How Can A Girl Make Herself Squirt

How Can A Girl Make Herself Squirt

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Written by Tania Tarafdar | Published : May 5, 2017 5:00 PM IST
You might wonder if squirting is a real thing. The answer is yes. Squirting is real. Some women never experience it. But you can never know if you will squirt until you try. Do you feel like peeing when you are close to reaching orgasm? While holding it down may sound like a terrible idea, it can give you immense pleasure. It may take some time to get there and you may need some patience as well, but here s how you can do it.

Step 1 : Before you even get to the play, you may just want to empty your bladder to ease your mind.

Step 2: Then it is important for you to feel comfortable, relaxed and really turned on.

Step 3 : Use whatever that helps you get turned on whether it is reading an erotic book or watching some porn. You can use your favourite water-based lube and even use a sex toy. Here are 5 reasons why most Indian women find it difficult to orgasm.
Step 4: Then focus on stimulating your G-spot and get yourself ready for the play. Once you are turned on, insert your one or two of your fingers inside your vagina and rub your G-spot at the same time. The G-spot has the Skene s gland which produces the female ejaculate. Pressing the G-spot with your fingers can help stimulate the glands and cause you to squirt. The ejaculate can last from one tablespoon to a few tablespoons.

Step 5: If you cannot find your G-spot, you can use a dildo or a vibrator to locate your G-spot. Also, for you to squirt can take a lot more pressure than your fingers, so it can be a good idea to use a vibrator. Here are 10 everyday things you can use to masturbate.
If you squirt good for you, but if you don t at least you will be happy that you have enjoyed the act. Don t ever feel that you are less sexual and just relax and enjoy the act.

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Contrary to popular belief, it’s not just pee.
Look, don't waste your time puzzling over whether or not squirting, also known as female ejaculation , is pee because, spoiler, it’s not. Now that's out of the way, how about you let your mind grapple with a much sexier question: how to make someone squirt? For starters, you might want to crack on with sex educator and Soft Paris co-founder Anne-Charlotte Desruelle's simple guide on making women and other people with vulvas squirt.
Like all good things, the answer to the age-old question "how to squirt?" or even "how to make someone squirt?" is deliciously simple:
It’s time to get comfortable! First up, get rid of all the tension in your body, ensure that you’re not going to be disturbed and leave yourself plenty of time. For extra peace of mind, you may also want to “waterproof” the area by putting down several towels beneath you.
Softly and slowly stimulate the G-spot. Keep in mind that this isn’t a race or performance and be sure to go at your own pace.
As your G-spot gets stimulated and you start feeling more aroused, the erectile tissue will fill with blood and the G-spot and the labia will get larger. Keep in mind that parts of the G-spot may feel sore, so take care to stimulate the sore parts gently.
Be conscious of the different sensations in your body and alter the pressure accordingly. Keep in mind that it should feel pleasant.
For many people with vulvas, ejaculation will only take place after the vulva and G-spot have filled with blood become larger.
Because the ejaculate originates from the urethra, feeling like you need to pee is a move in the right direction…
Some people only squirt when the G-spot is being stimulated (for example, via penetration), for others, it's the opposite and takes place when the vagina is not being penetrated.
Squirting isn’t just for solo play – here’s how to male someone squirt during partnered sex.
If you're with a man, penis-having partner, or using a strap-on , try cowgirl or doggy style sex positions.
If you're having sex with a man, penis-having partner, or using a strap-on , try out the cowgirl or doggy style sex positions.
Cowgirl is a sex position which allows you to be in complete control over both body and feeling, making it easier for you to feel your way to your G-spot.
Doggy style sex positions give your partner the chance to apply pressure on the frontal vagina lining, increasing the opportunities for G-spot stimulation.
And, lastly, remember that squirting may happen on your first attempt or it may take a few years… The most import thing is to be at ease with your body and ditch any expectations!

