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Hello, We have a joint family as in my bro,his wife ,2 children and my parents live in one house and my family visit then often. Now the thing is that my niece who is 7 year old gets very well with my 8 year old daughter and often play with each other and after sometime when they get bored my niece unknowingly starts masturbating in front of everybody. Even after telling her nicely she does not stop or understands. My sister in law does not say anything to her and feels that it’s a part of growing up, but my parents have tried everything and have given up. Now the problem is that my daughter has started to ask me and I feel she is inquisitive to try as well.My OH is mad at me and has told me not to visit my parents’ house as he is worried that our DD might get into bad habits. Thanks in advance suggestions needed
What does your brother say about it? The suggestion that you should stop visiting your family is ridiculous. All families have issues to deal with and this is way down on the list of things to be settled. If your partner gets this upset about minor aspects of growing up, maybe you should buy him a book on the subject. How well do you get on with your sister in law? She may well be right that the behaviour will disappear on its own. But, it is upsetting the adults. In the end, the fuss that the adults are making sounds like more of a problem than the behaviour. That said, however, it's similar to one particular warning sign: I can't vouch for this website, but you might like to give its checklists a once over, including the part about sexualised behaviour in young children. Child sexual abuse among children and young people
It's part of growing up and exploring your body. At this age she should understand, Maybe try telling her that it's something that's done in private by her and only her. It's a tricky situation.
I catch my three year old absent mindedly fiddling with her bits, I just tell her to stop or she will hurt herself and she does. You shouldn't tell them it's dirty or shameful because it will make them feel this way about sex when they are older, although I do think that seven years old is old enough to understand that this is not acceptable behaviour to do in front of other people. If she starts doing it in school then it will definately raise questions.......
Thanks for the advice,actually the whole thing has gone over the top as its embarrassing to see a young girls fiddling with her private parts in front of everybody,its acceptable if you do it privately ,but in front of everybody is kinda wierd.My partner is okie with the fact that ,its her life and she can do anything but everything needs to be defined and at an age when you are growing it important for parents to make their children know what's appropriate. As far as my relation with my sis in law is concerned we are quite cordial and spoken about it however I feel she is also at her wits end and now has excepted that its normal. Other than this my neice also makes a weird movement ,as in the men on top position and strokes ,resting on a huge teddy she has. seeing all this ,it makes my OH worry...
Thanks for the advice,actually the whole thing has gone over the top as its embarrassing to see a young girls fiddling with her private parts in front of everybody,its acceptable if you do it privately ,but in front of everybody is kinda wierd.My partner is okie with the fact that ,its her life and she can do anything but everything needs to be defined and at an age when you are growing it important for parents to make their children know what's appropriate. As far as my relation with my sis in law is concerned we are quite cordial and spoken about it however I feel she is also at her wits end and now has excepted that its normal. Other than this my neice also makes a weird movement ,as in the men on top position and strokes ,resting on a huge teddy she has. seeing all this ,it makes my OH worry...
I am not suprised your OH is concerned - this last sentence seems rather worrying to be honest . And by worrying I mean that perhaps she has seen things that she is too young to understand etc. - films/ videos . Someone needs to talk to the little one but of course that cant be you . There is some great advice on the NSPCC website i think that defines what is and what isnt worrying sexual behaviour in children . Your niece is lucky to have people looking out for her , try and see it that way Good Luck XXX
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You can speak to child protection charities in confidence. I'm not sure about the teddy bear positioning. But, I'd be raising an eyebrow at that too. There are so many places that children can get bad information from, older brothers, brothers of friends at playdates, males of one kind or another. It's too difficult to know precisely what has gone into that child's head (or where from) maybe nothing to worry about. But, I'd be talking to a specialist about the phenomena and asking her what she thought.
After reading the last sentence of your last reply I am afraid for your niece. It was mentioned on a different website that for her age, masturbating in private is common but in front of other people is rare. I would definately get in contact with child services. I know a woman who had no idea her husband was abusing their daughter until she went to school and she started screaming saying that she didn't want to get undressed for physical education and when her teacher asked her why, it all came out I also think your husband has a point about not letting your daughter play with her (for now) but only for the reason that abused children sometimes abuse younger children.
Hi, Just a thought do you think your niece may have worms? She maybe itchy and rubbing herself against the teddy and her hand stops the inching... It just a tablet that every one in the home takes.. You'd need to wash all the bedding and soft toys.. Fallow the direction on the box.. If that doesn't help then maybe look at our things x
If your Sil does to her Doctor for a prescription it would be free, plus if it's not worms then she be in the right place to start to ask questions. It would also not be down to you to start a family war by accusing or highlighting behaviour you feel uncomfortable with.
Hi, Just a thought do you think your niece may have worms? She maybe itchy and rubbing herself against the teddy and her hand stops the inching... It just a tablet that every one in the home takes.. You'd need to wash all the bedding and soft toys.. Fallow the direction on the box.. If that doesn't help then maybe look at our things x
Ohh it could be worms as when she was small she was found of licking the wall and picking up things from the ground and putting it in her mouth.actually she belongs to a different country and there they give a de-worming syrup once or twice a year,is that what you are referring to?
Yes, but in Britain we give tablets or syrup only when needed.. It very easy to get back again if soft furnishings, toys bedding aren't washed and changed daily while treating. She's the right age are you not in the UK?
All members of the household are treated at the same time sometimes a second dose is taken a month later. I'd treat your whole family I.e all family members even those not living in the house on a daily bases.
If she's mixing with children from the UK and she lives elsewhere she may need the UK and her country medicine for worms they maybe different kinds.. I hope that helps!
