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Hotwife Lifestyle Subreddit r/ Hotwife
This subreddit is for hotwives and their husbands who actively participate in the "hotwife" lifestyle, also referred to as "wife sharing."
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Welcome to r/hotwife ! This subreddit is for hotwives and their husbands who actively participate in the "hotwife" lifestyle, also referred to as "wife sharing". This community is a place to post content of the hotwife enjoying a sexual relationship outside of your marriage.
Hotwife Definition: A Hotwife is a woman in a relationship who has sexual relations with others other than her husband. For the purposes of this definition, one can interchange the terms husband for boyfriend, wife for girlfriend, etc... One of the main attributes of a Hotwife is that the wife is the only one that has sexual relations. The husband does not, but he is still of equal stature/level with his wife. Often, these relationships are in pursuit of fulfilling the husband's/couple's fantasies.
The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot wife.” The difference between hotwifing and cheating is consent: In a hotwife arrangement, the husband is fully aware and supportive of his wife’s affairs. In many cases, one spouse or the other even gains sexual arousal from the arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy fetish.
Hotwifing is simliar to swinging, however in the hotwife lifestyle, only the woman is having extramarital sex. Per dictionary.com, swinging is defined as a couple who swaps spouses (swapping). Urban dictionary has a more meaningful definition. In their explanation, swinging involves both partners of the relationships, each having sexual relations with those outside their relationship.
One of the most important aspects though is that both partners are open and trusting with each other. It only works if both partners are mutually onboard; the hotwifing arrangement often falls apart when one partner becomes uncomfortable with non-monogamy or when one partner feels pressured against their will to participate.
Thus the main difference between a Hotwife, and a Swinger, is the participants who are having outside sexual relations. Hotwife implies only the wife/gf. Swinger implies both parties. Note that both the Hotwife and Swinging lifestyle, cheating is not involves as both lifestyles are built on the consent and communication of each partner.
Generally speaking, the difference is that often the cuckold (husband) is submissive to his wife (the Cuckoldress), and sometimes even masochistic, gaining arousal from “humiliations, degradation, and other demeaning activities at the hands of his wife and her lover.” Cuckolds often see themselves as inferior lovers and unable to sexually satisfy their wives, hence the desire to have other men (younger, alpha-male lovers called “bulls”) who are much more virile than themselves fulfil their wife’s sexual needs.
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No requests for dates or play partners are allowed. The Mod team is temporarily removing these requests until further notice. Consider r/hotwiferequests .
Content must directly relate to the Hotwife lifestyle or experience. No cuckold content. No ambiguity - if the content or title is not easily recognized as Hotwife related, it may be removed. All content must be original - no random porn pictures/video.
Don't be an asshole. If you don't agree with something, just move on. This includes following Reddit's content policy .
In order to post, you must be Verified. Read the verification rules for more details.
Posting frequency is limited to once every 48 hours.
To encourage more Amateurs to post, moving forward r/hotwife will reserve weekends for amateur content only . The new Hotwife bot will determine if an OP is a "for-profit" professional, and if so, will automatically remove the content. Monday - Friday will continue to operate as normal. Note that this rule applies to when the post is submitted.
The Mod Team may take various actions to enforce these rules. Examples are to remove the rule-breaking content, a temporary ban or even a permanent ban. To reduce spam, we may throttle the frequency of posting, ask for verification (or re-verification) or removing additional content from the Sub. The Mod Team reserves its discretion in this.
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In an endless scroll of action shots, sometimes posts from quality submitters can be lost. Therefore, we are introducing a way to highlight members who consistently share their successful and consistent Hotwife experiences. These special user flairs are only for verified users, who follow the rules, and provide great content and advice. These flairs are granted based on Mod discretion. More details to come on this.
r/Hotwife is a verified only subreddit. Only users who successfully verified are approved to submit posts.
To verify: Send a MODMAIL with your username, desired user flair , and an imgur link to at least 3 color pictures of yourself holding a handwritten paper sign that includes:
ALSO: In your verification Modmail, you MUST also link 3 posts/comments from r/HotwifeAdvice or r/HotwifeLifestyle . The content of those posts/comments should be meaningful and related to the Hotwife lifestyle.

