How Does A Woman Know When She Has Climaxed

How Does A Woman Know When She Has Climaxed
Probably a stupid question, but I'm curious, how do you tell when a girl comes?
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Forums > Sexuality & Relationships > How to tell if my girlfriend has an orgasm?

So me and my girlfriend haven't had sex yet but we do touch each other and try to get each other to orgasm. I've touched and massaged my girlfriend down there and I've asked her if she ever orgasmed. She can't tell if she orgasmed or not. I mean its very easy for guys to tell if they *** or not but how do you tell with a girl?

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Some of the symptoms of your girl's orgasm:

1. Moans and groans
2. Heavy breathing and body movements
3. Complete relaxation after the spasms are over
4. May not let you touch, stroke or feel her body/vagina after she comes as the original feelings are replaced by a ticklish feeling. You'll have to carefully maneuver yourself to get your part done if the orgasm was not simulataneous. In such a case, holding her tight (as opposed to the gentle touches earlier)while entering her will distract her from the ticklishness.
5. There is a disadvantage in a woman getting an orgasm - in some cases she will not want sex for some time as she's satiated. So its much better to bring to the peak and let her off and complete sex (they don't want a climax all the time) if you want to have another session later or even the next day!!!!

She should definitely know! I had my first orgasm before I married when dry humping. It was very intense and out of this world. Its good if you can try to get her to climax and O before intercourse. I find it harder to O then.

Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D.
Jun 10, 2007

  Believe me, if she has had an orgasm, she will know and you will probably see a different and more intense reaction in her, including a red flush on her face or body, intense quick breathing and heart rate and a change  in her body tension.
I would stroke her longer, asking her when it feels intense, when it is not particularly exciting. Try stroking the whole clitoris- not just the little part that you can see, but the whole 'stem' of it that you can feel when you follow up from the exposed part with your fingers. Also, try using a vibrator with her while you are touching her or instead of touching her-- or get an internal vibrator ( put it in her vagina) and touch her while you are doing that...

  Once she learns how her body has an orgasm, you will too, and it can become more regular.

She should know if she has or not.  If it's a true orgasm, it's not something you can overlook or not realize.

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STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.

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By amcquinn
June 15, 2009
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Most folks might be surprised to hear us describe part of the definition of health as achieving a state of orgastic potency. What does that mean for the individual? Dr. Wilhelm Reich wrote the most amazing grounded scientific observations about The Function of The Orgasm and what it means for our health and well-being. The body is actually host to the most amazing reflexes. If you see a baby startle in infancy, you can easily see that they have no control over this reaction from the feeling that they are falling. Later on, we use our reflexes to instantaneously discern whether to react with fright or flight. We gag if we get our toothbrush too close to the back of our throats and the Doctor will hit your “funny bone” to test your response to the reflex action in your knee. Thankfully our diaphragm expunges airborne organisms with a sneeze or even salmonella rides out on the tide of the same reflex that causes you to vomit. All this to say, your body has innate capacity to keep its core in “healthy, vital operation for the higher purposes of it’s existence” as per Dr. Samuel Hahnemann, the founder of Medical Heilkunst.
Again, you may ask why this is important? Well the orgasm reflex is wholly designed the same way. It is there, available to us, for a profound function. It enables us to completely expunge the contents of our emotional, spiritual and physical bodies, resetting our autonomic nervous system and bathing us internally in the fountain of youth. You find the same “youth-e-fying” hormones like serotonin and melatonin released in a person doing Kundalini yoga, painting or writing poetry. These hormones make your eyes bright, your skin glow, your body labile, your mind flexible and your ideas original and generative. Sex is not only about procreation, but when done right, it is a whole lot about co-creation. Sexually potent folks don’t get Cancer and they know who they are and how they are meant to be in the world. They fall prey neither to a one-sided mystical or mechanical mode of thinking … but rather have a capacity to behold the polarity of life and its apparent contradictions as a source of energy instead of confusion.
Reich sadly exclaimed that “sexual intercourse was being used mechanically” and that we are going dead in our eyes, bodies and the plasmatic excitation is limited to just “getting off.” In fact, we are often using each other just as vessels for no more than upgraded masturbation. I hear complaints of this nature, especially from women, all the time. Reich said that less than 1% of women truly know an all over body, mind-blowing, consciousness re-setting orgasm. What most of us are experiencing is a climax which can be compared to a genital sneeze as opposed to a convulsive, grandmal-like seizure of the orgasm. Men still focus on the ejaculating as opposed to converting this energy into the generative tantric relationship. Women are still feeling cut off energetically after the guy just “unloads” in them. Sad really. To be truly “taken” by this energetic reflex, and your beloved partner, is precisely what we work on with patients. Babies born out of this kind of love are phenomenally less armored and suffer less diseases. It is worth every penny of Heilkunst Treatment to be able to achieve true orgastic potency.
If you watch the Ted Talk’s video below, see if you can spot the difference between Mary Roach’s take on the climax , which she is incorrectly referring to as the orgasm . As a culture, we’ve sadly downgraded our expectations to a sneeze. While her take on the “orgasm” is amusing, I actually felt the disappointment at the shortfall of her description by the end of the video. What do you feel?
Totally agreed. The difference between various animals and humans seems so small.
JC
id like to know more about female orgasm
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Do women reach climax the same way as men?

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Q: When do girls reach climax during sex? Men reach their climax when they ejaculate their semen. My girlfriend told me that similarly, she also reaches climax after secretion of a fluid from her vagina and she too gets tired like men . Do women also get nightfalls like men?
A: This is a good question. Few people are ever educated about the twin entities of female climax and orgasm. The only kind of 'education' they sometimes get is through pornography and friends who profess to be sex gurus. The former will show you pictures of women convulsing and screaming with pleasure, even squirting ejaculate fluid from the vagina!! The latter will tell you different kinds of tales, depending on their relationship with you, their experiences, their motives, and their own psychosexual biases.
Female orgasm is the subject of entire textbooks and details are outside the purview of a column such as this. However, here are a few basics:

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