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how do you achieve anal gape and is it safe?

Last month I (20, male, no health issues, gay) was having sex with my boyfriend (receptive anal sex). For no apparent reason, my pelvis s...

Hello I am 20 years old guy, as I am healthy , when I masturbate my first three shots they come out white the rest they come out yellow i...

I get really wet during sex and even thinking about it but lately my partner has been wanting to try anul so that making me think that be...

I a guy I got a baby bottle pop candy it went past my prostate do I just wait till my body pushes poop out against it to remove it idk wh...

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hi guys, so if you practice gaping whether male or female the anus will eventually be able to take bigger objects (fingers, dicks, bigger dildoes). Don't do to often though, I know its gross but it can cause problems... such as wet farts & stuff. Regularly though it should be fine. the anus will eventually stretch to become more open, such as an ear lobe when you stretch it. Always be safe everyone.

Anal peripheral prostate massage is one of the four prostate massage. This can be used by persons who are interested in anal activity. This can be a form of masturbation as well. this massage has some health benefits also.Blood circulatio in groin are.

How many times of doing that did it take

If you enjoy it, okay, no problem. My first husband got to where he couldn't get it up enough to give either of us pleasure the normal way, so he only wanted to do it in the butt. That hurts! To me, anyway.
I had to find pleasure elsewhere.

thank you, i think main proplem of anal gape  is anus funnel shape noted by Drs in forced exames in some countries like mine.

Thank you, I think...another reason I question this particular activity.  If it were a natural, meant to be activity it seems to me one would not have to be concerned with such a phenomenon.

Jim

To Bear:
Once the anal sphincter muscles have been stretched, the anus is left with an opening. This opening would then make penetration easier... or rather, less painful for the recipient. The disadvantage would be that that opening or "gape" tends to remain open. And, if one has a permanent opening or "gape" in the anus... that translates into an incontinence/ bowel control problem.

To ryapas:
The tearing feels like you're being burnt and cut at the same time and it's extremely and unbelievably painful... if you could imagine undergoing a surgical procedure without an anesthetic, it would feel like that. After the tearing, you might feel less pain. I always felt pain, even after the tearing... the pain wasn't as bad as the first several attempts. But, there was always some pain involved.

I almost am afraid to ask, but what is "anal gape"?

Jim

even without any tears you feel?
I am so afraid

Yes. That is possible if you do it frequently.

if you have a gape that big and repeatedly do it, it can lead to problems in the future like leaks of feces?

u have take lot of practice.u have to put something in your anal for 15-20 min and move it in and out.My grl frd also want the same thing but i use to put my personal in her for 1/2 an hr.Or u can say i go through anal sex.Now she is having 3" gape

very slowly and with lots of practice! it is generally safe if done correctly. done incorrectly, you can tear your colon. also, if it is done too often, it can lead to difficulty controlling the bowels in some people.

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Last month I (20, male, no health issues, gay) was having sex with my boyfriend (receptive anal sex). For no apparent reason, my pelvis s...

Hello I am 20 years old guy, as I am healthy , when I masturbate my first three shots they come out white the rest they come out yellow i...

I get really wet during sex and even thinking about it but lately my partner has been wanting to try anul so that making me think that be...

I a guy I got a baby bottle pop candy it went past my prostate do I just wait till my body pushes poop out against it to remove it idk wh...

