Guys Playing With Their Dicks
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By Lorenzo Jensen III, December 20th 2016
“Anything more than a mouthful is a pain in the ass.”
—Emma_James
“When it comes to gay sex, there is absolutely such a thing as too big. I’d take a guy with a pencil dick over a Corbin Fisher horse-cock any day.”
—wildwalrusaur
“I’m bigger by about 2". It doesn’t bother him since he’s above average himself. Besides bragging rights and the look, it’s mainly just inconvenient to be bigger.”
—SynFly
“I’m trans, and unfortunately also am well endowed. Most guys don’t take it well when the girl they’re hitting on has a bigger dick than they do.”
—Penguin_Out_Of_A_Zoo
“I’m a little below average, but my fuckbuddy has a HUGE dick (like a baby/toddler arm) and at first it was intimidating, and but he didn’t seem to care, so neither did I. And he’s a total top and I’m like 90% bottom anyway. Plus, what I lack in dick I make up for in ass ;)”
—2hoodrich4me
“Taking a twelver in the stank tank ain’t no small feat and that ain’t no lie. But if ya eat real good an heavy the night before – something like giblets and gravy or tuna melts, and ya push real hard back on em and have em punch your ribs a little, you can fit just about anything up ‘er I reckon.”
—dwarvenchaos
“I’m gay and have two boyfriends. I’m the ‘big’ one (about 2 inches bigger than one and 3.5 bigger than the other). I don’t actually mind a smaller Dick as long as its shaped nice. It’s like cars: it doesn’t matter if it’s a hatchback or a limo, if it’s pretty I’ll take it for a ride. I’m a top so I just have to go slow and easy at the start and I usually get no complaints. One of my boys gets real self-conscious about it and I feel a bit bad, but I can’t really do anything about it. I’d like to reassure him because he does those self-deprecating jokes about his size that we all know mask a pained truth, but it’s hard (Heh) to figure out what to say. I just usually hug him and blow him to make him feel better. The weird one is the other one who just talks about it all the time. He compliments it, says he loves it, tells people about it(ugh), and just stares at it sometimes. It’s unnerving for 2 reasons. I’m not British but have that quality of the Brit’s wherein I can’t take a compliment. I honestly never know what to say and just end up uncomfortable with all the attention. Also, I’m a huge guy. I’m 6’8" tall and over 200 lbs. so having a lengthy lad ladle doesn’t look that impressive. It just sort of fits me so I’m pretty sure it’s nothing special. Getting praise heaped on me for something that’s just as proportionate as my ears is a little weird.”
—intrebox
“I’m the smaller guy by a few inches and I love it, pretty much his bitch. Obviously he’s the top. It’s pretty cool though, both comfortable.”
—Inadecat
“Like everyone has said on this thread, it doesn’t matter too much. I think gay guys prefer a prettier dick over a huge one. There are plenty of eggplants that look rotten or distorted and I’d prefer a smaller and prettier one any day.”
—revere2323
“To be honest, it’s a relief to be the smaller endowed one. Most guys have trouble with xl dicks. They love to get topped by me because it isn’t intimidating. One guy said to me, ‘what a relief, after he saw mine." I’m 6’3" so he thought I’d be packing heavy. I used to be self-conscious about it but honestly it has become a selling point. Especially for guys who want their first-time anal experience to be smooth sailing. I don’t even worry anymore about telling guys. One guy I am friends with told me only big dicks get laid a lot, I couldn’t help but smile and nod. I have lots of repeat business as it were. I have only had one dude turn me down on size alone and he wasn’t a decent dude anyway it turned out.”
—thisismachaut
“Sometimes, you have the bigger dick, and you’re like ‘Yay! ….wait.’
And sometimes, they have the bigger dick, and you’re like ‘Yay! ….wait.’”
—NeverEnoughMuppets
“I’m a bit larger than average which catches guys off guard since I’m usually the bottom and I’m pretty short (~7.5", 5’7") I find that it’s either a huge turn-on for the other guy or he becomes a little insecure (especially if he’s a ‘total top’).”
—TattooSadness
“I’ve never been with anyone longer than me, but I have been with people girthier. In the end it’s only frustrating because when they’re girthier, it’s more work to give a blow job because you have to be more aware of your teeth/everything else, but by and large it’s never been an issue that comes up (well…).”
—CSUSBro
“I’m the smaller one but it doesn’t bother me much because I’m taller in height. I’m 5’10 he’s around 5’7 haha. His member however is about 3 inches longer so it’s a pretty big difference.”
