How Cock Rings Work

How Cock Rings Work
Medically Reviewed by Brunilda Nazario, MD on December 16, 2020
Cock rings are rings that go around the penis and/or scrotum. They slow blood flow out of an erect penis and can help make erections harder and longer-lasting. Some may also have little vibrators to increase pleasure for you and your partner.
Cock rings are also known as penis rings, tension rings, and constriction rings. They may also be marketed as erectile dysfunction (ED) rings, but people without this condition may want to use them, too.
Soft and stretchy rings. These are the most common and generally the cheapest rings available. They are circles of a soft material, often silicone. They’re easy to use and remove. It may take some trial and error to find the right fit.
Adjustable cock rings. These use lasso adjusters, velcro, or other fasteners to allow the wearer to adjust the fit as needed.
Vibrating cock rings. These have a small vibrator attached. The sensation may feel good for men, but these are generally designed to stimulate a woman’s clitoris during sex.
Solid cock rings. These rings are only for very experienced users. Even then, you may want to avoid them. There is a danger of penis strangulation with metal cock rings that fit poorly, get stuck, or are left on too long.
Cock rings make sex more intense and last longer. Specific benefits include:
There are a few common misconceptions about cock rings:
They’re Only for Older Men with Erectile Dysfunction
Not at all. People with no medical issues use cock rings. They may want the erection to last longer, increase sensitivity, or add a new element such as vibration or texture for their partner.
No. Cock rings cannot help you avoid pregnancy in any way.
When you use them correctly, cock rings should not cause pain. The new sensation may take some getting used to, but if it hurts, remove the ring right away. It may be a symptom of something else or simply an indication that you need a different size or style of ring.
Pick a beginner-friendly ring, something soft, stretchy, and easy to remove. Use the least constrictive size that still stays on and helps maintain your erection .
Psychologist and sex expert Antonia Hall, in an interview with Cosmopol itan magazine, recommends putting the ring on while the penis is flaccid or only semi-erect. Use lubricant to make it easier to slide the ring on, and then continue stimulating the penis until it’s erect.
If you want to wear your ring over your testicles, Hall suggests sliding them in one at a time. Remember: the fit should be snug but not uncomfortable.
The best way to use a cock ring to help with ED will depend on your specific problem.
If you can get an erection but have trouble keeping it, you can try the cock ring by itself. If you struggle to become erect, you may want to use your ring with a penis pump.
After pulling blood into your penis with the pump, slip your ring around the base of your penis before you remove the pump. The erection should last long enough for sex. A little light bruising afterward is normal.
Because cock rings restrict blood flow, it’s important not to wear one for longer than 20 minutes. Start by wearing one for just 5 minutes at a time to give yourself time to get used to the feeling. If you feel discomfort, take it off immediately.
If you’re using the cock ring as a sex aid for erectile dysfunction, make sure that you’ve talked to a doctor about your symptoms. There are many health conditions that can cause ED or make it worse, including heart disease, diabetes, alcohol problems, and mental health issues. It’s important to get help for those conditions and not use a sex toy to mask the symptoms.
Also, consult a doctor before use if you are on blood-thinning medication or have a bleeding disorder.
Do not fall asleep while using the ring, and don’t use it while you’re impaired by drugs or alcohol. It could lead to potential injury.
Allow at least 60 minutes between uses.
Remember that sex toys can transmit STIs . You may also risk other kinds of infection if you don’t clean them properly.
For most toys, water and a mild dish soap or antibacterial hand soap should do the trick. If your device vibrates or otherwise uses power, you may not want to submerge it in water, but make sure you get it fully clean with soap and a damp cloth.
For further instructions, refer to the directions on your sex toy’s label. At the very least, it should list the material, which may require special care.
Cosmopolitan : “Can You Use Cock Rings for Stronger Orgasms?”
Food and Drug Administration: Center for Devices and Radiological Health: “Class II Special Controls Guidance Document: External Penile Rigidity Devices.”
Journal of Pharmacy : “Successful Removal of Metal Rings Causing Penile Strangulation.”
Mayo Clinic: “Erectile dysfunction: Nonoral treatments.”
Men’s Health : “How Penis Rings Can Help You Have Better Sex.”
Self : “How to Clean Your Sex Toys So You Can Use Them Safely.”
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If you've never tried using a cock ring before, the idea of slipping something snuggly around your shaft probably seems pretty off-putting. But contrary to popular belief, the folks who use cock rings aren't doing it because they're into pain (not that there's anything wrong with a little BDSM, of course).
Using a cock ring can be beneficial for both you and your partner for lots of reasons. For starters, cock rings help make an erection harder and make you last longer. And even if those two things aren't an issue for you, wearing a cock ring can also result in a more intense, explosive orgasm.
