How To Get A Ghost To Respond

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How To Get A Ghost To Respond







Posted on 15 Feb 2022 by Louis Farfields

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Too boring
Too friendly
Showing too much interest too quickly


My answer is crazy late, lol. I’m an awful texter
I’m sooooo sorry!! I can’t believe I have to cancel the date again! I’m stuck with my family and they really want me to stay
Can you meet up next week (really this time!)
Okay. 🙂 I can do Friday or Saturday
I’m going to make plans. Let’s def meet another week
It’s best if I tell you over the phone
Any more texts and we’ll officially become pen pals. So let’s Zoom before we kill the romance
You had weeks of fun chatting online.
Perhaps you’ve even had a great date or two.
That’s why I’m giving you 10 tips on how to respond to ghosting.
Ghosting is when someone you’ve been texting or dating vanishes without warning. Like a ghost.
Whether you’ve been ghosted after a few dates, or after dating someone for months, it always sucks.
You probably feel confused and angry.
And most of all, you want to know what you did wrong.
Which often leads to the biggest mistake imaginable.
Where you either beg for an explanation or send needy “???.”
Although you’re entitled to an explanation, begging for her motive will also get you nowhere.
In fact, it’ll probably make her feel better about ghosting you.
And make her lose the last shred of attraction she feels for you.
So what do you do if you want to have a shot at talking with her again?
Unless she tells you what’s going on, you have NO idea. So don’t assume anything .
And when life’s responsibilities are crashing down on you, people go into survival mode and forget everything else.
So give her time to respond and don’t assume anything.
Don’t send anything before you read this tip.
The internet reaches almost anywhere on earth, so you can safely assume she got your text.
But that doesn’t mean she’s read it. Even when you see all the checkmarks and read notifications.
So if you send her a text without knowing where she’s at emotionally, it may be the last text you ever send her again.
Because if you say the wrong thing, she might block you.
If you know precisely what she’s going through, and send the text she craves, you’ll gain 10 sexy levels.
There’s at least a dozen potential reasons why she’s ghosting you .
And I’ve already written an article about it. So if you want closure, hit the link.
But before you do, don’t go crazy trying to psychoanalyze why she left you on read.
And talking about it with all your friends.
Because ghosting is something you’ll not only often face in dating, but also in life.
Things in life are constantly disappearing. Whether it’s buildings in your neighborhood, job opportunities, or your favorite snack from the supermarket
Knowing why these things disappear can help you tie up all the loose ends in your head.
But it’s ultimately totally out of your control.
That’s why it’s important to focus on what is IN your control.
The next insight may suck, but it’s the truth.
You may never know exactly why she ghosted you or what happened.
Beyond a certain point, playing Sherlock Holmes is nothing but a waste of energy and time.
So what is a good use of your energy?
The part of the ghosting puzzle that you can control.
As Stephen R. Covey long ago pointed out, the most successful people only focus on concerns that lie within their Circle of Influence .
A fancy word for, ‘things they can do something about’.
Although mister Covey is usually cited in circles of professional development.
His teachings can also be applied to dating.
Instead of looking at the girl for answers, you can look at yourself.
Go stand in front of a mirror, look yourself in the eye and ask “Is there anything I could have done better?”
Said differently, “Were you good company?”
If not, you probably contributed to her ghosting you.
And if you don’t change your behavior, you’ll have the same effect on other women.
I’m not saying it’s all your fault. Point is, you need to ask yourself what you could have done better, even if the ghosting had nothing to do with you.
Not to get better results with that specific ghost girl, but to get better results with women in general.
If you never ask yourself what you could have done differently, you’re missing opportunities to grow.
And if you don’t grow, you may not be ready to attract your dream girl.
If you do ever text with your dream girl, it helps to be prepared.
Because at one point she’ll throw you a curveball that’ll have you staring at your phone, not knowing what to say.
Instead of agonizing over the perfect text, you can also steal the perfect text.
From me and my 10 Texts That Always Work.
– Whether you don’t know what to say
– If you’re looking for a fun answer to a boring question
– How to tease her
– Or how to ask her out in a non-awkward way
The 10 Texts will give you exactly what you need.
You sent her a text and are waiting for her reply.
You continue with your day, but in the back of your mind you’re still anxiously waiting for her notification to pop up on your phone.
Do you know what’s especially messed up about waiting for her text?
It won’t give you the peace you want.
Sure, her text will scare off the anxiety. But only for a moment.
With enough time, the anxiety will come running back to you.
And you’ll be clutching your phone while thinking, “Has she read my text? Does she still like me?”
So how do you effectively battle your text anxiety?
Distraction sure as heck doesn’t work.
You could be at a BBQ with your best bros and still be constantly checking your phone for new messages.
Something that’s meaningful for you RIGHT NOW.
It doesn’t matter what you do, as long as it’s moving you closer to your goals and ambitions.
And gives your life color and meaning outside women and dating apps.
If you pick the right activity, you can go from depressed about someone not reaching out to you, to feeling really proud of yourself within 1 hour.
Which also gives you the best energy for when she eventually gets back to you.
