How Do You Use A Butt Plug
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How Do You Use A Butt Plug
Medically Reviewed by Dan Brennan, MD on June 27, 2021
A butt plug is a sex toy that goes in the anus. They are usually shaped like a cone, starting narrow and getting wider before narrowing again. Butt plugs also have a wide base to prevent the toy from going in too far.
Unlike many other sexual toys, such as dildos, a butt plug is meant to remain in place during sexual play.
A butt plug can be used to stimulate the anus to prepare for sex. This is because the tip of the plug is close to the female g-spot and the prostate, the male g-spot.
The anus has a lot of nerve endings, and is near both the male and female g-spots. It is common to stimulate the anus for sexual pleasure.
People with prostates enjoy butt plugs because they stimulate the gland, potentially leading to a prostate orgasm. Even if one doesn't occur, most still report that it feels good. There are butt plugs that are specially shaped to reach the prostate.
People with vaginas also enjoy butt plugs. Wearing one during penetrative vaginal sex can simulate double penetration—getting penetrated in the anus and vagina at the same time.
People who enjoy anal sex use butt plugs to warm up the anus before sex. They may also masturbate using a butt plug when they are by themselves to enhance the experience.
Butt plugs can also be part of dominance and submission games.
When trying anal toys, always use something with a flared base. Your anus can suck things in and a flared base prevents that. A large ring or pull cord is also acceptable for safety.
Since the anus does not self lubricate like the vagina, always use plenty of lubrication. The anus and rectum are delicate. Lubrication helps to prevent tears and soreness, and it usually makes anal play feel more pleasurable.
If you use a silicone toy, use a water-based lube. Silicone lube can make silicone toys degrade faster.
Sex toys made from porous materials may not be body-safe. The sex toy industry is not regulated, despite the fact that these items go inside your body. Any toy that is made from plastic or acrylic may leech harmful chemicals into your anus. Additionally, these materials are porous. They can't be fully sanitized and bacteria may grow on them.
The safest materials for butt plugs are silicone, Pyrex glass, and stainless steel. These materials are non-porous—they can be sanitized and disinfected between uses.
Start slow. Anal play is often more enjoyable when you are relaxed. If you are tense, an anal tear may occur. Pay attention to how you are feeling. If something hurts a lot or doesn't feel right, slow down or stop.
Start with something smaller than the butt plug. A finger is usually a great tool for warm up. If you don't want to spread bacteria from the anus to other parts of the body, or you want to keep your hands clean, wear a disposable latex or nitrile glove. Put lube on your finger and rub the rim of the anus gently before inserting your finger. Once you fit a finger or two in there comfortably, move on to inserting the butt plug.
Experiment with different positions for butt plug insertion to find out which one is best for you. Each person is different and will find different positions most comfortable based on their specific anatomy.
Some people use numbing creams to avoid discomfort during anal play. However, this will prevent you from feeling when your body wants you to stop. For your safety, avoid using numbing cream when using a butt plug.
Even if your anus is clean, it can still harbor bacteria that can cause infections in the vagina. After you touch the anus, make sure to wash your hands before touching other genitals. Wash with warm water and soap to prevent UTIs and yeast infections .
Most silicone toys can go in the dishwasher as long as they don't have a motor in them. This kills bacteria . Boiling glass, silicone, and stainless steel toys will also disinfect them. Make sure to do this before sharing a toy with a partner. Even if you only use the toy on yourself, disinfect it periodically to stay clean and healthy.
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Always, always, ALWAYS get one with a flared base.
Butt plugs and anal vibrators don't have to be an intimidating thing at all, and they can in fact be super fun to play with either during masturbation or coupled sex. They're not just sex toys for men and people with penises, either. If you're a beginner, and aren't sure how to use anal sex toys butt plugs are a great place to start. Wearing a butt plug during any kind of sex act can enhance your pleasure and potential orgasms, thanks to the tons of nerve endings around the anus. You can get silicone butt plugs, vibrating butt plugs, glass anal plugs and plugs that are designed for prostate massage . They're also great if you're wanting to learn how to prepare for anal sex . Lovehoney sex expert Sammi Cole explains everything you need to know about butt plugs - from choosing the right one, to using it safely and pleasurably.
"Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubricant, so liberal application of lube is a must for optimum comfort and safety," Sammi says. "For drawn-out anal play, regular lube top-ups are definitely a good idea."
