned the showerhead back on myself to get a blast of hot water.
I was aiming the showerhead at a different angle than I normally did and the water was tickling my pussy in a way that felt nice and stimulating.
I forgot about the dye and explored that sensation for a while, spraying myself from different angles.
Then came the real game changing moment. I used my other hand to spread my pussy lips so the water could come in direct contact with my clit.
And holy fuck what an amazing feeling it was.
I felt my clit throbbing and my pussy clenching. I came harder than I had ever come before. And with that amazing orgasm came a warm gush between my legs and intense euphoria.
My legs were weak. I felt incredible. I had just discovered something so fucking great I wanted to tell everyone about it — but knew I couldn’t tell anyone.
I never looked at showerheads the same way again. It was like the boy in my class I had never paid attention to but all of a sudden couldn’t ignore.
The showerhead became my very clean but dirty little secret.
I didn’t have a lot of privacy at home. My parents would barge in, invade my space, and get really nosey about what I was up to.
That didn’t bother me much when I was a kid, but once I hit puberty and developed certain physical needs, it made it hard to take care of them.
The shower was my only safe haven. There, it was just me, my hair care routine, and the spray of water giving me all the orgasms I needed.
Years later, I was really excited to kiss that home goodbye and move in with my boyfriend. But I was sad about leaving the showerhead behind. I had so many good memories with it, and I came to rely on it for a lot of my self-care.
Our new place had a basic, boring showerhead. So, we went to a department store to look for a replacement. They had massaging showerheads that weren’t handheld. The handheld ones didn’t have the right massaging options.
I was getting really frustrated with the terrible selection. Mr. Austin told me we could make due with the one we had for now and order a better one online.
“No, that will take way too long,” I mumbled, staring at the options and hoping he still bought into the lie that this was all about hygiene and luxury.
I grabbed the best option I could find out of the bunch and bought it. I was sure I could use it to get myself off one way or another, but I made a mental note to upgrade it as soon as I could talk Mr. Austin into it.
I felt a little prissy, but it would be worth it to get the right kind of attachment for the shower. This was, after all, basically my favorite sex toy.
The first step to getting off in the shower is to buy and install the right kind of showerhead.
The equipment you’re working with makes a big difference. I’ve had good showerheads and I’ve had duds. But when I found one that worked really well, I stuck to it and haven’t replaced it yet.
First and foremost, it needs to be handheld so you can spray the water precisely where you want it.
Next, make sure it’s a massaging showerhead that has the right settings.
I personally get off best using the pulsing massage option.
For a nice warm and relaxing sensation, I’ll use the regular setting. The stimulation it gives is really subtle, but it still feels great. It’s especially useful when you’re feeling a little more sensitive or you’re just not in the mood for anything too intense.
My personal sweet spot is a light massaging setting. Anything much harder than that and it hurts instead of feeling pleasurable. Any spray that’s softer and more spread out and it’s not usually enough to make me come.
Really, what you should invest in is a massaging showerhead with plenty of settings to cycle through. That way, you can play around with it and find what works best for you. You can give yourself different sensations in one session — starting by teasing yourself with a light spray and working your way up to enough pressure to make you come really hard.
Plus, if you have roommates or regular houseguests, it’s a really considerate option. All those settings means that everyone who uses your shower can find their preference.
Next, get the temperature right. You might have to fiddle with this even if you got everything right for a comfortable shower, because your shower temperature might not be your masturbation temperature. I personally really love hot showers but my cupcake doesn’t seem to agree. The water feels better on my pussy when it’s a little colder.
Once you have the right showerhead the water just how you like it, you have to decide how to position yourself.
I stand up straight, with my legs apart a bit. If you’re showering in a bathtub, you can prop your leg up on the side of it to give yourself more spread. And there’s no telling what kind of creative things you could do with shower bars and other accessories.
If you’re into direct clit stimulation, spread your pussy lips so the water can hit you right where it needs to. If you’re more sensitive and prefer indirect contact, just keep everything tucked away and enjoy the water pressure.
When you’re about to come, try grinding your hips. That usually helps tip me over into an orgasm. That’s something I only learned later on but it’s been really handy because if it takes me too long to reach a climax, I spend so much time tensing my arms and legs that they get really sore the next day.
Most all, just enjoy yourself. Take your time, feel the water all over your body, and build up the stimulation. You’re all alone with just the sound of the water spraying from the showerhead — it’s the perfect time to lose yourself in a fantasy.
I have a bathroom with a window above the bathtub so I imagine people are watching me come while I play with my showerhead. But you can get creative and dream up whatever scenario you want.
Showerhead masturbation is a very unique and satisfying sexual experience.
It’s like no other sex you have and there’s no way to replicate that exact sensation when you’re masturbating in other ways.
Masturbating in the shower is such a luxurious experience, too. You don’t get the pillowy comfort of jilling off in bed, but you get a warm, wet, and steamy full-body experience.
If you don’t have a handheld, massaging showerhead, you’re missing out. Get one and install it tonight. Trust me, you’ll fall in love instantly.
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