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I have a question about porn, and I can’t think who else I can ask that will give me an intelligent, educated answer. In modern porn, anal on women is gaining popularity. I’m a fan of anal with my boyfriend. However, in porn, it seems like the gaping asshole is a thing, a sought after thing, a desired thing. And I guess my boyfriend and I don’t get it. We can get quite vigorous when we have anal sex, but MY butthole never gapes open like that—my boyfriend assures me that when he pulls out, it goes back to its cute little flower-like effect. Why is the gaping asshole so popular? I promise this is not a frivolous question or just for titillation. We really do wonder: What gives? —Gaining Anal Perspective Entails Serious Question
It’s funny how a chief fear about anal sex—that your asshole would gape open afterward and poop would fall out while you walked down the street—became eroticized. (The asshole gaping open part, not the poop falling out part.) Did I say funny, GAPESQ? I meant predictable. Because a big part of the collective human subconscious is always at work eroticizing our fears, and the gaping-open, just-been-fucked, completely “wrecked” asshole many people feared inevitably became something some people found hot. And as more people began experimenting with anal sex—as anal went mainstream over the last two decades—people realized that the anal sphincter is a muscle and the secret to successful anal intercourse is learning to relax that muscle. Situationally, not permanently. You could relax, get loose, gape after, post the video to a porn tube, and then tighten back up. Now, not everyone thinks a wide-open, gaping asshole is desirable. And not everyone, in the immortal words of Valerie Cherish, needs (or wants) to see that. —Dan Savage
Honest question: If you, being a homosexual, don’t die from HIV, will you have to wear a diaper before the age of 42? Optional question: What does a prolapsed rectum look like? I bet you can describe it without doing an image search. —Sickening Homosexuals Are Malignant Errors
Honest answers: I know you meant this to be hate mail, SHAME, but I’m just thrilled someone out there thinks I’m not 42 yet. Also, I’m HIV-negative—last time I checked—but even if I were to seroconvert (go from HIV-negative to HIV-positive), a person with HIV who has access to meds can expect to live as long as a person without HIV. Also, a person with HIV who is on meds and has a zero viral load (no trace of the virus can be detected in their blood) cannot infect another person. So even if I were to contract HIV after all these years, SHAME, I would likely live long enough to die of something else, and, once I got on meds, I couldn’t pass HIV on to anyone else. And quickly: I’m way past 42 and not in a diaper yet, thank you very much. And while some people think a prolapsed rectum looks like a rosebud, I happen to think a prolapsed rectum looks like a ball of lean hamburger. And the first one I ever saw—and, no, I didn’t need to do an image search because it makes a real impression—was in straight porn, not gay porn. —DS
P.S. If you can’t think about gay men without thinking about our poops and the diapers you hope we’re wearing and our meaty prolapsed rectums, SHAME, that says a lot more about you than it does about gay people.
My significant other wants me to delete any NSFW pictures of my exes, but I don’t feel comfortable with that. I don’t have an emotional attachment to my exes or really look at these photos anymore, but I feel that old pictures saved on old computers aren’t doing any harm and deleting them won’t fix my partner’s insecurity. —Personal Images Causing Strife
Accommodating a partner’s irrational insecurity is sometimes the price we pay to make an otherwise healthy and functional relationship work, PICS, as I recently told another reader. But one possible workaround—one possible accommodation—is telling your insecure partner what they want to hear even if it isn’t true. Telling a partner who is concerned about safety that you’re using condoms with others when you’re not isn’t okay, of course, just as telling a potential partner you’re single when you’re not isn’t okay. But telling a partner that you deleted photos you never look at on a password-protected computer they can’t look at … yeah, that’s a lie you don’t have to feel too awful about telling. —DS
How long after using an oil-based lubricant do I have to wait before I can safely use latex condoms? Not right after, presumably. Next day? Next week? Next century? I’ve been experimenting with oil-based CBD lube for hand/toy stuff, but I’m worried about the timing relative to penetrative sex. —Oily Inside
“Oil and latex condoms do NOT mix, period,” said Melissa White, CEO of Lucky Bloke, an online condom shop, and a condom expert. “Using an oil-based lubricant with a condom can cause the condom to leak and/or break. And unlike water-based lubes, oils do not evaporate readily. While oil is absorbed over time, that absorption rate likely varies based on many factors, including age. Oiling up internally? Now we’re talking vaginal versus anal absorption rates! The bottom line: We have not found sufficient studies to issue a reliable recommendation on what an overall safe time frame might be. So here’s the deal: Oil or condoms—choose one.”