One of the most controversial dating topics of all time.
How long should you wait before reaching out again?
Mainly on how you met and her texting pattern.
Depending on the circumstances, you may want to wait anywhere from 24 hours to a week.
It breaks down all the different circumstances and tells you precisely how long you need to wait before sending her another text.
Every day, I receive emails about men’s biggest date frustrations.
And while they’re almost all worded differently, the frustration often boils down to:
“I just want her to put in the same level of effort as me!”
Because after us guys see a girl’s (dating) photos and have a brief back and forth over chat, we feel pretty good about meeting up.
Even if she matches you on a dating app, does not mean she’s very invested.
Sure, you may be her type physically.
But your physical looks say little about your more important qualities.
Like how it feels to be in your company.
With so many guys to choose from, women wait for someone special.
Even if it’s something casual, she daydreams about a man out of a fairytale.
A man who can make the clouds part and make the birds sing.
Almost every girl I’ve talked to thinks that finding the ‘right’ guy will feel obvious.
And if she hasn’t felt that, she can be dismissive.
So she needs to feel what makes you unique.
How do you show off your unique personality?
If you use your voice well, you’ll move out of the “Just another guy” -category to the “He just gets me” -category.
Even though you’re saying the same stuff as you did over text.
The big difference is, now she’s freeing up her schedule to see you.
For more on becoming the ‘right’ guy, check out my article on how to arouse a woman over text .
How often do you have the following?
You chat for a while and exchange numbers.
And the conversation slows down to a trickle before it dries up completely.
Or perhaps you do continue the convo and go out on a date, but you never get the 2nd date text.
The above situations have a common cause.
And we’re about to reach into the heart of it.
The two most common texting mistakes that lead to being ghosted are…
If you’re too hot, you’re focused on:
Even if she’s attracted to you physically, your hot vibe will push her away.
But because she didn’t have to work for your affection.
And if it feels cheap, it’s disposable.
Most guys who go down the ‘cold’ route have been turned down too many times after being too interested.
But what they really look like are a-holes.
What’s the solution to being too hot or cold?
If we keep it strictly to dating apps:
And what do these traits do for her?
Make you stand out from all the other guys.
And more importantly, make you attractive. So that she’ll like you too much to ghost you.
You’re about to find out if you still have a shot with her.
You probably haven’t done anything that deserves to be ignored .
And yet, here’s a girl who’s being flaky and low investment.
Which naturally gives you the idea she doesn’t like you.
If you just met, she barely knows you.
She doesn’t know what you have to offer and how happy you could potentially make her.
Her level of interest is a reflection of what she knows about you TODAY.
It’s not a reflection of how attracted she could be a month from now.
Although that’s NO reason for you to try even harder.
It’s not personal if someone is not investing in the early stages.
“But Louis, isn’t her ghosting me rude and a bad sign of what’s to come?”
Her flakiness is unlikely to be a personality trait.
She’s just not that into you RIGHT NOW.
So how do you get her from “Not that interested” to “I want to meet him” ?
“Oh, no. Are you about to get all woo-woo with us, Louis?”
No, I’m not going to go hippie on you.
I’m just about to give you the easiest advice on how to make yourself more attractive.
The most attractive people almost always share the same 2 traits:
In short, attractive people have too much going on to care about the opinion of some girl.
So if a girl’s not really investing, the attractive dude matches her level of investment WHILE staying positive.
What does that look like in practice?
The attractive man moves forward while giving her a chance to dial up her investment.
If that doesn’t happen, no problem. He’ll just continue his bomb ass life and date another girl.
You may be scaring her away with your texts and not even know it.
You matched on Tinder and you had a great chat.
You are 1337% positive she enjoyed texting you.
Which makes being ghosted by her extra confusing.
Or you send her some meaningless info about your day.
I hate to break it to you, but every one of those texts is doing nothing but cockblocking you.
What is she likely to say in the best case scenario?
Welcome to Boresville. Next stop, You Ain’t Never Hitting That-town.
If she doesn’t respond, you never want to send the following types of texts:
Continue to read about what you should text her when she ghosts you.
If you ever catch yourself not knowing what to say.
Or if you notice girls take too long to respond, your texts are probably a bit lame.
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If you’re like most of my clients, you’ve come to me TOO late.
You probably don’t want to know what to do if she ghosts you.
But what you should do if she ghosts you and you send her something insanely stupid.
It’s almost like being a diplomat who’s been asked to restore peace between two nations if one already flew over to the other and dropped an atomic bomb.
But it’s no guarantee I can straighten things out.
Let me give you an example of a once friendly text conversation that turned into a warzone.
She’s super hot and already flaked on you once before, because she forgot an appointment she already made.
She then apologized and agreed to a new date.
But 30 minutes before the new date starts, she texts you:
Do you see where things went nuclear?
When you told her you were available on Friday and Saturday.
For a moment, forget about how hot she is and think about what she just did.
Although she flaked on you twice already, she can’t even let you know if she wants to meet you Friday or Saturday. Probably because she’s still figuring out if she has anything better to do!
