How To Finger A Tight Girl

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First things first: it’s a great thing that you’re looking for this information on how to help loosen up your partner. Sex should be a mutually pleasurable experience, but for that to happen, awareness and effort is required from both partners. The fact that you’re seeking advice on how to loosen a girl without hurting her indicates both of those things. The thing is, sometimes it’s not as simple as it sounds. We humans have complex bodies and unfortunately there are times when things aren’t functioning quite as we would hope they would.
Women in particular can have a number of gynecological (or psychological) issues that lead to fear of penetration, painful or difficult intercourse (dyspareunia), or all of the above. If she a little tight down there, you may be able to put her mind and body at ease with the right techniques. Some females with more serious issues might need a lot more patience and effort from you, but these will surely be appreciated and in time, rewarded.
So, how do you go about "loosening a girl" or relaxing her pelvic floor muscles without causing her pain? Read on for some relationship-boosting advice…
The first and most important thing you can do is to determine why she is tight down there. She might be open to discussing it, but probably not in the moment. If you haven’t had the opportunity to talk about it (or it’s been too difficult) beforehand, try to understand what’s going on in the moment. For example, is her vagina tight because she isn’t lubricated enough? If so, she might be anxious, or simply not ready for penetration yet.
If she frequently has issues with penetration it might be that she has vaginismus , which is the name for the involuntary tightening of her vagina - usually at the first attempt at any kind of penetration. This can cause her a lot of pain and anxiety during sex, or prevent you from entering her at all. Although it’s not something most girls advertise, it’s actually quite common.
There other common conditions like vulvodynia, another vaginal pain condition she has little to no control over. It can hurt even to touch her lightly, so great care must be taken during sexual activity. In the case of either of these conditions it is often a persistent problem that takes time and therapy to overcome. Please be aware that in the case of vaginismus or vulvodynia, you can’t just keep trying and expect her to get used to the idea. Try not to take it personally, and don’t blame her either… it’s one of those things that generally requires professional help.
When it comes to practical, hands on strategies for making a girl comfortable in the bedroom, you have plenty of options:
Make sure you take your time to warm her up fully so that her body can prepare itself, and she gets the chance to emotionally connect with you. Giving her lots of foreplay is one of the best ways to get her in the mood for penetration - especially if you can give her an orgasm before that even happens.
If she is anxious, ease her into the experience by doing some deep breathing together. It will be even better if you can retain eye contact while doing so - this is one of the fundamental tantra techniques and it really helps to connect couples. Deep breathing will also send the message to her mind and body that it’s time to relax.
Patience is a golden rule when you’re having sex with a girl who is tight. Whether you do so verbally or by demonstration, let her know there is no rush, and no pressure. Even when foreplay is done, don’t rush to enter her immediately. Use your fingers first, go slow, stop if necessary, and only start again when she indicates that she is ready.
Giving her a full body massage in a space you’ve made ambient and comfortable will work wonders for loosening her up down there. Let her get used to your touch on other areas of her body and as they relax, other parts will follow suit!
If she is nervous or naturally has a tight vagina, don’t go full-steam-ahead even when she is warmed up. If you’re having difficultly penetrating her, why not play with some sex toys first? Bearing in mind that she may have the same response to any object penetrating her, check with her first and use smaller toys. This may well be what she needs to get used to the idea of full sex. If fearful, she needs to start with dilator therapy on her own. She may need to go to a pelvic floor physical therapist first.
Talking about sex can sometimes be uncomfortable, but it’s a really good idea to try - especially in the moment, when she’s going through pain or anxiety in real-time. There’s no need to get into a serious conversation about it; simply try to attune to her facial expressions and vocal responses, but also remember to ask her if something feels good, or if it hurts, and so on. Since you’re asking she’ll know you care, and she’ll be more likely to relax mentally and physically.
If you want to loosen a girl without hurting her, make sure she feels as confident as possible in bed with you. Compliment her often, inside and outside of the bedroom. Let her know when she’s doing the right things, and tell her how she makes you feel. If she knows you’re enjoying yourself with her, she’ll be less focused on what could be going wrong and more present in the room with you. This is one of the more foolproof ways to enjoy sex!
Again, if she has vaginismus, her sexual confidence will be quite low. Helping a girl with vaginsimus to be confident in bed might require a little more of you, so familiarize with the condition and what she may be going through and you’re at least one step ahead.
Now that you know the best ways to loosen a girl without hurting her, good luck, and don’t forget to stay present and enjoy it too!
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kk so the other day my Girlfriend asked me if I could finger her tomorrow and I said yes... but I have one problem. I have never fingered a girl before and have no the slightest clue about what I should be doing when I am. Does anyone know good techniques that I could use when I am fingering her and by the way she is a virgin. I don't know if that changes anything but some people tell me it makes it more painful. Any help would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
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Okay, first make sure your hands are clean and your nails are trimmed. No sharp edges, please! Start off slow. Make out, kiss, rub her body and breasts over her shirt. Make her want you! Then slowly move your hand to the inside of her shirt. Don't get in her pants yet! Caress her and tell her you love her, maybe kiss the hollow of her neck. Rub her lightly on the outside of her jeans, tease her. The whole point is to go slow, tease her, and make her wet (if you just jam your finger in from the start it will be painful and no fun for anyone). Keep making out, maybe she'll give you a little action too Then put your hand on her stomach and run one or two of your fingers along the rim of her pants, and inside a little. Go back to making out and lightly touch her upper thigh and outside her jeans. Then run your thumb along the inside of her pants. She'll get antsy, which is good, she needs to be wet. Finally, when you think she's had enough teasing, unbutton and unzip her jeans. Take them off if you want, or just slip your hand in (taking the time to take her jeans all the way off may ruin the mood). Don't go underneath her panties yet. Run your finger along her lips (still outside of panties) and clit. Slip your finger inside her panties to check how wet she is. Keep her panties on though... makes it more exciting in my opinion. Go underneath her panties now, find her clit and rub in GENTLE circles or tap it GENTLY. Everything you do has to be slow and gentle, it'll build up tension better and has less of a risk of her "losing" her orgasm. If she's wet and begging you, find the opening to her vagina and SLOWLY slip ONE finger in, preferably your middle finger. Make a come hither motion with it. Whatever you do, don't thrust it in and out of her vagina... don't let your finger come out all the way and then immediately go back in. It will hurt her. While your finger is inside, use your thumb to stimulate her clit in the meantime. She may seem like she wants it harder... maybe she does. But in my experience I'm most apt to lose the building tension if the speed increases. So keep it steady and slow, there's no time limit. If she seems to like something, focus on doing it more. That's... all I can really say. Just remember, GO SLOW and EASY! Women don't get off in the same way that men do.
Oh yeah, communication is key. Ask her if she likes it, how you could make it better, or have her show you herself where it feels best. Good luck!
Just because I took the time to answer his question thoroughly, I'm a slut? Nice...
You know what? I shouldn't have to justify myself for you, but I will because you make me mad. Whether you want to believe it or not, I'm a virgin. And I've only been with one guy intimately. The fact is that he and I were able to communicate effectively so he could bring me pleasure. Maybe you think you're doing a good job, but I bet if you ask the girl there will be something you can change. In my description I also took into account other girls' answers and considerations I've read prior.
Thank you for the answer... I do really appreciate it and I ak420's comment is stupid and pointless... thanks again
Ok first of all you need to wash your hands first otherwise she can catch an infection. That includes your nails. Secondly suck her t*ts while you do "that" then finish off by going down on her while you "do that" until she comes! she will love you for EVER
Start with one finger because she'll probably be pretty tight at first and then use two when she loosens
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