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How To Ask For A Handjob
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2. Is this too dry? Do we need lube? I don't want to get the bed all lube-y.
3. Am I pulling on it too hard? Like an old lady with a cigarette dangling out of her mouth, yanking on a busted Vegas slot machine?
4. Is my grip too tight? Too loose? I don't want to choke it!
5. Should I be looking at it? Or his face? I'm gonna look at it.
6. Just kidding, I'm gonna look at his face.
8. Just kidding, I'm gonna watch Modern Family.
7. When you put your hand on my hand like that and move it up and down, you may as well just be jerking yourself off, but fine.
8. Should I maybe blow you a tiny bit? Just to throw something different in?
10. How long is this going to take? I'm feeling a little bit carpal tunnelly.
11. Can I ask you to finish yourself off while I just watch or is that too Pee Wee Herman-in-the-adult-theater?
12. Wow, that is a really unique color for a part of a person's body to be.
13. I should have done this on my crappier bedspread.
14. Where are the tissues where are the tissues where are the—
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There’s so much more you can do than the simple up-and-down strokes of a typical hand job. We’re going to share several hand job tips and techniques that are sure to blow your husband’s mind.
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It’s very important to know about the parts of your husband’s penis and how they work. This knowledge will help you be a better lover.
The first thing you need to do is get into a comfortable position when giving your husband a handjob. Both of you would hate it if you had a cramp during a handjob.
Handjobs generate a lot of friction. The proper type and amount of lube are very important so that your handjob is a pleasurable experience.
Don’t want to deal with the mess of a handjob? Try our mess-free handjob technique .
Remember ladies that you’re handling the most tender and sensitive part of your husband’s body. Psychologically, he’ll make a connection between the way you take care of your hands and the care your hands will take of him.
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Filed Under: Handjob Techniques Published on July 16, 2015
Woah! I must try these out. I feel so dumb when it comes to hand jobs. Thanks for all the tips.
Pretty soon you’ll be an expert and he’ll be saying “ Woah! “
How long does a hand job usually last or go for? Is it awkward?
How long a hand job lasts really depends on you guys. It doesn’t have to end with him ejaculating, so you can stop and move on to other things whenever you like.
As for awkwardness, it might feel a little awkward the first few times, but it will become much easier over time.
5-10 minutes or till he can’t take it anymore and insists on you making him ejaculate
Using lubrication, grip his penis very, very loosely and barely touch the rim of the head with each finger as you move up and down the shaft. This will require less effort for you and greater sensation for him. His orgasm will occur much quicker and with much greater intensity.
Handjobs are very underrated. When my wife uses lube for them (we use Astroglide), they feel so good. To answer a question above: How long a guy will last during a handjob…hard to tell. Usually with me about 10 minutes but my wife tries to stretch it out by teasing me a bit. She knows I’m not a huge fan of cumming on myself so she always makes that part of the experience really fun.
A hand job, with a little bit of mouth action on the tip of the penis also works. The wife is stroking the penis slowly, but at the same time she’s putting the tip of the penis inside her mouth and licking it or sucking it every once in awhile. But only for a few seconds each time.
Re. Nancy’s comment about touching the penis very very lightly, my wife does this but without lube. Gently squeezing the balls, tracing her fingers lightly along the length and then lightly stroking the frenulum is exquisite. This is our sex life at the moment, usually once a week and it’s now starting to wear thin, only leading to orgasm about half the time (very frustrating!) Maybe we need to branch out, try using lube and different holds. Thanks for the great advice. I love this site.
When I give my husband a hand job I almost always alternate a little with my mouth, for lube and stimulation, also to give my hand an arm a little break. When he comes I catch it in my mouth to keep from making a mess and not to waste the semen, which I consider precious. Also, he loves to see that. A hand job can be quite messy no matter what precautions you take. I would surely hate a child or other friend or relative come into our bedroom for some reason (or where we just had it) and see semen or semen stains that we missed on bed sheets, clothes, hair or whatever. It’s neater, cleaner and a lot more fun for him to finish in my mouth!
