How Can I Earn More Freedom?
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Do you think it’s about time you had more freedom? You may think you’re ready to be treated as an adult, but do your parents agree? Have you proven to them that you can handle more freedom? You see, if you want more freedom, you have to gain your parents’ trust. Earning their trust takes time. But every time you prove yourself responsible, you get one step closer to your goal. Some ways you can show you are trustworthy are: diligently completing your chores, especially without being reminded; managing your time wisely and being punctual; taking care of your things; showing that you can handle money in a responsible way; and following through on the promises you make. Of course, nobody’s perfect. So if you make a mistake, it’s not the end of the world. Follow the Bible’s advice at Hebrews 13:18 to conduct yourself “honestly in all things.” Tell the truth and be straightforward. If you admit your mistake and apologize, your parents will see that you are willing to take responsibility for your actions, and they’ll appreciate your honesty. But what if you feel that despite your best efforts, your parents still aren’t giving you enough freedom? Don’t just get annoyed —talk to them! Respectfully ask what they think you need to do to earn their trust. You may be surprised to learn of some other areas where you can show you’re responsible. At 2 Corinthians 13:5, the Bible says: “Keep proving what you . . . are.” So you need to build up a record of consistency. That way you’ll prove you’re worthy of trust. Every step you take brings you closer to your goal. Of course, trust is much harder to gain than it is to lose. But the effort is worth it. When your parents see you working hard to earn their trust, they will likely be happy to give you more freedom, and you’ll be another step closer to becoming a responsible adult.