—Socialist7
“Other than the initial ‘Mine’s bigger than yours!’ it’s fine. Really depends on who has it, and how they use it.”
—RRC90Shaw
“Doesn’t really matter too much. My last boyfriend had a smaller one than I did, but I’m a big old bottom so he always topped. It was basically the perfect fit for me though, I’ve only ever cum hands free with him. He was also three inches shorter in height than me. I’m decently tall so I’m bigger than a lot of guys I’m with. I never mind. And when they are bigger, Woo Hoo!”
—caln93
“Unless the guy has a 2-inch dick or a 12-inch cock, it’s not generally an issue. With that in mind, it’s not a big deal unless you make it a big deal.
Unless you’re a size queen most guys are comfortable with anything between the 4-6 inch average for anal. A man’s prostate is only a few inches up their bum so that’s where you’ll get ultimate pleasure. Seriously, straight guys are missing out so much on mind-blowing orgasms because of the taboo aspect of playing with their ass.
I’ve been both the smaller and bigger guy in my relationships and it’s never been an issue in either situation. With that in mind, bigger guys tend to be a bit lazier when it comes to sex, while smaller guys are a lot more enthusiastic. The smaller guy will definitely not want to let you see them flaccid, while the bigger guy won’t usually have a problem with it.
In terms of power dynamics, I would say 95% of gay guys wouldn’t think that having a bigger cock makes you more of a man than your partner.”
—frida_peron
“I think it only matters if one penis is significantly above or below average. Less than 4.5 inches is disappointing and greater than 8 inches is impossible to deal without serious prep (stretching a few times a day for several days). But if we’re both average size, then it doesn’t matter.
For reference, I tried to hook up with a guy with a 9-inch dick a few times. I wasn’t able take it, but he seemed really happy that I would even try. I suspect he doesn’t get to top often.”
—dameprimus
“It’s just a fact of life. We’re both vers, but he ends up topping more than I do because he’s got a smaller dick (so, there’s less prep work required and less recuperation time afterwards)”
—loki8481
“Being a tall guy (6’1) with a shorter one, and BF being shorter in size but longer dong, it’s OK because I’m the one almost 100% in the bottom bunk, so there hasn’t been any issues in bed at all.”
—JVC2
“I’m bi and fairly well endowed. Usually doesn’t matter but some straight guys looking to experiment have gotten scared off haha.”
—canihavealittlepiece
“I’m about the same length as my current partner, but he’s substantially girthier. The guys we’ve hooked up with have both noted we’re both ‘big’ but based on the statistics we’re average in length. Still need to get around to getting a good girth measurement for myself, but I generally have other priorities when I have an erection.”
—dacemcgraw
“I’ve been in both situations (I think I’m pretty average size-wise) and it never really came up or mattered. Plus, knowing I don’t have a huge dick makes me work harder at being good in bed, which seems to have paid off so
¯\_(ツ)_/¯”
—szol
“I’m usually the bigger guy and I get no complaints. Although I did have this one bottom who was VERY well endowed. It was fun to watch bounce around.”
—Rabgix
“I have been always larger (I sit around 7.5), and it was interesting for me starting out because I always thought that I just magically found guys only with smaller members (granted, I most often end up with white, Asian, or Latino men). I didn’t realize until after dating a bit and some research that I was actually larger than average which was a cool little surprise I guess.
Even though I’m open to flip flopping, I basically bottom all the time since guys seem to prefer it. A lot of guys are really into having a bottom with a larger member (and apparently I have a really nice ass, but I’m not a butt guy). So it works out pretty well for the most part.
The only major drawback I could say would be that if a guy isn’t experienced enough, when they’re giving head it can be a little lackluster. Other than that, do recommend. (Although as a bottom, I actually like to avoid a larger penis for comfort reasons.)”
—OroroLoL
“I don’t think we’ve ever bothered to measure in the 13 years we’ve been together. Believe it or not, penis size isn’t always at the top of the list of worries with a gay couple.”
—acidfusion
“It’s not an issue. Mine’s bigger and his is smaller and that’s it.”
—Jovial_Bard
“It’s more of a chore having the bigger penis.
I’m more of a top, whilst me partner is the bottom, however, ‘getting it in’ is more difficult for him. It’s not such much the length that’s the issue, it’s the girth.
My partner has admitted mine is bigger than his, and he never seems bothered about it. However, and I’d never say this to him, I do wish his was at least the same size as mine.”