If she's mixing with children from the UK and she lives elsewhere she may need the UK and her country medicine for worms they maybe different kinds.. I hope that helps!
No,she has never been to UK,only my DD when we visit her. and that just like 2-3 times in a year during hols
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A woman on the Main Line called police after she saw her neighbor masturbating into a recycle can in his backyard while peering at her 5-year-old daughter playing with the family dog and the victim claimed this wasn’t the first time the man pleasured himself while looking into their yard.
The latest incident played out in a backyard in Wayne, Pennsylvania around noon Wednesday, said a criminal complaint obtained from Radnor Township Police.
The victim -- who police didn't identify -- told investigators that she approached her shirtless neighbor, Kevin Hartman, who wore a pair of blue pants that appeared to be ripped in front as he had his left hand on his genitals and asked “What are you doing?” At that point, Hartman secreted behind the yellow can, the woman told investigators.
The victim told investigators that she took a photo of Hartman, 54, masturbating into his recycling can back on July 8 – police said the photo shows Hartman only in a towel, his hand on his genitals in plain view above the wooden fence that stands about 2-feet tall. She said since then she saw him masturbating in his yard about eight other times.
The woman told police that this was the first time that she saw Hartman masturbating in front of her young daughter, said investigators. The girl said she could only see the man’s legs and not his genitals, said police.
When asked by officers Wednesday about the masturbation allegations, Hartman admitted to exposing himself outside because it excites him, said the criminal complaint. He said he masturbates outside because it is more exciting than pleasuring himself in his bedroom.
"The possibility to actually be seen by his neighbor excited him and that's the reason for him doing this," said Radnor police Lt. T.J. Schreiber.
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Hartman said he got the urge to masturbate Wednesday while he was taking out some recyclables, said police.
Police charged Hartman with corruption of minors, lewd harassment, making an obscene gesture, indecent exposure and open lewdness. Hartman remained jailed unable to post 10 percent of $30,000 bail Thursday, said court records .
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9yr old daughter started masturbating?
Hello, just recently my daughter has started masturbating in the shower. This really bothers me and I don't know how to handle it or what to say to her. I want to be open and honest and I want her to know that she can talk to me but I don't know where to start with this one. Is it normal?
Yes, totally normal. I personally would just leave it as probing her further may just end up needlessly embarrassing her. It's perfectly normal to explore your own body, why does it bother you? Can I just ask (out of nosiness) how you know she is doing it?
How do you know?! Id say its normal x
Thank you that makes me feel loads better. I walked in on her shower a few weeks ago and saw her - she immediately pretended she wasn't doing anything and bless her, my heart went out to her. She asked me to close the door when I went out which I did but I lingered on the other side listening to the rhythmic noise and aching that my baby girl was growing up Since then she asks to shower in private. I did have a heart to heart with her about growing up and experimenting etc but she wasn't keen to persue it so I let it be. It only bothers me because she's still so young and I didn't realise that she would be having these feelings at such a young age.
Thank you that makes me feel loads better. I walked in on her shower a few weeks ago and saw her - she immediately pretended she wasn't doing anything and bless her, my heart went out to her. She asked me to close the door when I went out which I did but I lingered on the other side listening to the rhythmic noise and aching that my baby girl was growing up Since then she asks to shower in private. I did have a heart to heart with her about growing up and experimenting etc but she wasn't keen to persue it so I let it be. It only bothers me because she's still so young and I didn't realise that she would be having these feelings at such a young age.
Bless her she must have been mortified when you walked in. I am almost certain I did it at that age, I have done it for as long as I can actually remember (and there's definitely nothing wrong with me ). The important thing is that she shouldn't feel it's something to be ashamed of. Perfectly normal and absolutely fine to do privately.
Thank you that makes me feel loads better. I walked in on her shower a few weeks ago and saw her - she immediately pretended she wasn't doing anything and bless her, my heart went out to her. She asked me to close the door when I went out which I did but I lingered on the other side listening to the rhythmic noise and aching that my baby girl was growing up Since then she asks to shower in private. I did have a heart to heart with her about growing up and experimenting etc but she wasn't keen to persue it so I let it be. It only bothers me because she's still so young and I didn't realise that she would be having these feelings at such a young age.
It shouldn't bother you as this is totally normal. Children as young as six learn to masturbate. It's wrong to associate masturbation with adulthood and sex because it's not quite the same.
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Oh goodness. My daughter is 9 and hadn't given it a thought! I remember my mum walking in on me, on the floor, rubbing myself against a cushion!! It was never mentioned though. X
Oh gosh.... I hope my 9yr old isn't doing such things... She still seems so young. Although she bathes with her younger siblings with the door open.... Feeling your anxiety. X
I have a 9 and 11 yr old daughters,and was cort masturbating by my 9 year old.i didn't realize she was stood watching,and now I've seen her masturbating!I feel so guilty thinking its my fault:(
Don't make an issue of it. Somebody a while ago talked about a 'growing up box' which I plan to so for my two girls soon. It included books about sex and biology, sanitary towels etc... Maybe just do something like that and offer her the choice to come to you with any questions...
What is it that you are worried about? This is perfectly normal behaviour.
Oh gosh.... I hope my 9yr old isn't doing such things... She still seems so young. Although she bathes with her younger siblings with the door open.... Feeling your anxiety. X
Not a very helpful comment - it's perfectly normal behaviour
Maybe not helpful, but a scary thought none-the-less...
Maybe not helpful, but a scary thought none-the-less...
My eldest is 9 i wouldnt feel comfortable knowing that either. How do you know she does this? and does she just touch her bits or actually masterbate? i wouldnt have known how to at 9
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