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There are certain sex acts that have developed a sort of cult following, and squirting is one of them. There’s something undeniably arousing about a person with a vulva being able to expel fluids just like a person with a penis. And while squirting doesn’t always happen during orgasm, some vulva-owners enjoy the sensation as well as its visual fanfare.
“I love the powerful release, as well as the sheer display of it,” says porn performer Jiz Lee , who contributed a section on squirting to the book Girl Sex 101 .
There's a lot of misinformation out there about squirting, says Lola Jean , a sex educator and self-proclaimed “ Olympic Squirter .” “Given it is a heavily under-researched topic and misunderstood act, this is not surprising.”
If you’re wondering how to make a person with a vulva squirt, we’ll get to that, but first, let’s answer some common questions about squirting.
Mainstream porn has led some viewers to believe that squirting is a lot more common than it actually is—in reality, some vulva-owners don’t squirt.
“Some people squirt once or with orgasm, some repeatedly, and some not at all,” Lee says. Still, the majority of vulva-owners report having some squirting ability. A 2017 study found that 69% of vulva-owners between the ages of 18 and 39 have experienced ejaculation during orgasm.
When some people with a vulva are sufficiently aroused, they're able to "squirt" a clear-ish liquid through their urethra—kinda like how people with a penis are able to ejaculate, except in this case, the process has nothing to do with reproduction.
Squirting fluid can come out in a variety of volumes. “Ejaculation might appear as fluid that expels in a squirt, gush, or just a drip,” Lee says. “It can be a huge flood soaking the sheets or just a small puddle or butt print found after sex.”
According to a 2013 study , the amount of ejaculate vulva-owners release through squirting can range from 0.3ml to more than 150 mL. Some bodies just squirt more than others, and hydration levels can impact the amount of ejaculate, too. “It doesn’t mean you did a better job if there was more fluid,” Jean says.
Nope! “It's understandable that people might think it's urine, since it comes from the same hole,” Lee says. “While it's true that people can urinate during sex, [ejaculate] is a different fluid with a different chemical make-up.”
The exact makeup of this fluid has long been a subject of debate, but here’s the latest according to a 2021 literature review : anatomical studies have shown that squirt originates in the Skene’s glands and includes prostate specific antigen (PSA), which is typically found in prostate fluid. We also know that ejaculate differs from urine in its creatinine and urea concentrations.
Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what squirt is—for many people with a vulva, squirting feels good, so let’s focus on the pleasure-giving part of this magical bodily process.
Almost. Before you and your partner get down to business, ask yourself: Who is this for?
“Squirting isn’t always accompanied by an orgasm, and not everyone finds it pleasurable,” Jean says. A 2021 study of 28 squirters found that some participants felt ashamed of their bodies’ natural pleasure response or found the sensation to be unpleasant, while others considered their squirting ability a “superpower.”
Do you want your partner to squirt for their sake, since you want them to have the most pleasurable sexual experience possible? Or do you want them to squirt for your ego? If it’s the latter, then you and your partner shouldn’t attempt squirting. Ask your partner if squirting is something they’d like to try. If squirting doesn’t appeal to them, stick with other sexual activities you’ll both enjoy.
First, prepare your bodies. Make sure your partner is well-hydrated. Since you’ll probably be using your fingers, you should wash your hands and make sure your nails are trimmed and filed to avoid causing cuts or abrasions.
Next, prepare your space. Squirting can get pretty wet, and if you or your partner are worried about making a mess, you probably won’t enjoy yourselves. “Lay down a large towel, a mattress protector, or a sex blanket like the kind Liberator makes to make clean-up easy and lessen concerns about 'wetting' the bed,” Lee says.
That said, if your partner has never squirted before, anticipating a waterfall might feel like a lot of pressure. Talk to your partner about what would feel best to them. If they’d rather not lay down a towel, that’s fine—you can always wash your bedding after sex if you need to. Of course, if your partner knows they can gush like Old Faithful, they might be willing (and eager!) to use some form of mattress protection.
Squirting should be about the journey; not the destination. “ Any time you approach sex with a goal, there's potential pressure placed on the act that can create potential frustration and dissapointment,” Lee says. “Put that whole concept of a goal in the trash bin and set out with simply the possibility to include something new and exciting.” Remember that even if your partner doesn’t squirt during your first (or tenth) attempt, at least you both had fun trying!
