Having Sex In Public

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General Tips on How to Have Sex in Public

Safest Places to Have Sex in Public

Everyone has thought about having sex in public at some point. The danger of getting caught and the sexual exhibitionism involved can be very enticing. Sometimes you get caught up in the moment and you feel like you just can’t wait long enough to get home. Your girlfriend looks ravishing and you’ve been building sexual tension all night. Maybe you’re even a little bit tipsy, you seem to have lost all inhibitions and you’re both aroused. Here are some tips on how to have great sex in public places.
Since discretion
is key, you need to keep things hushed. This is not the time to let out
your wildest moans and screams. Unless you’re both intoxicated and
don’t really care whether you get caught or not. There’s going to be a lot of
heavy breathing and whispering. Anything else should be saved for the
privacy of your bedroom.
You
should make it a quickie. There’s no time to pull your kamasutra stunts
or make it a long romantic session. Keep those for your bedroom. Hit it
and quit it as fast as you can. The secret to having sex in public is
to enjoy the thrill and danger of being caught. Everything else is
secondary.
One
of the things you have to deal with when you want to have sex in public
is your partner’s nervousness. You need to reassure her that everything
will be okay. As the man, you will be expected to take charge of the
situation and provide direction. She should feel like you know what
you’re doing and you’re not going to get caught. This is one vital tip on how to have sex
in public.
Keep
all your clothes on if you can. If you have prior plans of having sex in
public, you should dress in a way that allows you to enjoy the romp
with your clothes on. You don’t want to be fiddling with buttons and
belts as you try to have a quickie without getting caught. If by any
chance someone walks in on you, you can always pretend you aren’t up to
something dodgy.
The
mere thrill of what you’re about to do should get you turned on and
ready for it. Therefore, you won’t need much foreplay. Dive in and enjoy
the moment. If you’re not already turned on, then you have a problem.
Make sure to have plenty of foreplay indoor before you venture out. This
way you can get right on with it once you find the right spot outdoors.
Want
a handy tip on how to have sex in public? How about using it as
foreplay so that you can finish off once you get home? You will be so
turned on by the time you get home that you can go on to have the
wildest sex you’ve ever had in your life. The images in your heads of you
fumbling about in public will be the inspiration you need for a
fulfilling experience.
Fancy having
sex in the park? Take a stroll with your partner on a lovely Sunday
afternoon and find a secluded place. Make sure you’re wearing comfortable clothes that won’t get in the way of your romp. Make sure
to watch out for noisy dogs.
Visiting the gym during off hours? This is a fantastic time for a romp in public. Hop into an empty changing room and get into it. You can consider this part of your workout. To make the experience more comfortable in the cramped up room, you should hoist your partner so that her legs hooked around your waist. Let her push her hands against the wall for support and start thrusting with your quads.
This
may seem somewhat crazy, but if you don’t mind doing it in a public
toilet, then this is a great spot to get it on. If you’re doing it in a
toilet cubicle, you might want to avoid wasting time touching and
petting. You don’t have to do it standing up since you can use the
toilet seat. Let your partner seat on it as you thrust into her.
This
is one of the trickiest places to have sex. Get your girl to sit on
your laps while facing forward. Lift up her dress and undo your trousers
for easy access. Make it subtle so as not to attract the cab driver's
attention. Don’t thrust. Let the natural movement of the car work for
you.
Then how to have sex in public places like the beach? First, get a
secluded spot on the beach, preferably when the beach is more or less
deserted. Then before you get into the action, lay some sort of blanket on the
ground. You don’t want to do it on the sand. It can get really
uncomfortable if it gets into your privates. Another great idea is to do
it in the water. You’ll feel weightless and relaxed. It’s an absolutely
amazing experience.
Having
an end of year party at your office and your
partner happens to be there with you? You can sneak into your office and have a steamy session on
your desk. Make sure to close the door behind you. You don’t want to get
caught pants down by your boss or workmates. If your office has CCTV,
you might as well forget about fulfilling this fantasy. It won’t be
worth the trouble.
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Having sex in public is freaking hot. We came up with these risque moves. They're seriously sexy, with a low chance of getting caught.
Having sex in public is freaking hot. Of course, there's always the risk of getting caught like a couple recently did in Yankee Stadium (mortifying much?). That's why we came up with these risque moves—they're seriously sexy, with a low chance of getting caught.
There's something about a chick on a car that really gets guys going. Drive somewhere secluded, pull over, and surprise him with hood sex . Hey, even if you're just in your garage, it's still hot.