Before I show you how to fix this apocalyptic wasteland, I’m about to show you how to PREVENT it with a hugely important dating tip:
If she takes 1 step forward, you take 1 step forward. But what you never do is take an extra step forward.
When the girl from the example asked if you had time to meet up, that was not a cue to hand over your schedule.
Especially not the two most valuable social days of the week: Friday and Saturday.
When she read your reply, she knew she didn’t need to put in any work to see you.
So how would you fix this situation?
The ‘def’ lets her know that you’re positive and up for seeing her.
But more importantly, that text will show her you can say no and will force her to put in more effort.
If you’ve made it through all the tips, you’re probably thinking:
“This texting stuff is way too f#$% difficult.”
And I understand the ‘death to texting’ sentiment.
It’s tough to get a read on someone over text.
If that’s you, I’ve got a very natural way of flirting with a woman.
Sadly, culture has forced many of us into teenagers who think speaking over the phone is weird.
Despite that weirdness, there are 3 simple ways to get her on the phone with you.
Firstly, use your windows of opportunity.
Often girls will ask you a question that’s too difficult to long-winded over text. That’s an opportunity to move things forward:
If she’s already invested enough, she’ll very likely agree.
Maybe you’ve been texting for weeks without anything really happening. In which case you can say:
When you’re associating negativity with texting and positivity with video calls, it’s much more likely she’ll bite.
Maybe you’re on your way somewhere and have a few minutes to spare.
Once you’ve talked on the phone, she’ll get the idea that calling is a reasonable thing to do.
Anyway, that’s most of what you need to know on how to respond to ghosting.
But before we wrap it up, I want to give you a present.
If you got ghosted, it’s difficult to take your mind off her.
Because for some warped reason, our minds need closure.
Although I can’t give you closure, I can give you the second best thing.
I’m not into the human trafficking business.
But I can give you a tool that points out all the weaknesses in your online dating profile, and how to fix them.
That way you can get an irresistible profile and attract lots of women.
So you don’t have to think about the one girl who ghosted you.
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Posted on Last updated: December 22, 2021
There are times when you find someone who really gets you and you can be yourself with, without any struggles. Then, for some unknown reason, they lose interest and leave you in silence. So, you’re left wondering: How to respond to someone who ghosted you? 
If you’re unfamiliar with the concept, let me explain it to you in a couple of sentences. Basically, ghosting is when the other person suddenly cuts all communication with you and never returns your calls or texts. 
A ghoster is often a man who ends things with a woman without saying a word, in the hopes of making himself seem unavailable so that she starts chasing after him. 
However, most women who get ghosted fall into depression and completely lose interest in being in a committed relationship. 
The thing is, not every girl gives up immediately after people ghost her. Some hold onto the guy and try to get revenge, while others accept the hurt, heal, and then move on. 
It’s never easy to get back up on your feet after someone ghosts you . Whether it’s your close friend or a guy you were involved with, it’s never easy to just brush it off. 
But if a guy tries to come back, asking for a second chance, you may just be able to sort things out. There are ways you can respond to his text message – it all depends on how you feel at that moment. 
Did your guy suddenly vanish into thin air and not even explain why? And now that he’s back, you’re wondering how you’re supposed to respond to someone who ghosted you. 
Well, you can definitely use this sentence if you have no regrets for dating him back then and you’re genuinely glad to hear from him again. 
You’ll have two options – you can continue where you two stopped, or you could go your separate ways and let it go. 
Also, this is another way that you can tell him you’ve found someone new and it’s no big deal that he ghosted you in the first place. 
He’ll know that you’re not angry at him anymore and it’s a subtle way to friend-zone a guy without hurting his feelings. 
Certainly use it if it suits your situation. 
Is the texter giving you many reasons why he left you, but without any real explanation? If so, you can then respond to his texts by asking him if he’s sorted his life out yet. 
Even if it doesn’t sound logical to him, simply ask him if he’s okay and needs your help with something. 
I know what you’re thinking: You’ll come across as rude – as if you’re sticking your nose in other people’s business. But remember that he walked away from you – it shouldn’t sound nice.
This sentence will force him to rethink his reasons to see if they make any sense. 
And if you’re not as interested in him as you were before, then you should definitely respond this way. You’re giving him the impression that he needs to sort out his life before thinking of coming back to you again. 
It takes a lot of courage and strength to confess to someone that you have feelings for them. Despite your trust issues and having been burnt before, you decided to build your world around him.
Yet he decided to leave you. Of course, people can be unpredictable, but you genuinely believed that this man wouldn’t ever disappoint you. 
Perhaps he didn’t get the impression that you were serious or he had a tough time acknowledging his feelings for you. Whatever the reason may be, he decided to ghost you and there’s no turning back. 
But, now that he’s returned, you have to tell him what’s bothering you. Make him understand how his actions affected you when he ghosted you. 
Want to know how to respond to someone who ghosted you when that someone was in a committed, serious relationship with you? If you’d gone far with him, then you need to let him know how he made you feel when he bailed on you with no warning. 
This sentence gives him the impression that you enjoyed spending time with him and that it stung when he left you. 
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