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22 and have never fingered myself/inserted a tampon. Crazy, I know.
I wanted to try one finger but felt "gross" and really scared about the idea of inserting a finger inside.
I got to the sex ed part a bit on the later age, I'm "late" to the party. But I would appreciate advice on how you guys did this for the first time because I am feeling lost no matter how many articles I'm reading about it.
Do you masturbate by stimulating your clitoris? Maybe if you start exploring the "outside part" you will get more comfortable with your own vagina. If you have tried it an don't like it, don't worry! I don't enjoy fingering myself, and I also don't like it when my sexual partners do it. It's totally normal.
Regarding the tampon. It's something that you shouldn't associate with anything related but sex, rather it's personal hygiene. You have to disconnect the two. Not saying that sex = wrong. But you might be feeling gross about inserting anything in your vagina because it's so heavily related to sex for you and you only started exploring your sexuality at a later age meaning that there might be some baggage (sheltered family maybe, people associating anything regarding genitals with sex and sex is wrong, etc). I don't want to make any assumptions, but maybe this can help you :)
Inserting a tampon and a finger are 2 differents things imo.
I couldn't use tampon either when I was younger (I was still a virgin when I started using tampons), I finally went to the gynecologist and she checked that I had no physical problem that would prevent the tampon from going inside, it was quite painful at the moment but after that I could put one without any problem.
For the fingers, I never do it to myself because I don't feel comfortable with it. I think you shouldn't force yourself to do something you're not comfortable with. If it's to masturbate, actually lots of women do it from the "outside" by working on the clit, no need to go inside. When you play with yourself, I guess you're alone, so the way you do it - fingers in, with a toy, just putting pressure on the outside, grinding on a pillow... - is no one else's concern, so do what you feel like doing instead of what you think you should be doing :)
Sometimes you just gotta do it! You might be overthinking this just put it in there and hope for the best at least that's what I did. If you're truly disgusted try using a medical glove or finger condom or just washing your hands before and after if that would bring you more comfort.
Try having a look with a mirror and get comfortable with what's going on down there first - baby steps.
Yes! Even if you're uncomfortable with any insertion, people should know how their bodies look. Using a diagram for reference, try pointing out your different anatomical parts so you know what exactly you're looking at. It's good practice for medical reasons. If you have any STDs, irregular skin growths, itchy spots, etc. you will be better able to identify what's going on down there
These posts now pop up here daily. Really makes you wonder how many of them are real. I'm getting man pretending to be a woman because he has a weird fetish vibes 🤔
That's understandable and a worry of mine too, but then I remember how bad U.S. sex education is, so it makes sense why there's so many posts like this. I myself grew up in a conservative town in a Catholic family, so I didn't even learn about my own anatomy until I was an adult and had to learn it myself. I can't imagine how many others are in the same situation so they come to this sub to learn. But, I'll admit some of the posts are fishy and stink of men fulfilling their fetishes 😒
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So I'm 13 and I like to use my fingers in my vagina and 2 fingers is ok but 3 fingers hurt and I like it but it hurts and I don't have any lube and my mom doesn't know I'm doing that. Any advice on how to insert 3 fingers with out a parter and without lube???
Masturbation and other kinds of sex are supposed to be about what feels good, not about impressing yourself or someone else. So, if what feels good to you is two fingers, and three hurt, then the best answer is usually to go with two and not use three, because two feels good and three doesn't!
And if any number fingers don't feel good -- not just okay, but actually good -- period, then why do that at all? Why not experiment to find out what feels good and do whatever that is? The whole point of masturbation is that it gets to ONLY be about what feels good for you.
It is a good idea to use a lubricant anytime you're putting something inside the vagina or anus, just as a thing to know. That not only usually makes those ways of being sexual feel best, it also helps protect your body parts from scrapes.
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Ok. I do love to do so but sometimes it hurts and my mom doesn't know I do so. What stores sell lube?
You probably have some options within reach.
