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The average time it takes a woman to reach orgasm is longer than one might think.
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A new study has revealed exactly how long it takes the average straight woman to reach orgasm. The magic number? 13.46 minutes.
Women in the study, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine last week, used a stopwatch to measure the time it took them to climax — perhaps not the ultimate turn-on, but for the sake of science, it revealed an important truth about the hard-fought path to female sexual pleasure.
For eight weeks, a group of 645 women from 20 countries set their sexy-time stopwatches each time they got it on. Researchers only included heterosexual women in monogamous relationships in the study and the average age of the ladies tested was around 30 years old.
One of the most important take-aways from the study was that penetrative sex was rarely the best way to get a woman off. Only 31.4 percent of participants climaxed this way. That means 68.6 percent of the ladies needed some other form of action, including kissing, “light biting” or touching other body parts, the researchers wrote.
Some positions were more effective than others. Researchers found that the most favorable style of sex was the woman on top — 42.2 percent of ladies said this was the most optimal for them.
Relationship status didn’t matter either. It took about the same time for both married and unmarried women to finish.
Other factors can affect how you O, too. Some studies have shown that factors like wearing socks during the act can increase pleasure.
But it’s not all fun and games: One study this year uncovered what’s called persistent genital arousal disorder , women with the condition have constant, painful orgasms uncontrollably.
How long does it take a woman to reach orgasm?
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All women are different, so the answer to this question varies. One woman may reach orgasm quickly. Another may need more time. And some women don’t reach orgasm at all.
However, researchers have examined the question in a scientific way. A 2018 study of 2,304 women, reported that once genital stimulation began, women reached orgasm in an average of 14 minutes during partnered sex. During masturbation, orgasm took an average of 8 minutes. (In this study, time measurements were reported by study participants.)
Another study, published in 2020, estimated that it took between 6 and 20 minutes for a woman to climax during partnered sex, with an average of 14 minutes. (In this study, women used a stopwatch to measure the time from full arousal to orgasm .)
However, women’s orgasms depend on many factors, such as the amount and type of sexual stimulation, the state of the relationship, a woman’s overall health, and how she feels about sex in general and her partner in particular.
Women’s orgasms can be complex. If you’re having orgasm difficulties, talk to your partner about what you enjoy sexually. You might also consider talking to your healthcare provider or a sex therapist.
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Because there are few things worse than thinking “Oh God, why haven’t I come yet??” mid-coitus.
Sex in the movies is a lot different than sex in real life.
We know this, and yet often, we still expect certain things to happen the way they happen onscreen. For example, that we’ll have amazing simultaneous orgasms with our partners, with no one gritting their teeth and wishing the other one would hurry up and be done already, or feeling guilty for taking so long to finish.
Even though sex is about more than just climaxing, for many of us, it feels like it doesn’t quite ‘count’ unless both partners come – and this puts a lot of pressure on both people. Men feel like they’re not doing their job unless they can bring their partner to orgasm, and women feel bad when it takes them a long time to come, or when they can’t come at all.
Many of us may wonder, what exactly is normal, anyway? Is everyone else except us getting off quickly and easily, within roughly the same time frame as each other? Or are we all having the same frustrations and feeling like we’re not quite doing it right? And, why is it so hard to have an orgasm during intercourse, anyway?
Raise your hand if you’ve had sex with a man who was finished before you were even sure he was really inside you. We’ve all been with that guy – the guy who lasts three pumps, tops, and expects you to have had a good time in those 30 seconds. But even when we’re with a loving, attentive partner who tries to do all the right things to make us feel good, sometimes it’s just not happening. This can even feel worse, in a way, because he’s trying so hard that it makes us feel terrible, like there’s something wrong with us.
It might be reassuring to know that while the average man is able to reach orgasm in less than five minutes, most women take at least 20 minutes to reach the big O. So there’s nothing wrong with you if it takes you a while: it’s just biology. The key is finding ways to make him last longer, rather than putting pressure on yourself to come faster. In other words, the question shouldn’t be, why does is take women so long to come, but rather, why do men come so quickly?
Sex therapists have a few tried-and-true methods to slow your man down; if you need time to catch up, try giving him a time-out so you can both reach orgasm without anyone looking at the clock. One way to do this is to have him pull out before he’s close to coming and spend some time focusing on your clit. The clitoris, for most women, is still the holy grail when it comes to orgasm; only 20-25 per cent of women can have an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation. So have your man play with your clit until you’re almost ready to come; he can use his tongue, his fingers (with lots of lube!) or even the head of his penis to drive you to the edge.