Lube not only makes sex and play safer because it reduces the risk of injury, tearing and soreness, but it makes it feel way better too. Just make sure that if you're using a silicone butt plug, the lube you accompany it with is water-based. Silicone lube reacts badly with silicone toys, so always avoid using them together. Lube designed specifically for anal play tends to be thicker and longer-lasting, so you don't have to apply it so often.
This System Jo H20 Water-Based Anal Lube is affordable, smooth, long-lasting and compatible with all condoms and sex toys. It comes in a 60ml bottle so it's discreet and a great one for taking to a partner's house or on holiday (remember those?!)
If you're after something a little more luxury and have a bigger budget, Sliquid's Sassy Water-Based Anal Lubricant is one of the best anal lubes of all time. It's extra thick, vegan, hypoallergenic, non-toxic and flavourless/odourless. Sliquid uses plant cellulose as a thickening agent, instead of glycerin or other sugar derivatives that can cause yeast infections.
Like with any new sex stuff you're trying out, remember not to go in there all guns blazing. "Start gently and slowly," Sammi says. "It’s essential that you are relaxed to enjoy anal play."
Make sure you've spoken about your expectations and any concerns with your partner first, if you're trying a butt plug during partnered sex for the first time. If you're going it alone, take your time. Start with a small toy, and gradually get acquainted with it and more comfortable. Insert it slowly and just sit there with it inside and see how it feels. Once you become comfortable (and aroused) you can graduate to a larger or more advanced toy.
Regardless of your gender identity/sexuality, as long as you have a butt, butt plugs can be thoroughly enjoyable. "One of the greatest sex myths is that women and people with vaginas don’t enjoy anal sex, and that they only partake in a little bum fun to make their partner happy," Sammi says. "It's simply not true. Using a butt plug can make all kinds of sex feel more pleasurable for women." In the same way, it's not just gay, bisexual and queer men and penis-havers who use butt plugs. Using a butt plug as a straight, cisgender man doesn't have any bearing on your sexuality.
Sure, men and people with penises have their own little G-spot known as the P-spot (the prostate, more on that below) that can be stimulated through anal play and fingering . But it can still feel really good for everyone else too thanks to the nerve endings that live down there.
If you are using a butt plug with a penis-haver, listen up. "The prostate is an incredibly sensitive gland that feels especially satisfying when stroked, and it’s most easily located about two to three inches up on the anterior (front) wall of the anus," Sammi says. "It’s true that some men and people with penises can experience an orgasm and/or ejaculation just from having their prostate stimulated, although it does take practice and patience. These orgasms are said to feel more intense than an orgasm from stimulation of the penis, causing the whole body to throb with climactic energy."
"A butt plug creates more pressure on the back vaginal wall, increasing the level of sensation a person experiences," Sammi explains. "Many people with vaginas also enjoy using a butt plug while receiving oral sex. At climax, orgasmic contractions around a butt plug can feel more intense than without, and stimulate the nerve endings around the anus that usually get overlooked."
So, even if you are a woman or vagina-having person, there are various ways you can enjoy a butt plug.
If someone with a vagina wears a butt plug, their partner may also notice a difference in sensation if they're penetrating them. Sammi says, "By inserting a butt plug, the amount of space in the pelvis is reduced, and as a result the vagina feels tighter and more textured." So whether your partner has a penis, or is stimulating your vagina with their fingers , they'll probs notice you feel a little different.
When picking your first butt plug, it's best to go for a slimmer and simpler beginners butt plug and work your way up from there. The first rule of butt plugs, is ALWAYS make sure the toy you choose has a flared, or wider base . Unlike the vagina, the anus can 'suck' things up there. Toys with flared bases have no chance to get lost up in there. Beware, there are many anal toys available to buy that don't have these safety features and that aren't safe to use. So always, always, always look for a flared base.
This one is perfect for beginners as it's super small, cute and non-intimidating. It's slim, has 3 inches of insertable length and is made from flexible silicone - and it's super cheap!
This silicone butt plug is slightly larger, and has 5 inches of insertable length and is made of firm but flexible silicone so it's easy to insert and use.
If you're wanting a little bit (or shit tons, TBH) of vibration with your plug, Rocks Off's vibrating plug for beginners is a really good shout. Rocks Off is a company known for its well-manufactured, safe and affordable sex toys.
This plug is super slim, so not remotely intimidating or painful to use (anal play should never be painful, FYI). It's silicone, waterproof, and super smooth to the touch. Again, use with water-based lube only. It also has seven speed settings to work your way through.
