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How do you ask someone if you can give him a blow job?
Sex Freelancer · Author has 81 answers and 1.4M answer views · 4 y ·
How do I approach a stranger and ask them if I can give them a blowjob (I'm a male)?
How do I ask a stranger to give him a blowjob? I'm a 14-year-old male.
How do I ask a guy if he wants a blowjob?
How does a guy ask another guy if he wants a blow job?
I'm 14 and I want to give and have a blowjob. I don't know how to approach this or who I should do it with. Would it be appropriate to ask for a blowjob from a friend?
My ex gf taught me about love and attraction. · Author has 544 answers and 1.3M answer views · Updated 4 y ·
How do I approach a stranger and ask them if I can give them a blowjob (I'm a male)?
How do I ask a stranger to give him a blowjob? I'm a 14-year-old male.
How do I ask a guy if he wants a blowjob?
How does a guy ask another guy if he wants a blow job?
I'm 14 and I want to give and have a blowjob. I don't know how to approach this or who I should do it with. Would it be appropriate to ask for a blowjob from a friend?
How do I get someone to let me suck their dick?
Has your husband ever sucked a dick?
How do I ask a stranger if I can suck their cock?
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How do I ask a stranger to suck my dick (I’m 16)?
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How do I approach a stranger and ask them if I can give them a blowjob (I'm a male)?
How do I ask a stranger to give him a blowjob? I'm a 14-year-old male.
How do I ask a guy if he wants a blowjob?
How does a guy ask another guy if he wants a blow job?
I'm 14 and I want to give and have a blowjob. I don't know how to approach this or who I should do it with. Would it be appropriate to ask for a blowjob from a friend?
How do I get someone to let me suck their dick?
Has your husband ever sucked a dick?
How do I ask a stranger if I can suck their cock?
I’m a 14-year-old boy, light skinned and chubby. How can I get someone to let me give them a blowjob?
How do I ask a stranger to suck my dick (I’m 16)?
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Just go straight to the point and ask him: “ Can I give you a blowjob? ”, or “ Can I suck your dick? ”
I was recently at a club, and a girl came to me. She started with “ Do you mind if I keep you company? ”, and I said: “ Sure ”.
Then we started with small talk: “ I’ve never seen you here ”, “ Do you come to this club often ” and so on.
Then she asked me: “ What type of girls do you like? ”, to which I remember answering something like: “ I like all types of girls ”.
And then she said: “ So you like me? ” And I answered: “ Yeah, of course ”. She was in her mid 20’s, short (about 5′3″), thin, blonde straight hair to
Just go straight to the point and ask him: “ Can I give you a blowjob? ”, or “ Can I suck your dick? ”
I was recently at a club, and a girl came to me. She started with “ Do you mind if I keep you company? ”, and I said: “ Sure ”.
Then we started with small talk: “ I’ve never seen you here ”, “ Do you come to this club often ” and so on.
Then she asked me: “ What type of girls do you like? ”, to which I remember answering something like: “ I like all types of girls ”.
And then she said: “ So you like me? ” And I answered: “ Yeah, of course ”. She was in her mid 20’s, short (about 5′3″), thin, blonde straight hair to her shoulders, nice face, nice legs, medium sized breasts…
She then asked me: “ Can I play with you? ”. And I said: “ Okay ”.
And she went on: “ Can I kiss you? ”. “ Of course ”, I said.
We french kissed for like 5 min while she was rubbing my dick and I was playing with her breasts.
And then all of a sudden she said: “ Can I suck your dick? ” Obviously, I didn’t say no.
After sucking my dick for like 10 min, she finally asked: “ Do you have a condom? ” I did have one, so you can imagine how the story ends.
1)Bring the topic of sex in the discussion.
2)Say that you love giving blowjobs.
3)Ask when was the last time he got a good one.
4)Ask him would he want an awesome one!
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Now I’m fairly certain that most of us have come across articles teaching us ‘How To Give a Blow Job’ and learning how much or how little to use your tongue, to keep your mouth wet (blah, blah, blah), even how to resist our natural gag reflex in order to successfully deep throat- oh joy! But what seems to be lacking from this topic, is one on how to actually receive a blow job…
If you’re a boy who moans about women hating giving blow jobs then you can only blame yourself. I’ve varied from loving giving boyfriends blow jobs to point blank refusing based solely on their reactions.
1. First and most importantly, do not shove our heads into your groin. When asking friends what we most HATE about giving blow jobs, the most repeated response was the head shoving. Shoving our heads down to your crotch as sign language for ‘Please can I have a blowjob?’ or shoving our heads when we’re already down there is really not enjoyable. Don’t make me gag with your cock in my mouth- that’s not sexy. Let us take control. If you want us to take it deeper, faster, slower then TELL US, don’t force us.
2. Don’t just stand there with your hands on your hips like your some kind of sex superman. Touch us! I personally quite enjoy a head massage whilst giving a blow job. If you have conveniently lanky arms then play with our tits during- for most girls nipples are a turn on spot! Sex in any form is an intimate experience and as it’s difficult (but hot) to maintain eye contact whilst giving/receiving head using your hands is a good way to create intimacy.