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The internet has become the central place for discovering closed-door swinging sites. Finding a polyamory relationship at the local Starbucks is almost impossible. However, the listed websites are the best places to learn about The Lifestyle.
If you’re looking for sexual adventure, you could find it on the best swinger sites. Discover swinging parties for a full swap.
Swingers date club sites are easy to use and you can meet like-minded singles and couples for threesomes if you pay the per month membership fee.
What are the best swinger lifestyle sites? Let’s investigate.
My wife and I have stayed involved with the LA swinging scene for the past 20 years. Our hearts shared the sentiment that our days are best spent with ourselves in addition to other sexual partners. Since 1999 we have attended prominent swinging events from the Pacific Southwest to the Atlantic Northeast. We decided to bring our knowledge, experience, and expertise to the table and share some of our favorite swinging sites.
Adult Friend Finder is the leading online community for the sexually adventurous, namely those into the swinging lifestyle. Boasting more than 80 million users, AFF is the biggest site for singles and couples looking to add some spice into their sex lives. To get right to the fun stuff, click the Swingers search under the Hookup pull-down menu.
On AFF, it’s easy to register a free account and browse the site. To gain access to all the site features, you can choose from one of three Gold Membership options:
Each charge rebills automatically until you terminate your membership. To find a swinging partner or third-wheel on AFF, use the AFF blogs and connect with other active users. The more time you put in, the more you’ll get out of this community.
SDC (Seek, Discover, Connect) is a modern swingers forum with a scroll-loading interface. You’ll have to register before you can browse. Once inside, you’ll see an infinite table of member pics and a sidebar with filters and contact buttons. To unlock SDC’s features, choose one of the following plans:
Once you upgrade, you’ll be able to use the site’s messenger, chatroom and LiveStream features.
SwapFinder.com is a swinger site with a Facebook-like layout. Up and down each page you’ll see member pics and messages accompanied with videos, comments, “like” buttons and sidebar filters. To connect with other swingers, become a SwapFinder Gold member with one of the following plans:
As a Gold member, you’ll get to message other users and add them to your Hotlist. You’ll also get to see who fancies you and possibly take the fun offline.
SwingLifeStyle.com is an online community for people who live the swinger lifestyle. The site started in 2001, just as swinging witnessed a surge in popularity thanks to the internet. As of 2020, there are roughly 16 million site members, including over 250,000 in the U.S.
Once you register, you can browse profiles and participate in video chat. You’ll get more options, such as the ability to see and upload nudes, with one of the following memberships:
Most of the members on SwingLife are between 25 and 54 years old.
Ashley Madison is notorious as the site where married people go to find extramarital flings. By extension, the site is perfectly suited to married and single swingers. If you’re a single guy looking to add married women to your rotation, you’ll probably find them here. If you wish to open your marriage to a married third wheel, this would be one of the best places to look.
Rather than charge a membership fee, Ashley Madison gives members credits at the following prices:
Heterosexual women can use Ashley Madison free of charge. Everyone else must purchase credits to use the site. With five credits, you can send your first email to a woman of interest. If she responds, the conversation is free thereafter. Use of the chat room costs one credit per minute.
Your success on Ashley Madison could depend on your online game and effort. When you head to other cities, use the site’s Travelling Man feature to contact users in those areas. AshleyMadison.com is owned by Ruby Corp., all rights reserved.
Alt.com caters to the kinky side of the swingers community. The site explicitly mentions BDSM and fetish in its byline. The moment you land on their front page, you’ll see images of whips, leather, corsets and a load of other goodies.
As a niche swinger site with 415k members in the U.S., Alt.com isn’t nearly as big as some of the other hookup sites but it’s a good place to find people with a wild streak. The site uses a compatibility metric to determine how each user ranks on the naughty/nice spectrum. Memberships are priced as follows:
Each membership rate includes a value-added tax of 15%.
If you’re a sexually conservative swinger (does such a person exist?), Alt.com might not be right for you. If you like your hookups with a bit of kink, give this site a shot. Remember: the fetish world has its own set of mannerisms and if you come off as the garden-variety horny type, you might not be accepted into the fold.
Kasidie is a swinger community and an online dating site with the evocative tagline “Remember my name, you’ll be screaming it later!” The site has membership forums, party listings and a directory of swinger clubs.
