He Has Got 2 Younger Sister
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He Has Got 2 Younger Sister
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January 26, 2016
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TRUE STORY: “My husband doesn’t know I share him with my twin sister.”
One woman confesses how and why she let her twin sister ‘marry’ her fiance on her wedding day – and they’re still doing it now!
Growing up, my bff was my sister. We did everything together, from playing with the same toys, to reading the same books and eating the same food. We even had the same friends in school. This might seem strange to some people, but it’s because May* is my twin sister… and they say twins share an affinity.
I have never felt that I needed anyone else in my life other than May. She’s not just a sister and best friend, she’s my confidante whom I can trust all my secrets to. Even when we went to different colleges, our bonds did not break. We might have developed some different friends and priorities then, but we still talked about everything and shared everything… from new interests to gossip in school… and cute boys we liked.
Not long after we both graduated from university and found jobs, May moved out as she found a job at the other end of Singapore. I stayed at home with our parents, but kept in constant contact with May. She would visit us during weekends and we would have lunch together to catch up.
It was during this period that I met and fell in love with Edmund*, a charming expat from London whom I met on one of my work trips. Edmund and I got along so well from the get-go, that we started dating after just a few weeks. And three months into our relationship, he proposed to me!
May met Edmund during one of our family lunches, when she came back to visit the family. I’d told Edmund about my twin sister, but it was still amusing for him to meet another woman who looked exactly like me. And all of us were amused with Edmund as he could not tell us apart – he even walked into the kitchen and placed his hand on May’s back, only to find out that it wasn’t me!
But May took it well and joked that perhaps Edmund should marry the both of us? We laughed it off, but at that time I did not expect that things would really turn out that way…
Because later, during one of my weekly chats with May over the phone she confessed to me that she liked Edmund, and not just as a brother-in-law. She said she had greater feelings beyond that; she revealed that she felt passionate towards him.
Hearing May, I expected to be upset and shocked… but I was not. Somehow I knew May would love Edmund like I did, because we often shared the same passions in the past. Also, May and I had never kept any secrets between us, so I was not surprised that she was so frank with me.
I decided to do the unthinkable, I suggested to May that she could sometimes date Edmund in my place – without his knowledge. He could not tell us apart anyway.
And at our wedding dinner, when I went out to change into my second gown, it was May who returned in the dress, while I stood in the background pretending to be her. We had a huge wedding and many people at the tables had not seen May and I for many years, since we were children, so we were able to get away with it. We never told anybody what we did. I just wanted May to experience the most important day in my life in the same way I did, and I was so happy when I saw that she was in tears of joy when Edmund kissed her.
From then on, May and I have ocassionally “shared” Edmund. Sometimes, she will have dinner with him after work, instead of me. Or they will go shopping, and she pretends to be me. May and I have promised one another to never reveal this to anyone around us.
Sometimes I feel bad about keeping Edmund in the dark, but the charade has gone on for so long, so how do we tell him? Perhaps one day we may have to reveal what we have done. I love Edmund, but I love May even more. And for now, I just want her to be happy.
*Names have been changed to protect privacy.
This story was originally published in the June 2015 issue of Singapore Women’s Weekly.
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i do not justify ANY of what i am about to reveal. I am 18 years older than my half sister. for four years (she being between the ages of 10-14 and I being between 18-32) we escalated our relationship from a kiss to several encounters of sexual intercourse. her two younger siblings (my two younger half siblings) "dared" us to not kiss, but to just place our tongues in each other's mouths. I went along with it. later that night, when everyone went to sleep, my half sister came up to my room to lay in bed with me. she did so because she wanted to actually kiss me. again, she was only 10 at the time. not telling her no, i again gave in. she then got on top of me and "dry humped" me. she then went back to her room. the next morning i felt terribly sick to my stomach knowing how wrong it was to do what we did. however, it did not stop. soon, i would be in the bedroom all three of my half siblings shared. she and i would talk the night away and end it by making out. when she was 12, she told me she was no longer a virgin, that she had sex with a grade school boyfriend. i was in complete shock that she knew what to do even at 10. but how did she know what to do during sex at age 12? i know i had something to do with that. for the next year and a half, we had several sexual encounters. we both kept it from everybody. neither of us cared to realize it was wrong until she turned 14. but until that time, whenever we were apart, she would call me to come over just to be together. the visits didn't always end with us having sex. but other things did happen. it seemed as if we took turns going in to each other's rooms to be with each other. most times she would come upstairs because it was "safer." a year after it ended, when she was 15, she would tell me that she thought she loved me as someone she wanted to marry. to this day, sex with any woman pales in comparison to what my half sister and i experienced together. to me, at the time, it was not abuse. it was love. it was passionate. it was exhilarating. it was completely and utterly satisfying. it was nothing short of beautiful. in the years since, there had been a falling out with me and my half siblings' mother over another issue. however, in the last year and a half, i finally reconnected with all of them. my half sister initially didn't seem to like that i came around again, but seemed ok with it after a couple of months. we exchanged phone numbers and when i would visit, she would walk by me and run her fingers through my hair or give me the tap on the shoulder that we'd be ok. even when i was unsure if i should hug or kiss her hello/goodbye, she'd ask me to hug her. everything seemed to be going ok. until our father told me that his "children" (again, my three half siblings) had an issue with me. nothing ever happened between myself and my half brother. nothing. and nothing ever happened between myself and my other half sister, who is younger than the one i'm writing about here. there was once instance where, getting out of the pool behind my younger half sister, i "goosed" her in the butt. she ran and told her mother. this happened after the sex ended with the older half sister and before the falling out. it certainly didn't help matters. yes, i had the occassional thought that, i too, loved my half sister to a point where we could marry one another. of course that was ridiculously unrealistic and short-lived. again, i do not justify my actions, but i do feel that this four year "relationship" was initiated by my half sister visiting me in my room that first night. i do not blame her as i know a 10-year old - to my knowledge - does not have the mental capacity to understand what it was she did. but i also didn't try to make her understand that it was wrong. there was obviously a mutual attraction and the fact that we didn't live together made it more of a yearning to be with one another when we were apart. i am absolutely devastated, although i completely understand why, that none of them want me in their lives anymore. i want to talk to my father about it. i want to talk to my half sister about it. i want to put it all out there. i just don't know how to begin. i miss them terribly. and not because i would ever want a recurrence of this ever again, because i do not. they are family. i want to heal with them. or at least try to. i am broken, shameful, guilty. it's easy to say i want to make things right, but i truly want that to happen. my half sister from time to time would lash out at me and tell me that i better not do this to any other family or non-family underage children. but that's just it - it wasn't about anyone else BUT her. it's not like i gave up one her and moved on to another child. it was either her or no one at all. i want to explain this to her. i want her to understand that i was "in love" or "in lust" with her. and again, to this day, the sex with her was so beautiful that the bar has been set extremely high. my expectations of women I've been with - yes, women of my age - fail because of what i experienced with my half sister. but that won't keep me from marrying the right woman. i just want my family to understand that i'm not some sort of "repeat offender." it ONLY happened with my half sister and has not happened and will not ever happen again. it's been 9 years since our last encounter. as much as i miss what she and i experien
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