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We all love a good orgasm . But when it comes to partnered sex — particularly intercourse — there’s a real split in who is most consistently getting them via their partner (though toys are always a great teammate and not competition in this regard!).
Don’t believe all the hype from movies, porn and TV — orgasms for folks with vulvas aren’t an easy get through penetration alone, nor or they so elusive and complicated that they aren’t worth trying for. In reality, only about 57 percent of us are climaxing every time we have sex, and that’s usually when a form of stimulation other than penetration is involved. In fact, according to a study published in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy in 2017, 37 percent of American women required clitoral stimulation to experience an orgasm, and 18 percent (!) of women said they were able to come on vaginal penetration alone.
The bottom line: Most women aren’t having effortless, screaming orgasms every time we hook up and the same old sex positions aren’t really cutting it for closing the orgasm gap. If you and your partner haven’t yet cracked the code to your orgasm together , don’t fear — with experimentation and communication you can absolutely get there.
And, of course, orgasm is not the point of sex — but that doesn’t mean we should give up trying to have the best, most mind-blowing sex possible. We just need to get a little creative with our positions and technique to ensure that the right parts are getting stimulation at the right time (and for the right amount of time).
Try these exciting, clitoris-loving sex positions that can help make the situation ideal for mind-blowing orgasms (and thank us later).
“With the woman on her back and her hips on the edge of the bed, the man penetrates her while standing,” says Dr. Madeleine M. Castellanos , a psychiatrist who specializes in sex therapy. “She then puts her legs over his shoulders and tilts her hips slightly upward. This gives a wonderful angle for cervical stimulation, with deep penetration that can produce some intense vaginal and uterine orgasms. With more shallow penetration, a man can stimulate the anterior vaginal wall to hit the G-spot.”
“A couple starts off in missionary position ,” says Dr. Castellanos. “Once a man penetrates a woman deeply, he allows her to bring her legs together between his. He then shifts his weight slightly forward so that the shaft of his erection is producing firm pressure and friction on her clitoris as he moves. This works very well for women that prefer to have clitoral stimulation during penetration to reach a very powerful orgasm.”
“This is my favorite. It’s when the woman is lying on her back on the counter or table while he enters standing. It’s rough,” says Margaret Wagner, sex expert and founder of the now-closed Bedroom Matters. “There’s pushing aside of papers, pepper shakers, which add to the sense of urgency and inappropriateness. It’s easy to maneuver and move the woman to slide along the counter. There is still contact. He goes deep and feels in control. It works all the way around. The keys are clothing, stuff in the way and being in an open space. Still allows for connection while feeling dirty. It just works on so many levels. It’s not about acrobats. It’s about context.”
“This position allows the woman to have the control in order to determine the depth and angle of penetration as well as how much clitoral stimulation she gets,” says Dr. Castellanos. “With the man lying flat on his back and his knees bent, she straddles him with one leg to the side of his hip and the other leg between his legs. The woman can then find just the right spot to grind against his pubic bone with him inside her. She controls the pace, the depth and the amount of pressure and friction she receives. This is definitely a prescription for mind-blowing sex!”
“I’m no [pro], but whenever I’ve had sex standing up and holding my partner in the air or up against the wall, it’s been mind-blowing for both of us,” says Jim, an experienced heterosexual male. “I suspect it taps into some of our innate gender differences — the strong man and the small woman — which, in turn, heightens the sexual experience. It also forces us to be in a full embrace, which furthers the emotional connection as well as our physical one. It’s physically demanding and not for all couples, but for those that can, it’s highly recommended.”
“Given a woman’s clitoris is buried under the clitoral hood and cushiony mons pubis surrounding it, it’s no wonder this tiny nub rarely receives enough stimulation during intercourse to catch the ‘O’ train,” says Jaiya. “Your hands, though, can help change that. Form a ‘V’ with your index and middle fingers, and point your fingers toward your feet. Press this ‘V’ onto the mons pubis, with a finger to each side of the clitoris. Then pull up, moving the skin with your hand. This should unveil the hard-to-reach clit in all its glory, exposing this little love button to a lot more action.”
“If your guy enjoys having his back door explored, reach around with both hands, and grab both cheeks,” says Jaiya. “From there, you can do ‘butt yoga’ (a technique whereby you spread the cheeks apart, then together, one up one down, then vice versa) or ‘anal yoga’ (a technique whereby you place your middle fingers to the sides of the anus, then spread them apart, then diagonally, then up and down). If that gets him hankering for more, feel free to delve deeper.”
