How To Deal With An Aries Man In A Relationship

How To Deal With An Aries Man In A Relationship
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Plan on doing spontaneous things together. Aries men are impulsive, and they love doing things on a whim. It keeps them feeling young and alive. Being with an Aries man, you may find that your plans to grab dinner together turn into a long night out with lots of dancing and exploring. Don’t be surprised if he suggests doing something crazy or unexpected. [1]
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Expect him to be blunt and honest with you. Aries men don’t mince words. They’re not afraid to tell you how they feel, even if it’s not nice. Be prepared for this so you’re not caught off guard when it happens. Remember to not take their bluntness personally — it’s just their personality. And if something he says hurts your feelings or offends you, don’t be afraid to be honest and blunt back. [2]
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Be ready to stand up for yourself if he starts acting controlling. Aries are natural leaders, and sometimes they can be bossy. There may be times when your Aries man tries to boss you around or tell you what to do, but that doesn’t mean you should let him! Aries men actually like strong, independent people that stand up for themselves. Just don’t try to control him back or you could scare him off. [3]
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For example, if you have plans to do one thing but he’s trying to tell you to do something else, don’t be afraid to say no. You could say something like, "If you don’t want to join me, that’s fine, but this is what I’m doing."

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Understand that he’s sensitive underneath his macho exterior. Despite their flashy exterior and self-centered personality, Aries men are actually sensitive and caring deep down. Once you’ve gained his trust, your Aries man will confide in you and give you the emotional support you need. [4]
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When you're hanging out alone with your Aries man, open up to him about your feelings and insecurities, and ask him questions about his own. He'll feel more comfortable being vulnerable with you if you're vulnerable with him too.

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Encourage him to travel and pursue his interests. Aries men love their freedom and independence, and they can be turned off by people that try to control or restrain them. Make sure you give your Aries man the space to do his own thing, and avoid being needy or clingy. He’ll love you more for letting him be free.

If your Aries man constantly talks about how he’s dying to take a trip somewhere, be supportive and tell him he should go. Don’t try to stop him or take it personally if he doesn’t invite you along.
Try to balance your needs with his. It’s OK to ask him to skip going out with his friends every once in a while so you can have a night in together, but don’t do it all the time or you could drive him away.

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Avoid predictability and routine in your relationship. Aries get bored easily, and they strongly dislike routines. Try to keep things fresh with your Aries man by surprising him with plans or trying something you’ve never done before. He’ll stick around longer if your relationship is fun and exciting.

Surprise your Aries man with a weekend getaway or road trip.
Take him out for dinner and drinks on weeknights instead of staying in.

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Engage him in friendly, passionate arguments. Aries men love to argue — it’s like a sport to them. When you’re hanging out together, strike up an argument about a topic you’re both interested in, like sports, movies or music. Don’t let the argument turn into a fight; it should just be a friendly back and forth.

For example, if your Aries man says the best movie ever made was Avatar but you think it's Titanic , passionately make your case and let him make his. He'll love the friendly arguing.
It doesn't matter who's right in the end. The arguing is just for fun.

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Be confident in the bedroom. Aries men are confident in their sexuality, and they like people who are too. When you’re intimate together, don’t be afraid to let your hair down and feel sexy. If you're insecure or shameful of your body, learn to love yourself how you are. Stop comparing yourself with other people, and tell yourself you're beautiful every day. Exercising regularly can also boost your confidence and make you feel more comfortable in the bedroom. [5]
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Experimenting with different positions or outfits in the bedroom can be a fun way to keep your Aries man interested.

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Stand up for yourself when you argue with each other. Aries men can be domineering, which makes them hard to argue with. However, it’s important that you don’t let your Aries man walk all over you, or you could develop resentment and bitterness down the road. If you’re in a heated argument, don’t be afraid to say what’s on your mind.
For example, if you're arguing and he's ignoring everything you're saying, you could say something like "You're not listening to anything I have to say right now. I'm not going to have this conversation with you until you start listening to me."

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Avoid blaming him for small things he does wrong. Aries men hate to be blamed or told they acted wrongly. When it’s something big that genuinely hurt or upset you, you should tell your Aries man what he did wrong. But when you’re upset about something small — he left the milk out and it went bad, he forgot to lock the door, he didn’t call you when he said he would — a kind reminder is better.
For example, instead of getting upset when he doesn't do the dishes, you could kindly say, "Hey, I did your dishes from earlier. It's fine, but would you mind doing them next time?"

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Don’t be afraid to talk about your wants and needs with him. Aries men can be self-centered, and they devote a lot of energy to their personal goals and interests. If you feel like your dreams and personal needs are being overshadowed in the relationship, talk to your Aries man about it. Aries men like people that are passionate and driven. Telling him what you want will help get him on your side so he can start supporting you. Just don’t expect him to change his ways or make a lot of sacrifices to help you succeed. [6]
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For example, you could tell your Aries man "I feel like I've been supporting your goals a lot lately, but I haven't been pursuing my own."

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Aries men are energetic, impulsive, and ambitious. A relationship with an Aries man can be passionate, fun, and exciting. Understanding his personality, embracing his adventurous side, and learning how to communicate with him is key to building a healthy relationship.

Don't fall behind in the conversation. Aries usually prefer talking with someone who can keep up with them mentally throughout a conversation. Pay attention when an Aries is explaining something so that you don't have to ask multiple clarifying questions. You want to make him feel like you're moving forward together.
The best way to love an Aries man is to encourage him to travel and explore his interests so he doesn't feel confined. Surprise him with fun trips and plans to keep your relationship exciting. You should also start friendly arguments with him over topics you know he loves. If he ever gets too bossy or controlling, don't be afraid to stand up for yourself — he'll appreciate your strength. For more tips on loving an Aries man, like what to do if your wants and needs are being overshadowed, keep reading!

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