Rent a hotel room on a high floor with great views and have your guy pin you up against the windows. Think Michael Fassbender in Shame . And if you haven't seen that, trust us—it's worth it.
Sneak your guy into a closet or bathroom the next time you're at a friend's shindig and go for the gold. Hearing the voices of the other guests will give you both a huge adrenaline rush.
Fall is a great time of year to get it on outdoors. Pitch a tent and create a campground in your own backyard. Leave all connection to the outside world locked up in the house and get wild in your make-believe wilderness.
Go to a hotel bar that has a private bathroom, rather than one with a line of stalls. Warm him up by whispering dirty things into his ear, then stealthily lead him to the restroom—and make it speedy. Cocktail followed by a quickie? Yes, please.
Want zero chance you'll get caught with the racy feeling of public sex? Transform your room into a naughty playhouse by positioning a mirror or two next to your bed. It'll feel like you're doing something wrong without getting caught. Plus, guys are very visually stimulated so being able to watch the action is a huge turn on.
Ditto with this move: If your guy has gym equipment at home, sweat it out together (just make sure his roomies aren't around). An exercise bench has just the right amount of cushion and is perfect for a girl-on-top romp. Have him lie on his back, mount him, and use your legs to move up and down. You can move up against a window if you want an even bigger thrill. He'll never be able to get through a workout again without thinking about all the dirty things you did there.

SOURCES: Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure ; Ava Cadell, sexologist and author of The Sexy Little Book of Sex Games ; Carole Altman, PhD, author of Don't Have Sex Until You Read This Book: A Guide to a Loving Relationship
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65 Best Places To Have Sex In Public (Without Getting Caught)
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By Alex Alexander — Written on Jan 27, 2022
Seventy percent of both women and men fantasize about it. Some are turned on by the chance of getting caught, while others simply want the novelty of taking the bedroom show on the road.
How do you fantasize about having sex in public? You may want a springtime romp in a field of flowers or a quickie in a bar bathroom, but in the end, public sex is all about one thing: location location, location.
While sexpert Dr. Brian Parker claims that the endorphin boost that accompanies risk could lead to a more explosive orgasm, most sexual revelers agree that quality sex takes a back seat to getting in and out in a hurry.
To minimize the chance that someone will bust up your private party , take a lesson from the scouts and be prepared. Women can wear long, loose skirts sans panties; men can go commando or wear baggy boxers. A little forethought could shave precious seconds off your prep time!
Of course, having sex in public is considered a misdemeanor in most states! Be sure to check your local laws, and always take precautions to make sure you don't get in trouble or traumatize anyone.
Some people may feel pretty adventurous getting it on in such a public place. But it's even more exciting when there are thousands of people around!
I have a story of my own because, when I was 23, my boyfriend and I were at a concert at a small club. I was wearing a babydoll dress and dancing in front of him, not wearing any underwear. Three or four beers in, we moved back into a corner.
Just when we thought things were going very well, some girl screamed, "Oh my God! Is that a penis?" And the mood was over. He grabbed me by the arm and we got out of there. So, my advice is to do it where people really can't see you, or really don't care.
Cars have been a popular sex spot since Henry Ford started rolling them off the lot, and cities and states differ on whether a car can legally be considered a "public" place.
It's against the law if it offends someone or someone can see it, so it's a fine line. They could be arrested, but usually, the cops just tell them to find a better place to do it.
If you do plan to have sex in the back seat of a car, be sure you lock the doors, steer clear of the front seat (especially if you're near a light source), and maybe try to park in an empty parking lot.
These kinds of semi-public spaces are a good start for beginners since you're more likely to get an annoyed "move on" from a police officer or bar bouncer than arrested.
Even if the bathroom attendant has got your back, every state has laws against indecency and public nudity. First-time offenders are generally only charged with a misdemeanor, but that could still land you up to a year in the slammer.
But unless you're getting it on Sting-style, in a multi-hour tantric tango, getting busted for having sex in public is relatively rare. Just make sure to lock that bathroom stall.
Talk about a public place! In fact, a friend of mine once had sex on the Staten Island Ferry! She was wearing a dress with no underwear and sitting on top of her boyfriend, facing away. If anyone started to walk by, it just looked like she was sitting on his lap.
Well... except for all the bouncing. But at least there were no naughty bits exposed. Not only are you surrounded by tons of people to add to the excitement, but it's a lot of fun and a great item to check off your sex life bucket list.