Now that you're paying attention, it's also worth noting that the cock ring of today comes with lots of bells and whistles, which means a better time in bed for both you and whoever you're getting it on with. Depending on what you're comfortable with using and what you're looking to achieve, there are plenty of different models and materials to choose from.
Not sure where to start? Here's a comprehensive look at cock rings, ranging from what they do to how they work, how to use them, and the best ones to try tonight.
What exactly are you getting your penis into when using a cock ring?
"Cock rings are worn around the penis, usually at the base, and are used to restrict blood flow from an erect penis in order to help extend erections," explains clinical sexologist Sunny Rodgers . "They can also be worn around the testicles to further restrict blood flow. When worn to include testicles, one erection ring can be worn around the penis and testicles together, or two erection rings can be worn with one around the penis and the second one around the testicles."
Have you ever wrapped a piece of string around your finger? Wearing a cock ring is a similar experience, except this way more fun.
"Specifically designed to restrict blood from leaving an erect penis, penis rings can make erections last for a longer period of time, and in some cases create a stronger climax," says Rodgers.
If you haven't already guessed, cock rings come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes.
"There are several types of penis rings ranging from stretchy and adjustable to textured and vibrating," says Jess O’Reilly , host of the Sex With Dr. Jess podcast. "Some rings sit at the base of the penis and others wrap all the way around the penis as well as the back of the testicles."

As far as shapes and models go, there are a few common ones that each work a bit differently.
"O-shaped rings fit around the base of the penis and can be used to help hold a condom in place," says O'Reilly. "Some of them include a vibrating bullet that can be positioned against his testicles or positioned on the upper side of the penis to rub against a partner of any gender during intercourse. Adjustable or snap-on rings can be worn either around the penis or all the way around the base of the shaft and balls. Often made of leather or synthetic materials, these rings can be adjusted with snaps or a sliding bead."
First thing's first: how do you decipher which cock ring is the right fit for your member?
"To find a size that fits, we say takes a bit of eye-balling, maybe a piece of string and a tape measure (use the string to wrap around the base of the penis and scrotum – and then measure the length), and then some trial and error," says Steve Callow, CEO of PerfectFit . "You'll know you've found the right fit when the ring fits snuggly on your erection — but isn't painful or uncomfortable."
You'll want to put your cock ring on when you're flaccid or semi-erect. Adding a bit of lube to this process can make it easier to get the ring situated. "The best way for a beginner is to stretch the ring as much as they can and pull their penis first then one testicle at a time," explains Callow. "Once on it shouldn’t be binding or strangling the base. It should be just loose enough so it can be easily turned while in place because as an erection grows it will tighten. Once hard, a proper fitting penis ring will give you a powerful erection."
If you're new to wearing a cock ring, O'Reilly suggests keeping time limited.
"Though cock rings can offer a slight increase to the size and firmness of an erection, you don’t want to overdo it," she says. "If it’s your first time wearing a ring, try it out for five minutes on an erect penis to make sure it fits and be sure to remove it if you ever observe any pronounced swelling."
Even after you've had experience using the cock ring, Rodgers cautions against using one for a long period of time.
"I do not recommend using an erection ring for longer than 30 minutes," she says. "One important tip to keep in mind is that just as an erection ring can restrict blood from leaving an erect penis, it can also inhibit blood from flowing into a penis. So, it’s best to place it on an almost fully-hard penis to allow it to perform properly."
What type of ring should you start with? You'll need to determine what you want your cock ring to do for you in order to figure it out. For example, is the ring being purchased for your partner's pleasure or your own?
"If it’s mainly for the wearer, you can focus on solo rings without attachments," says intimacy expert Miyoko Rifkin . "If your goal is to stimulate your partner, you’ll look at types of rings with added attachments, and/or vibration. Depending on the preferences of your lover, you’ll choose a clitoral stimulator that is flat or protruding. If your female partner wants deep penetration, you should grab a toy with less intruding attachments so you can keep your bodies close. If you and your partner want to achieve anal stimulation or create dual penetration, you’ll want a toy with an anal probe, or anal beads."
If you're a beginner, consider choosing a ring made out of more malleable materials.
"For absolute newbies, I recommend disposable vibrating rings as they give you the experience you desire without breaking the bank," notes Rifkin. "Once you know you like this type of stimulation and enhancement, you can invest a little more money to try different attachments and features."
Best for: Beginners first starting out
"Screaming O makes a wide range of really affordable rings that are perfect whether it’s your first or 31st time wearing one," says sex and relationship expert Dr. Emily Morse . "There are so many fun shapes and colors, you’ll never get bored."
Best for: Getting your balls involved
If your looking for a ring that covers all your manhood, the snug tugger is an excellent option.
"This cock ring does double duty for penis and testicles, providing a snug fit to enhance stamina and showcase erections," says sexologist Katy Zvolerin .
For triple the stimulation, get your backdoor involved.