[Edited] My wife really knows how to give amazing handjobs. Sometimes they feel like blowjobs – which is a good thing, beings how she won’t suck me.. at all. That part is VERY disappointing. But none-the-less I do enjoy the visual of getting a handjob and we both enjoy the cumshot. I asked her one time how she learned to give such good handjobs, she said “by watching you” hahah. We make love until she climaxes, then I pull out and she finishes me by hand, as she prefers not to have “my mess” leaking out of her. (I’m a big cummer)
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Not sex just a hand job until he nuts. If yes how would you go about it? If no what would be your response? Would it make a difference if he offered you something you wanted? Also if it was a friend of yours that had a girlfriend would you tell his gf?
Women if a guy walked up to you and asked for a handjob, would you?
Not a chance, especially if I didn't know him. It just wouldn't happen, lol, I'd be disgusted at his manner of approach. I don't do sexual favors for anyone in exchange for anything they think they could 'give' me for doing it. If I fool around with someone, it's because I'm attracted to them, like them as a person and enjoy their company in nonsexual situations [which requires me knowing them personally, like they'd have to be someone I would or already do hang out with], and having some kind of feelings for them is preferred but not ALWAYS necessary [as in, sometimes I'm not opposed to casual encounters without romantic intent, I may see someone in a sexual light, but not a romantic light]. If it were a friend of mine that had a girlfriend, I'd definitely never go there in the first place. Though if the girlfriend were someone I also considered a friend [especially if I were closer to her than I am to him, meaning she has my loyalty first], I may say something to her about him requesting something like that from me if I think it's in her best interest to know. If it were a friend of mine who was single, it almost certainly still wouldn't happen, even if I were attracted to him, mainly because of how he approached it. Just out of the blue, asking me to jerk him off, is not an enticing prospect. Especially if he didn't work up to it at all. Or hadn't been flirting or throwing any kind of hints that he was in any way interested in me that way. If he hardly ever initiates conversation or socialization with me UNLESS he's turned on [and makes it known each time], and decides to contact me in hopes that it will lead up to us fooling around, or inevitably ends up with him making some attempt to talk me into fooling around. Or if I could tell it was a completely selfish request made carelessly with little regard to how such an approach might make ME feel. By selfish, I mean he doesn't really care if he's made me uncomfortable, he just wants to use me to get off if I'll allow it and doesn't actually value my friendship or me as a person, and obviously has little to no respect for me even if he pretends to. Any guy who is actually a real friend to me [obviously there's sexual desire as well from his end, or the desire might even be mutual], he'd go about the whole thing much differently and be mindful of how the subject even comes up before he gets to the point of asking something like that from me at all. Because he'd care about my comfort and whether or not what he's saying and how he's saying it is going to affect ME and how I feel, not just in the selfish regard of whether saying it a certain way is more likely to get me to agree to his request. He wouldn't WANT to upset me or make me feel uneasy, he'd feel bad and apologize if he DID make me feel that way, and wouldn't make another attempt like that or bring up the subject again out of respect for my feelings and for my choice to decline what he had asked of me.
f a guy walked up to you and asked for a handjob would you? No If no what would be your response? Kick him in the balls, mace him in the eyes, taze him, and then when he's down stomp on his nuts while I dial the police to get him for sexual harassment via street harassment as this would have been recorded ala mini video camera. Would it make a difference if he offered you something you wanted? No as It's quite unlikely that a guy would have what I want as well as I have no interest in trading sexual favors for what I want I'd rather get it myself ala work or money. Also if it was a friend of yours that had a girlfriend would you tell his gf? Meh my friends wouldn't do this as I consider them decent guys as they're homosexual. Though to answer I wouldn't tell his girlfriend as in my opinion that's on her for having a boyfriend since to me it's pretty much an expectation that a guy will cheat or attempt to.
My response? "Eww No, I don't handle random penises" *walks away quickly* Would it make a difference if he offered something you wanted? No. If this was a friend of yours that had a girlfriend would you tell his girlfriend? If I knew her, yes, I probably would let her know.
The game of life is the only game in which the object of the game is to learn the rules. Some guys need to be tazed, maced, and kicked a few times before they learn what NOT to do. God help them learn to be 'friendly'.