—harmyb
29. It’s more important that the other guy knows what to do with it!
“I’m gay but I’m a Redditor, if you know what I mean, so I can’t speak from experience, but I never really think about penis size when thinking about this kind of stuff. I’ve heard it’s actually pretty rare for people to be that hung up (as it were) on the size of the penis – it’s more important that the other guy knows what to do with it!
Tbh I’m just posting so I can save this thread. It’s not often that there’s a Reddit thread this big where people can talk about gay sex and just call it sex.”
—Homusubi
“Surprisingly, it’s never been an issue. I’ve been with bigger guys than me and smaller guys than me, and honestly size is almost never a topic of conversation.”
—thetexasunicorn
“The guy I’m with has 10" and I’m only at 6 maybe 6.5 on a good day. The first thing he ever told me when we met was ‘I’m into guys with big dicks,’ despite him being a total top. I won’t lie, it made me a little self-conscious, but I’m a pretty secure guy so I didn’t make an issue out of it. As a result, he’s never voicee a single complaint, if he’s even had one, so I never worried about being significantly smaller….
I asked him why he prefers bigger dicks. His was his response:
‘I like a bottom with a huge flapping all about dick. Sure. We all like that. Lol. Are you bored or are you horny? Lol. Where did that come from? Haha.’
So I told him ‘reddit.’ He said go to bed.”
—tonybenwhite
“I tend to have the larger penis. It’s not in length but mass. I seldom find a man comfortable taking me in, without a lot of work. It’s a fucking bummer but I make it work.”
—demonchefofportland
“Honestly, it doesn’t matter to me. I just love dicks and they come in all sizes. In a real relationship, you love the person and as a result their dick is pretty damn amazing regardless of size. I personally haven’t been with anyone much bigger than me, but my bf has been lucky enough to shack up with some huge dudes in the past. He says playing with them has been fun, but at the end of the day it doesn’t compare to sex with someone you love. I have to agree with that as well.”
—jocksj
“For some reason I’ve always been with guys with really big dicks. I don’t mind so much but it is pretty crazy being able to compare. It doesn’t really make me feel inadequate as I liked playing with theirs a lot more anyway. It’s not until you see a few that you realize just how enormous some of them get.
There was one guy who said he was 9.5 inches, I kid you not that thing hung downwards like an elephant’s trunk. Lots of fun for oral but anal was a no-no.”
—Euphoricbadger
“We’re the same size, but he’s utterly convinced that his is smaller. Nothing I can say will change his mind, and I’m hesitant to get into a literal dick measuring contest.”
—phlap
“If you’re speaking from a psychological perspective, there’s no real difference. As in, I don’t feel any sort of ‘power’ over him because my bountiful gift to humanity. I remember when I was pretending to be straight in college it was like if a guy had a bigger wang then he was seen as ‘more of a man’ (don’t know if that’s still the case – I’m so far removed from the heterosexual mindset at this point that I forgot straight men found breast attractive and that women had periods until a friend mentioned it a few days ago…and I’m a nurse). Members of Clan Homo, however, tend to appreciate the person attached more than the Floppy Johnson itself.”
—hashtagfatass
“I’m about an inch shorter than my husband. But I am 5’1 and he is 6’2,” and with the height difference his dick is about the length of my forearm. So I take it 100% of the time because that thing is huge and wonderful.”
—dinosaregaylikeme
“It’s REALLY not a deal for relationships. I’m smaller, and I (we) couldn’t care less. However, if you are looking on Grindr it’s a whole other story.”
—Konowl
“Having the bigger penis is like having the better car: some people are really into it; some people accept it for what it is. Either way, they usually want a ride.”
—hylianbarista
“I’m bigger than my partner by about an inch and a half – 2 inches. I think I’m actually more uncomfortable about it than he is. When we first got together he kept complimenting me and telling me he wished he was bigger than he was. I didn’t know what to say or how to react. I was flattered, but having concerns about my penis size for a long time I made it abundantly clear how much I didn’t care how big he was. He isn’t small by any means but I’m evidently bigger, so I make sure to pay extra attention to his needs and make him comfortable. My cock has never gotten me a job. My cock has never helped me win the lottery. I tell him this. I didn’t choose to have a bigger cock; I see no reason to brag. You play the hand you’re dealt. I love him for who he is. I wouldn’t want to date someone with a massive cock, his is perfect for me.”
—OldWorldNomad
“I usually have the bigger one but I’m also usually the bottom. The only bigger guy I’ve had was my ex and while it was a nice surprise, it wasn’t a deciding factor in dating him. As long as I can feel it in there when we do things, I don’t care much, but bigger is almost always nicer to play with. Kind of like tits… (Not everyone likes big boobs but it sure does seem most of the time straight guys like them bigger).”