Good positions for orgasm are woman-on-top, so you’re in control, doggy style, so he can reach around and play with your clit, and good old missionary position with a pillow under your hips to put you at a nice angle where your clit rubs against his pubic bone. Play around to find the right position for you – and definitely add some fun sex toys to the mix, as well. Using a vibrator to stimulate your clit while he’s inside you can lead to a mind-blowing orgasm like you’ve never had before.
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Sex toys and time-outs aside, it’s important not to get too hung up on the role of orgasm in your sex life. Sure, orgasms are amazing – but let’s be honest: you can have them by yourself . Sex with a partner is a whole different ball game. It’s about intimacy, honesty, and great communication. That’s what makes sex hot, not being able to get each other off quickly and efficiently. An orgasm lasts a few seconds; that’s only a fraction of the time you’re having sex. So, focus on the rest of the time. What’s the best part of sex for you? Gazing moonily into each other’s eyes? Coming up with a fun role-playing scenario and acting our each other’s fantasies? Exploring every nook and cranny of his body with your fingers and tongue, and letting him do the same to you?
If you’re feeling like the pressure to have an orgasm is causing problems in your relationship, find a time to sit and talk with your partner about it. Opening up a dialogue might feel awkward at first, but if this is a person you’re comfortable getting naked with, you need to be able to talk honestly. If you’re in a long-term relationship, there’s a lot at stake: having bad sex can lead to having no sex, and not having sex can mean your relationship is headed for the graveyard . Once you’re talking, it won’t seem so bad; it might even turn you both on so much that you’ll end up hopping into bed to try out a few new moves. And anyway, if your sex life is stressing you out, then you have nothing to lose – and only better sex to gain.
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Comment: Do you feel pressure to reach orgasm within a certain amount of time?
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Sex researchers have long been fascinated by women’s orgasms, but only a few studies have explored how long it takes women to climax. Recently, Indian investigators added to this small literature. What they found was ironic. Forget time to orgasm . The large majority of their participants never climaxed during intercourse.
This finding corroborates a large body of research showing that for women’s erotic fulfillment, two things hardly matter—the size of men’s erections and how long intercourse lasts. Female orgasms usually result from a combination of at least 20 minutes of direct, gentle, extended massage—by hand, tongue, or sex toy—of women’s whole bodies followed by caresses focused on the genitals, especially on the visible clitoris.
The Indian-led research team recruited 645 women, age 21 to 40, all involved in stable heterosexual relationships on average for seven years. Participants hailed from 20 countries, including India, Belgium, Malaysia, the U.K., the U.S., and the Netherlands. Two-thirds were married, one-third cohabitating.
The investigators asked the women to make love as usual, with one change. When they felt sufficiently warmed up to proceed from other play to intercourse, the researchers asked them to start their cell phone stopwatches and time how long it took them to work up to orgasm.
For those able to come during intercourse, it took six to 20 minutes, an average of 14 minutes.
But the study’s main finding rendered its time-to-orgasm focus largely irrelevant. Two-thirds of the women—69 percent— never climaxed solely from intercourse. This finding had nothing to do with the women’s age, education , income, marital status, relationship duration, or frequency of intercourse. During the eight-week study, two out of three did not orgasm during intercourse with their partners, period.
However, most were able to climax with their partners if, in addition to intercourse, the lovemaking included (in descending order):
In addition, the women were significantly more likely to climax in two intercourse positions, woman-on-top and rear entry (doggie), both of which easily allows for all of the above.
The researchers concluded, “The women in our study reached orgasm more frequently with non-penetrative activities.”
The Penis: Less Important to Women’s Orgasms Than Most Men Think
Moist, relaxed, receptive vaginas are pleasure wonderlands for men and their erections. But the vagina has surprisingly little to do with most women’s orgasms. Gentlemen, if you’d like women to have orgasms with you:
For more on the male-female orgasm gap, see my previous post “Why So Many Women Don’t Have Orgasms.”
For additional suggestions about helping women have orgasms during partner lovemaking, read my post, “Six Ways to Help Her Have Orgasms.”
If you’d like to increase her chances of coming during intercourse, read my post on the “Coital Alignment Technique.”
For women who feel orgasm-challenged, vibrators often help. See my post, “Vibrators: Myths Vs. Truth.”
Penis size and how long men last in bed have little to do with women’s ability to come, but both are key to many men’s sexual self-esteem. Read my previous posts, “The Rare Truth About Penis Size,” and “The Best Way to Cure Premature Ejaculation.”
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