Oh yes, most women would do this. Rub and Tugs exist because guys can get handjobs from random women effortlessly, but they want the quality massage first.
Women, if a guy walked up to you at school and asked if you wanted to hookup, what would be your reaction?
Why won't some men just walk up to a woman like a real man and ask her out?
How flattered would you feel if an attractive woman walked up to you and asked for your number?
What would you do? You're a guy on a bus, a woman walks up and asks for your seat, her only reason for wanting it is that she is a woman?
There is no way I would EVER give a guy a handjob (or anything else) if we weren't in a relationship! To me anything sexual is a big deal and shouldn't be given to just anyone! If he was a total stranger he'd probably get smacked! Any guy who can disrespect a woman enough to ask he something like that does not deserve any respect!
well I might be slightly flattered lol if he wasn't a total creep but what I would do? well I would go up to him say sure get really close grab his junk and get an extremly tight grip and then knee him in the balls of course!
no I wouldn't. if there is police nearby I will go up to them
Im sorry but why would I give a handjob to a random guy? This doesn't even make sense. He could be planning to rape me for all I know.
no way! it's just sleazy and gross. at least try and date me first.
You pervert lol. YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE LEVEL 3!
Send my best regards to Bubba in prison!
Hell no. I'm not touching a stranger.
I would and then I'd stick my finger up his butt.
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If my super serious response seems extreme, lol, it's because I was mainly thinking about the manner of approach here. =P Something like that [approached in the way you describe in the question] from a guy I consider a friend would leave me uncomfortable and feeling kind of disappointed in him, in that he thought that would be an acceptable way to approach that with someone he's supposed to consider a friend as well. As for random stranger dudes, any guy who SERIOUSLY asks random girls to give
him a handjob and thinks he'll get any kind of positive reaction, let alone the results he wants, is most definitely a sleazeball, and not someone I'd take very seriously or waste any energy on beyond my initial disgust, avoidance, and swift departure from the situation, haha.
Ok so say theoretically that this friend does not masturbate himself. He goes to the doctor because his testicals are hurting. The doctor says he has to masturbate because of build up of cum. Then he would be asking more of a favor. Than just a selfless act.
Still no, lol, there's no reason he can't do that himself if it's an actual issue. It's not MY fault that he for whatever reason CHOOSES not to do it himself. That's on him, I'm not obligated to do anything and I'd think he was pretty much an a.sshole if he tried to guilt trip me into it after being denied.
First part had me laughing crazy good answer lol
U just need to ignore, he hasn't touched u till foolish woman, u r behaving like u just have been in trouble or sexual harassment and they have touched u anywhere they want or have beaten u for that the response u r giving is not a way to ignore their Qns, fool, keep ur small brain with u only, don't show others, the Qn hasn't made men touch u anywhere or assault u
Hey that was as friendly as you can get.lol
So you walked up to a women and asked and she said yes?
Ok so what is the difference if you go out to the club and end up sleeping with a guy from there you spoke with for only a few hrs? Does speaking with a guy for a few hrs change the way you think?
Because that's just tacky I don't sleep with random people at the club either though. But it is slightly different. Guys at clubs don't just come out and say here grab my junk I mean honestly you can't really think that's okay?
No I don't think it's OK for anyone to go grab anyone. But on the same note there has to be some level of respect if someone was to approach a women with they would say yes. There are very respectful women that do way more than handjobs for prices starting at $1000. So it's saying you go to work for a month to make $1200 at $10 a hr. You could have made that in 20 minutes if you would have accepted this persons offer.
but then you loose your self respect. Not worth it.
So far all of you is there anything that would change the situation to make you more receptive of doing this? I mean we all have sexual temptation so what's the difference if you meet someone at the club for a few hrs and end up sleeping with this guy? Does talking with this guy for a few hrs change the situation?
No never and I am not into casual sex too
Ok just say theoretically for a fact he was not going to? Apparently none of the ladies would be flattered.
Lol just had to see what the response would be this funny though
If we're not in a relationship then no.
So no way in the world do women have one night stands. Learn something new everyday
Some do but I think most women have to at least know the guy.
Lol are you from the other post miss anonymous, lol
No, I'd stick my finger up his butt and he'd like it.
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