You’re encouraged to register the moment you enter. You can upload your bio pic and browse for free, then unlock more features with one of the Elite Certified Membership plans:
As an elite Kasidie member, you can send emails and “flirts,” upload lots of photos and use the forums, chat rooms and messenger.
The subreddit r/swingersr4r is not like any of the swinger sites covered in this article. Since its on Reddit, admission is free. All you have to do is abide by the rules and you’re in.
The r/swingersr4r feed contains lots of female nude pics and couples photos. Along the sidebar, you’ll see links to books on swinging and similar subreddit communities. The group prohibits dating posts or anything related to cuckoldry.
If you join as a single man, you can only call out to couples. This is not a place for b/g hookups, not even between swingers. Unlike all the paid swinger sites, r/swingersr4r takes a firm social-distancing stance in light of Covid.
FetLife, as the name implies, is a social network for people into the fetish lifestyle. It is not a dating or hookup site, per se, but you can meet lots of adventurous people here. Where that might go will depend on you and the individual.
With a FetLife Premium account, you can view the fetishes of other members, view photos and videos, and use the messaging feature. Premium membership plans are priced as follows:
FetLife can help you find swingers in your area, but only if you engage in the community. Not everyone is there to hookup in real life but most of the members are open-minded and kinky.
Tinder is the ultimate swingers app. Launched in 2012, it’s signature function has become so popular that the terms “swipe right” and “swipe left” are now part of everyday vocabulary. For swingers, Tinder can be a goldmine if you know how to work the app.
On Tinder, you swipe left on people you don’t like and right on people you fancy. If you really like someone, swipe up, as that will increase your odds of them seeing you. Remember, be genuine. Don’t swipe right arbitrarily. For Tinder to take you seriously as a user, you should swipe left about 75% of the time. Tinder’s Gold membership plan is priced as follows:
To find other swingers for casual sex and hookups, don’t beat around the bush with idle chit chat on Tinder. Everyone flips through the app fast. If you make a connection, try to get a Skype date or offline meetup arranged as soon as possible.
When you join a swinger site, behave the same as you would at a social function. Enter the forums, talk about interests and ask polite questions. The sex talk will soon follow. The more time you put in, the more you’ll get out of the experience.
Swingers are people who have multiple sex partners at the same time. By some estimates, swingers account for 1% of the adult population. The swinger community largely consists of couples, some who prefer the term polyamory.
Swinging involves at least three people. In some cases, you’ll have a ménage à trois. Some settings will include four or more people in an orgy.
Often times, one partner will have sex with a third wheel while the other watches. This is common when a couple seeks a bisexual woman, who has a lesbian encounter with the wife/girlfriend while her husband watches. Sometimes this involves cuckold scenarios where a hotwife gets it on with a young stud. It’s also common for men to seek sexual variety while in a relationship.
In the United States, there are no laws that regulate what consenting adults do between the sheets. It doesn’t matter whether there are two people, three or four. As long as the acts do not involve torture, injury, children or animals, it’s a private matter.
As for swingers clubs, those laws vary by state. In some states, vice laws prohibit swingers from opening clubs on the scale of Plato’s Retreat, regardless of whether it operates on a private-membership or entrance-fee model.
It depends on the couple. If two partners recognize the difference between love and lust, it can be healthy for them to explore sexual desire for its own sake with multiple third wheels.
For sexual variety. No one is attracted to only one person in their lives, even if they marry. Throughout life, you’re attracted to hundreds of different people. Swingers embrace the credo “you only live once.”
As long as you screen new people and meet them in safe places, swinging is safe. It’s best to exchange messages and video chats with people on a swinger site before you meet in person. Safe sexual practices (condoms) are also a must.
If you’re looking to spice up your sex life with sexually like-minded people, give swinger dating sites a try. You got nothing to lose. They are worth your time if you are already open to bringing other people into the relationship.
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Everyone appears to be getting laid on TV, social media, and in the movies… in real life, it’s actually kind of hard to find couples that are seriously looking for fellow swingers.
The majority of couples just aren’t into it. Some only swing with their own friends, kind of a closed circle sort of thing. Then again, there ARE other swinging couples looking for dates…but locating these mysterious sexy strangers is a challenge.
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