Turning your partner on will prime their body for squirting. “Arousal will not only engorge the perennial sponge and the urethral sponge making then more receptive to touch, but it will also help build up fluids in the Bartholin's glands (largely responsible for vaginal lubrication) and paraurethral glands (largely responsible for urethral lubrication),” Jean explains.
There’s no universal way to get a partner in the mood, so if you’re not already familiar with your partner’s turn-on’s, ask them what they’re craving. They might be into kissing , dirty talk , digital clitoral stimulation , oral sex , nipple play , role play , porn, sex toys , spanking , or something else entirely.
Every person is different when it comes to squirting. Some people need firm G-spot stimulation . Others need soft clitoral circling. Some vulva-owners can even squirt without any direct stimulation to their vulva. Because of this, there are various techniques you can try. You can and should explore various methods with your partner, and remember: communication is key. “Listen to verbal and non-verbal physical cues for how much pressure to apply, how fast of movement to make, whether to add kissing or clitoral stimulation, etc.” Lee says.
One popular technique involves a combination of clitoral and G-spot stimulation using your fingers or sex toys . “While people can squirt from penile penetration, it's far more likely to happen with hands or curved sex toys,” Lee explains. “ Njoy's Pure Wand is a favorite; its C-shaped curve makes it easy to hold and pinpoint good pressure.”
You may think that in order to get your partner to squirt, you need to aggressively thrust with your hand and deliver the most pressure possible. This is not always the case. “Everyone’s body is different, and while many enjoy a full spectrum of intensity, these are highly sensitive parts of the body, so they may not want you jackhammering away at these nerve-packed zones,” Jean says.
“Once you hear the ‘splash splash’ sound—meaning your partner is really wet—I am telling you now that your partner is capable of squirting; they just have to figure out how to get it out of their body,” Jean says. For some vulva-owners, that means pushing out using their pelvic floor muscles.
Often, vulva-owners report that they feel like they need to pee right before they squirt, which makes sense, considering squirt does come out of the urethra. This discourages some people from squirting because they fear they’re just to pee. Knowing this is a common sensation can help your partner relax and push through the confusing “peeing” feeling.
Once your partner signals that they’re about to start squirting, stick with external stimulation. “Be aware that toys or hands may block the urethral opening at that important moment of fluid expulsion, so be prepared to move them aside when it's time,” Lee says. “Some people will ask partners to pull out just before they gush.”
You may attempt everything, and your partner doesn’t squirt. This is completely fine and doesn’t mean either of you did anything wrong. You can always try again if your partner wants to (and you both had a good time, didn’t you?). And whether or not your partner squirts, remember the importance of aftercare !
Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based writer, speaker, and activist whose work focuses on lifestyle, sexuality, and culture. He was formerly the digital associate editor at OUT Magazine and currently has a queer cannabis column, Puff Puff YASS , at Civilized .
Ro White is a Chicago-based writer, sex educator, and Autostraddle’s Sex & Dating Editor.
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Everything you've ever wondered about squirting.
No other sexual phenomenon is as shrouded in mystery as female ejaculation . Even today the concept of squirting is still often met with scepticism.
So is female ejaculation real or merely a stunt invented by the porn industry? Or worse: just pee? And can every woman learn to squirt? We asked the experts.
According to French gynaecologist and sex researcher Dr Samuel Salama, it's important to understand the difference between female ejaculation and squirting.
Apparently female ejaculation happens from the female prostate - 'yes, it exists!' - and produces less than 1ml of milky white liquid. This female ejaculate is composed the same as male ejaculate , but without the sperm.
'Squirting, on the other hand, can exceed 150ml, and the liquid is yellow or clear, as it contains urea, uric acid and creatine and comes from the bladder,' he says.
So far, so urine. Dr Salama claims that these two liquids can be present together or separately, and that there are many factors that can influence the dilution of each.
We also spoke to sex expert Girl on the Net , and asked her if we should rely on what science says about squirting. After all, science is rarely on our minds when we're getting down to it.
'People who squirt when they come will tell you that it is very different to the sensation of when they pee and that the taste, smell and consistency of what comes out is very different to pee,' she says.
People who squirt when they come will tell you that it is very different to the sensation of when they pee.
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