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Rub-a-dub-dub, you're getting laid in the tub.
When it comes to places to have sex , the bath might not exactly be the first spot you think of—but between the temperature options , the steamy ambiance, and the varying water pressure options, it's about to become your favorite.
Even if your bath is the same place you cry and shave and watch Netflix , it's also a sacred space to relax, recharge, and have multiple mind-blowing orgasms . And experts agree it's either a great way to be intimate with your partner or to get intimate with yourself.
"Because the space is small, there's a lot of skin-to-skin connection," says Jordan D’Nelle , intimacy coach, physician assistant, and founder of the Vaginas, Vulvas and Vibrators podcast. That extra close contact = lots of sultry results. So from the best sex positions and sex toys to tips and tricks, here's every single thing you need to know about bath sex.
Absolutely. In fact, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven Taylor Sparks says it's the perfect place to relax and release stress with or without a partner. But since warm water can ease tense muscles and the distraction-free zone ensures your mind is away from TikTok or Instagram, it's basically like instant foreplay from the second you step in the water.
But as with anything sex-related, it's essential you get consent before filling the tub and expecting your partner to join. Some people might prefer to just chill in the bath or simply have their partner watch them bathe. Others might like masturbating in the water over having partnered sex or intercourse. Either way, chatting about preferences first can ensure you're ready to go as soon as the water's hot, explains sexual health educator and founder of wellness blog It's Just a Coochie Jasmine Akins .
First off, it's important to get your expectations in check because, hi, it's not going to be like the movies. So basically, go into the act knowing things might feel a bit awkward starting out. A good sense of humor and lots of communication will go a long way here, folks.
But before any of that, Sparks says you should do some prep work. Not only should you clean your tub beforehand, but you should also shower off first. I know that sounds counterintuitive, but if you plan on getting intimate in the bath, "bathwater that has been ‘bathed in’ typically has chemical-based soap, body wash, and body dirt and/or toxins," says Sparks. This could lead to vaginal infections or a pH imbalance.
Once you're all scrubbed, Akins says to pay close attention to the water levels as you fill the tub. Since two people will make it rise much higher than just one, don't fill up your bath as high as you normally would. You'll also want to check the temp with your hand before hopping in to reduce the chance of burns or those annoying lukewarm bath chills.
Then, get your lube ready because being in water can actually decrease your natural lubrication. You'll want to use a silicone-based lube —since, again, water-based lubes are not optimal when in the shower or bath —to keep things feeling nice and slippery down there. Just know you can't use silicone-based lube with majority of sex toys because silicone on silicone degrades the material .
After all of the prep work comes the actual sex. Try manually stimulating each other's genitals while spooning or riding your partner while they sit in the water. We'll get into some more positions below, but as long as you're careful and everything's consensual, the options are pretty much limitless.
Generally speaking, yes, but the biggest thing to consider is the slipperiness factor. Between soaps and lubes and oils, the tub is likely slick, which can be dangerous when getting in and out or switching positions. All the experts recommend investing in an anti-slip mat to reduce the risk of injury.
Additionally, Akins adds that bathtub handles (which you can get on Amazon right here) are a great addition since they can not only help you stay steady for safety, but they also help with leverage.
Lastly, instead of reaching for your usual soap, grab some bubbles that are pH balanced , especially if you're doing anything involving penetration. Using non-balanced soaps can result in UTIs , bacterial vaginosis , and infections, Akins explains. And if you use a condom , be extra careful since the water makes it more likely to slip off or break.
For vaginal or anal sex , the partner with a penis or strap-on can lay back while the receiving partner can straddle them on top or wrap their legs around their torso, suggests Akins. You can also try classics such as reverse cowgirl and doggy style , just make sure you have something to hold onto, like the rim of the tub.
If you're not quite feeling it, Sparks suggests using the tub for foreplay or aftercare instead of penetration. Ultimately you'll likely have different options depending on the size of your tub, but playing around and seeing what works—with some flirty splashing mixed in—is half the fun.
If a toy is submersible and cord-free, odds are it's okay for tub play. But it's probably a good idea to double-check on the toy's website or read if it's waterproof in the toy's instruction manual. If you need help picking out some options, here are a few of our experts' favorites.
One of Akins' favorite tub toys is the WaterSlyde, as it angles the faucet's stream to hit all the right places. Use it solo or with a partner for some simple and hands-free stimulation.
Sparks suggests this quiet and compact silicone vibe thanks to its perfectly placed pleasure nubs, 10 powerful vibration options, and because it effortlessly fits into the palm of your hand.
And because we love a good cock ring moment, especially when it's waterproof, this sleek, stretchy one from Hot Octopuss is the move. It increases the strength of erections, while delivering deep, rumbly vibes that'll stimulate both the wearer and the rider.
Bullet vibes are perfect for pretty much every type of play, but this one is extra special. Not only is it waterproof, but it's remote-controlled , so your partner can make you cum with a touch of a button while you both chill in the tub.
Whether you whip out all the toys or keep things classic by sexily spooning in the tub, Akins says the most important thing is to simply have fun with it. "Don't pressure yourself into creating the perfect bathtub sex scenario," she says. "Just go with what feels comfortable for you."

by YourTango Published: Mar 1, 2016
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This article was written by Tom Miller and repurposed by our partners at YourTango .
Ever wish there was a Zagat's Guide to the best bathrooms to have sex in ? Until that happens, your best course of action is to get in, get it on, and get out of the stall while following these no-fail rules.
Here's a very quick guide to getting lewd in the loo:
1. Ladies, wear a skirt. Easy access. Need we say more?
2. Depart for the bathroom at separate times. Throw everyone off your trail!
3. Leave as much stuff at the table as possible. All that clutter —especially the iPhone— is just going to get in the way.
4. Try to use a handicap stall. Maybe it's despicable to hog a stall from someone who actually needs it, especially for selfish needs. On the other hand, those rails can come in handy...
5. Clean up as best you can. Seriously, be a solid citizen. You might also want to give yourself a once or twice over to eliminate the evidence.
6. Keep it simple. A beautiful young actor named Josh Hartnett (remember him?) was once rumored to have a ménage a trois in a skeevy New York City bathroom stall. The event is spoken of with reverence, but us regular people should probably just stick to the basics.
7. Most importantly: Have fun. Sure, you may get kicked out of the hotel, bar, or restaurant-type place, but it was probably worth it.
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