“Heating up hot spots aren’t your hands-only talents,” says Jaiya. “They’re also great at moving body parts where you want them, and this technique is a prime opportunity. During intercourse, raise your legs, then have your man hold an ankle in each hand. From there, you can spread her legs apart, hold them together, part them at 80 degrees — the options are endless. And since the tendons of the legs pivot deep in the pelvic cavity, moving them around will subtly alter the below-the-belt sensations for you both. Talk about getting a leg up on a little variety!”
A version of this article was originally published in February 2010.
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A recent TV show has beat out some Hollywood classics to be given the honor of having the sexiest scene in television and movie history.
Normal People , the BBC adaptation of the Sally Rooney novel beat romantic classic Ghost and famously steamy films Call Me By Your Name and 50 Shades of Grey when it came to the hottest sex scene, according to a recent study on arousal.
The Irish series, starring Paul Mescal and Daisy Edgar Jones as Connell and Marianne, captured hearts when it was released in April 2020, with the stars' insane chemistry propelling the somewhat small scale show to global recognition— the now-famous sex scenes even sparked outrage in religious middle Ireland .
Now, more than a year later, Fandomspot conducted a study of more than 100 participants in which they monitored their heart rates while they watched sexy moments on screen.
A wide range of movies, TV shows across all genres were studied to see which titles got hearts racing the most.
Normal People , took first place in the list, raising heart rates 38 percent on average.
Ghost and Jessica Jones took second and third place, respectively.
The top 10 steamiest movie and TV moments based on how much the average heart rate increased by are:
"Hollywood isn't shy of the odd intimate scene and when we think of the raunchiest movie or TV moment I'm sure lots of different scenes come to our minds. Therefore, as we all appear to be sex and love-obsessed with the likes of Netflix 's Sex/Life and Love Island trending worldwide, we wanted to discover which cinematic moments in history get pulses racing the most," Alyssa Celatti of FandomSpot.com said in a statement.
"TV and movie scenes of an adult nature are something that can often prove to be very divisive but here at FandomSpot.com, we believe it's important for the media to show representation on all sorts of topics and themes. That's why we included a wide variety of people in the study. It was super fun to conduct this study that ultimately relates back to on-screen favorites and popular culture, which is what we're all about here at FandomSpot.com."
The success of Normal People in capturing exquisitely shot sex scenes is the result of its consent-led approach and use of intimacy coordinator Ita O'Brien, whose other recent credits include Netflix's Sex Education, It's a Sin, The Great and I May Destroy You .
Speaking about coordinating Normal People 's sex scenes, O'Brien explained her process in an interview with Vogue .
"It's always about serving the storytelling and after reading the novel, I could see that we were being brought into the characters' internal psychology through those intimate moments," she said.
"Marianne and Connell are so beautiful together and very different as people compared to how they present themselves to the outside world when they're with their friends. So I thought, if the show is going to honour that, then the intimate content has to be inherent to the story. Plus, there's a lot of it!"
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Think vanilla sex and what comes to your mind immediately is the age-old tried and tested – missionary position. It is believed that people who are boring and don’t like experimenting inside their bedroom stick to this vanilla position. This is boring love makers last resort!
Despite the bad reputation it has garnered from various sex enthusiasts, the relevance and importance of missionary position fail to diminish. If we look at history, the magnificence of this position finds expression in numerous artworks. In China, this position finds relevance because they think that women are born with their face up and men with their face down. Christians were of the opinions that other positions could lead to birth defects. Different culture, different logic, different explanation; who cares? All we are expecting from this position is the ultimate sensory stimulation that will make the experience blissful.
If you did not know, this is the most penetrative sex position that can make you crave for more. The deeper the better! Even missionary positions have variations in them and trust me; each and everyone has some perk.
If you wish to experience soft, slow, intimate and romantic sex – missionary position serves your purpose. In this position, if you wish you can make it consensually rough by pinning her down, ensuring that the partner below submits them and allows the intense sensation to consume them. Sonal Mallik (28 years) shares that she just loves this position because she wants her partner to take control and this makes her feel psychologically happy. He is the one man to whom she would like to submit. She further adds that her nature is shy but she craves sex and real rough sex and it turns out to be fantastic every time. She yells in joy and wishes it never comes to an end; the feeling is great.
Even though the partner below has to act submissive there is a lot more that can be done to heighten the excitement of sexual intercourse. Try wrapping your leg around his hip and neck and take charge of your partners trust and depth of penetration. This can push you to an orgasmic periphery. Relationship counsellor Sumit Mehta shares, “This is an extremely intense sex position if you get it right. The trusting and penetration is deeper and passion is intensified. This is quite a popular sex position, loved by all.”
Sex experts are of the opinion that any position, which does not excite you, can be made better just by changing the positions. Put a pillow below your partner’s buttocks and push into her deeper and make her c
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