3. Respond positively and vocally. Let us know we’re doing a good job, gasp if we lick that oh-so-sensitive tip, and tell us how great that feels. We want to know exactly how amazing we are at blow jobs- it’s good for the ego.
4. Hygiene. I know it’s obvious but please, please, wash before we go down there. If it smells, it’s gross, and we won’t be going back there in a hurry. Obviously there are exceptions; if it all happens rather spontaneously or you’re slumming it in a festival then it can’t really be avoided.
5. Warn us before you cum. There is nothing more disgusting than choking on a load of cum you weren’t aware was ‘coming’. Also, ask us if we’re ok with you coming in our mouths. Whilst many assume that there is the simple choice of spit or swallow you could actually just cum elsewhere- In a tissue, on our tits, anywhere but our mouths. An ex boyfriend once came on a load of revision notes and a library book next to his bed in a bit of a fluster (Whilst this wasn’t ideal it was funny in a oh-my-god-this-is-awkward-way and I actually appreciated him not making me swallow it). No woman should ever feel pressured into swallowing cum.
6. Return the favor! Be chivalrous, if I go down on you I expect you to go down on me or use your hands. Heterosexual porn scenes usually involve the girl giving the guy a blow job followed by intercourse. Rarely does the man return the favour. This is SO not okay. Good sex involves satisfaction for both.
Following these tips will not only make oral sex a more pleasurable experience for your partner but also a more regular one for you!
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Let's get straight to the point
How do I ask a girl for a blow.job?
Key points
-She's 18
-Inexperienced
-Very high interest
-Got physical with her (she was basically begging for my hand to attached to her ass)
-She got a fat ass son
What are some things I could say to bring up the idea of it or the actual act.
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You should search there is a topic on this. Basically start kissing and touching her, then move your hand down, unbutton your pants, and say something like "go down on me.. right now".
That's worked for me.
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Pull it out and tell her to get on her knees. How else?
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One does not ask for a blow job or anything else sexual for that matter. You tell her
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First off, if youre a dude who doesnt go down yourself, dont expect girls to be so willing. In my experience, many girls will reciprocate after youve given them a good licking.
Or you can simply say, with a nice sexual tone "I want your mouth on me". Its not pushy or too forward, but its too the point. Ive similarly told girls I wanted to taste them and before you know it, Im neck deep in vagina lolz
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Thanks for the replies guys I have a better idea of how this interaction should go down. Basically be sexually authoritative after making her wet.
If I get blown tomorrow I'll be sure to thank you all.
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Send her a nice text message asking if she will please go down on you the next time you see her.
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I've been making out with women before, and if we're on a sofa or something, I might suck on her titties and if I want to get blown, I'll put her hands on my unit and then after a bit I'll basically just move myself and stick it in her mouth. Then she sucks. I haven't done this to too many woman, but I've never been rejected either. One you're making out and she's getting hot, and she has her hands on your unit, you're pretty much in. Try it sometime.
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To answer your original question. You ask her with tactful words! Maybe in a setting where sex is not on thge plate you could ask her what she thinks of oral sex as a way to avoid pregnancy. She will likely respond better when there is no pressure for her to actually do it and when the oppertunity arrises (pun intended) she will likely go for it while reminding herself that its the best way to get each other off and avoid getting preggo.
Good luck.
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You pull it out, and tell her "You have 5 licks/strokes to convince me to let you continue."
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What you do is you start making out with her and get hot and heavy and then pull it out and have her stoke it. If she won't do that, forget the BJ. After she does that, you just tell her to suck it a little.
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Tell her your nick names lizard tongue and you eat good pusay..lol. no but seriously get her really horny and wet and move her hands to ya cok and if she starts to stroke it, just say "baby I want you to go down on me."
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I think the problem with this question is that it suggests a scenario where you are not getting seriously physical already. Which you should. When the clothes come off is the right time to ask for oral sex. She won't give it to you with clothes on while you're eating her handmade hamburgers with all the extras and watching TV, unless it's your birthday. (True story...?)
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"I love the feeling of your lips on my ****".
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In my experience, many girls will reciprocate after youve given them a good licking.
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You never ASK a chick to give you a blow job, you tell her to do it. I'm not bragging but as far a getting head from chicks i can clearly say that i'm a master at it, few chicks have been with me who i couldn't get to suck my ****. The key is physical escalation, you kino her to the point where you get her all hot and heavy and then you let her feel how hard your **** is without unzipping your pants, you touch her ***** and start fingering her then switch over to unzipping your pants/ jeans and then you tell her to suck you off for a little bit, if she resists tell her to just put it in her mouth and that all females do it to guys they like, that it's a way a females really shows how much she like a guy and she's down for him a 100%. For me this is what usually works, it doe's work on all girls but on the vast majority it does work.
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