I would add only this: Condoms made out of polyurethane are more expensive, but you can safely use them with oil-based lube. —DS
I’m a straight guy who loves the female body—the look, touch, and smell. I’m in my mid-30s, I’ve never had a serious relationship, and I don’t know if I’m capable of falling in love. I’m exclusively into trans women, and I’ve kept it a secret because it’s nobody’s business. If I were in love, I’d make it public, but that hasn’t happened. I can’t help but feel like this is an addiction, and I’m ashamed of it. I’m sure I’m not the first straight guy who’s into trans women who’s written to you. Where do I go from here? —Straight And Struggling
While dating someone in secret isn’t impossible, SAS, it rarely leads to long-term love. Being kept hidden because you’re trans (or you’re gay or you’re big) and the person you’re dating hasn’t gotten over their shame about being attracted to trans people (or members of their own sex or bigger people) … well, it sucks to be someone’s dirty secret. And a healthy trans (or gay or big) person—the kind of person you might be able to fall in love with—isn’t going to put up with that shit. So it’s a catch-22: So long as you keep the women you date a secret, none of them are going to stay in your life for long. They’ll be either so damaged you want them out of your life or not damaged enough to want you in theirs. —DS
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Want to shave the hair on your bum? Here's how.
Many men have hair on their buttocks and around their anus—it’s quite normal and natural. The hair on your butt does serve a purpose; it helps minimize friction and chafing while also keeping the area ventilated and dry.
However, a growing number of men are removing their body hair, including their tail feathers.
Some people ask, why would someone want to do this? There are a number of horror stories about pubic shaving, but for men who can master the art, it is well worth the reward.
Removing body hair can make you look and feel clean, plus it can also be sexually arousing and stimulating not only to you but to your partner (that is, of course, if your partner prefers a smooth bum—some don't).
Follow these step-by-step instructions for shaving your bum.
You want to make sure you don't introduce any new bacteria to your skin while you are shaving, so thoroughly clean your body and then completely dry off.
A hot shower or bath is recommended—this will help soften the hair and prepare your skin. Be sure to dry off with a fresh towel as a re-used towel may contain bacteria.
Step 2: Clean and Disinfect Your Razor
While I recommend you start with a fresh razor, if you happen to be using a razor that's relatively new, then you first want to make sure you remove any existing debris and bacteria.
You can remove hair lodged between the blades by running the blade under a heavy stream of water or gently tapping the razor on the base of the sink. Once you've cleaned the razor, pour a little rubbing alcohol over the top of the blades to kill any bacteria.
If you're using an electric groomer, you can clean the unit by opening the razor and removing stray hairs. To disinfect the unit, dab some alcohol onto a cotton swab and wipe the blades.
Step 3: Trim the Hair on Your Buttocks
If the hair on your butt is long, you will need to trim it down so you can effectively use your manual razor or body groomer. A clogged razor will make your shaving more difficult and could create some painful snagging as hairs get stuck.
For most body grooming you do, you can generally use just an electric groomer or a manual razor. But, in the case of shaving your buttocks, you really need both to achieve an effective shave. The electric body groomer is great for removing hair on the cheeks but usually too big to get around the anus, so you need a manual razor for that area.
If the hair is thick, then I'd recommend using the Phillips Norelco Bodygroom Pro —the #1 best-selling body groomer on Amazon and a favorite among well-trimmed men.
You can use this unit to trim down the hair on your buttocks before shaving with a razor. If you just want to shave your cheeks, then you can use the shaving head to achieve a closer shave, but you won't be able to really use this unit "between the cheeks."
What I like about this unit is the dual-end shaving it offers; the shaving head at the top is great for close shaves, and the trimmer at the bottom of the unit with the hair guard is great for trimming down hair. This unit retails for about $70 and is a great investment for all your body grooming needs.
If you don't have a lot of hair on your buttocks or you are in between trims, then you should be able to use the Wahl Micro Groomsman .
This unit is small enough that you can use it around the anus. If you want to avoid a manual razor altogether, then you should pair this with the Bodygroom Pro, and both should be able to fulfill all your grooming needs. This unit retails for about $9 on Amazon.
This unit is great when there is just a little hair that needs to be t
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