This Desire Luxury Remote Vibrating Butt Plug is a great mid-range and affordable vibrating butt plug option. It has 4 inches of insertable length, is waterproof and has 8 patterns and pulses, with 12 levels of intensity.
Or if you're after something a little larger and more... intense, the b-Vibe Remote Control Rimming Butt Plug is a super powerful and techy toy. It's whisper-quiet and has a rotating bead in the neck so as well as vibrating, it mimics rimming . With 7 rotation and vibration patterns with 6, there are plenty of sensations to choose from and enjoy exploring.
Coming back to ye olde prostate yet again. There are specially shaped toys to maximise stimulation of the prostate, if that's who you're butt pluggin' with. Curved prostate massagers are perfectly shaped to put pressure on the perineum and prostate.
Perfect for beginners, the Ignite 20 Function Vibrating Prostate Massager is 3.5inches long (insertable length) and super powerful. It's also highly customisable, with 3 speeds and 17 patterns of "prostate-teasing vibration".
Mantric's remote control prostate vibrator targets vibes straight to the P-spot with its curved shaft and bulbous tip. The flared, textured base massages the perineum. And the insertable length is 4 inches so it's great for beginners and anyone looking for their next butt plug.
Sammi says, "Embarrassment over anal play is what keeps many from doing the proper research regarding butt plugs, and therefore getting into accidents. People using household objects often run into trouble as they are well shaped for insertion, but ill-shaped for retrieval. If it’s not made specifically for butt play, don’t put it in your butt."
Plus, remember sex toys need to be made from a non-porous material like silicone, glass or stone, because these can be thoroughly cleaned and won't cause infections/pass on STIs.
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This little sex toy can be a big orgasmic winner.
Are you and your partner interested in exploring butt play? Despite the emphasis we tend to put on anal sex (yawn), anal fun goes far beyond P in the A . It’s a whole new world in which to adventure, friends. There are a wide variety of toys that can be used to engage your partner's butt.
If you’re looking to try butt stuff, might we suggest having your mate use a butt plug during intercourse ? It isn’t just about “warming her up for anal sex.” Quite the contrary — using a plug can simply enhance overall sexual play in general. It can really change the game.
You might be wondering what a butt plug actually is. Well, it’s just what it sounds like: a plug for the butt. It is a toy designed to stimulate the anal opening and, in male bodied people, the prostate . These toys are not gender-specific, and come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes.
Anyone can enjoy butt toys — yes guys, that includes you — but today, we're going to look at why a female partner might want to try using a butt plug during penetrative sex. It could soon be one of your go-to toys.
Butt plugs add sensation to an already nerve-rich area. The opening of the anus is highly sensitive. You don’t need to stick something way up there to experience pleasure, and you also don't need a prostate to enjoy anal play.
“The anal sphincter is an incredibly sensitive muscle and anyone, no matter their gender or sexual orientation, can enjoy different stimulating sensations,” Alicia Sinclair, a certified sex educator and founder of b-Vibe — a company that makes products for anal play — tells Men’s Health .
For female-bodied partners, using a plug can be a very interesting sensation when combined with sexual intercourse. It’s about a feeling of “fullness.” Her vagina isn’t only full, but the anus is as well, making for double the fun. Plus, it can make her feel more confident as a sexual being by taking a step into new sexual adventures.
“Exploring your body during intercourse with new toys adds a sexy element to the bedroom, making you feel more confident in turn!” Sinclair adds.
There is a pressure-based, nerve-clustered area in the back region of the vagina that can be reached during butt play and anal sex! Because of its location at the back end of the clitoris, hovering near the cervix, the A-spot (the Anterior Fornix Erogenous zone ) is pushed against the rectum. The vaginal wall and anus are next-door neighbors inside of the body.
With the right angling of a butt plug, you can reach this area. It won’t work for every woman’s body, but for those who enjoy anal stimulation, it can be a big, orgasmic winner.
"Depending on their individual body, some partners may even find that vibrating butt plugs stimulate the legs of their clitoris, which can extend back far around the external opening of the vagina,” Sinclair says. We’re talking full clitoral stimulus through the butt! Pretty incredible.
The A-spot is — now pay attention — part of the clitoris! That’s right. The clitoris goes far beyond the bud you see at the top of the inner labia. It extends inside the body up to five full inches, and it's roughly the size of the average penis (we aren’t joking). It has bulbs and legs that sit under the labia and reach back into the abdomen.
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