"With more men getting into prostate play, this cock ring has the added bonus of an anal stimulator," says Zvolerin. "Three separate (and removable) bullet vibes hit all the hot spots as well – clitoral, anal, and below the shaft for dual pleasures."
Best for: Couples who want to explore
"Penis rings aren’t only for people with penises," says Morse. "Both partners can enjoy the deep, rumbly vibrations of the Pivot because the raised mound can stimulate the clitoris, plus it’s nice and stretchy for a comfy fit. Experiment with their We-Connect app to create your own custom vibrations."
Best for: Getting extra stimulation
"This is the first penis ring that has dual motors for stimulation," Morse explains. "One on top for the shaft that also stimulates the clitoris, and one on the bottom for stimulation to the perineum for indirect prostate stimulation. So with this one, everyone wins."
Not sure what size ring to use? A kit like this one from PlayZone lets you experiment with until you find right one.
"This kit uses premium silicone Xact-Fit rings and comes with 9 sizes to have fun with," says Callow.
Best for: Getting a variety of stimulations
For a versatile vibrating ring, opt for one with different settings like this one from Adam & Eve.
"It's waterproof, with 10 separate vibration settings – plus the bullet vibe is covered in dozens of stimulating ticklers to enhance the experience even more," says Zvolerin.
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Cock rings. Pleasure rings. C-rings. Penis rings. Whatever you call these devices, they’re the unsung heroes of many a sexual escapade. A cock ring is exactly what it sounds like: A ring-shaped sex toy that goes around a penis or dildo to squeeze the shaft or shaft and balls. Learning this might inspire a very valid question: Why the hell would someone want that?!?!
Well, this restriction can feel highly pleasurable for some people. It can also help make erections feel harder. Erections happen when arteries leading into the penis dilate, making the penis bigger than usual, while veins leading away from the penis constrict, trapping as much blood as possible in there. By adding another mode of constriction on top of that vein action, cock rings can help even more blood collect in the penis, resulting in more intense hard-ons. (All of this helps explain why people with erectile dysfunction sometimes use cock rings, according to the International Society for Sexual Medicine , although anyone in that situation should talk to their doctor before trying this out.)
If it’s your first time or you’re just intrigued and wondering how to actually use a cock ring, here are a few tips to help you out and some recommended products and accessories to use. And for more sex and love questions visit our sex love page.
Silicone cock rings are flexible, easy to remove, and simple to clean, making them great for beginners. Some cock rings are made of stainless steel or metal, but I only recommend those for people who are more advanced when it comes to these toys.
There are lots of simple silicone cock rings out there, but adjustable rings are great if you’re just getting started, because they allow you or your partner to control how tight the ring gets. The Cock Ties from Doc Johnson are solid cock rings.
Some cock rings come with pretty fun bonuses for both the wearer and partner’s sexual experience. Both of my favorite ones—the Pivot from We-Vibe and the Tenga SVR —are vibrating cock rings with raised heads, which can be great for vulva-owning penis-riders. (New feminist super heroine name?)
It’s recommended to always, always, always use lube with sex toys, including cock rings (it’s a common sex toy mistake ). Before putting on a cock ring, spread a few drops of lube around the inner part. This will help it slide down a penis or dildo more easily.
Since I’m all about those silicone rings, I’ve got a duty to remind you to avoid using silicone lube with a silicone cock ring. It can corrode the toy and cause damage. Whether your sex toys are pricey or you’d just like to avoid the hassle of replacing them, this is a rule worth following.
Then there’s the fact that oil-based lubricants can damage latex, so if you’re using condoms, that’s a no-go. Choosing a water-based lube makes things easier all around.
If you and your partner are experimenting with using a cock ring on a dildo, this is a non-issue. Otherwise, don’t try to pop a cock ring on an erect penis. Even with lube, that might be too uncomfortable and difficult, depending on how tight the ring is. Placing the ring over the head of the penis and sliding it down the shaft will typically be easier if the organ is flaccid or semi-erect. You may have to experiment a bit to figure out what works best for better sex.
After that, there’s the question of where exactly to position the cock ring, since many of them can either go at the base of your penis or surround the shaft and balls. We recommend that beginners stick with the base of the penis versus base of the shaft. It’s the easiest way to put the ring on and cuts down on the prospect of hurting those sensitive testicles. On the flip side, if you’re using a condom, placing a cock ring over the shaft and balls means it’ll have a bit of distance from the rim of the rubber, which means the ring can be less likely to slide around and push it up. (We still encourage condom use when necessary no matter which cock ring placement you’re into!)
If you’re leveling up and placing a cock ring over someone’s balls in addition to their shaft, do so with care. Once the ring is all the way down their shaft, stretch it as far as it can go without snapping, then gently— gently —place each testicle through the ring one at a time. Adjustable rings are great for this type of placement as you can make them bigger for the testicles to pass through. Either way, it might be easier for the person wearing the ring to do thi
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