Heal the Past with Inner Child Healing Books.

The question "how to heal your inner child" is tough to recognize. It's hard to relate to and even harder to take seriously. So, what is the inner child? The inner baby is a composite of childhood memories, mainly present just above the belly. And just like childhood, it will be a mixture of happy and sad memories. This may include specific needs that were not met and the experience of particular trauma. These two factors influence the current inner child’s behavior.

Why is this happening?

If this inner child, or the memory creating the inner child, is so ancient, why is there so much power over how a person is even today? This is because the original trauma that occurred when these needs were not met is still present in the body. It accumulates inside the body and remains so until it is processed.

These needs are related to the development of basic emotions. And the strength of these desires depends on whether they were fulfilled in childhood. From my experience, the inner child also controls the ego mind. Maybe they are the same.

Identity

By identifying with your inner child, you can see life through the eyes of your inner child. It can result in thinking, feeling, and acting like this inner child.

This means that the present situation is interpreted as how the past was and attracts new situations that reflect history. Reading inner child healing books also results in reactive and impulsive behavior.

Return

When it comes to an inner child, it can also return. This means going back to your childhood behavior.

It usually occurs during situations or experiences that rekindle childhood wounds. It robs you of your power and causes you to malfunction.

The inner child is playing and playing old roles. And since these are treats that worked years ago, they continue to be used.

Supervision

The inner child still seeks the recognition and acknowledgment she didn't receive all those years ago. Wherever I go, I carry this sorrow with me. I always hope that one day it will be recognized and heard by someone.

Perhaps this is why today's culture strongly desires to be famous. Maybe the child in these people wants to be loved, noticed, and all that attention they haven't. But giving directly to the inner child what he needs will only last as long as he doesn't want anymore. These needs are insatiable and can never be met.

Become a supervisor

So, who are we if we are not the inner child? We are the observers of the inner child, not the inner child.

This means that you can adjust to your inner child and give him all the acknowledgment and validation he didn't get many years ago. Pure Emotional Magic can allow core needs to be integrated within the child.

Instead of changing the past, the power and passion of emotions change. This inner child begins to transform and starts on its way to becoming what has been a "perfect" childhood. 

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