Most pharmacies/drugstores (like CVS, Walgreens, RiteAid) sell lube, Target sells lube, a lot of grocery stores will even sell it if they sell things like tampons and condoms. You just want to avoid "novelty" lubes which can show up more in those places, like warming or cooling lubes, which usually have creepy ingredients in them or aren't so great for your body.
Alternately, if you are just using it for masturbation, and not with condoms or toys, you can also use something you may find in the cupboard or at the grocery store, which are some kinds of cooking/body care oils. Coconut, olive and avocado can all be used safely on your vulva or vaginally.
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And honestly, I don't trust a boy, or girl, to that to me yet. I prefer doing it on my own as well. Does vegetable oil harm the vagina?
There' nothing wrong with that! You have the right to not only only want to be your own partner, but to be your favorite sexual partner! And for sure, trust is a big part of that equation. Good on you for knowing yourself and taking good care of yourself in that way.
Vegetable oil isn't generally recommended. I've always assumed that's due to the lower quality of that oil mix and to "vegetable" oil actually being a mix of a bunch of different kinds of oils, including some that aren't so healthy, period, like palm oil.
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I want to say, I don't trust anyone with that because I have been raped, sexually assaulted and molested.
Hi hotcoco2000,
I'm so sorry to hear that you have been raped and assaulted in the past. It's not surprising that you find it hard to trust other people sexually right now. I hope that you know it is not your fault - are you safely away from the person (or people) who did this to you now?
Is there anything we can do to support you? Would you like to talk about it more?
Sorry I was at school. Yes I am safe and sure I'll talk more! I'de be more than happy to share my story on here for every one to see!
If it would feel helpful for you to talk about it, you're welcome to! Mostly we want to make sure we're giving you support around that assault if that's something you'd like us to help with.
It is something I want support with!
Okay! What kind of support could we offer to best help you right now? For example, we could help you connect with resources or information, or we could let this be a space for you to process what happened (or something else entirely),
A space to let me share, process and get support for what happened, if that's ok.
Hi Hotcoco!
You're more than welcome to talk about it more here or you can start a new thread in this section of the boards if you prefer: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewforum.php?f=16
Loads of people find it really helpful to share their abuse experiences. I'm happy this is somewhere that feels safe to do that!
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So I am 13 and I wanted to try to finger myself but it hurt and I wanted to know if thats normal and how do I start fingering myself.
(Welcome to the boards. Just FYI, when your profile says one age but you post with another it can make things pretty confusing for us. If you could let us know which age for you is actually correct, that'd be great. Thanks!)
It's very normal for people of all ages to masturbate or explore masturbation, and that usually does involve people touching their genitals.
More often than not, whether it's alone or with a partner, just using fingers (or anything else) inside the vagina, and not doing anything else doesn't feel like much or that great for people because the vagina isn't the area of that system of genitals where the most sensory nerve endings are. Most of those are in the clitoris, including the external portions, and then just around the opening of the vagina, which also makes contact with the internal portions of the clitoris.
There's no how-to with things like this save when it comes to safety: you'll want to have clean hands, short nails that don't have sharp edges and only stick to what feels good, and stop if anything hurts. Otherwise, it's just a matter of experimenting to find out what feels good to you, because everyone's pretty different when it comes to what people enjoy, if they enjoy something like this at all, and if they do, how they enjoy it. You find out for yourself by just trying things and seeing how they feel for you.
You might also find this piece comes in handy (no pun intended): Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation .
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has . - Margaret Mead
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Sure you can, you might be a little sore in the morning. Well
fingering...it's just as the name suggests, FINGER-ing, you should
start off slow, like one finger first, as you progress you can try
adding one finger at a time. On your first try DO NOT try fisting,
it could really mess up your pelvis, just take it slow. Well enjoy
your own company, light some candels, put on music, and have
"fun".(;
OMG it feels SO good and even watch p*rn if you feel like it
well tbh this is for you to find out yourself no one can tell
you to just find your hole and go..
Id say after you've hit puberty so like 13 and
Around age either 12 or 13 as this is the age LTS stopped
affecting kids
72% have broken a bone by the age of 13.
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