—carlosfhdez
“I have the bigger dick in my relationship (mine’s around 6.5 and his is 5 inches maybe a little more). It’s turned into kind of a joke where I talk about my dick being bigger whenever he gets too cocky (heh). He doesn’t acknowledge it much except when we have drunk sex then he talks about how nice my dick is and how he’s jealous of me. He never admits it when he’s sober but it makes me feel good.
Funny thing is he always wants to top so I’m normally the bottom with a bigger dick (though he bottoms sometimes). It’s really apparent when we frot (straight people: it’s when you put your dicks together) but I kind of like having the bigger dick. Overall it’s not huge deal but it can lead to the smaller one being envious.”
—specfagular
“It becomes a novelty. Fun to look at but not much to do with it.
I’ve been relegated to being a bottom because topping people is usually impossible because they just can’t take it.
God the humblebrag is strong with this post. I’ll see myself out.”
—Need_a_Ladder
“I’m bi, and I’m super turned on by dudes with small dicks. I date a guy with a pretty small (probably between 3 and 4 inches) cock and it’s great for me. Super turns me on, and I can suck it and take it in the ass like a champ. I have a pretty large cock (7.5 and pretty thick) so the contrast is pretty intense.
We don’t talk about it a lot but he knows damn well I love his cock and that’s what I was originally looking for. Sometimes I hold them together and jerk them which is hot AF seeing the contrast.”
—evil_tugboat_capn
“My partner’s dick is pretty massive… about 9" and thick, whereas I’m about 6" (at a push) and not as thick.
I’m a total bottom so I love the whole psychologic element of being smaller than him dick wise as well as being shorter… it plays well into my fucked-up fantasies ”
—Pazzam
“Honestly, no big deal for me, I fall in love with a person, not with their genitals, however, I do specify that I am strictly a top, since I don’t enjoy anal stimulation, respect that, and we are cool.
Sure, you can play with my butt and stuff, but the moment you stick something in, that is the moment you get something bitten off.
I have noticed some guys get intimidated by mine, but I am very gentle, and if they don’t want to do anything, fine by me, we can cuddle and share hj/bj, and I will be happy as long as we both enjoy it and cuddle.”
—Aedrian87
“I have always been happy with my dick. It’s about 6 fully erect. I’m dating a trans woman whose is 100% female except for her penis, which is just over 9 inches.
At first it was a shock but I love it and she can’t take much bigger than me anyways so it is perfect.”
—non_lurker
“It’s never been an issue. As long as it’s not freakishly large or small, I don’t think most guys really care.
I think it’s probably the way a lot of straight guys view breast size. Like really large breasts, yay, but average and smaller breasts are still yay. I’ve never heard of a guy who was about to hookup but then decided not to when he found out his partner was a b cup.
Penis just defaults to good for me.”
—PM_me_yr_dicks
“It’s never been a big deal. I just ask to bottom more. When I feel like being top, he technically can’t complain because he knows I have to take in more than he does, we don’t force each other into anything though.
I’ve always opened up different stages of a relationship by putting my hands on his shoulders and leading with ‘Full disclosure…’ then saying whatever I have to say. With my current bf it was ‘Full disclosure, your dick is bigger.’ and I hadn’t even seen it yet, it was just a reasonable/easy conclusion since I had seen him lie on his back once and the outline was pretty substantial. It’s just an easy way for me to own the situation and get ahead of it. If I wait for the ‘reveal moment’ then I might get a sense of shyness.”
—Tnargkiller
“I prefer smaller guys, and I’m probably average in length (maybe?) and definitely not as thick as what I assume is average. Deepthroating~ a 3-4" dick is super fun, so yeah, gimme some of that. BUT if I’m drunk and you’re huge then you might have a chance.”
—gigemgay
“Mine’s slightly longer/thicker than his is, I’d honestly prefer to swap some of my girth for either another inch of dick or height. Getting it inside him takes planning, preparation and poppers help a lot. Not that I’m particularly thick, but he’s got a really small build and a ridiculously tight arse.”
—TheBabyEatingBishop
“I’m usually the smaller one. For hookups, guys want the challenge of taking a massive cock like a badge of honor so I’m usually rejected for lack of length. Not all guys are Size Queens though. These are the ones that like me and out common interests that lead to a relationship. I found that where I lack in size, I tend to make up with other stuff (oral, body m
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