In addition to lap-sitting, rear-entry works well if you have something to lean over or against — like a sink. Face-to-face works, too, and if you've got a wall for support, the woman can wrap her legs around the man while he lifts her against the wall.
You can use a sink anywhere — a hotel room on your vacation, a truck stop that's open day or night, or even the kitchen of a restaurant.
To protect yourself from sand getting in all the wrong places , plan ahead and bring a blanket with you to the beach. It actually might even be more comfortable to have sex standing up against a rock or fence.
If you're worried about laying down on the actual sand, standing sex is a great alterative to the missionary position (which you can do in any bed!).
It might not be a good idea to have sex in a parking garage in broad daylight, especially if there are a lot of other cars around. Of course, that's up to you and your partner.
But a great word of advice? Wait until it's dark and the parking lot is empty. If the parking lot is by a building, there will likely be security cameras, which could come back to bite you in the butt.
So, choose a parking garage that isn't surrounded by buildings and where there isn't a large chance that someone will drive into it and see you!
Sex in an elevator is for true daredevils! More likely than not, there will be security cameras hidden in the elevator, which makes it hard to find the right area where you'll stay out of sight.
However, even if you're perfectly fine being watched by the person behind the cameras, you need to beware of other people who might get on the elevator and catch you in the act. Since there's less foot traffic at night and early morning, this might be when you want to have your romp.
Now, another thing to consider is the date — if it's an elevator in your building, people will be leaving for work early in the morning! So, take into account all variables before you get down to business.
For couples who don't mind shelling out a few pretty pennies (because movies are quite expensive these days), the movie theater is an excellent place to get down and dirty.
Choose seats at the back of the theater, and be sure you aren't sitting too close to anyone. Though it will be dark in the theater, there might be lulls in the movie itself, so you might want to keep the volume down.
If all else fails and you become worried about getting caught by ushers or other patrons, think about using the popcorn bowl for a handjob instead!
Ever heard of the mile-high club ? Not only is it extremely risky to become a member of this "club," but it's unlikely you'll be able to do so without someone catching you. And if you're caught in the middle of a flight, if there's a layover at some point you will certainly be kicked off.
But if you somehow manage to get seated on your partner in the right position, it can be a lot of fun and get your adrenaline levels pumping.
A few things to keep in mind include keeping your romp short, avoiding getting caught by the staff on the plane, and considering taking the action to the lavatory. Remember to come out individually when you're done — you don't want cabin staff getting any funny ideas!
Alex Alexander is a writer and frequent contributor to YourTango.
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Can you honestly look your partner in the eyes and say you’ve never thought about having sex in a public place? You, like the rest of the world, probably have an exhibitionist streak somewhere playing inside—or curiosity at the least.
“I like to think there is a little voyeur in all of us,” says Gigi Engle, certified sex coach, sexologist, and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love and Life . “The idea of someone watching you have sex is pretty hot. It’s like staring in your own porn movie.”
Having sex in a public place feels forbidden (it is illegal, mind you) and the chance of getting caught with your hands dirty (literally, probably) gets adrenaline pumping. Plus, if you’re in a long-term relationship, going at it in the wild can spice things up, especially if you feel your sex life has plateaued lately, Engle says. You’ll get creative—just think about all the scheming and on-the-fly thinking—and bring those vibes back behind closed doors.
“It also requires a level of trust that you’re in it together,” Amy Levine, sex coach and founder of Ignite Your Pleasure says. “It gives you the opportunity to explore something that can take you to a new erotic edge.”
With public romps, it’s important to consider consent, Engle notes. Of course, that includes you and your partner, but also those who might be around—obviously, strangers haven’t signed up to watch you bone. Being sexually open and adventurous is awesome, but you also need to be a decent and respectful person, so you need to find the right blurry line between public and **still** private.
There’s also the very real chance of getting arrested or fined if you’re caught. The thought of getting busted is the hottest part...but you don’t have to take that literally to get off.But back to the fun stuff. Here are some of the best and most, uh, rewarding places to have sex in public—without getting caught.
If you’re a newbie to public sex, you might want to ease into the IRL idea. “The backyard of your home has the comfort to keep the sex at ease,” Levine says. “Wondering if the neighbors will see ups the mystery and your arousal.”
It’s thrilling to know someone could spot you, and you’re outside but in a clean, private space. And since it’s your property, no worries about breaking the law.
Make It Hotter: Put your patio furniture to good use (beyond the occasional backyard BBQ). “If you have a lounger, this can be a good opportunity for you to lie back and enjoy some relaxed oral sex out in the sunshine,” Engle says. Bef
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